A relationship will help me live longer

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2097]

Had an interesting conversation with one of my post wall dancing acquaintances, who admittedly has a good job, but was clearly applying the female 80/20 rule to online dating. I was saying how recently there were three women i was going to meet up with but changed my mind on as too old, too grumpy or possessing the personality of a plank of wood. I also have a semi-stalker ex who periodically texts me to let me know she still wants to shag me and her door (legs) still open.

Anyway this woman proceeded to ignore what I was saying quot ing the supposed research that marriage makes men live longer and men need women. I said a bad marriage leads to an early death and that women “need” men. I know it’s pointless arguing with women, as Barbarossa and Stardusk have said, though Sandman seems to enjoy it. They have this absolute divorce from reality. This woman clearly wants a man but has no clue she is bargain basement seeking a sports car. Social media has made most women’s basic social/conversational abilities worse too. Women themselves make it very easy not to want to interact or even f~~~ them anymore.

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[Anonymous 3]

DanceMyOwnWay wrote:

I know it’s pointless arguing with women, as Barbarossa and Stardusk have said, though Sandman seems to enjoy it. They have this absolute divorce from reality.

You are too kind. It is not that they are divorced from reality, it is their only intention to reshape YOUR VIEW OF REALTY to one that better suits them.

[Manspread MansplainerParticipant 4222]

Should cite for her the numerous studies proving sperm contains pheromones that cure a females depression.
women need men… to splooge in their mouths.

If women ran the world = It would become the shithole you are seeing.

[JB BooksParticipant 3182]

Women tend to get regular checkups a lot more than men, so married men will tend to get regular checkups more than single guys. I’d guess that a lot more single guys die from preventable things like colo-rectal cancer then married guys do. The lesson here is that single guys need to take care of themselves a little better. I know that I do, and suspect that guys in the MGTOW movemen in general also do.

We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

DanceMyOwnWay wrote:

Anyway this woman proceeded to ignore what I was saying quot ing the supposed research that marriage makes men live longer and men need women.

Ask her why monks live longer than married men.

The whole “married men live longer” canard is a perfect example of how to lie with statistics because it includes some very blatant sampling bias. The “unmarried men” category includes all those men who died before ever even having the opportunity to marry, thereby pulling the average artificially down. In other words, a high school kid run over by a bus at age sixteen gets counted with the “unmarried men” as does the two year old boy with leukemia.

The truth is that when you compare apples to apples by looking only at, say, forty year old men, a never married forty year old man has the longest life expectancy, followed by a married man, followed by divorced men (whose numbers are artificially lowered by all the suicides – and who also get lumped in with unmarried men in the crappy statistics cited by ignorant women).

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

DanceMyOwnWay wrote:

Had an interesting conversation with one of my post wall dancing acquaintances

DanceMyOwnWay wrote:

Anyway this woman proceeded to ignore what I was saying

Considering that she was ignoring what you were saying it appears as you each had a monologue as compared to a conversation.

Personally, I have found it a WATE of time trying to logically exchange idea with MOST women, and if I do end up in a pointless conversation with some HO that has no bearing upon my life it’s easier to just agree with her nonsense as I WALK AWAY grinning and laughing.

WHY WASTE YOUR TIME ??

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[The man in the mountainParticipant 4102]

Live longer? who wants that?, go to a home and watch those poor bastards turn on their beds everyday hoping God will take them away on that day, you have to be careful what you wish for man.

Besides everything in this world gets sick, grows old, struggles and then dies, this world has enough s~~~ going for it no need to perpetuate more suffering or equate suffering to living a decent life, one must step back from the show and watch it for a distance, it will humble yourself and it will show you just how much you get caught up with things.

For all of my life i sat back and smiled as a spectator, watching humans destroy and denigrate themselves and others, i surely believe i am not human inside because i never fell for the system of programming instead i always laughed when people tried to brainwash me into nice ideals or propaganda.

[BoarParticipant]

Live longer? To what end? I am not surprised by this ‘dogma’ being presented by females: parasites don’t want the host to die.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[HermitParticipant]

Awakened wrote:

DanceMyOwnWay wrote:

Had an interesting conversation with one of my post wall dancing acquaintances

DanceMyOwnWay wrote:

Anyway this woman proceeded to ignore what I was saying

Considering that she was ignoring what you were saying it appears as you each had a monologue as compared to a conversation.
Personally, I have found it a WATE of time trying to logically exchange idea with MOST women, and if I do end up in a pointless conversation with some HO that has no bearing upon my life it’s easier to just agree with her nonsense as I WALK AWAY grinning and laughing.
WHY WASTE YOUR TIME ??

Yep, whatever ideas they have in their heads are imbedded in concrete and, much like talking with a child, it’s best not to try to talk intelligently with them.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Im single/not looking…which affords time to eat right, exercise and enjoy quiet…Im going to live to 90. My married-with-kids-brother is pulling his grey hair out and has a tire round his waist, poor guy.

sidecar wrote:

a never married forty year old man has the longest life expectancy, followed by a married man, followed by divorced men (whose numbers are artificially lowered by all the suicides

Live Long and Prosper

[TaxGuyParticipant]

sidecar wrote:

Ask her why monks live longer than married men.

