A women helped me figure it out…..

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    JoeR
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    I always thought I liked to be submissive sexually, usually, until I was and I realized what the f~~~ am I doing? She bit my nipples till they bleed, tortured them so they still hurt days later and I sat there like a good boy until I snapped and began screaming at her and made her leave. She was fatter than she had shown, bitchier than she had been before, and seemed to enjoy telling me how awful I was. Not anymore, after I almost murdered her she ended up apologizing to me most of the night and I instead went to my workshop and built a box for no reason to do some thinking on my own.

    I realized I had always been right to treat every girl I saw exactly the same whether they were gorgeous or hideous. I was right to tell women to go away when I found them stupid or annoying and not to cater to the pussy. I was also right in believing that I should just go my own way and do my own thing and then maybe someday I will find some type of peace with the crazy people we call women. I did however have 100% mutual sex for the first time about a month ago with an old friend. She was more concerned about pregnancy than I was and we used 3 types of protection. We didn’t want a relationship or anything after, we were just friends in high school and we were horny. I don’t want a relationship, I want my dick sucked because I’m 20 and every time the wind blows the bulge grows.

    To shorten my rambling for those that hate to read, I have been trained, like all men, to believe its my fault things didn’t work; that I’m the asshole and the problem and that I should make things interesting in conversations and cater to her needs. I figured out in high school that it’s not my problem if a girl is a boring idiot; I’ve always just stopped talking to her, simple. It’s all making sense now though, men just need to go and do what men need to do on their own. Not that all marriage is evil and terrible. I do have an uncle who no one ever remembers having a girlfriend; he’s always been single and he is one of the happiest people I know.

    However I do have one question for all you out there, how do I control the sexual urges at 20 years of age? Jerking off only gets me so far and after a while you feel like you need something more than that. I don’t have a problem finding girls to have sex with but I do refuse to pursue a relationship with any of them and fear they may try to trap me.

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    Oneforfreedom
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    Use reverse psychology.

    You’re 20 right? Which means that you’ll be dating a girl of similar age. Which means that she is in the boom cycle where her sexual market value is rapidly rising. Knowing female nature, I believe she doesn’t want to settle down at this point because her “potential beauty”/peak could land her a much richer guy (this is what she must be thinking).

    So what you do is this:

    1. Attract a girl.

    2. Have sex with her.

    3. Become all clingy/tell her you want to marry her in a courthouse next week with a ring made from candy, and that you want 2 kids by the end of the following year. Also tell her that you want to move out of state with her and live in a small rural farm away from society. And finally, to top it all off, tell her that future gifts to her will be in the form of sugarcanes and plants, and that you don’t believe in materialistic goods. That ought to chase her away.

    Rinse and Repeat.

    #93035
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    RoyDal
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    Use reverse psychology.

    What will you do if she really does want to get married? Good luck.

    Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

    #93036
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    Uchibenkei
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    f~~~ and have fun.  just don’t get married.

    I bathe in the tears of single moms.

    #93068
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    Fermat
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    Rinsing and repeating this same process over and over again in life is an enormous waste of time. You will never advance. You will never get ahead successfully. You’ll empty your testicles they will refill up and then ull empty them again. Unlike cars where you refill it so u can get from point a to point b to advance in your job or occupations, you won’t advance in life with that kind of lifestyle.  At most you’ll get a confidence boost while you string along vindictive women starving for commitment. For this reason I do not date and go my own way.

    I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

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    Anonymous
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    I hear ya. The problem with your age demographic is that “going galt” (being blatantly unapologetic) does not work with girls your age when you are that age. A guy ten years older, one she might pick as her alpha c~~~, might have some success driving home the Red Pill.

    As a practitioner of BDSM I’d like to stipulate that an inclination toward sexual submission does not need to be about control outside of the bedroom. Many submissive men “suffer” from fantasies they can’t realize, and because of that become submissive in a domesticated sense. Fine, but an antithesis of what MGTOW is about. As a Dominant it’s easier to apply but as a submissive I’d look into the distinct differences between sexual submission and domestic discipline.

    I’ve gone galt. I plainly tell women all I want from them is sex, submission and a little compassion and company. That I don’t want a relationship. And it works, because deep down then don’t want that either. They want alpha c~~~ at that age. And yes, that can be in the form of a submissive stud, I’ve been a toyboy to some older women that at least were pleasant company and f~~~ing honest about their intentions.

    I do not see seeking sex to be something that needs to become a recurring pattern of failure. Be upfront about the need for sexual relations. Women are susceptable to such honesty as long as they know their position, what they mean to you. Don’t do the thing where you promise them the world and hope they leave. It’s bad practice IMO.

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    Phantom
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    Don’t do the thing where you promise them the world and hope they leave. It’s bad practice IMO.

    No s~~~, I tried it and it backfired on me. Dug my own grave as it were.

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