Age Differences

[Anonymous 2]

Hi guys. Low level MGTOW here. Still appreciate sex and intimicy, so I have been together with this girl for about a year now. Thing is, I’m 34 and she’s 20. We met when she was 18. Almost NAWALT, but I’ll always be vigilant. Won’t ever give up sex though. It’s only natural.

Thing is, she’s seen GENERATIONS of women fail at relationships including her own mother (who left her father when their youngest son was 4). She also underpins the failure that is feminism, is painfully aware of her own mothers hypergamous behaviour. Doesn”t even try to dig into my wallet, making spending SOME money on her a lot more fun. We live apart and we’ll keep it that way for the coming 5 years.

I’m not looking for validation. What I’m curious about is whether we will ever see a generation of women, to whom the feminist trap is completely obvious because every woman OLDER then them is miserable like hell? My GF is still a woman with female mannerisms, some enjoyable some annoying, but at least she understands how other women are carpet-bombing their own chances with men behaving like irresponsible divas. Thoughts on future female generations?

[The Laughing ManParticipant 1020]

Quite possible though it would require women to be honest to them selves and more importantly, other women. Just look how younger mgtows view the older guys who’ve been through the ringer. We can see, so should they given the proper information.

Best of luck man.

I thought what I'd do was I'd pretend I was one of those deaf-mutes...or should I?

[Anonymous 54]

She is 20. Will she think the same way in 10,20 years? Good luck. Future generations of women? Thank God I’ll be dead.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

I’m getting out of a mess with a woman 23 years younger than me. Be careful. It seems appealing now – but even 14 years can be a tough bridge to cross.
Never marry and cohabitate – the odds are stacked against you. I was financially destroyed by 2 marriages and one live in relations~~~.

[narwhalParticipant]

What I’m curious about is whether we will ever see a generation of women, to whom the feminist trap is completely obvious because every woman OLDER then them is miserable like hell?

No. They may turn from feminism, but not because their mother’s are miserable. There are too many other things to blame their misery on. I have a hard time believe anything except the law is really going to change behavior, and I don’t know how that’s going to happen.

Ok. Then do it.

[RennieParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Thing is, I’m 34 and she’s 20. We met when she was 18.

That’s called winning – as long as you make sure she doesn’t screw you over.

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

She is like this now because she is in her prime and she still has a choice. As soon as she feels the wall approaching she will take every measure to maintain her comfort and power through FORCE and DECEIT.
AWALT.
If you insist, enjoy it as much as you can, but please keep things as separate as possible and never move in together. Always have an out.
Good luck! … you’ll need it.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Anonymous wrote:

Almost NAWALT, but I’ll always be vigilant.

As others have pointed out here, AWALT = NAWALT + time.

NAWALTUYLTAALT. Not All Women Are Like That Until You Learn They Actually Are Like That.

Wait and see. Oh and give serious thought to getting a vasectomy and documenting the f~~~ out of it.

[Anonymous 3]

This is a joke isn’t it?

Brother, you are 34, almost old enough to be her father. She ignored all other men around her when she was 18 to be with you, a man who obviously has his s~~~ together and whatnot, and you’re saying she’s aware of hypergamy of her mother as if she’s not doing it herself?

She doesn’t need to try to dig into your wallet, you are and will be spending on her regardless. She is getting off on this older man fantasy, this oh he’s so much older and experienced and taking care of me like a little child s~~~.

Some of you men have this retarded delusion of “if a woman treats me well, she is a NAWALT”, without taking into consideration all other factors. I’ve said this before, there is a reason why older men can go to Asia and snag a young fetile 20 years old feminine acting wife, and it’s not because these women like the guy and are not like that.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

It’s adaptive behavior, man. Women know they done f~~~ed up and over stepped their bounds with feminism and this gynocentric society at large. So, in order to bag a man, they have to actively prove that they are not hypergamous c~~~s. But AWALT. It’s only a matter of time, man. She’ll chip away at you slowly but surely, asking for a little more here and a little more there. Until she has you f~~~ed over. Be very careful, and don’t get too attached.

I think we will see even more so called “red pill women”, tradcons, anti feminists, and so on. It’s only a disguise to get what they want. They have to, because men are seeing the path of destruction that women and the courts have left.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

i think she’s being a chameleon so that you are attracted to her

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[The_YoungParticipant 1073]

Just get a vasectomy or wear condoms….

I never trust a woman who says shes on BC anymore.

Brother, we need to stick together.

[aeragoanParticipant 1186]

She sees you as wallet..If she is looking for love then she can easily get from the any decent young men of her age…..I hope you make sure you don’t go with her long term relationship otherwise you will be f~~~ed up

[OldBillParticipant]

John Woods 13 wrote:

She is like this now because she is in her prime and she still has a choice. As soon as she feels the wall approaching she will take every measure to maintain her comfort and power through FORCE and DECEIT.

THIS.

She’s 20. She still has options if her relationship with you fails. She may have watched her mother fail, but it doesn’t follow she won’t attempt the same thing. From a woman’s point of view, it isn’t that her mother’s actions were wrong, it’s more that her mother didn’t undertake those actions correctly.

