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Are you kidding? It’s so cliché It’s the same script from all of them. Line by line. And there’s a formula to it.
It usually comes whenever you notice a certain pattern in female behavior that they don’t want you to figure out. So they say something “nice” to keep you all confused and chasing your own tail….
• “Any woman would be lucky to have you”
• “Just keep looking! The right one is out there for you!”
• “You’re such a great guy! Let me tell you about all the assholes I’m screwing…”Classic example: He’s got so many female friends who tell him how great he is, but none of them ever want to touch him.
FAST FORWARD TO WHEN YOU”RE A LITTLE SMARTER AND MORE EXPERIENCED , and it becomes:
• “You’re just looking for women in all the wrong places”
• “It’s just the type of women you’re going for”.
• “Maybe if you didn’t date bimbos”.They try to make it your problem. It’s a deflection away from your observations.
FAST FORWARD TO WHEN YOU”RE A LOT SMARTER WITH LOTS OF EXPERIENCE , and the same women who used to tell you how great you are will now tell you.
• “You’re a misogynist”
• “Are you gay?”
• “You probably live in your mother’s basement”.It’s all a f~~~ing smoke screen and one deflection after another. They are women. They are professional liars. First don’t have the b~~~~ to communicate directly and say “I am not interested in you”….. then they behave like you’re imagining it and it’s your fault you’re meeting the wrong women…. then they call you a f~~ when you finally have women all figured out.
Then when you’re 35 and dating 21 year olds you’re now a “creep”, “pervert”, and “immature peter pan” for dating younger women, because they slammed into the wall, and YOU get finally get to point and laugh and say…..
“A CAT would be lucky to have you”.
All I got was NAWALT
That’s all you’re ever gonna get.
Moral of the story, don’t listen to women.
They will only try to mislead you.Applause for Keymaster. What you just mentioned just made things more clearer. You are very wise brother.
What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.
This is what happend to me a while ago.
It is truly remarkable. And even more remarkable that all of you know exactly what Im talking about because you have been there too.
I used to hang out with this ONE female friend for many years. She was the only girl I was pretty close with who I never slept with. We go all the back to the 9th grade.
F~~~ING LINE-BY-LINE (as I broke it down) she told me “NAWALT” and exactly the same s~~~.
Across the span of time that I have known her, the dialogue was exactly like that. I might have asked her something like “Why do all of you girls do this? Why do women always have sex with jerks who treat them like crap? Why are you such two-faced backstabbing little bitches??”
1991
“A woman would be lucky to have you. NAWALT.”1996
“Just keep looking! NAWALT!”1999
“Maybe if you didn’t date bimbos. NAWALT.”2002 (Now dating much younger women)
“OMG you’re such a pedophile LOL. What could you possibly have in common with her?”2006
“You’re a misogynist!!”Interesting progress from the same woman would’t you say?
2011 was the last time I spoke to her. Because I realized she’s not a friend at all and never was. Her first allegiance was to the hive and the sisterhood. Then in 2008, her fiancee left her at the altar and backed out the day before. How perfect is that.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.To a woman, you are a project. Something to be shaped and molded. Something to be controlled. An asset to be tapped and harvested. Something to be mistreated in order to elevate her self worth.
You are a temporary convenience. Something to be discarded when something else comes along.
Yeah, a “woman would be lucky to have you”.
Thanks sweetie. I would prefer a more peaceful life.I think I’ve only been told this by women with any sincerity under the following three scenarios…
1. By much older women, like grandmotherly women. I’m sure this is because if I was growing up with them back when they were young they’d have actually gone after the ambitious young guys and not expected a decade of carousel before looking for Mr. Right.
2. Older post wall women. Its like they saw the light after hitting the wall, and realized what a waste of time all the Chad’s and thugs were. This never comes from the recently hit the wall women as they are still in denial about the drop in their SMV.
3. Women with daughters who are actively riding the carousel. These women know the score…they know what their daughter is doing. She is causing her stock to drop by running up her c~~~ count and wasting her prime on the carousel. Maybe the mother was a carousel rider herself, maybe she was just more traditional, married young, and is still on her first marriage…either way these women know the end game that awaits their little snowflake and they’d love to see her bring home a guy like me who is at least hard working, financially and mentally stable, and doesn’t have a criminal record.
