About to divorce

[factory100023Spectator 5]

I have a feeling my wife is about to leave me she hates me and swears at me and lately she just stopped swearing at me and she is visitng her lawyer 3 times a week, i have 1 son he is 7 years old. I am a anesthologist and i have a stable job. My wife works too as a cashier but obviously i make more money than her. i was thinking of giving away ALL my money to some charity or orphanage and quitting my job(My brother and his wife are more than happy to let me stay at their place until i find a job) so that my fatass lazy bitch of a wife gets Absolutely NOTHING and i get to keep the kid and she will  have to pay me child support LOL! i plan on not telling my wife and pretend i go to work when infact im helping my brother out at his place.

[DOOGLERParticipant 17]

sounds like a plan

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

Wow, talk about “marrying up.” A cashier marries a medical doctor. Clearly she has ALL the benefits of marrying you and you have NONE.

Don’t do anything rash. Act only when you have a clear mind. We are men we act rationally. We don’t act on emotion like women always do.

I wish I had advice for you about divorcing her. Unfortunately these types of things don’t usually end well for the guy. I wish you the best and please keep us posted.

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[avillaxParticipant 280]

Before you go on with your plan you need to see a lawyer to find out if it would work, if it does, then go for it and also find out if you can resume your work in the future without having to pay her.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Your plan sounds like a good one, but it will depend heavily upon local laws and customs. You need solid legal advice in your corner, a lawyer who is a specialist in his field.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Don’t kneejerk this. Divorce is a real kicker for a guy.

First of all … arm yourself with knowledge. This is key and will minimise your pain.

Don’t give your money away ….. there are ‘other’ things you can do. A little research will bring some ideas.

Keep a diary of events … and especially start keeping a log of activities with your kid …. even washing clothes, feeding and night time stories etc.

Trust her ZERO and believe nothing that come out of her mouth.

Is she having an affair? Find out …. she has you as a walking wallet … why divorce now?

Record any conversations with her and avoid escalating heated ones.

Plan your defence.

Please get back to us and most importantly ….. WHEN things get dark …. know we’re here.

[survivorParticipant 610]

Dude:

 

I have heard of that before; it works! As someone suggested previously, talk to a lawyer and act fast. Peace.

"Shot through the heart, and you're to blame, You give love a bad name, I play my part and you play your game, You give love a bad name."--Bon Jovi

[MonkeyKingEnma21Participant 156]

Mate, sounds like a Solid plan just make sure to get legal advice.

[survivorParticipant 610]

Oh, and by the way, I’d say that you don’t have to give the money away, just stash it so she can’t get it.

"Shot through the heart, and you're to blame, You give love a bad name, I play my part and you play your game, You give love a bad name."--Bon Jovi

[StandUpGuyParticipant 334]

Hope this helps. I too knew that I was getting divorced. I let her get very little; only what she could steal from the house.

I quit working and moved states before she had a chance to file for divorce. We did not have kids so I could easily do this.

The bottom line is that divorce is war do not give an inch.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

Get a lawyer asap.  Do not leave the matrimonial home.  it’s considered forfeited to her if you do.  I quit my job to start a business just before i separated with my ex-wife.  Worked out well because I only pay $1/month alimony.  Still have to pay child support.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[WolfParticipant 890]

If she’s talking to a lawyer 3 times a week, then you need to retain a lawyer ASAP. If she’s talking to a lawyer that much, it’s only a matter of time before seperates from you.

Like others have said here, you need to talk to a lawyer and understand the laws for your jurisdiction.

[HitmanParticipant]

lawyer up !

[factory100023Spectator 5]

Update: I Just Finished talking to my Lawyer. I have decided to go forth with this plan and Instead of giving all my money to an orphanage my brother will hold it for me (I really trust my brother but just in case i made him swear an oath to not let it go or use it unless the courts say so) he will give it back to me after things settle down. tomorrow im going to resign from my job and hopefully my wife wont find out, iv had a talk with my boss who happens to be a MGTOW 😀 and he understands my situation, he will try to hide this from my wife too. Wish me luck Guys :DDD

[factory100023Spectator 5]

Atm All my money is going to my brothers account, I have managed to take away my wifes (Our) Credit card from her wallet and I cut it in half for safe measure, all the cards have been cut except for a debit card which she owns and doesnt have much money (12k) in order not to raise suspicion. After the Money has been transferred i will shut down my account and my everything. My brother ‘Bought’ my car with some money i gave him lol.

[survivorParticipant 610]

Anybody know anything about this guy? How is he doing? Just wonderin’.

"Shot through the heart, and you're to blame, You give love a bad name, I play my part and you play your game, You give love a bad name."--Bon Jovi

[cas9Participant 0]

Having run the track on divorce, I can tell you that trying to hide money and quitting your job rarely works. They will chastise you for quitting your job or even losing your job. They have the ability to use computed income to still tell you to pay an assigned amount. I hate to say it but you’ll lose like the rest of us have. The best hope for it really is to scare the p~~~ out of her and settle out of court or every winter you’ll be looking at 3 hots and cot for failing to pay but hey that almost seems good to some of us 🙂 I ended up dismissing the case on the day of the final hearing and racked up 20k in lawyer fees all to find out I’d get screwed completely no matter what I did short of running away to Spain. We had similar financial dynamics as your situation. I’m well over six figures and she works in the food service industry. Live and learn I guess…..

[LonerBonerParticipant 358]

Cant you give your money to a trusted friend? Maybe he will return the favor after the divorce?

Keep clam i'm dyslexic.

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