Advice

[Anonymous 7]

Ive been having a plethora of health issues, permanent bad back (in near constant pain), depression, twitching, numbness, and seeing a bunch of doctors.

My mom is on my back and yells at me a good 30 minutes a day because my grades are not so good this semester, when half of them are social justice classes.

I just dont know what to do anymore, I feel like dropping out of college and leaving home, everything is so s~~~.

My mom second doubts me on everything I do and yells at me for my political views. I cant escape her.

[Enjoy The DeclineParticipant 1719]

For your back, maybe you should do yoga to help repair it because this guy in this youtube was in an even worser physical situation than you are and he still ended up healing after doing yoga religiously:

Hope my advice helps.

"Question everything" - Albert Einstein

[FearlessMGHOWParticipant 1928]

If I had the finances to move out, I’d do it. Going through college is nothing compared to having to deal with an overbearing and nagging parent.

If your mom is putting you through that much s~~~ and you have the money to move out, my advice to you is to move out.

The only reason I put up with my parents s~~~ is because I have no money to move out right now. If I did, I’d move out within a heartbeat. I’d have no second thoughts or hesitation about it either.

Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius

[Anonymous 42]

The only advice I have I finish school at all costs. Without a degree you’ll likely be with her allot longer than you want.

[DarkRyuParticipant 2354]

Good advise, but it sounds like he’s just getting some BS degree anyway. You’re going to have a very hard time finding a job no matter what you major in, but for God’s sake, avoid political sciences and psychology. Too many people with your qualifications and not enough job openings.

[globemasterParticipant 443]

Try to avoid conversations.

Keep you mouth shut, dont talk unless a question is asked.

Keep answers short.

Dont talk political, ideological crap to old people.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Lottery- Your pain and depression are probably linked. That and the fact that you are stuck in the quagmire of college just to get to that first good paying job. Adding living with your Mom is the trifecta.

Others have said it, but just lay low. Consider it ghosting lessons for your life after school. If you can co-exist in a household then making it through the workday or making it back to your place will be easy without attracting unwanted attention.

Get moving, my worst pain was when I had a primarily desk job. I started slow with walking a mile or two. I reached the point where I was going at least four miles almost every night, and my day to day pain and depression boredom subsided. It may vary for you especially if you have something bigger going on.

As far as finishing school, only you can make that call but knowing that you don’t want women in your life will cut down your monetary needs significantly. Do the math and see if you can live the way you really want without finishing school before you make any permanent decisions.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Anonymous 1]

Lottery – pregablin (lyrica) is very effective for neuropathic pain (if that’s what it is). I was given it for anxiety but stuck on the maximum dose and was practically catatonic so had to stop. I don’t think you need such a large does to treat neuropathic pain. Others have told me how effective it is though.

Might be worth looking into if you could get it.

For depression I found citalopram and hard running to be the most effective. Get those endorphins flowing, if its possible, with your back an all.

[Spank The MisandristsParticipant 2308]

One thing I learned from obtaining my master of science degree is that the modern day education system is worthless and overrated. Don’t focus on the grades my friend, focus on the skills. The reason I can do what I do today is not because I have an education from my uni, but skills learned on the “street”.

[Jeremiah JohnsonParticipant 2219]

Lottery, Have you had any medical tests done? Do you have health insurance? Just shooting out ideas I had severe pain in my back and it took the numb skull doc’s years to diagnose me…Try getting a MRI of your back, you may very well have some pinched nerves back there, even one pinched nerve can make the toughest man bed bound…I have 4 burst disc’s, and I cannot begin to tell you how bad the pain is…It also causes numbness and tingling…If you have a clean MRI, try some blood work…If all that comes back clean, you have to deduce that constant berating you are getting from your mother is causing mental issues, which believe it or not can actually cause physical pain…We talked about that a few posts back, not sure if it was you or not…If your not needing any p~~~ tests any time soon, I would seriously seek some marijuana…You wouldn’t believe the pain relieving and mental stress it can seriously help with…It really is an amazing plant…Save up as fast as you can to get the f~~~ out of there…As far as school goes, tell us specifically what classes you are taking, there are those here that can help guide you in the right direction you may want to head into…You really don’t want to quit, at this point school is so important, but still does not guarantee a job in this s~~~ market…You can PM any of us and we can talk more privately over email if you wish…Keep coming back here to vent, it can help brother…We will do anything we can to help get you through this…Keep your head up brother, this will pass, I promise…

Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

when half of them are social justice classes.

^^^ What are you putting into your male oriented and chemically balanced mind? Are you learning a nothing liberal arts degree that only government employment handouts can support?

The three laws of a man’s mind are derived from logic. They are mathematics, engineering, and logistics.

Filling your head with female inspired distortions of necessity will only leave you stranded and in debt.
We’ve proven feminist logic isn’t sound, so why would a man torture himself by having their faulty logic imprinted on his brain???

DarkRyu wrote:

Good advise, but it sounds like he’s just getting some BS degree anyway.

I never went to college but I know one thing for sure, when it comes to these bulls~~~ gynocentric liberal f~~~tard educations, I can outperform, out-survive, and out-think the best they have to offer! I’ve been living in a sea of stupidly here in the leftist North East! They need to be fed, they know nothing about supporting themselves, and nothing to contribute to a functioning society…

They’re a bunch of pathetic weaklings that wouldn’t last more than 10 minutes after the s~~~ hits the fan!

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

The health problems are most probably linked with the bulls~~~ you’re being put trough.

If you have a room, get a key.
Lock the room so she doesn’t enter.If she wants to come nag you she has to break the door.

