Advice Needed and Self Medication to Get Through Work (People/Women)

[GeordieMGTOWParticipant 50]

Awkward topic. Difficult issue in general to relate to others. It goes like: I’m one of those stoic dispositioned types of males. Straight face. Can and do of course smile but I have to be quite amused or excited: at least it’s genuine when I do. I view it as a normal part of the spectrum, formerly at least. I think a lot more men used to be like me in the Victorian times or the 50’s.

 

Now that Western society has became a largely histrionic, feminised, feminazi dystopia, I find myself on the receiving end of a lot of aggressions from people, mostly women. 19/20 times. Men know on a level that you don’t take the p~~~ out of other men like that, not when you don’t know them. Plus men are more empathetic, despite we’re taught women are – they aren’t. I get that people are different and I certainly don’t want everyone to be like me. I check myself from becoming the monster. Normally anyway, they are overreaching extravert fascist types.

 

It’s like that Bill Burr Skit. When he’s in his boat or floating, whatever it was. And he’s just minding his own business. He’s not bothering anyone. Then some stupid c~~~ comes along and has to give him s~~~. That’s how I feel. I’m not bothering anyone. No force from me, no initiation of it anyway. Libertarian about it. Then some stupid, normally fat, makeup clad c~~~ who barely knows me decides they FEEL they MUST comment on my straight face. Or ask me if I ever smile. Or tell me how I’m so serious. It relates to B.S. testing, I theorise. Picking f~~~ing bitches.

 

Anyway, developed some social anxiety over it – pretty bad. It’s not just that. I don’t really enjoy being around other people. Well, not even ‘really’. I just don’t enjoy it period. Don’t like people in general, have became misanthropic. I’ve been thinking for a while now that I’m probably somewhere autistic or Aspergers. I didn’t realise a lot of things until I was past 25 about undertone, allegory, even Machiavellianism in many ways. Used to be prone to literalism. I used to think like everyone had a moral code, even if it was different to mine, they were working in theirs. I know now some people just don’t. Sophists, sociopaths, the rational hamster, reletavism etc.

 

And about the autism/aspergers thing. I don’t know that I am but I think I am, and I get that there’s a lot of hipster s~~~heads being trendy about it now. Either way I feel like an alien to most people.

 

Anyway, this is an ugly rant.

 

So it goes like I’ve worked in gyms. Used to instruct. I was a good instructor technically but I’m the wrong personality for the job. It’s banter and smiles, and ‘Hiiii!! =D ‘ and I’m flat and reserved and ‘…Hello.’ As I stated, this is hard to relate. I don’t know if any of this is getting through. I used to be ‘shy’ but managed. I was functional. I was polite enough, nice guy type. I could hold basic conversation, and could manage inductions, because you can get by just talking about exercise/lifestyle for an hour and that’s something I knew. I can’t instruct anymore anyway. Just can’t do it. I have some stories about women there too that I could tell but another time.

 

Or I’ve worked cleaning, shelf stacking jobs. You can work your arse off. Heaving. Sweating. Not stopping. Basically when you work around the leisure industry you tend to work around a lot of women. And the judgement so far as work market value is largely ‘friendly’ , ‘good attitude’ , interpersonal skills type of values. Bulls~~~. Crap all to do with turning up to work on time, how much effort you put in, physical labour output, personal production value for your employer. Basically just femc~~~pigist infiltrated s~~~tery. You know this. ‘Heees not vewy fweeendly! =(‘ I worked in a supermarket over Christmas one year. Needed a job badly. Hours weren’t that much. Worked my arse off when I was there though. Stayed late with no extra pay (I know that’s muggish but wanted to be kept on). At least a little early arrival each day. I was quiet but polite. Nice enough. 1 vacancy going for a seasonal staff member to be kept on. They took on this lazy chav lass who stood around and talked half the time.

 

That’s basically how it goes for me. It’s that. Or I get some c~~~ criticises my manner. Makes a comment. Then it’s me building stuff up in my head and I last a few weeks and quit on my part. I can’t hack it. I admit it. I get that it’s my problem as well. I’m accountable. Will say, it’s never the graft though. I’d be happy shovelling horse s~~~ all day if it was solitary. ‘Dave, shovel this horse s~~~ from here to here!’ ‘No problem mate, cheers’.

 

So basically, I doubt it but has anyone else been in a similar situation? And how did you cope? Maybe some people can share some more generally relatable tips on just dealing with people, more so women / the feminised workplace in general? I’m doing a training course at least this upcoming week from Monday and there’s a good chance after it that I’ll probably land a job from the week after in a factory but it’s packing work, I don’t think I’m on the machines as such. Or as much.

 

Also, I’m wondering is there any way I can self-medicate to get me through? Preferably non-prescription but not definately. I thought of getting anti-depressants but I don’t think they will 1) help with anxiety much anyway and 2) I don’t think they are ideal/safe for the type of work I’ll be doing. I thought of going ‘herbal’. Have tried herbs in the past as a teenager. Never was big on it or other drugs. Not my thing but the thought occured. I think this would make me dopey as well anyway for the first few hours of a shift. Not ideal but small amounts or afterwards? Maybe painkillers?

