Again and again and again

[Buller100Participant 2189]

A couple of my friends , have had their lives and financial future ruined by 2 and 3 marriages , but they keep searching looking for the next one ?

Why are they unable to see the game is rigged to such a degree , you can not get financially involved with a women that’s the position.

We ran some numbers and one guy got slaughtered in divorce with his Western wife , then a few years later started travelling to Philippines . He married a streetwalker , she cost him tens of thousands .. When her perm visa came through she left him in 2 days , the way she treated him in marriage staying out all night , seen with other men..

Why do men take that abuse , why do they search again.

He is 60 now no chance of retiring he took loans to keep her happy and pay her off , he is looking for number 3 but with a low paying job and debt…. at 60 ..

Why do it again and again ??? I really can’t grasp it , if you have some money you can get sex of you want hookers , of you have no money no sex..

The blindness of these guys is staggering . some of the abuse he went through with wife number 2 it’s as though he expects it , it’s normal ?

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

There are numerous studies done about how women who were in abusive relationships will often times repeat this pattern. Is it then that much of a stretch to imagine that men would do similar things?

I do believe that men who do this have very low self esteem, I mean how f~~~ing low does your self esteem need to be to wife-up a street walker?

[Anonymous 12]

A lot of men think being able to take care of a woman is some measure of success and makes them manly. On the prostitution forum I sometimes use I have seen men actually say that, they pay to take Escorts out for dinners, pay Sugar babies to spend time with them, you name it.

They carry on about how much they love women but they really just love sex. Take away the sex and they would have no use for women at all.

Sad deluded f~~~ers.

[MorpheusParticipant 2177]

Don’t forget that even by statistics, 50% of people are in the category of below average iq.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Agree with both comments guys , esteem around women the guy puts them on a pedestal higher than the Sears Tower.

Also the taking care of a women , as if it’s a role ..Women and children first..

Deluded for sure , I see it as self harming how can it be anything else ?

[bstoffParticipant 4863]

Morpheus are you sure that’s accurate?

[Anonymous 7]

Matrix programming is hard to bypass.
They are this way b/c they were programmed to be plantation slaves.

There is a reason why the movie The Matrix is referenced here, a lot.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Anonymous wrote:

Matrix programming is hard to bypass.
They are this way b/c they were programmed to be plantation slaves.

There is a reason why the movie The Matrix is referenced here, a lot.

Yes I think you nailed it, as Morpheus said IQ , both of the guys in questions were drones work wise in as much always told what to do , unless you ‘Think ‘ you will never become red pill.

Many guys here have said the lizard brain , blue pill thoughts can come back.

But a low IQ and not a thinker , these lives are lost.

Servitude and poverty is their life, quite sad really.

[MonkParticipant 16984]

Anonymous wrote:

A lot of men think being able to take care of a woman is some measure of success and makes them manly.

Yes – it’s a variation on ‘man up’.

The irony is that they aren’t actually getting any sex.

[MonkParticipant 16984]

Morpheus wrote:

Don’t forget that even by statistics, 50% of people are in the category of below average iq.

‘The Sun’ is the largest selling newspaper in the UK. It has a mental age of 8. And that’s official.

[Anonymous 42]

What about the guys like us that are starving women of their wanted and desired affection, attention, and adoration?

We’re the black hole that unexpectedly formed in the center of their gynocentric universe.

Sit back and give it time.

TIC F~~~ING TOC! – – – (MATRIX)

[WallyParticipant]

All of the reasons listed have an impact some have low IQ, for some the programming is hard wired either by the gynocentric society or traditionalism, amazing how those two things are just opposite sides of the same coin.

In conversations with some young men caught in the web they don’t even realize there is another path, the old men, at least most of them, through their wisdom and experiences know better.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

YOU are Underestimating the Power of the Blue Pill, and MOST MEN Will Remain Smurf Blue til They Draw Their Last Breath…..SAD, But TRUE !!!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

foghornleghorn wrote:

There are numerous studies done about how women who were in abusive relationships will often times repeat this pattern. Is it then that much of a stretch to imagine that men would do similar things?

I do believe that men who do this have very low self esteem, I mean how f~~~ing low does your self esteem need to be to wife-up a street walker?

Probably an idiot who thought he could replicated “Pretty Woman”. LOL.

Surprise, you can’t turn a ‘ho into a housewife.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Anonymous 5]

It’s not about IQ or experience or strength or weakness. It’s more a matter of how indoctrinated you’ve been growing up.
Look at Tom Leykis. He smashed into the marriage wall four times before the light went on.

Look at Rupert Murdoch’s third marriage to one of the most ruthless, cheating gold diggers imaginable, Wendi Deng, and then getting hooked a fourth time to an old f~~~ed out has-been groupie gold digger Jerry Hall.
Rupert Murdoch’s mother Elizabeth was a true NAWALT. His father married her when he was 42 and she was a 19 year old virgin. She worked tirelessly all her life for her kids and relations and every charity imaginable, till her death at 102. She was genuinely liked and admired by virtually everyone who ever came in contact with her.
Despite his intelligence, experience and supreme business acumen, Rupert Murdoch will never stop believing in NAWALTs. It’s made his emotional adult life a living hell.

