Abandoning friends and becoming my own

[BrawnsParticipant 46]

In every day life I never had real friends to hang around. None will talk to me and none will share their stuff with me. I’m just a guy hanging alone all by myself. I tried to make good ones but they always end up rejecting me so I decided to become alone.

10 years ago when i was ten, i was in a senior school meeting new people. Some liked me at first but on the next day they do not. I tried to open up a topic so we both can still communicate but that did not work….

Then 4 years later, i’ve met my old friends from high school and they turn out to be gangsterish, captain underpants, high headed, brainless, stubborn rude fools who i use to be around with. They never shared their story with me, they push me away out of the group and they only want to use my stuff. New people and their old folks follow them and they keep asking for money, pencils, food and any kind of other s~~~ they wanted from me.

5 years later, istarted to get annoyed angry.I cuss those people off for asking for money. Barely been into any fights and started being myself and got good grades. My confidence are starting to grow and my independence are starting to kick-in because I can find a way how to do things for myself instead of having anyone there with me and until I get a real job, I will be on my own without help.

You may think I can’t do s~~~ on my own. But a 5’9 feet tall black guy like me can handle can do things for myself. I know how to cook, I know how to build, and I know how to communicate face to face and I’m still practicing in reality to make myself successful instead of staying home like worthless sitting duck.

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Sorry about my grammar. I hope the next time when I type it won’t be crappy like this anymore.

[WallyParticipant]

Welcome Brawn, pull up a chair and enjoy!

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[CaliParticipant 753]

True friends are VERY hard to come by. If you ever do find one, keep him.
Welcome to MGTOW, where at the very least we won’t ask you for crap or try to use you 🙂

Just a misogynist virgin hiding away in his mother's basement. Nothing to see here...

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Hey Brawns,

I read your MGTOW profile
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we are the same age (plus/minus one year), and I also love sports, music, reading, and working on my fitness……..plus we are both MGTOW of course…..Honestly, if we lived in the same city, we would be best friends…..i hope that doesn’t sound creepy.
Cheers.

Brawns wrote:

My name is Brawns. I love sports, exercising, reading, and love to listen. I also love listening to music (hip hop, jazz and rock including all classic.)
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10 years ago when i was ten, i was in a senior school meeting new people. Some liked me at first but on the next day they do not. I tried to open up a topic so we both can still communicate but that did not work….

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Brawns wrote:

In every day life I never had real friends to hang around. None will talk to me and none will share their stuff with me. I’m just a guy hanging alone all by myself. I tried to make good ones but they always end up rejecting me so I decided to become alone.

for me, I made most of my friends from playing sports….

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

The red pill clears the mists of friendships. One will see who is a true friend and who is of fair weather.

Alas most are of the latter. I would guess 80% of my … so called friends were lost in my re evaluation of my life.

I actually set them little tests or asked for some sort of help at an inconvenient time.

Most refused. Those that stayed I would fight for …. all others? ….. na

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome!

ILiveAgain wrote:

The red pill clears the mists of friendships. One will see who is a true friend and who is of fair weather.

Alas most are of the latter. I would guess 80% of my … so called friends were lost in my re evaluation of my life.

I actually set them little tests or asked for some sort of help at an inconvenient time.

Most refused. Those that stayed I would fight for …. all others? ….. na

This is my plan too. It works for me, and has done for many years.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Most people claim to be your friends are not your friends. i had two great true friends until I had to move from the city. Hopefully I will move back there because i can’t stand the ball busting Toronto. I rather be alone than have some mangina or some guy trying to leech off me. i no longer lend money to anyone. I might give a dollar if some seems to need it but that’s it.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[rebelandboltmanParticipant 640]

Welcome. You are not alone on your quest to becoming your own.

[NotMyProblemParticipant 965]

I too gave up friends.

Everyone seems to have an angle, or something they’re trying to get out of you these days.

Or you have the people that try to drag you down with their problems and negative energy.

F~~~ that. I prefer being a loner.

That may sound depressing but I feel like I’m happier than 90% of people out there.

Find some projects that interest you and you’ll never be bored.

Not my property... Not my problem

[Anonymous 6]

Had a beer finally in a week so being talkative tonight. What I found is my so called best friend, he talked alot of sheet about women, but realized he was a mangina, means he lied to me in the beginning about how big & bad he was, but he sure love kissing that ass for there approval behind your back.

[BrawnsParticipant 46]

My friend was like that before I stop communicating with him and talk about how women are bad nonstop and say he’s gonna f~~~ them without being in a relationship with them. And he told me how many pussies he got and I keep telling him I don’t want to discuss with you and your sex life and we both got into an argument. He was a smart guy, a year older. But fails to learn. Yet he told me he is satanic. I’m confused. I thought we were friends at the beginning and he’s still trying to get pussy and invite me into a sex life conversation which I wouldn’t want to hear and discuss with. Like man… I can’t have friends like this anymore. I don’t want to play a game on how many pussies I get. It’s disturbing and its irritating.

And now I have no friends I prefer to be alone. My intelligence are growing and so are my confidence and I’m doing as hard as I can to succeed in life by being myself.

Although, I am practicing 4 types of martial arts. Kung fu, wushu, capoeria, judo and aikido to defend myself from a fight.

I am reading books to gain knowledge and learn new languages.

I am studying on how business runs in our country.

Whatever I can study and learn. I want to become better and I want to survive on my own and stay strong, keep focus and do what I gotta do.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Brawns wrote:

My friend was like that before I stop communicating with him and talk about how women are bad nonstop and say he’s gonna f~~~ them without being in a relationship with them. And he told me how many pussies he got and I keep telling him I don’t want to discuss with you and your sex life and we both got into an argument. He was a smart guy, a year older. But fails to learn. Yet he told me he is satanic. I’m confused. I thought we were friends at the beginning and he’s still trying to get pussy and invite me into a sex life conversation which I wouldn’t want to hear and discuss with. Like man… I can’t have friends like this anymore. I don’t want to play a game on how many pussies I get. It’s disturbing and its irritating.

I hear you brother, I hate it when guys brag about the pussy they get………from a MGTOW perspective, it’s like bragging about how much I jerk off to porn…..nothing to be proud of……..no need to tell everyone about it……..Theres so many more important things in life than pussy

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Anonymous 6]

I am the same type of guy as the OP, never had any true friends either, solitude means peace and being alone is like a utopia for me, though there can be small spells of loneliness but it vanishes as soon as i start occupying myself with something.

[hollowtipsParticipant 681]

Sadly most men aren’t looking for male relationship of any kind, money and pussy is what is mainly on our mind. Keep a small circle of friends 3-5 and don’t bother adding more unless you get along significantly well or they offer some kind of economical/intellectual/social advantage.

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