Sooner than you think she’s going to demand some kind of payment for her alleged loyalty. You best be prepared for that day and you best be prepared to walk away.

Keep enjoying that teen-aged pussy, just remember the bill will eventually come due.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Old RottweilerParticipant 1520]

The last one I was with, she was 24 years younger and got with me to help raise her kid. I like younger women. I like kids, so the kid went from B-C’s and hardly being able to read at 10 to straight A’s at 14.

The kid was mostly formed in a more positive manner, did not need a babysitter at 14, so the bitch split. I was used, willingly, I had a grin on my face as she hit the door. I do miss the kid though. The woman, being a bitch and trying to hurt me would not allow me any contact with the kid.

I’ve been with more than my share of women, 99% from my experience will use you. Fairness is not in their vocabulary. So, the question you need to ask yourself, do you want to be used?

The only way I would marry one is if she had more money than me. Any other way and you are screwed. If she has a better job than you and then she quits, you are screwed. Leave immediately.

My sister once told me ” If I had more money than a man I would insist on a pre-nuptial. If he had more money than me I would act mortified that he would ask for a pre-nuptial.”

You have been warned, again.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Anonymous wrote:

I’m not looking for validation. What I’m curious about is whether we will ever see a generation of women, to whom the feminist trap is completely obvious because every woman OLDER then them is miserable like hell? My GF is still a woman with female mannerisms, some enjoyable some annoying, but at least she understands how other women are carpet-bombing their own chances with men behaving like irresponsible divas. Thoughts on future female generations?

I think we will eventually…the thing is, I’m close to your age, and if/when we see this, I’m going to be too old to care. If if this generation is alive right now and I could find a woman in another 10 or 15 years who is totally different from the average 30 year old right now…I sure as hell don’t want to entertain the thought of kids in my 40s, which means I’ll have dependents until I’m in my 60s. Plus I sure as hell won’t entertain the thought of marriage right now…why would I in my 40s if I thought I found a much younger woman who was different when the only difference the 10 years makes for me is 10 more years of wealth accumulation, which makes marriage all the more risky.

Old Rottweiler wrote:

The only way I would marry one is if she had more money than me. Any other way and you are screwed. If she has a better job than you and then she quits, you are screwed. Leave immediately.

My sister once told me ” If I had more money than a man I would insist on a pre-nuptial. If he had more money than me I would act mortified that he would ask for a pre-nuptial.”

Haha…honestly…I say the same thing…just I’d never get married unless she had more money and was dumb enough to do it with no prenup. All marriage is these days is a pay day for the broker/lesser earning half if/when the marriage ends…if I was the broker/lesser earning half why would I not sign a marriage contract? Of course…a woman near my age with more money/higher salary is probably 1% of them, and then to be attractive on top of that…the odds aren’t in my favor lol.

[Anonymous 2]

No marriage, no kids – and future cohabitation is only possible in a rental situation, I will not put money in a house because that means taking on debt and not being able to leave. We already been though that talk. Don’t worry, I’ll keep my mind and my assets as safe as possible.

One thing I still fear a little is condom breakage, but I’m keeping track of Vasalgel as it seems a better medical solution for me then a vasectomy. This thing is 90% lust and 10% “butterflies” but I’m carefull not to follow the latter off a cliff.

I’m in the same boat Beer, I consider myself too old and far too disinterested to start a family at this age. Still, I am curious as what women will be like a few generations down the line.

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

She is 20 she knows s~~~ about anything, all she sees right now is she snagged a 30+ year old guy that has some money and can take care of her down the road. Be very careful around young women as what most people said here she is a means to an end…. get your c~~~ wrapped or get a vasectomy because if you put a kid in her slot C you are done my friend.

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[Anonymous 2]

Beer wrote:

I think we will eventually…the thing is, I’m close to your age, and if/when we see this, I’m going to be too old to care.

Thanks for adressing the topic. I feel the same. With this girl it might work to stay together for a decade or so. We both accept that at this stage, we don’t know how long we’ll see each other. But the natural male-female symbiosis is there despite there being an age difference. Sometimes she doesn’t get a pop culture reference but that’s about the only thing I’d say if “different” about her. Mentally, women aged 18-50 seem all the same to me, despite some differences regarding their stage of life. Apart from material stuff, they all want the same from a man (attention, wealth, status).

Fatherhood isn’t for me either. For now she accepts that, we both have the same stance on overpopulation. I also accept she might get baby rabies or marriage fever, and I’m ready to check out when that happens. She knows this as well, as I wont “get between her and her happyness” which is a nice way to say: find another guy if you really want that.

[WeakManParticipant 91]

Damn…..damn, goodluck man…I personally couldn’t date anyone younger than 24. Even then, that is only 4 years younger than me and I don’t even really like 24 year olds. At age 18? phew, phewwwwwwww, no man, nooooooo, don’t think in long term with this one, surely you don’t? Think super short term, like super super short term, like chick on the side kind of deal. If you invest anything more than 3% you are making a bad investment and aren’t thinking with your noggin. I think you already know this though.

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