Accidentally mentioning red pill things

[MenckenParticipant 693]

Overall, I think I do a good job of never mentioning MGTOW or such subjects around anyone around me, with the exception of my one good friend who is also a hardened MGTOW.

It gets tempting though to want to have discussions with people but I know it will only cause conflict. I read and listen to material like TFM. After work, I go home to my quiet house in Solitude and live the monk life free from societies demands.

Well today I accidentally mentioned that women marry up, basic hypergamy. Simple statement that just seems like obvious fact. I was lectured in response being told I have it backwards. I was told men marry up and that 90% of men do not deserve their wives.

Oh, I did not know that. I am going to go home now and do what I want when I want to. Over half my pay is disposable income that I get to control, not her. No fights, manipulation, guilt trips, or counseling bills. I can sleep in, play PC games, and fish whenever I want. So while I am indirectly being reprimanded for not being in a relationship, I am also highly envied for it. I cant imagine living any other way.

Misogynist - A man who hates women as much as women hate one another.

[Anonymous 3]

Mencken wrote:

I was lectured in response being told I have it backwards. I was told men marry up and that 90% of men do not deserve their wives.

They are absolutely right! And you should immediately agree with them. Even a jobless land whale stay-at-home “wife” is WAY BETTER than any men, and sure enough, the idiot she is married doesn’t deserve her… after all, if he deserved better he would have better… See how that works?

Let us save these worthy females by not forcing our presence in their lives…

And this post goes to show that, even with good intentions, the matrix is a dangerous place. Blue pills can be dangerous, and there are few people one can trust.

It is said that no good deed goes unpunished. A creed to live by.

There is this hill representing history, and this society was at the peak when everybody started pushing the cart downhill. And its picking up speed, much to their liking.
Some well intentioned persons would like to stand in front of that cart to halt its descent while it is possible. They will only succeed in aggravating the crowd for going against “progress”…
And besides, you dont stop a running-away card by standing in front of it. You only get run-over.

The MGTOW have stepped out and are just watching the show.

[WallyParticipant]

Was it a fellow worker married to a landwhale? He cannot agree with you, to do so would have been to admit his life was a lie. It’s tempting to speak the truth, when there is so much evidence, but there is nothing to gain from it. I’m fortunate to have a group of men I can openly ackowledge as MGTOW and discuss MGTOW related topics. What do all three of my friends have in common? Divorced 1-3 times from psychotic women. Known two of them since I was in high school, I’m 45 they are all in their 60(s). They and my father taught me to never trust a woman and never get married.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

I try not to mention mgtow points, and I usually do a pretty good job of it. But my life and my lifestyle sort of scream it. When challenged about why I don’t have a wife, I deflect and obscure. My goto response is, “It’s tough finding the right one…”, or “The best ones are all taken…”. These statements are both technically true. Since the right one doesn’t exist, she is truly tough to find. And the best ones are actually taken, since that bear is set pretty low. (The leftovers are even worse). So this is also true.

Both statements lead someone intent on challenging my choices to believe that I agree with them and am trying to find a wife. They believe this not because I said it, but because they already decided that it’s what they want to believe. They aren’t actually seeking to improve my life by suggesting that I add a wife to it. They are looking to reenforce what they’ve already chosen to believe. I don’t owe a completely truthful answer to these people, and they are NOT SEEKING ONE.

What seems more dangerous, at least for me, is slipping up and allowing the wrong people to see and know exactly how far mgtow my life really is. Some of those mortgage slaves are just barely holding their illusions and denial structures together, and letting it slip that I don’t have a house payment can really p~~~ them off. Or, when someone asks me about some ominous trend in my industry, and I let it slip that I don’t really care because I don’t really have to depend on my career so much to pay bills, (since it’s only me).