Make it so she comes knocking on the door if she wants to talk to you.
Make her understand that it’s your choice if you want to talk to her and open the door when she knocks only when you feel like it.
Careful with this, she might send your father after you.Apply the same principle to him.Be respectful but show them there is a line.
You have to MAKE your parents realize your a human being, not some dog that they leave food for and nag to study all the time.

If you don’t want to take the SJW classes don’t.
Find something you like.

Move out as fast as you can.

[Anonymous 7]

Thanks guys.

I have an Annual tear, which never heals, and compression on L5 and some other technical s~~~.

Ive gotten MRI, seeing chiropractor, neurologist, and Chinese medicine crap.

My other problems are all linked probably.

Im going into computer science but it is required to take 3 ethnic study classes for any degree, f~~~ing cancer.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Truly sorry to read this and I don’t mind saying I have always had the the impression your spirits are rather “up”.

You’re young. Very young. UP is really the only direction for you.
Don’t be content with anything else.

If your physical condition allows you to get some rigorous exercise… GET SOME. Get up early. Get out of the house. Go for a walk. Work up a sweat. Pump some blood into your brain and BELIEVE ME it makes a difference.

I won’t pretend to know (or understand) your physical issues or how they relate, but if you’re in computer science I would DEFINITELY stick with that. Even though I am not a fan of college or controlled education, that’s not a bulls~~~ degree and very sensible to have in your back pocket.

My mom was TOTALLY unsupportive of me when I was 19-21. I did THE EXACT OPPOSITE that she wanted me to do ( go to school ). She nagged and bitched so badly, I said some pretty hateful s~~~ to her. It was the only time in my life when I called my Mom “a f~~~ing bitch” right to her face. She can drive a man to drink, I tell you.

(It’s Mothers’ Day tomorrow isn’t it.)

My tongue should be torn out for that, and it led to me not speaking to my parents for 3 years. I moved out. Lived in a s~~~hole. Worked 3 bar/restaurant jobs and it wasn’t until I was 24 that things STARTED to come together.

Guess who showed up to celebrate my first “success”? Mom & dad. But I had to crawl through s~~~ – all on my own – to get their respect.

Not long after, they started being nicer to me. I hate that. I hate that I had to be a colossal f~~~ing dickhead to my parents and a defiant asshole to carve my own path and to stop her from nagging me to death. At 31 I got a great job that took me abroad. For the first time, I felt like I had done something right.

31. So it takes a while.

I realize this is more about me than it is about you, but the point is you’re a man, and it’s never going to be gravy.

“In this life, nobody gives it to you. You have to TAKE it”.
– Jack Nicholson

P.S Remember, “Advice” is only something people can give based on their own meandering experience. Take what’s valuable to you, and throw away the rest. I hope there was something of value in this for you.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Big BossParticipant 4496]

Anonymous wrote:

Ive been having a plethora of health issues, permanent bad back (in near constant pain), depression, twitching, numbness, and seeing a bunch of doctors.

My mom is on my back and yells at me a good 30 minutes a day because my grades are not so good this semester, when half of them are social justice classes.

I just dont know what to do anymore, I feel like dropping out of college and leaving home, everything is so s~~~.

My mom second doubts me on everything I do and yells at me for my political views. I cant escape her.

I’d gtfo of there.

[Jeremiah JohnsonParticipant 2219]

Keymaster wrote:

If your physical condition allows you to get some rigorous exercise… GET SOME. Get up early. Get out of the house. Go for a walk. Work up a sweat. Pump some blood into your brain and BELIEVE ME it makes a difference.

Keymaster wrote:

if you’re in computer science I would DEFINITELY stick with that.

He is so correct here sir, getting your blood pumping will absolutely make you feel better, as long as your back allows it…Get outside breath some oxygen, get the sun on your face…It helps brother…The degree, as much bulls~~~ comes along with it, is absolutely essential in today’s market, stick it out…Are you working or have some sort of income where you can GTFO of there???

Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....

[KeymasterKeymaster]

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 22]

Keymaster wrote:

“In this life, nobody gives it to you. You have to TAKE it”.
– Jack Nicholson

“So I gave you power, uh. Let me tell you something boy, if I did give you power, you got nothing. Nobody gives you power. Real power is something you take!”

Jock Ewing (Jim Davis) from Dallas

[IAmManParticipant 228]

Sorry to hear about your struggle. Want to address the health issues. Read as much as possible about nutrition and the body. Stretch, do yoga, deep tissue massages and start to exercise as much as possible. Don’t follow any fads but stick with the tried and true. Don’t do any high impact cardio. This will worsen any condition. There are all kind of natural gmp rated supplements that can help you out. Eating well, sleeping and exercise can really help with depression as well. Studies have found exercise to be as beneficial as medicine. I’d recommend both.
I use to be partially disabled from a bad back and the doctors wanted to “weld” my disks together. Instead I started doing the above(not much yoga) and had a miraculous turn around. Don’t give up even though the pain may get to your head after a while. That In Itself can mess with you but usually people can get better. I am a cpt so if you have more questions feel free to pm me. Take care.

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

Hello,

Have you considered switching majors? There are fields of study where you don’t have to put up feminists.

Keymaster suggested computer science, but often computer science is in the arts department of universities; therefore, they might make you take a bunch of bulls~~~ in order to satisfy the arts degree.

May I suggest something in engineering? Engineering is something that hasn’t been corrupted, not yet.

Keymaster wrote:

Take what’s valuable to you, and throw away the rest.

Absolutely right.

Older men (fathers, uncles, professors, etc.) are a motherlode of great information, but it’s important to treat them as advisors, not authorities. When it comes to certain issues, we’re all in the same boat. Only buy gathering opinions here and there and forming your own can you come to a meaningful conclusion.

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

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