Any time I’ve been told it by an attractive female around my age it always seemed like it was just a lame attempt to cheer me up after getting turned down by someone, or to encourage me to stay on the plantation. If they truly meant it they’d be jumping on my c~~~, not telling me how lucky some other woman would be to have me.
Any woman would be lucky to have you
Other men here have already covered the obvious. But there’s something else about this very common statement from women that really says it all about their nature. They really do believe that when a woman has a lucrative, highly prized man it’s because she’s “lucky”. It’s not because she’s developed her personality to where she’s interesting to have around. It’s not because she’s maintained her body for him. It’s not because she’s developed her mind and learned things to be useful to him. No. They think it’s only because she was “lucky”. And if they do recognize that another women has actually made an effort for a man, at the very best they’ll call her a “slut”. They will NEVER acknowledge another woman’s success with men in any way that highlights their own failings.
Because they never accept responsibility for anything. Ever. The concept of earning anything, be it a man or wealth or position or whatever, is utterly foreign to them. It’s all just luck to them, or cheating by being a slut.
But that is not our problem.
Anonymous22Then when you’re 35 and dating 21 year olds you’re now a “creep”, “pervert”, and “immature peter pan” for dating younger women, because they slammed into the wall, and YOU get finally get to point and laugh and say…..
It’s always the post-wall women who are single that say that. The older women I’ve known that are married have always strongly encouraged me to only consider younger women. The ones that were themselves very attractive when they were younger always emphasize that a man like me should only be with attractive younger women, and that these women also need to lay off and give me space. These women also advise against marriage.
The problem is really only in the workplace. Only place you’re stuck with post-wall women and their blue pill orbiters. If you don’t watch TV, don’t use social media, and run your own business, you’re almost completely removed from all of this idiocy. But any time I walk in to do a short term contract for someplace, there’s a good chance I get ticked off about it.
Also of course school, again a place where men are forced to be around women and other men that behave in an indoctrinated way.
Personally I think it is unnatural for men to be forced into public schooling and then work with women, for someone else. That is slavery. Men of the past were more masculine because what teaching they got was from their parents directly, and then unless they were slaves they worked for their parents until it was time to take over the family business.
The modern economy stamped out as many family businesses as it could, until only the wealthiest families own their own businesses now. Then the schooling well through people’s prime. And the insistence of the State interfering in all domestic matters. This stuff is all by design. Human beings are rather simple and haven’t changed in thousands of years, despite what people want to think. The technology has changed, and with it the means to control the masses. But they know how to control because they understand history, the elites differ from the rest of the masses because the elites have a full and complete understanding of history and how to manipulate people through it. The masses can barely comprehend the present, let alone truly understand the past.
Another excellent post from Phoenix.
Anonymous11A woman would be lucky to have you
How many times have I heard that over the years? Hypergamy and Chad lust pretty much proves that to be a purely bulls~~~ female fabrication.
Yeah, one would be really f~~~ing lucky to have a guy like me. Too bad over 30+ years they f~~~ed it up beyond all repair not my loss.
The whole a woman would be lucky to have you is not a compliment as far I can attest having heard it so many times myself. In woman language it means you are being too nice.
Women don’t like nice men. They are wired to interpret nice as weak. So they pity nice men and from what I have learned pity is a feeling that is very close to contempt because it’s reserved to those deemed as inferior.
Being hypergamous by nature women can’t feel attracted to nice men. Those are just my observations on this subject.
Pity and contempt are siblings. You only feel pity for those you consider weak.
The whole a woman would be lucky to have you is not a compliment as far I can attest having heard it so many times myself. In woman language it means you are being too nice.
Definitely!! You are viewed as a utility in this speak. Most likely a disposable one at that.
If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.
The whole a woman would be lucky to have you is not a compliment as far I can attest having heard it so many times myself.
It’s total bulls~~~ and she just doesn’t have the cojones to say “Im not interested in you”. Just like “aw you’re so sweet” isn’t a compliment either.
But “OMG you’re such an asshole” is a pretty good indicator that sex will happen in zero-point-five minutes.
In woman language it means you are being too nice.
Yeah but I am fluent in Manglish, and if I ever heard “you’re too nice” and woman brings that to you as a PROBLEM…. don’t be “more of a jerk” just to make her happy. Push her out the door and force her to be miserable without you.
Women don’t like nice men.
