ADOPTING you GF's Children?? Really?!

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  • #94502
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    Sessna12
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    So I got not 1, not 2 but 3 friends that got me scratching my head:

    Friend 1: Date’s a girl with 2 little kids for 1 year… about to break up with her, when he gets the …that’s right..”I’m Pregnant”

    stays with her, adopts 2 kids when the 3 is born

    Friend 2: Date’s girl with little kid for 6 mos…….gets married and adopts her child

    Friend 3: Dates girl with 1 child for 8 months……he comes home early to find her ex boyfriend naked on the couch playing his xbox(no pun)…….he turns around, pawns his tires and rims for a ring and proposes to this bitch!

    she accepts, and he adopts her child.

     

    I no longer keep in touch with these guys, as I felt like I was in twilight zone when they didn’t seem to think that they were tatooing “Chump” across their foreheads. Now guys dont bat an eye when they hear that a girl is a single mom. I was tagging a chick in college. She mentioned she had a kid and wanted to introduce him to me.

    Girl: ” I thought you should know I have a boy”

    Me: “you said you were unattached”

    Girl: “my parents watch him whenever I want”

    Me: “BRETT FAVRE !!!”

    Girl: ” ?”

    Me: “I’LL PASS !!!”

     

    rant/

    Sebastian

     

    "We can no more stop him from marrying than we can stop him from making a well researched decision to poke his eyes out with a stick."
    -Sidecar

    #94522
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    Fermat
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    These hoes just don’t stop possessing men. These red pills get tastier by the day.

    I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

    #94532
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    StandUpGuy
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    Funny;I have a girl that I worked with; a real good software engineer; she knows her stuff.

    We had a company offsite training week. She brought her son. We went to dinner as a group; and her liked me because I would introduce him to new foods, like Indian food.

    I left the job and got a note from her months later telling me that her son still talks about the dinners we had and want me to call her the next time I am in town.

    And to this Brette Farve; I will pass. LOL

    The issue with being a tampon for a girl is that she will use you then want to replace you when you are all bloody.

    #94537
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    Sessna12
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    Those guys are f~~~ed. I like the Brette Favre I’ll pass line. That put a smile on my face.

     

    it’s one of my all-time favorite lines 🙂

    "We can no more stop him from marrying than we can stop him from making a well researched decision to poke his eyes out with a stick."
    -Sidecar

    #94538
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    Funny;I have a girl that I worked with; a real good software engineer; she knows her stuff. We had a company offsite training week. She brought her son. We went to dinner as a group; and her liked me because I would introduce him to new foods, like Indian food. I left the job and got a note from her months later telling me that her son still talks about the dinners we had and want me to call her the next time I am in town. And to this Brette Farve; I will pass. LOL The issue with being a tampon for a girl is that she will use you then want to replace you when you are all bloody.

     

    and it is a damn shame too… no telling how many men run in and out of that poor kid’s life.  Women will use their own child as a pawn in this game

    "We can no more stop him from marrying than we can stop him from making a well researched decision to poke his eyes out with a stick."
    -Sidecar

    #94543
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    Bestoftherest
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    Women with kid tow treat men better. The uneducated, inexperienced man would notice this and mistake it for her being in love. Females are smart, they know when their hot to trot with zero baggage they can (and do) treat men like s~~~. Once a kid is attached these women become reformed whores and start to make real concession (like a real relationship) and develop personality. This seems all well and good but its for a devious scheme. The scheme is to reel a man in and once she has him in her clutches (marriage) she will morph back into the c~~~ she was.

    You’re 3rd friend situation sounds like the female convinced him that she cheated because she had no commitment from him. “Put a ring on it, otherwise I’m out.” Poor guy made the wrong move.

    "Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power."
    Abraham Lincoln

    #94548
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    Sessna12
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    Women with kid tow treat men better. The uneducated, inexperienced man would notice this and mistake it for her being in love. Females are smart, they know when their hot to trot with zero baggage they can (and do) treat men like s~~~. Once a kid is attached these women become reformed whores and start to make real concession (like a real relationship) and develop personality. This seems all well and good but its for a devious scheme. The scheme is to reel a man in and once she has him in her clutches (marriage) she will morph back into the c~~~ she was. You’re 3rd friend situation sounds like the female convinced him that she cheated because she had no commitment from him. “Put a ring on it, otherwise I’m out.” Poor guy made the wrong move.

     

    That is well put….and I forgot to mention. 3rd guy now has a 1yr old with her too!

    Sebastian

    "We can no more stop him from marrying than we can stop him from making a well researched decision to poke his eyes out with a stick."
    -Sidecar

    #94551
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    ILiveAgain
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    Stupid is FOREVER

    #94560
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    Bestoftherest
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    That is well put….and I forgot to mention. 3rd guy now has a 1yr old with her too!

    Sebastian

    No matter what the females past is, I would DNA test the child. If a virgin nun left the church for me and has a child I would DNA test her too.

