About Me

[miggleiiParticipant 8]

I’m a 40-year old divorced man. I’ve been separated/divorced for about two years. The last two years of GMOW have, without a doubt, been the best two years of my life!

Prior to that, I spent 10 years being emotionally, verbally and at times physically abused by my psychotic, BPD ex-wife. Throughout the 10 years of marriage she would (not limited to):

• Demand all kinds of s~~~ which she felt entitled to, with each demand always outdoing the last. If she didn’t get what she wanted, she would abuse, manipulate and punish me until I gave in. Good thing I bailed before she could go through with her demand of a new house (Jesus!).
• Blame me for everything that went wrong in her life. And, trust me, there was no end to the list of things that would go wrong in her life, real or imagined.
• Regularly put me down, belittle me and insult me, many times in public or around other people.
• Force me to have sex. Yes, I believe that was rape.
• Always have to win every argument regardless of how retarded her point of view was. If not, then of course more abuse and punishment would follow.
• Make me do all the work and then criticize the work that I had done, even though she did nothing. E.g. once she complained about and criticized the way I filed all of our household documents (bills, etc.). So I said, ok, well from now on, you do it the way you like. Guess what? It never got done ever again since that day. The documents just lay in a huge pile (until I bailed).
• Mix in periods of abuse with periods of being sweet to keep me off balance. The classic mean-sweet cycle in abusive relationships.

I was lucky we never had kids (even though we admittedly tried unsuccessfully to have one). I lost pretty much everything I had worked for my whole life in the divorce but in a way I’m still luckier than some others in that I do not have to pay child support or alimony. However, it’s still a bitter pill to swallow.

Regardless, like I said, since I’ve been free from this hell called marriage, the last two years have been absolutely incredible. I’ve finally been able to discover myself, live the life I want and ticked off pretty much all of my life’s goals. It does help that, despite the divorce, I still have a well-paying job/business to finance myself. God only knows how awesome my life would be right now if I didn’t make the mistake of getting married in the first place.

For any guys thinking of getting married, my advice is, DON’T DO IT!

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Welcome! Sorry to hear about what you went through, but it sounds like you got out before you were chained to her forever: no mortgage, no child support or having to deal with her at every future event of a child if you had one.

Resident cynic.

[San Soo SifuParticipant 7]

I am a survivor (if the dumb t~~~ bitches can use that term for imagined abuse, then I can use it for real abuse) of an undiagnosed Borderline Personality Disorder, Gold Digging Whore, from a Turd World Country (if your s~~~ paper goes in a trash can next to the toilet instead of flushed down the toilet — that my brothers is a Turd World Country, not a third world country).

Let’s hit the f~~~ing highlight reel…

C~~~ had personal ads on dating web sites since my sons were 3 years old (of course, I didn’t discover this until during the divorce proceedings… more on that later).

C~~~ answered personal ads on Craigslist. When I confronted her on it because she left herself logged in on the computer, she said she did it for a thrill. (I was the f~~~ing dumb ass who didn’t immediately kick her to the curb on the spot!)

C~~~ was cheating on me for 2 years prior to have me thrown in jail on false accusations of domestic violence (I found the evidence during the divorce proceedings.)

C~~~ schemed a plan with the free legal aid feminazi lawyer on what to say to have me thrown in jail (I found the evidence during the divorce trial, but after the criminal trial).

C~~~ put her false allegations of domestic violence into plan when I was at a male cousin’s funeral. I was thrown in jail within 2 hours from returning from his funeral.

C~~~ scored all items on the American Psychiatric Association Diagnostic Manual IV for Borderline Personality Disorder.

I am raising my fraternal twin sons (10 years old) to live their lives MGTOW.

They both see their mother for who she really is.

[San Soo SifuParticipant 7]

***Forgot to add…

The divorce was actually an annulment, Void Ab Initio because the BPD bitch, Gold Digging Whore, from a Turd World Country, was still married to her first husband when she married me, and that is called Bigamy.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome! I am glad you got out with hide and sanity intact. Welcome to the world of free men.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 29]

Grass is greener on this side of the fence. Welcome miggleii

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Welcome. I’m glad you got out intact although I’m sorry for the 10 years you lost. Stay on your new path and try to avoid temptation. There are no unicorns.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

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