A Woman Describes Her First Encounter With A MGTOW

[Aroused By Her AnguishParticipant 343]

I just finished reading this.  It’s so full of hypocrisy that it made me cringe!

I’m assuming that this woman has never heard of MGTOW, because she keeps saying that the man “side-chick’d” her.  She was shocked.  One thing this woman doesn’t realize is that that man treated her like how a lot of women have treated us.  That’s why we’re now telling these women no!  What she doesn’t mention is whether or not she has children.  I’m assuming that she does.

She also calls herself a “Queen” throughout her entire blog post.  To make it even worse, she transfers the blame to the man at the end of the post by saying, “Jake was never fit to be My King”.  She’s making it seem like there was something wrong with him instead of her.  It sounds like “Professional Victim Syndrome” to me.

http://misstnking.com/2014/12/29/the-new-side-chick-i-was-her/

 

[– Deleted on Request –Spectator 936]

So a King already recognizes the value of a Queen?  Does that mean that she’s not required to put any effort into the relationship?  It seems like someone is suffering from an excessive sense of entitlement.

 

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Women are very sloppy when they use the word “QUEEN” in a sentence to describe herself – or treatment she expects. The reason women love to demand to be “treated like a Queen” is because they think a man should be one of her subjects. But only a KING decides who is fit to be Queen and if HE was displeased, it was “off with her head”.

…. are you SURE you still want to be treated like a QUEEN, honey?

I got no problem with that. I will f~~~ing decide if you’re a queen and if I decide that you’re not, you will get the f~~~ out.

But in a woman’s mind, being treated like a Queen is thinking you are one of her SUBJECTS.
It’s important to correct her.

When women realize what “being treated like a Queen” actually means, they won’t be so quick to demand it.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Smacktalk73Participant 296]

I have to say, I kinda feel for this woman, because I have a couple “side chicks” who I am constantly negotiating with.  One is completely in the game, and more sophisticated than me.  The other, I know, has a level of hurt that comes in part with being a decent person who has been played by guys for quite a while.

It is very important to understand that this sort of “I want a man who pledges his whole life to me … I’m worth it, aren’t I?” perspective is socialized, not something women are born having inside their heads.  The fact is, women are told from a very early age that, if everything works out, they will be a princess/queen.  Men will risk their lives for you; shower you with gifts; literally give you everything you need just because you are beautiful.

It can seem sometimes like women are devious by nature.  After all, they spend so much time distorting their appearance, and acting incredibly passively and in very manipulative ways.  While this is very devious, it is also quite simply taught to women, step-by-step, as the way to act.

Men are taught to beat the crap out of each other, seek out and destroy weakness and opposition.  These are also not things we are necessarily born with, but by the time we enter the adult world we are completely socialized to think this way.

The reason it is important to keep this in perspective is because this stuff all CAN BE UNLEARNED.   Women can, and do, learn to be different from the traditional baby-using money-traps that we have been suckered by.  I know a few.

My cautionary statements are because I really want MGTOW to avoid becoming some sort of pointless “we hate women” flip side of feminism.  There is hope for gender relations.  It does require, in my opinion, a movement like MGTOW.  But that is a means to an end.  Devolving into just mocking or hating/resenting women for the trap they are stuck in (and in a large part, it is a trap too) won’t get us anywhere.

[Aroused By Her AnguishParticipant 343]

I have no sympathy for her, and here’s why.

On November 14, 2014, a girl I was interested in said that she wasn’t “in the ideal state” to have a boyfriend at the moment, but she’s the one who came and started flirting with me.  I didn’t go to her, but i was interested.  On December 18, 2014, she began a relationship with someone else.  Why would she have done that if she wasn’t “in the ideal state”?  She is the second girl who did that to me in 2014.  This same thing has been happening to me over the past 16 years!  These women expect me to wait while they mess around and/or seek out other men.

In the blog post above, the same thing happened, but the roles were reversed.  These girls treat guys like that all of the time, so I have no sympathy for a woman when she gets a dose of her own medicine, especially when a lot of women call me a jerk or selfish dirtbag when I refuse to take on another man’s children.  I don’t hate women.  I just don’t treat them any differently than I treat men.

[YinmarenParticipant 27]

I’m sorry to say that you’ve been manipulated even further than you think. Those women don’t want a relationship with you. Those women want you think that they do, so you will chase them, give them the attention they require, to get anything they can from you (a drink, dinner, flowers, etc) and, when they are done with you, will spit out the tired “Oh… I thought we were just good friends” line.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Yeah, pretty much that. When a female tells you “I’m not looking for a relationship” what she’s really saying is “I’m not attracted to you but I think I can get some time, attention and money out of you so go ahead and give it your best shot”. I had a female play this card with me just last year… I invited her over for drinks and made my move anyway… got about a half hour of steamy makeouts before I gave in to the inevitable and sent her home.

Second base was obviously as far as she was willing to go with me to get what she thought I was worth and so we were done as I certainly wasn’t going to keep trying to sweeten the pot to get the yes I knew was never coming.

So next time a female tells you she’s not attracted to you, make your Hail Mary play and then walk off the field knowing you did all you could. After that, forget about her and move on to the next one. You do not want or need to know anything more about her and what she’s doing with other guys, I promise you. When I found out the kind of guys the abovementioned female actually IS attracted to, I nearly threw up. Honestly, if someone is not into you, you really will NOT be into them. Whatever you might think you want from them is really just coming from frustration or a fantasy that you’re better off walking away from than forcing reality to shatter for you.

Get that busted ass airplane off the runway so that the next one has a clear landing path.