We can’t judge these men, and unfortunately we can’t really help them either. We can just be there when it inevitably goes south.

[narwhalParticipant]

foghornleghorn wrote:

There are numerous studies done about how women who were in abusive relationships will often times repeat this pattern. Is it then that much of a stretch to imagine that men would do similar things?

I do believe that men who do this have very low self esteem, I mean how f~~~ing low does your self esteem need to be to wife-up a street walker?

“the devil you know”. I don’t think it’s so much that these guys are dumb or necessarily have low self esteem, it’s because they are used to the married life and are unsure of what life is like without it. They don’t feel comfortable, something’s wrong if they aren’t in a relationship. They fear what they don’t know, even if they understand that what they don’t know isn’t very good. At least they know how to handle what they have now.

Perhaps that is low self esteem, I’m not sure. I know for sure that I do the same thing in many aspects of my life. Certainly in relations with women in my past. These days, in career and social life. I am comfortable. Even though I know things could be better, I settle for what I have, what I know. That’s not to say I’m unhappy, just that I know things could be better, but I settle for comfortable.

Ok. Then do it.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Buller100 wrote:

A couple of my friends , have had their lives and financial future ruined by 2 and 3 marriages , but they keep searching looking for the next one ?

Why are they unable to see the game is rigged to such a degree , you can not get financially involved with a women that’s the position.

We ran some numbers and one guy got slaughtered in divorce with his Western wife , then a few years later started travelling to Philippines . He married a streetwalker , she cost him tens of thousands .. When her perm visa came through she left him in 2 days , the way she treated him in marriage staying out all night , seen with other men..

Why do men take that abuse , why do they search again.

He is 60 now no chance of retiring he took loans to keep her happy and pay her off , he is looking for number 3 but with a low paying job and debt…. at 60 ..

Why do it again and again ??? I really can’t grasp it , if you have some money you can get sex of you want hookers , of you have no money no sex..

The blindness of these guys is staggering . some of the abuse he went through with wife number 2 it’s as though he expects it , it’s normal ?

“Why do they keep doing it” is a question that I’ve never found a satisfactory answer to. I now just accept that many people’s minds function in a manner that I am incapable of comprehending.

I know one guy who after getting financially obliterated in a divorce from his four wife just got married again to his fifth.

I do think however that in some cases that it’s the man’s ego. The man thinks that marriage is “the right thing to do” no matter how much reality says different. The guy with a big ego will continue to remarry rather than admit being wrong. It’s f~~~ed up but it’s a possible explanation. The concept of being wrong about something can be absolutely devastating for a guy with a massive ego.

Another issue is what I call the “Reality Acknowledgement Barrier”. The “reality” is that marriage is a horrifically foolish mistake for a man. However, if a guy ‘believes’ in marriage, then that ‘need to believe’ will override the guy’s ability to acknowledge reality. The acknowledgment of reality is logic driven whereas the ‘need to believe ‘ is emotion driven. It’s just human nature that emotion will often override logic. It will result with a person believing something to be so when rationality and all the evidence says that it just isn’t…

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Some great thoughts guys, I can see truth in all of them….

[HermitParticipant]

When I was young, I never believed in marriage. Swore I would never do it. Then, met this woman…….. She mentioned that we should get married. I had no idea of the dangers back then.

After the divorce, she admitted to me that she wanted to get married in order to get me to stick around longer. Wow…….

How could anyone go through that s~~~ more than once? Ok, maybe they think they just married the “wrong one” the first time, but after the second time…..????…… Going through it twice and you still haven’t learned your lesson?

There is no logical reason to legally bind yourself to another human being. I can’t believe that this is the 21st century and people are still doing it. It’s sickening.

I found it strange that people would laugh and say, “right”, when I told them I would never go through that again; never get married again. I learned my lesson, the first time and forever.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Hermit wrote:

When I was young, I never believed in marriage. Swore I would never do it. Then, met this woman…….. She mentioned that we should get married. I had no idea of the dangers back then.

After the divorce, she admitted to me that she wanted to get married in order to get me to stick around longer. Wow…….

How could anyone go through that s~~~ more than once? Ok, maybe they think they just married the “wrong one” the first time, but after the second time…..????…… Going through it twice and you still haven’t learned your lesson?

There is no logical reason to legally bind yourself to another human being. I can’t believe that this is the 21st century and people are still doing it. It’s sickening.

I found it strange that people would laugh and say, “right”, when I told them I would never go through that again; never get married again. I learned my lesson, the first time and forever.

Yes people don’t believe it , another guy I know married twice when I asked him ‘Would you marry again ” he said “Yes if I met the right girl ” I then asked him , what criteria for a right girl , he smiled a funny smile and said ‘I don’t know ” quite funny really…

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