The whole “married men live longer” canard is a perfect example of how to lie with statistics because it includes some very blatant sampling bias. The “unmarried men” category includes all those men who died before ever even having the opportunity to marry, thereby pulling the average artificially down. In other words, a high school kid run over by a bus at age sixteen gets counted with the “unmarried men” as does the two year old boy with leukemia.

The truth is that when you compare apples to apples by looking only at, say, forty year old men, a never married forty year old man has the longest life expectancy, followed by a married man, followed by divorced men (whose numbers are artificially lowered by all the suicides – and who also get lumped in with unmarried men in the crappy statistics cited by ignorant women).

I also think that they underestimate the value of just having a roommate. If you start feeling a heart attack in the middle of the night, you can yell out to a roommate where you may not be able to dial 911. Could help explain why monks live the longest. No women, but they do live together and take care of each other.

Order the good wine

[MonkParticipant 16995]

Uh … how exactly do you communicate with someone who inhabits an alternate reality?

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

TaxGuy wrote:

If you start feeling a heart attack in the middle of the night, you can yell out to a roommate where you may not be able to dial 911.

Never married men have fewer heart attacks too.

[Vajra VarahaParticipant 1284]

I’m not sure that myth is valid. I see plenty of men who are single and manage their own needs well. But if I draw the line between red pill and blue pill, I don’t see too many red pills compared to the hordes of blue pills….

[narwhalParticipant]

I bet there are also states that show that men with no dependents (children or wife) are much more willing to take life threating risks. How many men say they won’t get a motorcycle, or whatever risky behavior they want to do, because wife says no?

But on the specific conversation, I find it funny that this woman is using the general stat as a reason to date and marry her specifically. Can you imagine if a man did that?

You should marry me because kids raised with two parents have a higher chance of being helpful and successful.

Are you saying I’m a bad mother, that I can’t raise a child on my own? You chauvinist pig!

Ok. Then do it.

[SESQUI ano estParticipant 2535]

Even if the statistics weren’t skewed would you really want to be married and hate every minute of your life or be single, love and enjoy life, and die a few years earlier?

One year well lived while single is equivalent to and better than five married years.

Everyday above ground is a good one. Everyday above ground while single...better still.

[Anonymous 38]

DanceMyOwnWay wrote:

Had an interesting conversation with one of my post wall dancing acquaintances, who admittedly has a good job, but was clearly applying the female 80/20 rule to online dating. I was saying how recently there were three women i was going to meet up with but changed my mind on as too old, too grumpy or possessing the personality of a plank of wood. I also have a semi-stalker ex who periodically texts me to let me know she still wants to shag me and her door (legs) still open.
Anyway this woman proceeded to ignore what I was saying quot ing the supposed research that marriage makes men live longer and men need women. I said a bad marriage leads to an early death and that women “need” men. I know it’s pointless arguing with women, as Barbarossa and Stardusk have said, though Sandman seems to enjoy it. They have this absolute divorce from reality. This woman clearly wants a man but has no clue she is bargain basement seeking a sports car. Social media has made most women’s basic social/conversational abilities worse too. Women themselves make it very easy not to want to interact or even f~~~ them anymore.

No. It completely depends on the person. For the person who can’t stand to be alone, the perpetual blue piller – yes, a relations~~~ will probably make you live longer. But for men of our ilk, men who value truth, integrity, peace, etc, it most definitely will reduce our lives.

[HermitParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

No. It completely depends on the person. For the person who can’t stand to be alone, the perpetual blue piller – yes, a relations~~~ will probably make you live longer. But for men of our ilk, men who value truth, integrity, peace, etc, it most definitely will reduce our lives.

I was very healthy before I got married. After being married for so long, my health went far downhill. Without going into detail, I am still very unhealthy after that marriage. I’m slowly getting better, but I’m far from the healthy man I was before marriage.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

a relationship will help you live longer. a relationship with your doctor, personal trainer, accountant, etc.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3767]

The man in the mountain wrote:

Live longer? who wants that?, go to a home and watch those poor bastards turn on their beds everyday hoping God will take them away on that day, you have to be careful what you wish for man.
Besides everything in this world gets sick, grows old, struggles and then dies, this world has enough s~~~ going for it no need to perpetuate more suffering or equate suffering to living a decent life, one must step back from the show and watch it for a distance, it will humble yourself and it will show you just how much you get caught up with things.
For all of my life i sat back and smiled as a spectator, watching humans destroy and denigrate themselves and others, i surely believe i am not human inside because i never fell for the system of programming instead i always laughed when people tried to brainwash me into nice ideals or propaganda.

I love reading posts like this. Thanks, Man In The Mountain.

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