Adultery on parade.

[StealthParticipant 5330]

I ran across remarriage wedding information for my estranged wife today on theknot.com.

Creepy. As. F~~~.

But somehow not hard to look at.
I actually felt happy for them. The smiles, the flowers, the new jewelry, the s~~~-eating grins.

I have to remind myself this is the woman who said there is no limit to what she is entitled to since her life has been so hard, and the more harm she causes me personally, the more it boosts her self-esteem. She went for the money I had overextended myself to make, and wanted me to die just because she felt like it.

Most people who knew what really went on expressed pity for the new guy. But I see it working if she is enabled to remain a consumer. At least, until she feels like he should die too.

When we signed the divorce agreement, myself signing under coercion/protest, I did the polite thing and wished her every happiness. To which she responded that she wished me death and despair. It was so out of place as to be almost comic.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Oh, the “fun” that awaits HIM !!

The BEST part is that YOU WILL NEVER HAVE TO ENDURE ANOTHER, and if that isn’t reason enough to celebrate YOUR FREEDOM then I can’t think of ANYTHING ELSE that would make you CHERISH YOUR PRESENT LIFE then that Frame of Reference !!!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[StealthParticipant 5330]

He actually might, since he seems like the kind of guy that would enjoy kissing her ass.

Good point about focusing in the present. Four years out, and I am still slaving at the job detention center to recoup what she stole from me. Only a couple years left to go!

My focus was always on creating value and bettering our life. Even when we were married. This was a key difference between us. The stunningly overpriced registry items on her site remind me of her smash-and-grab perspective of the world. In her words, she shouldn’t have to work so hard for the things she wants from life–they should just be handed to her.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

I’ve been involved in three weddings in my lifetime .. best man, twice an usher .. all three were multi-day affairs and all three have since ended in separations and divorce.

The only people who came out ahead were those who marketed the tuxedos, food, crappy loud music and two-day-lodging for this organized insanity and pocket picking crime. The wedding ‘industry’ it’s so very close to organized crime.
There will be more weddings in my distant family soon
.. I will be invited to them all .. and I already have my straight faced response ready when the envelope with the nauseating tissue paper inside the card .. arrives in my mailbox. My response .. no response.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Stealth wrote:

In her words, she shouldn’t have to work so hard for the things she wants from life–they should just be handed to her

My “Old School” Hard Working Father gave me some advice about marriage MANY YEARS ago, “In order for Marriage to WORK, it takes 2 People that EACH are Hard Workers. If only 1 is a Hard worker, and the other is a TAKER, The hard Worker gets Tired of working hard, and Never getting Anywhere because the other one is Consuming ALL HIS Efforts, and they can never work hard enough to satisfy a takers wants. etc. etc.” He meant compensatory work inside the home as well as work outside the home.

I tried to follow his advice, but he was ignorant about Feminism, the Chameleon effect etc. etc. etc.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 42]

When men lead it’s a life of fruitful and fulfilling happiness and production.

When women hijack the lead it’s a life of misery and corruption.

Be the leader and forget about unicorns following, they’ve been hunted to extinction in the war on men!

I avoided allot of misery by following my instincts in a society that rather I not.

[joetechParticipant]

Even when they don’t wish you death and despair, they provide plenty of despair after the divorce and sometimes you wish for death. An amicable divorce is one where firearms aren’t used.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

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