    "Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power."
    Abraham Lincoln

    #94563
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    Phantom
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    Once a kid is attached these women become reformed whores and start to make real concession (like a real relationship) and develop personality. This seems all well and good but its for a devious scheme. The scheme is to reel a man in and once she has him in her clutches (marriage) she will morph back into the c~~~ she was.

    This was the “bait” that I almost swallowed 4 yrs ago…but she did one major slip on Christmas eve that hit me like a bullet train.

    So glad she showed her hand, or I would be screwed beyond belief.

    Have not even brought myself to go date one since.

    #94581
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    Bestoftherest
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    "Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power."
    Abraham Lincoln

    #94583
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    Sessna12
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    Stupid is FOREVER

     

    amen

    "We can no more stop him from marrying than we can stop him from making a well researched decision to poke his eyes out with a stick."
    -Sidecar

    #94584
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    Sessna12
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    That is well put….and I forgot to mention. 3rd guy now has a 1yr old with her too! Sebastian

    No matter what the females past is, I would DNA test the child. If a virgin nun left the church for me and has a child I would DNA test her too.

    LOL!

    "We can no more stop him from marrying than we can stop him from making a well researched decision to poke his eyes out with a stick."
    -Sidecar

    #94586
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    Sessna12
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    Once a kid is attached these women become reformed whores and start to make real concession (like a real relationship) and develop personality. This seems all well and good but its for a devious scheme. The scheme is to reel a man in and once she has him in her clutches (marriage) she will morph back into the c~~~ she was.

    This was the “bait” that I almost swallowed 4 yrs ago…but she did one major slip on Christmas eve that hit me like a bullet train. So glad she showed her hand, or I would be screwed beyond belief. Have not even brought myself to go date one since.

     

    I dont blame ya…hearing some(most) of these stories is down right terrifying.

    I remember my mother telling me that women are capable of being more ruthless than men. I will never forget that.  Men can be assholes too… but society will punish men only

    "We can no more stop him from marrying than we can stop him from making a well researched decision to poke his eyes out with a stick."
    -Sidecar

    #94639
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    RoyDal
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    About the men who fall for the single mommy gag — and this goes double for the one who found her ex-BF naked on his couch —

    “Stupid is as stupid does.”
    — F. Gump

    And, I speak as one who almost fell for that gag back in my blue pill days.

    About the 10 Best Interrogation Scenes — too funny! I am passing that one on to some pals.

    Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

    #95022
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    Clint
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    This still hurts my brain hearing this. It’s not so much surprising, but it still is just so confusing what they can be actually thinking and rationalizing.

    "To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you into something else is the greatest accomplishment." -Ralph Waldo Emerson

    #95075
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    Durden
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    S~~~ you need new friends. Believe it or not there are plenty of MGTOWs out there to chill with.

    MGTOW 201 any person who has children is not single. They are attached. Single implies one person. People make choices and must learn to live with them.

    It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything

    #95105
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    S~~~ you need new friends. Believe it or not there are plenty of MGTOWs out there to chill with. 

     

    Crazy thing is—these guys seemed alpha as phuck in college….then they just….blue pilled. I think it is this s~~~ty town i live in. once ppl turn 25, they are on a mission to marry. I have never understood it. Meanwhile I am content working on my business, and gearing up for an amazing 2016.

     

    Sebastian

    "We can no more stop him from marrying than we can stop him from making a well researched decision to poke his eyes out with a stick."
    -Sidecar

    #95530
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    Robert Hallam
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    There is no accounting for stupidity.  When and if he gets divorced, and there is a 50% chance of that happening, he’s on the hook now for child support for those two kids, plus child support for any more he has, plus+++++++++++++++++++ and his pension.  My God, I can only assume that someone had already spoke with him before he took the plunge.

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    Quiet Thom
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    I have a brother in law that was/is f~~~ed over royally. He met my late wife’s sister and she had 2 young kids at the time….5 and 7 years old, as I recall. She was living in an apartment house and was getting by….but just barely, according to various reliable sources. He owned an apartment house and lived in one of the apartments rent and utility free and made about $15K a year CLEAN after paying for all the costs associated with property ownership. He played golf and vacationed a minimum of 3 times a year. Then, he met her. Within one year of banging my sister in law, he married her and adopted her kids, knocked her up, sold his apartment house, and bought a house on 2 acres in the country. He took a huge hit on capital gains taxes by selling the apartment house. Soon, he had to get a part time job in addition to his full time job so they could make ends meet and get stuff SHE wanted. I’m betting that, initially, she f~~~ed and sucked him blind. I’m also betting that the fierce sex ended once she had him by the b~~~~. Now, the kids are grown and out of the house and he is in a sexless marriage with a c~~~ he can barely tolerate. I have asked him how the f~~~ he got rolled like he did. His answer? “I’m not sure. I wish I knew then what I know now.” He’s staying put because the cost of divorcing would cripple him financially.

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