Actions are more important than words.

[ScarberianMPTGLParticipant 3286]

Hey guys, so I’ve been subscribed to this guy named Trevor Freeman on YouTube for a while now, don’t know how many of you(if any) are familiar with him, he’s a relatively small channel. On top of that I can’t entirely remember if he’s MGTOW or not, but at the end of the day it doesn’t really make that big of a difference. I digress. I watched a few of his videos over this past weekend, and his words really resonated with me. I highly suggest that especially newer menbers/lurkers watch these videos:

And the follow-up:

So, and forgive me if I missed anything in explaining these videos, I’m tired as f~~~ and about to go to bed, otherwise I’d re-watch them, for now I’m going off memory. In the first video he talks about the three-strike rule as it applies to personal friendships and relationships, how words mean almost nothing and if someone constantly says one thing and does another or makes promises but never follows through then you should cut that person from your life, they’re a liability. Essentially, and something that should be obvious but is far less common than it should be is, judge people by their actions, not their words. I know it should seem like common knowledge but before I became a MGTOW and even afterward I wasn’t able to do this, it’s not easy for me to make friends but I hate being alone sometimes so I tend to keep those I’ve known forever around, even if it’s detrimental.

The second video, as the follow-up, obviously ties into the first, as he talks about those in your life who tend to lie, and if you’ve caught them before but kept them around, they know they can get away with it and thus it will happen more often, and it will get worse. If you know they’re keeping secrets from others, then how can you be so sure they’re not keeping other secrets from you? Why would you ever believe that they wouldn’t? Basically, forgive my rambling, the underlying theme and one that newer MGTOW and lurkers need to take to heart is cut any and all of these people from your life. You will be far better off for it. A time before this I finally cut a very toxic person out of my life and despite his attempts to re-enter I have totally remained firm, even to the point I will skip an event if I know he’ll be around, and my life is much easier without him.

Again, apologies if this was long, and if I was totally off in my ramblings, but I thought I had to share it with you guys. As I said, it really resonated with me. Have a good day, brothers, and I’ll catch you later on.

I, Lelouch Vi Britannia, command you, all of you, to Go Your Own Way!!

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

ScarberianMPTGL wrote:

judge people by their actions, not their words

AMEN to this.

You will live a MUCH happier life if you start living by this rule.

Most people can talk a good talk…and that’s where it ends.

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[MutineerParticipant 1467]

Great videos. Thanks for posting. I’m going to send these to my bluepill brother.

"The secret to happiness is freedom... And the secret to freedom is courage." - Thucydides

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

: “Actions are more important than words.”
: “My feelings are more important than everything.”

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

ScarberianMPTGL wrote:

judge people by their actions, not their words.

Although Freud and Jung are more widely known, at the same time Alfred Adler said people have a tongue in their shoe and one in their head. If you want to know what they mean, watch the tongue in their shoe. Trust only movement, or behavior. MGTOW is about observing and reporting the female behavior these guys have experienced. If you are interested in pursuing Adler’s insights, two of Adler’s students were Marguerite and Willard Beecher. Their book, Beyond Success and Failure: Ways to Self-Reliance and Maturity might interest you.

another book you might find useful is Anthony de Mello’s The Way to Love. de Mello talks about realizing the false programming society and culture you are given and what you can do about it.

Used copies of both books can be gotten on Amazon. You can purchase a gift card to purchase the books.

[GregB0Participant]

ScarberianMPTGL wrote:

. I highly suggest that especially newer menbers/lurkers watch these videos:

Great advice and thanks for thinking about younger members. Mentoring is not something men purposefully think of, but is critical for MGTOW.com members.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

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