I have to maintain this precarious balance between the screaming support of red pill perceptions that my life is, and the relatively quieter lip service I pay to the blue pill world.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[OgreParticipant 5863]

I don’t accidentally mention anything, but I don’t value my job at all. I spit red pills all night at work. I’ve changed a couple young minds and two women that I work with say red pill things even if they’re doomed to act female.

It’s not the suggested way for anybody who isn’t bullet proof, but I’m a velvet hammer and great at my job so I’d never be fired for anything I said… and I wouldn’t care anyway.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[StealthParticipant 5327]

Say what you like, but less is more
Actions, not words
Or something like that
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"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[AutoliteParticipant]

I have very rarely mentioned MGTOW to anybody. Just a couple of guy friends that I trust. Other than that, I think it is best just to keep my mouth shut. Underscoring the blatantly obvious is almost never appreciated or welcome…

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

Mencken wrote:

I was told men marry up and that 90% of men do not deserve their wives.

People can make their own “truths” regardless if they have anything to do with reality.

TYPICAL BLUE PILL PROGRAMMING

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

BrainPilot wrote:

I try not to mention mgtow points, and I usually do a pretty good job of it. But my life and my lifestyle sort of scream it.
I don’t mention MGTOW at all but ppl know my feelings on marriage.

When challenged about why I don’t have a wife, I deflect and obscure. My goto response is, “It’s tough finding the right one…”, or “The best ones are all taken…”
I do this as well, but my default excuse is that I am ust “not good enough” for a woman, which is technically true.
Women have taught me what their emphasis is concerning relationshipsand I don’t agree.

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10907]

The only red pills I mention are the ones involving marriage and relations~~~s. I openly tell people that marriage is a scam and at work I always point out the many pitfalls of marriage, co-habitating and relations~~~s in general. I hear the remarks about being bitter from divorce and not finding the right one. Most of the time these comments are echoed by men who are married, co-habitating, in a relations~~~ OR female. I let these comments roll off of my back because those who say them are already part of the system and brainwashed or female which automatically disqualifies them from being taken seriously. I rarely hear non-married guys living alone making those very same comments.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[HermitParticipant]

I used to speak my mind at work, but it’s just easier to keep it to myself. I was warning a young guy who was about to get married that he should not do it and this other guy who was already married actually started yelling at me. He was saying sh!t like, “……..just because your marriage didn’t work out…..”. This was coming from a guy who had all kinds of problems in his marriage and at one point, he was staying in a motel instead of in his own house with his wife and kids. I knew for a fact he was cheating on her with at least one other woman.

Even when their life is sh!t and everyone can see it, they still preach that marriage is the way to go. They don’t want to hear the truth and I’m not sure that some are able to even believe it or understand it because they are so delusional due to society’s brainwashing. Also, as I’ve mentioned before, there are some men who really prefer the married life because they say they need a woman to control them and keep them in check. They need them to control their finances. They would rather be weak and have a woman take care of them and control them. Not me. I tried marriage. I hated it. I’m much happier on my own.

I’ve given up speaking my mind to others. They don’t want to hear it. They all know my position by now anyway.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

I revised my view of red-pilling other people/men. After a very loose policy for many years, Im convinced more than ever, its better to say absolutely nothing about the Manosphere at all. Only bad comes from it! Trust me… Ill spare you a dozen real life examples… Say nothing, let them find it themselves on Youtube. You will only injure yourself figuratively or literally by telling people the truth about women….

[HermitParticipant]

Gravel Pit wrote:

I revised my view of red-pilling other people/men. After a very loose policy for many years, Im convinced more than ever, its better to say absolutely nothing about the Manosphere at all. Only bad comes from it! Trust me… Ill spare you a dozen real life examples… Say nothing, let them find it themselves on Youtube. You will only injure yourself figuratively or literally by telling people the truth about women….

Ha, and I used to tell some women the truth about women. Learned my lesson there too. Just never talk to women at all!

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Hermit wrote:

I used to tell some women the truth about women.

