Advice needed

[Tex41Participant 45]

Brothers,
Seems like we’re back up and running, huge salute to those who keep our privacy secure and are always on watch. You are appreciated more than you will ever know, and I sincerely thank you.

Now, without regurgitating my life story, I’m 30 and back in college. I seem to be surrounded by gorgeous 18-20 year olds on a daily basis. Being the older guy in class, I seem to always get a lot of attention, and flirting sent my way. My question is this………how can I resist this temptation? What I’m looking for, is a bit above and beyond “just knock one out and leave her” type answers. Recently I’ve made the commitment to be 100% MGTOW, and I don’t plan on ever going back. However, the biological desires for a woman’s touch have been almost too much lately. Forgive me for the quirkiness of this post, I’ve had a crazy few weeks and I’m a bit frazzled. Thank you for your time gentlemen,

-Tex

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

I’m 48 and just finished my bachelor’s. So……I don’t seem to hold sway over the ‘fairer sex’ like I used to.

The thing is. The university campus is your place of work. For me, playing where you work is a recipe for disaster. Have a one off, date one, etc. Imagine what happens when you break up with this potential………other?

There is a quantum difference between 30 and 20. And let’s not forget the potential for a false accusation in today’s “rape culture”.

Also, these, ahem, women are actively looking for their DNA donor, and an older male seems like a more appropriate catch then one their own age.

Sort of like the High School senior that dates college guys. Or the High School Freshman that dates High School Seniors.

It’s the same game, just with a different time stamp. Except the whole DNA donor thingie that they are looking for. And 18 years of financial and emotional commitment, and child support, and legal fees, and an empty bank account, and kicking yourself in the ass for f~~~ing one of those girls to begin with.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[Anonymous 18]

I’d say go for it. Date any girl where there is mutual attraction.

You miss some action, you have it available, grab life by horns.

Only alternate is for you to convince yourself whatever it is you need to convince yourself of to stay away from these flirtatious women. The downside would be you’d want to now do the type that isn’t represented by these flirtatious ones. You know the nerdy, shy types who turn out to be f~~~ing bat s~~~ crazy psycho rape victimized oops you are the daddy types.

Take care of your biological needs. Don’t get a girl pregnant.

Be free. Stay MGTOW.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10907]

I agree with Soldier-Medic. You are in school busting your butt to make a better future for yourself. Why take a chance on letting some bitch destroy it? The risks far outweigh the reward. Colleges are ripe with women who are looking for a meal ticket as well as someone to do their work for them. I understand the need for a woman’s attention but these days you have to be smart while in college and avoid the women there. All your hard work can be wiped away with one misinterpreted signal and she can inflict damage that you may not be able to recover from. Stay strong.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[FreeGhostSpectator 318]

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[rebelandboltmanParticipant 640]

Focus on what you are there for–your career. If your urges are strong, buy some lubricant and watch some porn. It’s too challenging at school anymore with girls. Imagine yourself as a ship sailing across the sea, and that these flirty girls are dolphins jumping in and out of the water around you saying, “Hey! Look at me! Look at me!” Keep sailing, brother.

[LowKeyParticipant 702]

Your welcome

Don't let defeat, defeat you; Let defeat be your greatest teacher.

[FitzBonesParticipant 304]

I’m in a similar situation, studying at uni and doing a course that is 95% females. Not because I want to work as a nurse, but simply as a stepping stone to where I DO want to be.
Honestly I just eye the merchandise and the moment I hear them speak is when I lose all interest in them. Frankly, the selfish, obsessive, pettiness is all thats needed to consistently re-affirm my decision to go my own way

"If you can fill the unforgiving minute with sixty seconds' worth of distance run,"

[RoyDalParticipant]

Soldier-Medic wrote:

For me, playing where you work is a recipe for disaster.

Focus on getting your degree. That is what you are there for.

The last thing you want is getting hauled in front of a tribunal because you didn’t get “consent.” Your tuition dollars are too valuable to risk it all. Do your dating off campus, preferably in a distant city.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

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