A really dumb decision I made at 16

[sachx1Participant 82]

Alright guys, so I want to share this story that happened when I was 16 which started when I was 14. One dude thought it was cool to set me up with a girl back in grade 9. I didnt know what the girl looked like, nor did i know her at all. Apparently she really liked me but I didnt like her at all. This girl tried to get me to date her at various times of my grade 9 year, I kept saying no. Grade 10 same issue. Note: back then I was a major blue piller from grade 9 – 11. However grade 11 came, and for some reason I decided to message her. All of a sudden things escalted quickly, she started sending me nudes on snapchat. At the age of 16, I was not used to this and felt very sexually aroused. So i sent her a picture of my private part on snapchat. And I was caught in lust so hard that I sent a pic on facebook to her. One time I screenshotted a snapchat of her nude. She immediately told me to delete it. I lied saying I did. After a couple of days of this, I realized that this was only Lust and me feeling bad for all those times I said no. So i decided to tell the truth and she got p~~~ed and threatened to expose me. I pleaded her not too. After a day or two she said she wouldnt expose me and continued to like my pictures on instagram etc. This all happened back in january of 2015; after this day I knew how dangerous women can be and how stupid I can be. Fast forward 2017, i’m still kinda paranoid that she might expose me and stuff. Do you guys think she will expose me or do you think she got over it?

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

sachx1 wrote:

do you think she got over it?

Surprisingly, as stupid as women are they have very long memories and they are always out to get back at someone.

[joetechParticipant]

Don’t ever p~~~ her off, and don’t let her know what you’re up to ever again. You’ll probably fade from her memory, unless you become rich AND famous.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[sachx1Participant 82]

PistolPete wrote:

sachx1 wrote:

do you think she got over it?

Surprisingly, as stupid as women are they have very long memories and they are always out to get back at someone.

But the thing is that she got a boyfriend after me tho. I hope nothing happened to him

[sachx1Participant 82]

joetech wrote:

Don’t ever p~~~ her off, and don’t let her know what you’re up to ever again. You’ll probably fade from her memory, unless you become rich AND famous.

That’s exactly what I’ve been doing I’ve been laying low and I don’t message her anymore

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Advice: Excise her from your world.

[sachx1Participant 82]

PistolPete wrote:

Advice: Excise her from your world.

Yea I deleted her off snap chat and set my privacy to friends only and fixed my privacy settings on Instagram so she can’t see my pics

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

sachx1 wrote:

This all happened back in january of 2015

I think you will be OK. Plus you still have the goods on her I assume? My concern at this point is you getting hit with a child porn charge if you still do have he pics. You have learned a very valuable lesson. But, enough time has passed that this will not be back to bother you.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Well that is a fine start but what I was suggesting is a bit more comprehensive. Don’t think about her; don’t even remember her. Make it as though she never existed. Purge her from your mind and life. She is not even a ghost, or a shadow, she never was.

[Anonymous 12]

Aww Jeysus!

I would say she can still mess up your world by somehow claim to have been harassed, so my advice is the same:
Lay low, stealth, ghost, vanish.

While she technically might have you by the b~~~~, i am happy to read you have acted out of Lust and being a Horny toad.
you RECOGNIZE the reason why you did it, you FOUND your own Weak spot.

A great tool to reduce this weakness, especially below the age of 35, is to rub one out every morning before interacting with dem C~~~s.
I tended to do it once more in the late afternoon after school, when i had my fair share of ass and t~~~ in my Field of view all day long.
Just calming down, keeping the hormones in check.

[AutoliteParticipant]

I see the social media thing as a total liability. Just being on an online forum is bad enough. Everything you post anywhere online stays there forever and the whole world will see it.

I’m not sure that everyone understands this…

[sachx1Participant 82]

@market~~~cher nah I dont have her pics cause when the whole thing happened I was thinking about that same conviction, so i deleted it. So does that mean that if she still has my pics she could potientially get in legal trouble if she does decide to expose me? @pistolpete yea thats what im gonna do, im gonna start meditation to calm down my conscious and try to get rid of her from my mind

[sachx1Participant 82]

Anonymous wrote:

Aww Jeysus!

I would say she can still mess up your world by somehow claim to have been harassed, so my advice is the same:
Lay low, stealth, ghost, vanish.

While she technically might have you by the b~~~~, i am happy to read you have acted out of Lust and being a Horny toad.
you RECOGNIZE the reason why you did it, you FOUND your own Weak spot.

A great tool to reduce this weakness, especially below the age of 35, is to rub one out every morning before interacting with dem C~~~s.
I tended to do it once more in the late afternoon after school, when i had my fair share of ass and t~~~ in my Field of view all day long.
Just calming down, keeping the hormones in check.

yea man i f~~~ed up hard, I dont talk to her anymore nor do I associate myself with anyone who is even remotely related to her

[sachx1Participant 82]

Autolite wrote:

I see the social media thing as a total liability. Just being on an online forum is bad enough. Everything you post anywhere online stays there forever and the whole world will see it.

I’m not sure that everyone understands this…

Yea ik, but this forum is a forum strictly for men, shes the type of girl that in the event that she would this forum she would find it disgusting and never come back to it.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

sachx1 wrote:

So does that mean that if she still has my pics she could potientially get in legal trouble if she does decide to expose me

Bingo!! You are much smarter than you give yourself credit for. You have nothing to worry about. She outs you then it’s her ass.

[sachx1Participant 82]

@market~~~cher phew! thats a relief thanks for the great advice, this has been on my chest for a long time; the fact I can finally get it off my chest with good people like u guys is great. Truly grateful for the support! and thank you for everyone who gave me their insight; much appreciated!

[WallyParticipant]

Go Knobi and hide on Tantonee

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

sachx1 wrote:

after this day I knew how dangerous women can be and how stupid I can be

Remember, a woman is only dangerous after you do something stupid.

Age is critical issue.
When you cross 18 in USA, you are an adult. You no longer get a chance.

When it is said to remove from social media it doesn’t mean this site.

As a boy transitioning to a man your actions can and will be held against you. Facebook, Instagram, twitter, etc are all potential bad actions. They should be eliminated.

If you do anything it should be anonymous. Like this site. And still, everything could go bad but it is a smaller risk.

That one mistake you made may have been the best mistake of your life.

It woke you up. Bodes well for you.

Peace brothers

[sachx1Participant 82]

DorkShit wrote:

sachx1 wrote:

after this day I knew how dangerous women can be and how stupid I can be

Remember, a woman is only dangerous after you do something stupid.

Age is critical issue.
When you cross 18 in USA, you are an adult. You no longer get a chance.

When it is said to remove from social media it doesn’t mean this site.

As a boy transitioning to a man your actions can and will be held against you. Facebook, Instagram, twitter, etc are all potential bad actions. They should be eliminated.

If you do anything it should be anonymous. Like this site. And still, everything could go bad but it is a smaller risk.

That one mistake you made may have been the best mistake of your life.

It woke you up. Bodes well for you.

Yea man it really did wake me up, and yea i’m actually considering deleting my instagram, aleady deleted my twitter ages ago. But the thing with facebook is that I dont really post anything, I dont even have the facebook app on my phone, I only use messenger. Snapchat for me is a different thing. Since you can set the privacy to friends only I really only talk to around 7 or 8 people, 3 of those are close friends and the rest are family. However, I can see how it can still be a potiential danger for us men out there, one stupid post and that’s it

[AstroParticipant 2045]

NEVER underestimate the power of a woman scorned! Get away from her and hope she does not follow through because she is vicious!

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