Yeah, women will turn on you. Deep down they know it’s fvcking true the things youre saying, but they still blacklist your ass. My own mother an Aunt… I sit there and tell them about War Bride Syndrome and Hypergamy. LOL. My mother (god bless her) is too Christian and lives in her own world-view bubble as a disabled house-wife that she cant understand a damn thing about what I say… its USELESS. She just wants ME to be a replica of my brothers — married w/ kids. And my Aunt. I can see that she understand perfectly well what Im saying but its too contrary to popular opinion and besides, she roots for her hometeam. Shes a natural feminist from the 70s… And my mom, in her 60s is just as deluded.

Women will treat you like svht, naturally ofcourse… for mentionaing anything unchilvalrous or conflicting with White Knightery…

But the WORST treatment you will get for dropping redpills, will be from MEN. Men who need the comfort of the illusion of female love. They breath it like oxygen. To interfere with that illusion is like slapping a bear in his face. You better run like hell. LOL

[AutoliteParticipant]

Hermit wrote:

I was warning a young guy who was about to get married that he should not do it and this other guy who was already married actually started yelling at me.

Just tell the guy who yelled at you that you were just doing ‘due diligence’. Tell him that you don’t give a sh.it whether the young guy got married or not but that your own conscience would bother you if you didn’t at least try to warn him.

You did it for your own sake…

[HermitParticipant]

Gravel Pit wrote:

But the WORST treatment you will get for dropping redpills, will be from MEN. Men who need the comfort of the illusion of female love. They breath it like oxygen. To interfere with that illusion is like slapping a bear in his face. You better run like hell. LOL

Was just talking to the guy today who lets his wife run the finances and she gives him an allowance. Had to hold my tongue a little. We were talking about work and money and he said he doesn’t even know how much he makes. His check is direct deposited into the bank account and his wife deals with it from there. He said, while laughing, “I make the money and she spends it”. Made me sick to hear that sh!t, but I simply said, “If you’re happy with that arrangement, then that’s you, but I can’t live that way”. Then he looked down at the floor and said, “It doesn’t matter, I got what I want”. Yeah, sure you do buddy, except for your freedom and dignity.

How can any man be happy living that way? Not me. The government takes enough of my money without me handing it over to a woman.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Hermit wrote:

Also, as I’ve mentioned before, there are some men who really prefer the married life because they say they need a woman to control them and keep them in check.

I know one guy who got married for a fifth time but all he does is complain about her. Some guys get married just to have something to complain about to others. I am certain of that now…

[HermitParticipant]

Autolite wrote:

Hermit wrote:

I was warning a young guy who was about to get married that he should not do it and this other guy who was already married actually started yelling at me.

Just tell the guy who yelled at you that you were just doing ‘due diligence’. Tell him that you don’t give a sh.it whether the young guy got married or not but that your own conscience would bother you if you didn’t at least try to warn him.
You did it for your own sake…

Would’ve been wasting even more of my breath. This guy’s an idiot and like all the rest, he just thinks I’m a bitter divorced man, when in reality, I harbor no bitterness at all. If I were bitter, I wouldn’t be able to go to my x’s house and have a pleasant conversation with her. It’s just that my eyes have opened and I see the truth, the truth that is hidden from all these poor guys.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Hermit wrote:

Even when their life is sh!t and everyone can see it, they still preach that marriage is the way to go.

People become more adamant about being right the more they know that they’re wrong. It’s fuc.ked up but it’s just human nature for most. They see their fuc.ked up life as more acceptable than having to admit being wrong or that they made a horrible mistake getting married…

[HermitParticipant]

Autolite wrote:

Hermit wrote:

Even when their life is sh!t and everyone can see it, they still preach that marriage is the way to go.

People become more adamant about being right the more they know that they’re wrong. It’s fuc.ked up but it’s just human nature for most. They see their fuc.ked up life as more acceptable than having to admit being wrong or that they made a horrible mistake getting married…

I think they need to convince themselves that their married life is good, partially because they’re too scared to live alone.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

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