So, there was a female that I used to deal with a few years ago. We used to hang out regularly, but she disappeared for a few years and recently popped back up into the picture.
Back during the time we used to hang out together, she would mention all the time about how smart I was and how much further ahead I should be in life and how I should have a house on the ritziest side of town and how I should be driving a luxury car.
These “you’re so smart” comments were made on the premise of me already having a really good job and I was working on getting all of my ducks in a row and cleaning up my life (financially) from stupid female driven decisions I made in my 20s. Also, I was already MGTOW at the time I was dealing with this particular female and was doing things on my own accord as far as getting my life together because I knew my situation better than anyone else and if it didn’t make sense, I didn’t do it.
Since I lived in a decent apartment, she didn’t push the house thing as much, but she really pushed the idea of me having a luxury car. When I mentioned to her that I didn’t think it made sense to drive a luxury car while living in an apartment, her response was something to the effect of “everyone needs reliable transportation”. I am shaking my head as I type this out………
Anyway, I continued to stay in my apartment and kept driving my old car with over 350,000 miles on it and it broke down on me one weekend and in addition to this, I had issues with my pickup truck so I couldn’t drive either of my vehicles. We had plans to meet up for dinner that weekend and I sent her a text asking her to come pick me up because both of my vehicles had issues. Needless to say, I never got a response from her and in addition to this, she disappeared for good after mentioning both of my vehicles had problems.
I ended up reaching out to a mutual friend (another female) to come pick me up so that I could go to the auto parts store to get the parts I needed to get my car up and going while I was waiting on the part to come in for my truck. The mutual friend came over and took me everywhere I needed to go. The mutual friend pointed out how that particular female was on the shallow side and was all about guys with money and status (even though she didn’t have it herself).
Well, time passed and I got another job………and this one was the one that put me into the big leagues as far as my career was/is concerned. I finally got rid of the old car I had (as I had privately planned to do so) and bought a brand new car. Still wasn’t a luxury car, but it was a nice one. And I bought another used car as a daily driver to keep the miles off my new car. I somehow think the mutual friend mentioned all of this to her at some point because the mutual friend had a relative that had been at the company for over 20 years and she also saw how things progressed with me over the years.
Fast forward a few years and out of the blue, that same aforementioned mutual friend sent me a text stating that the female I used to hang out with wanted me to call her because she needed a favor dealing with one of my areas of expertise.
The mutual friend thought that I wouldn’t want to talk to the chic, but I went on and told the mutual friend to send me her number and I called the chic. So, after getting in touch with this chic, she told me her sob story about taking in her ex that got out of jail (presumably an ex drug dealer) and how she lost everything behind her ex (including her business), had health issues as a result of depression, having to start over again, has bad credit as a result of her ex, etc.
Since I knew I wasn’t going to do anything with her anyway due to the stunt she pulled when both of my vehicles had broken down a few years back, I went on and stayed in touch with her. And this is extremely petty on my part, but I knew I was about to make some moves, so I wanted to keep her around and underhandedly rub it in her face a bit to see what happens………
Last week, she reached out to me for another favor (she paid me and took me to dinner afterwards) and during the course of talking to her, I mentioned that I was in the process of closing on a house in the city and after I close on that house in the city, I’m going to be buying a few acres out in the country and eventually make that my off grid weekend getaway. Side note: I’ll be posting on this in another thread later on.
While we were riding out for me to do what I agreed to do, I offered to show her the house in the city that I’m closing on, so I took her by the house and her mouth fell open and her whole attitude changed (I think the 3 car garage might have done it), so I already had an idea of what was going through her mind.
Fast forward to earlier this week, I got a text asking if I needed boxes and help packing my stuff. Mind you, this chic has never offered to help me on anything and left my ass hanging before getting back in contact with her. At this point, (in my mind) she is clearly plotting to make a move to find herself as a permanent fixture inside of my new house, but that s~~~ sure as hell isn’t going to happen with her or anyone for that matter.
Out of curiosity, I’m just going to play naïve and see how far she’ll go for something that she had nothing to do with acquiring. She has absolutely nothing to offer me and is phonier than the real “faux” pearls they used to show on TV. This, I know to be fact.
I don’t have a reason for posting this other than to provide more proof about what everyone else on here already knows and has been saying for years.
Knights Templar Rising 4 years, 7 months ago.