They have all been born and raised in the toxic corrosive negative world of feminism. “Nice men” don’t validate their core belief system that “men are all pigs / jerks / assholes” which is just want women tell each other. Validating their belief system is actually MORE VALUABLE than meeting a “good man”.
THE FORMULA
• You like her and show it.
• She says you’re “too nice” as if it’s YOUR problem.
• You realize you’re being treated like an asshole no matter what you do, so eventually you will just go ahead and BE an asshole.
• Now she is happy because you give her plenty to complain about.They cultivate their own assholes which gives them a sick and creamy satisfaction so she can now scurry off to her feminist asshole friends and say “AHA!! SEE?? I TOLD YOU !!! MEN REALY ARE AS BAD AS WE SAID!!”
So when you encounter the kind of toxic c~~~ who says you’re “too nice”, don’t dial it down. Dial it UP!! Be NICER to her. They f~~~ing HHHHHHATE that.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
Anonymous22The whole a woman would be lucky to have you is not a compliment as far I can attest having heard it so many times myself.
It’s total bulls~~~ and she just doesn’t have the cojones to say “Im not interested in you”. Just like “aw you’re so sweet” isn’t a compliment either.
But “OMG you’re such an asshole” is a pretty good indicator that sex will happen in zero-point-five minutes.
In woman language it means you are being too nice.
Yeah but I am fluent in Manglish, and if I ever heard “you’re too nice” and woman brings that to you as a PROBLEM…. don’t be “more of a jerk” just to make her happy. Push her out the door and force her to be miserable without you.
Women don’t like nice men.
They have all been born and raised in the toxic corrosive negative world of feminism. “Nice men” don’t validate their core belief system that “men are all pigs / jerks / assholes” which is just want women tell each other. Validating their belief system is actually MORE VALUABLE than meeting a “good man”.
THE FORMULA
• You like her
• She says you’re “too nice” as if it’s YOUR problem.
• You realize you’re being treated like an asshole no matter what you do, so eventually you will just go ahead and BE an asshole.
• Now she is happy because you give her plenty to complain about.They CULTIVATE their own assholes which gives them a sick and creamy satisfaction so she can now scurry off to her feminist asshole friends and say “AHA!! SEE?? I TOLD YOU !!! MEN REALY ARE AS BAD AS WE SAID!!”
So when you encounter the kind of toxic c~~~ who says you’re “too nice”, don’t dial it down. Dial it UP!! Be NICER to her. They f~~~ing HHHHHHATE that.
Yes, very true. What in the hell is the wrong with women nowadays? Why do they want push men away from them????? They are acting in silly ways, and getting some type of temporary satisfaction seem to be more important than actually finding a good man.
Last time I checked being nice is a good thing, not a bad thing.
What in the hell is the wrong with women nowadays? Why do they want push men away from them?????
Men qualify women.
Women attempt to DIS-qualify men.They focus on the negatives with the aim to disqualify and move on. Even your positive traits will be spun into a negative – to turn you into a dick, so she can complain about you.
“TOO NICE”?? There is no such f~~~ing thing. So if you don’t start treating her like an asshole, she will find someone who will.
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When a man is looking to buy a smartphone, he compares and contrasts the POSITIVE features and makes a purchase decision based on that.
A woman does the equivalent of smashing every phone (man) on the ground, and the one who doesn’t break and is most willing to tolerate her s~~~(tests), that’s the one she starts convincing herself is “the one”.
Women use the “American Idol” method of choosing a man.
It’s not actually the BEST singer who wins.
It’s only — >> the last of the eliminated.Why do you think the show is so popular with women? Because these stupid shows are about voting people OFF. The entire “Bachelor” show concept is so appealing to them for this reason. It’s not about qualifying, it’s about DIS-qualifying and ejecting them. That’s how they pick “the best”. And the camera is fixated on the one who gets thrown out. They get off on watching the dis-qualified.
It’s totally ass backwards and insane.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.I get what you are saying KM. I hope I didn’t sound like those PUAs that preach men should act like someone else in order to get some pussy.
I was just trying to point out that when women say that kind of stuff it’s just total bulls~~~ like you said.
I agree that being a jerk just for them I would be playing their little game by giving her exactly what she wanted and thus I would not be in control of the situation.
Pity and contempt are siblings. You only feel pity for those you consider weak.
