We rightly credit women with great cunning but actually we often credit them with more than they have. We say “she played me, she set out with a plan and once she secured me she changed to her natural self. This is true in some blatant cases but in others actually she was being herself all along. They genuinely get all misty eyed and also all horny for a man they think will give them better. Women always want better. When they are seeing better they will naturally become what is needed to secure better. They are just following their nature. They are creatures of instinct more than brains, we have always known this. This also plays out in the unicorn thing. It is hard to act for weeks and months straight. I don’t actually think they are all acting, the best ones are just being themselves. this is why it is so hard for men to see through them. They really are unicorns when better is on offer. They can’t help it any more than they can help stopping being unicorns when the security is secured and better may now be elsewhere.
Yep. I agree with this take. Principles are hard. Not just for women, but for men as well. We look at a situation from the outside and like to think we understand it and know how we’ll behave when we are in that situation ourselves, but we don’t know. A man can envision himself as a good manager, a leader of men. But then when he is asked to lead, the pressure may surprise him, and he may find that the right decisions are not as clear as they looked from the outside. He may find that he can’t motivate people as well as he thought he could, or that it just takes more effort then he really thought he’d have to give.
I think the same goes for women when it comes to marriage. There are clearly some that plan on abusing the institution for the start, or are complete idiots about it all. However, I think a lot of women think they can control events. They believe that they will handle stresses better, or that it just won’t happen to them. They don’t realize that when you remove all the pressure to behave well, it suddenly becomes a lot harder to behave well. They don’t realize being a mother isn’t like owning a pet. They don’t realize that you’re husband isn’t going to change in the ways that you imagine he was.
In this way, I don’t blame women. I can’t fully say I would do much better under the same circumstances. However, what drives me, besides my own honor and logic, are the consequences of my actions. I work because I need the money. I behave in my relations with others because I know they may end if I don’t. But women, the government, has removed so many consequences to a woman’s actions. She has no help in keeping with her principles. She can justify it all with no consequences.
So unicorns, I think they can exist when their are real consequences to actions, the same as good men existing. But, in a way, it’s unfair to women to treat them like children, unable to deal with the consequences of their actions. Marry a woman? If she is a good woman, the best way to mess her up is to marry her.
Boar 1 year, 3 months ago.