[Aroused By Her AnguishParticipant 343]

In the two cases from 2014, I didn’t chase after either one or ask either one out. They both came to me and expressed interest. I didn’t give them gifts at all. The only mistake I made is that I gave them a BUNCH of my time, and I regret that. I could have spent that time studying or doing research, but I wasted my time with them. The first girl even had the nerve to tell me the following: “I’m not really attracted to this guy, but he’s very fun to be with. When I’m done with him, I’ll go to you because I trust you and I want to be in a long-term relationship with you.” That’s about the time I started ignoring her. I couldn’t believe it. She said it like she was doing ME a favor by making me her last option. She seriously expected me to “wait” for her. I’ve ceased all communication with her. The guy ended up pumping and dumping her. She tried to throw herself at me after that, but I was just too disgusted. She’s now “in a relationship” with some other guy, but I’m sure she did it to try to make me fight for her. I just told her “congratulations” and I moved on.

In my younger years, I do admit that I was guilty of showering these types of women with gifts. These days, I’m guilty of wasting too much time with them. I’m also guilty of listening to their “sob stories”. I really need to work on those two issues. I’m learning a lot from this forum, and I’m grateful that it’s here.

[SquatchParticipant 22]

As soon as I hear that she wants me to wait, I only need two words.

NAW BITCH!

[Turkey_VultureParticipant 5]

Women are unable to take risks; men must take risks in order to survive.

They will play the field until it suits them (which means eliminating the risk of rejection).

My ex of nearly nine years played the field at her little Salsa dancing classes and didn’t pull the trigger on me until she secured the emotional fidelity of the guy she is now married to and has a kid with.

I always kept hearing from the girl and her mum, “You are JUST like my dad/husband (depending on the speaker)!”

Like her dad, I am a musician.  Like her dad, I am independent.  Like her dad, I like to have a good time.  Like her dad, I sometimes stay out a little late.  Like her dad, I drive a classic car…hobbyist…etc…

The mum could not control her musician husband.  My ex could not control me either.  What I believe happened is that her mum poisoned my ex’s mind and encouraged her to look for a more pliable jellyfish-man to keep their domestic tranquility.  The funny thing is that her mum was the one who encouraged us to be together.  Now I am stronger and more FREE than ever.  I bet my ex’s current husband has his dick in a JAR.

 

Freedom Forever Mates!  VASECTOMIES FOR ALL!

[SquatchParticipant 22]

I might be getting one, especially if my insurance covers it…. $450.00 for no more kids, please and thanks, and I’m not telling the LD girlfriend either… oops.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Take it for a man who had it done… couldn’t wait to have it done… it’s literally the best gift I have ever given myself. If you know that you do not want children and you accept the fact that every woman who sees you as a potential provider is going to try to get knocked up by you (and that risk only increases as you get older and more successful) then you owe it to yourself to buy this cheap peace of mind.

Really, the look on a female’s face when she realizes you can’t be tricked into paying her way is priceless. I’d have gladly paid for that vasectomy at 10 times the price.

Come on over to Las Vegas and get a cheap one done and I’ll buy you a drink. F~~~, I’ll make that offer to every single man on this site. Come get a vasectomy in Las Vegas and I’ll take you to Frankie’s Tiki Room or Hogs and Heiffers and we’ll celebrate your freedom with the drinks on me!

[Ravengade7Participant 14]

Don’t bring these girls into your house either, because she will start making rules for you and forcing you to compromise. As soon as she does that, grab her by her hair and show her the f~~~ing door. I would.

[jambearParticipant 282]

@docfenderson

I did not know you where from Las Vegas Doc! I am a resident myself, hell I have even been to Frank’s Tiki Room.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Yep, going on my third year in Las Vegas now and happier here than I have ever been. Frankie’s is cool but I don’t smoke and the acidic drinks are trying to wreck my stomach so I can only take the place in small doses.

There’s an old joke among Discordians that we should wear a beer can pull tab on a chain around our necks so that if we see each other in public we can avoid each other. The idea being that one Discordian is dangerous enough but two or more together can cause real social turmoil (kind of the opposite of Christians wearing crosses so that they can know each other and congregate).

I suspect MGTOW is closer to the Discordian side… two MGTOW in a bar attempting to speak freely about their beliefs could start a gender riot.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

This is just the standard shock they go in to when they’re told nobody wants their vagina whether it be from The Wall, s~~~ty attitude, etc.

Fuck this planet.

[Big Viking Chef BVCParticipant 1286]

“Off with her head.”  LOL Keymaster.

You made my beer come out of my nose with that one!

 

 

BVC

Swallow this RED PILL ===> Men will lay down their lives for their brothers, their women and their children. This makes Men useful as slaves. Women will lay down their lives for ONLY their children. To expect more from women is just a FANTASY created by society and reinforced by the unconditional love that we experienced from our Mothers. The key to freedom is the understanding that the woman you meet is not going to fantastically love you like your Mother did. If you buy into the fantasy, then she is your new master. If you do not buy into the fantasy, then she is nothing, and you retain your freedom.

[NewFunnyMoneyParticipant 54]

Women are like monkeys, they will never let go the the branch they are holding until they are sure the branch they are reaching for is secure.

[Anonymous 5]

I had that situation several times. Start going out with a chick, she gets mad I break up with her, so she f~~~s one of friends. I congratulated them every single time and wished them the best. Then I moved on with life while they cried/got even MORE upset that I didn’t have a care in the world.

[Aroused By Her AnguishParticipant 343]

Haha! You know what. The one who I told “Congratulations” to contacted me again 3 days ago. She was bad-mouthing her boyfriend and calling him a “Manchild”. I asked her to define “Manchild”. She said that he’s like a child trapped in a grown man’s body; immature. She then indirectly asked me to visit her. I indirectly declined.

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