Anonymous22They focus on the negatives with the aim to disqualify and move on. Even your positive traits will be spun into a negative – to turn you into a dick, so she can complain about you.
“TOO NICE”?? There is no such f~~~ing thing. So if you don’t start treating her like an asshole, she will find someone who will.
This is exactly what I can’t understand. Seen that many times (and know it to be true). I just don’t see what she gains by acting that way…….. some temporary satisfaction? Control? And if you say NO I will treat you with respect and I expect the same from you, she will find someone who will treat her like an asshole.
They are sick in their heads.
I hope I didn’t sound like those PUAs that preach men should act like someone else in order to get some pussy.
No chance of that. We understand each other here. 🙂
Leykis once said (and I quote):
“She stays with him because he gives her what she WANTS!
He gives her want she PREFERS.
He gives her what she thinks she DESERVES.
— >> to be treated like CRAP.”I don’t really believe he endorses that, he’s just making it understood. But just because it “works” at keeping her around and interested doesn’t mean she’s WORTH it.
If you have to “game” your wife or girlfriend just to make sure a relationship “doesn’t fail”….. it still doesn’t mean it “worked”. You would be constantly required to adjust your responses, operate on a higher plane than she, be more of a jerk just so that she doesn’t dump you?
That’s not a partnership.
You would be alone that relationship anyway.They are sick in their heads.
I also share that sentiment.
“You’re too nice. Any woman would be lucky to have you – except me. I prefer to be treated like s~~~”…..
“I’m “too nice”? EXCELLENT. Go find yourself a douchebag who will treat you like crap. Better him than me”.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.I hope I didn’t sound like those PUAs that preach men should act like someone else in order to get some pussy.
No chance of that. We understand each other here.
Leykis once said (and I quote):
“She stays with him because he gives her what she WANTS!
He gives her want she PREFERS.
He gives her what she thinks she DESERVES.
— >> to be treated like CRAP.”I don’t really believe he endorses that, he’s just making it understood. But just because it “works” at keeping her around and interested doesn’t mean she’s WORTH it.
If you have to “game” your wife or girlfriend just to make sure a relationship “doesn’t fail”….. it still doesn’t mean it “worked”. You would be constantly required to adjust your responses, operate on a higher plane than she, be more of a jerk just so that she doesn’t dump you?
That’s not a partnership.
You would be alone that relationship anyway.They are sick in their heads.
I also share that sentiment.
“You’re too nice. Any woman would be lucky to have you – except me. I prefer to be treated like s~~~”…..
“I’m “too nice”? EXCELLENT. Go find yourself a douchebag who will treat you like crap. Better him than me”.
^^^^^^This. Absolutely correct.
The ex actually claimed – ” You treat me so well that you make me feel bad about myself.”
This bothered me for a long time.
Now that I have knowledge, time and perspective, I’m honestly inclined to believe her.Women are not happy unless they are treated like crap. Even if you spin plates, keep your “frame”, and constantly keep one step ahead of her head games to keep her interested, you will never have a true partnership. It’s like bailing out a boat with a hole in the bottom, stop and it sinks. Too much work to be bothered – they are temporary pleasures only.
- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein
All of you speak from my heart,
so true. They have low self-esteem to begin with and they need validation from their circle of friends.
They all have the belief system that “all men are junk” and every duckling in this duckpond has to come to the same conclusion or she will be rejected and maybe even sidelined.
As a public person I had this problem, that women are actually afraid to go out with me because “everybody knows me and all know that I am on a different level than any thug”.
A woman even being seen with me in public is immediatly subject to cynical remarks about getting me to “pay for her whatever” from now on. “Oh, you found a fool”.
The other jealous women say very nasty things to any other woman that would just become my friend.
Out of the fear of being expelled from her social circle, a woman will not even date me. Reality: I have to date in another city and/or silently drop her off at home.
It were always the disappointed gold diggers that turned the world into an emotional minefield for any “normal woman” that was really interested in me.
One girlfriend left me because of such peer pressure. She didn’t have anything to bitch about and her friends started to put her on display, making comments like “how does it feel to be the toy of a money-stinking pig like him…?