 

Also, I’m 32 now. Don’t have the best work history. Don’t have so much assests. I’d want to work generally. I think just generally it’s good for a person to work for a few good reasons, and I want to make money and buy a small flat at least that I own or mostly own by the time I’m 40. I think this is my last chance for that.

 

TL;DR

 

Advice needed for working around people when you can’t bear the company of others in general.

Advice needed on drugs/self-medicating to take the edge off.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Smoke some weed mon

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

I am currently in a situation where I am going to get training for a job that does not require much, if any, “people work”. I have made the mistake all my life by going into customer oriented or patient oriented positions. Big mistake for me. I am an introvert. Not everyone is an extrovert.

It is impossible for me to work where you have to “be on all the time.” I can’t do that. I need a solitary type of job. Where you do your work and that’s it.

 

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Can I ask what … if anything … gets your adrenaline flowing?

What get you excited … if anything?

[EndwatcherParticipant 81]

Drink Kava

 

If you are in the US it is legal, there was a bulls~~~ study that tried planting liver issues with it….what they didnt include in the finding was that the people who became ill also did HARD DRUGS!

Islanders have been drinking it for years.

Buy the ground up root, not any of the crap in pills or anything. You knead it in water and you can find how to videos on youtube.

There is a lot of bunk Kava out there, so I suggest you go to Paradisekava.com, gourmet hawaiian kava, Bula Kava house.

Im going to start my own private label also for Kava, next time I get some in for sampling I could send ya out some at cost to try out.

 

 

[RoyDalParticipant]

Meditation worked for me. It’s cost-effective with zero side effects too.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[OldscoundrellParticipant 412]

Get into industrial equipment services if you are mechanical inclined. Find your niche. This type of work is very agreeable if you do mobile/onsite repair. Usually get to work by yourself, and its challenging to keep the boredom at bay.

[GeordieMGTOWParticipant 50]

RoyDal wrote:

Meditation worked for me. It’s cost-effective with zero side effects too.

 

Which type of meditation do you do? There are different types that don’t have the same effects.

 

ILiveAgain wrote:

Can I ask what … if anything … gets your adrenaline flowing? What get you excited … if anything?

 

Not much if I’m really honest. I have a few hobbies, rituals, interests but nothing really makes me feel that passion.

 

Russky wrote:

Smoke some weed mon

 

Maybe.

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

I am currently in a situation where I am going to get training for a job that does not require much, if any, “people work”. I have made the mistake all my life by going into customer oriented or patient oriented positions. Big mistake for me. I am an introvert. Not everyone is an extrovert. It is impossible for me to work where you have to “be on all the time.” I can’t do that. I need a solitary type of job. Where you do your work and that’s it.

 

What job (or roughly the type of career area if you don’t want to say) is that?

[GeordieMGTOWParticipant 50]

First off, you are you. F~~~ others. Start there. I have been on welbutrin for 18 years. I AM A F~~~ING WORKHORSE TANK ON THE S~~~. It has been all good. RE:CAREER Is you have brains…go into programming. Last year, with benefits, which pays the meds, I made $119k. If you are not a brain, then start a property services business. Start small, mower, hedgrs then add painting, snow plowong, drywall, light wiring, redo baths in rental units. Then buy rental houses and get into the landlord gig. Maybe get into tile work. get fliers and business cards. You get quite busy. Given your nature, you can leverage the focus. You sound like me. There is nothing wrong with you, others are just idiots Also…stop giving a s~~~ about everything. Just dig into work, ignore all and get an armload of construction books. Learn to love them. Embrace the new learning machine…YOU! You csn turn your life focus to books, the authors are your new life friends. Learn from them, and get your own projects. A project and self educating man is s happy man. Time to go your own way. The construction road is solid…cannot be shipped to china like other jobs. REAL ESTATE. Rent to manless femimists. Get rich off of feminism. I worked about six hours today on a place I have to have ready in 2 weeks. The gals I rent to should be there about 3 years, making me over 20k. The prior couple paid me 35k. Actually your nature is your asset if you learn to focus and love your own work grind. MGTOW SOLVES ALL OF A MAN’S ISSUES. If you kerp yourself busy, you will find happiness. Ps..Acquire tools!

 

Thanks mate. Appreciate that a lot. Some things to think about there.

[GeordieMGTOWParticipant 50]

I’ll research Kava, looking at it now.

 

And I’m not interested in mechanics unfortunately. Just doesn’t appeal to me. Have never been into cars etc.

[mrpropmechParticipant 216]

Whatever you do stay away from benzos, such as xanax, klonopin, etc. That stuff is pure evil. I was dealing with alot of anxiety issues a few years ago, anxiety attacks and such. Those benzos are a literal hell to get off and withdraw from.. You’d be MUCH better off smoking weed.

Antidepressants are alot safer and have less affects than benzodiazapines do, but you will have withdrawal symptoms if you stop taking them as well. I got “brain zaps” after I quit taking celexa a few years back. But man, did it work when I was on it.

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