Advice Needed: What Can This Guy Do??

[SwimcatParticipant 3589]

He can start by getting a vacsectomy. 4 kids at age 25. That’s insane.
Maybe look for a job that makes a lot more money but requires him to be on the road. Like an over the road truck driver, or out of town construction. Other than that he’s trapped for many years to come.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

I say tell your friend to do his homework.

There are many expatriate websites out there. Learn what to do and how to do it.
I suspect many other men have encountered this problem and determined a workable solution. Learn how to transfer assets. Learn about employment opportunities. Your friend is only screwed if he lets himself be screwed.
Get busy.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Anonymous wrote:

What Can This Guy Do?

He can be what he already is: a warning to other men to never EVER get married.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

DorkShit wrote:

That means first, get her pregnant and control everything.

12 more kids and he will have her trapped.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Anonymous 1]

He best pray to whatever God he believes in and hope that God believes in him.

Failing that, one way ticket to whatever country doesn’t extradite to his – I don’t think this is serious enough to warrant extradition, but I wouldn’t even take that risk.

Seriously though? What outcome was this fella hoping for? In this day and age, any man should be able to see this coming.

Don’t light the fuse then panic when the dynamites about to go off.

[Anonymous 43]

Stay the f~~~ away from women.
If that fails, stay away from single mothers…with two kids
If that fails, don’t make two more kids with a single mother who stays at home
If that fails, don’t have any more children with this thing.

OMFG why? Why get involved in the first place? Why get into the s~~~ vortex voluntarily?

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

Death!

[OldBillParticipant]

Apart from murder or suicide, his only chance is something along the lines of RangerOne’s Plan Psi.

Whether he can divert the time and money necessary to prepare for a Plan Psi is another question.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

Never mind advising you on hiding assets. You won’t have any. And realistically, if you succeed in escaping to some foreign country, every other man in this country with a job is going to be footing the bill for those kids with our taxes. What can you do?

first thing to do when you find yourself in a hole: STOP DIGGING! Pay attention to post above with swimcat telling you to get a vasectomy, or otherwise get control of your sex drive… before you end up with more kids (aka hostages). Next, try explaining to your wife that she has 4 kids now by two different fathers. Her odds of marrying someone after you who will offer her more, or even as much as you do… are exactly ZERO. You may still care about her, but NOBODY else will. It’s possible that she could get pump and dumped, but NOBODY is going to put a ring on that. You are trapped, but so is she.

If she dumps you, the government may step in and throw her some money for the kids (starting with money they take from you), but when the kids are grown, that money will stop. If you are not there, what is her plan after that?

Bottom line: you are literally the last man in the world that she is ever going to get. Other than for a pump and dump, no one else wants her. At 27, with 4 kids by 2 different fathers, she is essentially already post wall. You will need to explain this to her politely enough that she doesn’t want to kill the messenger. You are delivering the news of the consequences of her own decisions, and this is what they are. She has you, or nobody.

If you drop that on her gently enough that she doesn’t want to destroy you for saying it out loud, and she realizes that she has no other options… There’s a small chance that she will realize that you are her last option, and that may make her slightly less bitchy than she currently is. However inadequate she believes you are, you are probably better than having nobody at all.

Most women don’t respond well to logic and reality, but it’s probably the only shot you have for your life to get any better.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[freedomParticipant 5129]

That’s sad, the guy is 25, but he has the stress level of someone much older, when I was 25, I was learning for my last year in the University and enjoyed life, this sounds like death to me.

how can one get f~~~ed with 2 kids not his own at 21, I can’t get it .

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

He should quit his job and start working part time at Mcdonalds
The situation will resolve itself

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

FrostByte wrote:

Darksith wrote:

That means first, get her pregnant and control everything.

12 more kids and he will have her trapped.

That is my fathers crappy logic exactly. He had a sick sense of humor that makes more sense as you age.

Peace brothers

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