Women will suddenly talk bad about a wealthy man when another woman is about to get him… (Even if that women has the same amount of money and doesn’t need mine)
The old friendship bond is mostly a lot stronger, so the woman will let you go – just to keep her old friends. So they can say: “See, we told you that he was just a rich playboy… Yes, we told you that you are not pretty enough for him and that he will just use you… A guy like this needs a real woman, not you… We hate him for a reason… … “he doesn’t like blondes anyway” (a total lie, but it worked)
I can go on for hours. And back then I tried everything to make her see that foolishness and make her stay, but this kind of pressure and lies about me – from a whole village of jealous women – was just too much.
In Germany, our society is very envy- and jealousy-oriented. Everybody is supposed to stay in “the duckpond” so if any duck dares to leave this pond he or she is subjected to attacks of all type. And the society permanently sidelines everyone that jumps out of that duckpond. I was never in any duckpond, and so any woman wanting to be with me would have to leave “that pond” as well.
This is just on more reason, why a good man will not find a mate. Disapproval of friends and family because of envy and jealousy.
She left me, and her friends were happy…
And no other women of that village would ever dare to date me…
It’s a 4th Reich: Don’t date good men…because this is against the law of forced mainstream and mediocrity…
That is why only outsider women would even think about dating me…
I know because wherever I appear they smile like they want to tear down my pants any second… But only if no one sees them smile at me… (They nervously look around them before smiling)
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The ex actually claimed – ” You treat me so well that you make me feel bad about myself.”
This bothered me for a long time.
Now that I have knowledge, time and perspective, I’m honestly inclined to believe her.And that’s about the only time you CAN believe her.
When they say “you deserve someone who will really appreciate you”…..”you deserve better”…. “I don’t deserve you”…. “you’re too good for me”…. take her word for it.
It’s irritating to us because men make an effort to be appreciated and go out of their way to fix her computer, be there when she calls, wash the car before picking her up, take her out and show her a good time, book the evening in advance (or whatever)….. and then she dumps that s~~~ on you?
SHE’S RIGHT!
She doesn’t deserve you. No woman who hasn’t earned it deserves special treatment, and I don’t blame them for saying it! Every time a woman talks about “YOU….. ” listen and see if she’s really revealing everything about herself.
“I don’t deserve you. You’re too nice”.
That doesn’t say anything about YOU.
It’s only designed to SOUND that way to trip you up.She has such a low opinion of herself that she doesn’t even believe she deserves to be treated well.
And she would be right.
Most women don’t even deserve anal.If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.If you have to “game” your wife or girlfriend just to make sure a relationship “doesn’t fail”….. it still doesn’t mean it “worked”. You would be constantly required to adjust your responses, operate on a higher plane than she, be more of a jerk just so that she doesn’t dump you?
That’s not a partnership.
You would be alone that relationship anyway.Yes that is why I never “bent myself around the corner” just to keep a relationship. I have always been authentic: That is the easyiest way to live and also because I was successful that way. It would have been dreadful to my career to become 2-faced. And waste my energy on “games”.
Being nice to any creature is what made me have a firm standing in life. Any women wanting me to lower these standards might go to some other thug instead. There are plenty of them out there.
That is why being left – or not wanted by a woman – because of “nice” was like a boost to my self-esteem.
I then became even nicer. It they got p~~~ed off, that made me happy.
But anyway it was more the gold diggers that were after me and so I used real “un-nerving” strategies of being someone they could not even define. My job also required skills like acting… And so I sometimes appeared to them like I am the “host of the evening news”… Leaving them totally confused.
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When they say “you deserve someone who will really appreciate you”…..”you deserve better”…. “I don’t deserve you”…. “you’re too good for me”…. take her word for it.
It’s irritating to us because men make an effort to be appreciated and go out of their way to fix her computer, be there when she calls, wash the car before picking her up, take her out and show her a good time, book the evening in advance (or whatever)….. and then she dumps that s~~~ on you?
SHE’S RIGHT!
She doesn’t deserve you. No woman who hasn’t earned it deserves special treatment, and I don’t blame them for saying it! Every time a woman talks about “YOU….. ” listen and see if she’s really revealing everything about herself.
“I don’t deserve you. You’re too nice”.
Yes totally right. I heard that before and it was true. She was one that needed many beta-orbiters around her… And I was in the middle of her c~~~ carousel.
So it was no loss and I never had hard feelings about it.
But I am “trapped and caught in a surrounding” of “always” having to be nice. Because of my “popularity as a local hero”…
That limits the number of potential dates to almost none.
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