A rule that changes the way I deal with people and girls in general

[Enjoy The DeclineParticipant 1719]

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“Law 10: INFECTION: AVOID THE UNHAPPY AND UNLUCKY ”

“You can die from someone else’s misery—emotional states are as infectious as diseases. You may feel you are helping the drowning man but you are only precipitating your own disaster. The unfortunate sometimes draw misfortune on themselves; they will also draw it on you. Associate with the happy and fortunate instead”

Man, what an eye opener. I wished that I knew this rule a long time ago, because there was a point in my life in my past that I wanted to help EVERYBODY, even the ones that are unfortunate and unhappy. But the thing is is that those same people who are unfortunate and unhappy don’t even do much to deal with their situation and then you see a person like me trying to do most of the work in figuring things out for them on what they could do about it. I am not saying that I don’t help unfortunate and unhappy people anymore, but I would not do it to the extent that I did in the past.

I could just see guys trying to “save a hoe” though and then you see them going into quick sand because they did not follow this rule that I pointed out. What do you guys think about this?

"Question everything" - Albert Einstein

[RoyDalParticipant]

So The 48 Laws of Power has a blog spot. What a pleasant surprise! Thanks for posting it.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Enjoy The DeclineParticipant 1719]

Bunkermode, the thing is that there are people out there who try to make you feel sorry for them as a form of manipulation. In your case, they just pressured you to do it. It is the state that makes you feel sorry for them that can even go as far as to bring you in a depression if the relationship you have with that person is very deep. Usually, these people do not even do anything about their situation though, which is why this state of mind can become permanent if you are still around them all the time. It is funny that now you do not give a f*ck by all the pressuring that you are dealing with in your life and I commend you for it. But it is not like if you are manipulated because you wanted to. But you had to because of social pressures. I still gave you a thumb up for your story though.

"Question everything" - Albert Einstein

[Enjoy The DeclineParticipant 1719]

RoyDal wrote:

So The 48 Laws of Power has a blog spot. What a pleasant surprise! Thanks for posting it.

Yeah, it was the blog that I learned about the book. Glad that you are pleased about it.

"Question everything" - Albert Einstein

[OhnoParticipant 668]

I already knew how to become a smiling elbow before, but i chose not to be.

Are you willing to sacrifice your soul for “success”?

Those 48 laws are suggesting to be an opportunistic asshole, sucking up to the boss, while kicking downwards.

If you choose this path, then you lost all rights to complain about our world being run by sociopaths, because you are joining them.

Stick to what is good and right even though its not going to make you look good or rich.
Its not worth it!

[Enjoy The DeclineParticipant 1719]

Ohno wrote:

If you choose this path, then you lost all rights to complain about our world being run by sociopaths, because you are joining them.

Stick to what is good and right even though its not going to make you look good or rich.
Its not worth it!

I only use this book as a way to defend myself against the schemes that the sociopaths use. To me, the best form of defense is awareness sometimes.

"Question everything" - Albert Einstein

[OhnoParticipant 668]

Enjoy The Decline wrote:

I only use this book as a way to defend myself against the schemes that the sociopaths use. To me, the best form of defense is awareness sometimes.

perfect!

[BeeParticipant 700]

It took me 40 years to figure out… trying to solicit sympathy is manipulation.

By slay fb you mean facebook?

[BeeParticipant 700]

Fb – facebook?

[Enjoy The DeclineParticipant 1719]

Bee wrote:

Fb – facebook?

I don’t think he is online right now but I think so. I seen people say facebook as “FB” in the past though at least. I have actually read articles that say that social media sort of makes you feel more blue because you see how everyone else has a better life than yourself. But anyways., that is a whole different topic all together.

"Question everything" - Albert Einstein

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Enjoy The Decline wrote:

people who are unfortunate and unhappy don’t even do much to deal with their situation and then you see a person like me trying to do most of the work in figuring things out for them on what they could do about it

This sounds like it may be an example of “caretaking” behavior. Basically, when you put someone else’s well-being before your own. This is destructive because you’re letting your own needs/wants go unfulfilled; you’re basically sacrificing yourself for others.

I very much think it’s healthier to take care of my own needs/wants first. Then i can go do volunteer work in a 3rd world country or whatever.

@BunkerMode makes it short & sweet above (can’t quote it for some reason so i’ll paraphrase) “Putting that line in the MGTOW sand”.

[HitmanParticipant]

it’s o.k.to be selfish .when you’re a child you’re taught to share
then you find out about the ” users ” who will bleed you dry..
i stay away from ” drama ” as much as possible..it DOES rub off , then you’re having a bad day..
“emotional vampires” are people who take and take until they transfer their bad vibes over to YOU !
most women are in fact ” emotional vampires ” ! ..take away messege ..STAY AWAY !

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