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Governor Megachris% 3 years, 10 months ago.
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So I wrote a few weeks ago about a girl that was leading me on and telling me she still loved me even though she couldn’t trust me because I was “flirting with other girls online” (despite the fact that I was single and just “talking” to this girl about seeing her). She said she couldn’t meet me because she was scared to, simply because she “loved me too much.” Yet as of late, she has told me she’s accepted the offer of TWO men that are wanting to see HER. She has a problem with seeing me, yet NO PROBLEM seeing these guys. She says they’re “just friends” and that they’re “more mature than that.”
Anyway, this isn’t about her, but I needed to rant on that because it still annoys me. She texts me literally every day telling me “I love you” even though I don’t respond.
There’s another girl that’s a super hot blonde I’ve been talking to. We’ve talked for about a month and a half every day and she’s grown pretty close to me. She and I have very similar hobbies and personalities. She’s from Tennessee though. She has agreed to come drive down here to Texas to see me in May on the week of my birthday. She could have flown (as she says she makes decent pay as a nurse that works 12 hours a day). However, there’s some things about her that don’t strike me as quite right…
1) We hit it off pretty great in the beginning. She said she liked me a lot and considered me her “best friend.” However, lately she’s been “depressed” and tends to “shut herself off from the world.” Yet, at the same time, she runs a porn blog on Tumblr that she decided to tell me about. Link here. I can’t imagine in my rational mind that she’s NOT social on there and that she’s just “depressed” because she wants a reason to cut me off. If you want to fool around with her and see if she actually responds, I’d actually like to know. Heck, I’d actually really appreciate the “covert operation” help here. She tells me she doesn’t fool around with anyone else and has only talked to two guys in a polite way, but something is telling me otherwise.
2) She refuses to send me any pictures of herself unless it’s on her terms. When we first talked, she’d sent a few. She doesn’t anymore. On the messenger we talk on, she changes her picture every couple of weeks. It’s usually her in some athletic pose (she’s very fit, for that matter). I did a reverse image search on her pictures that’s she’s sent and that she sets as her profile picture, but none come up.
3) When I brought up another girl I knew being a potential “catfish” (person posing as someone they’re not), this girl got really defensive and said “if this is a ploy to see if I’m a catfish, I’m so done.” She NEVER gets upset at me for ANYTHING otherwise, but she REALLY got upset about that.
4) Supposedly she has a stalker ex-boyfriend that’s a “bounty hunter.” She’s afraid of talking about me on her blog because she doesn’t want him finding out because she’s afraid he might try to find her and take her out or something…though at the same time she says she owns a gun and isn’t afraid of him.
5) Related to number 2, she won’t Skype with me, either. I told her “we should sometime!” and she just “read” the message…completely ignored it and messaged me the next day as if I never said it.
6) We’ve talked on the phone before and I’ve made her quite excited…I’ll just say I’ve finished her twice in one night. Was nice, and she said she felt “closer to me” after that night…but yet she’s also now saying that “we’ve not talked about being more than friends.” THEN WHY WOULD SHE DRIVE 18 HOURS OUT OF HER WAY TO SEE ME!?
7) When I ignore her, she gets saddened and hates that I’m “abandoning her.” Yet when she ignores me, I’m “paranoid” when I ask her if everything’s alright or if she’s found someone else (because I REFUSE to be an option). She’s very clingy from what she says. She’s a super submissive type too. I like that kind of thing, I’ve discovered. When we talked on the phone and got all hot and heavy (I’ll not lie, I liked it), she was VERY submissive. I then tried to be more “dominant” if you will. I demanded she Skype me, and she said “I haven’t submitted to you yet, silly.”
So if anyone’s feeling adventurous, feel free to see if you can confirm my red flags by talking to her yourself.
I know this is really stupid of me. It’s very blue piller of me. I’m just a type that gets “paranoid” as the women say and prefer to have my negative feelings confirmed. I try not to chase women and let them chase me.
This is what she looks like in the pictures she’s sent me. If anyone recognizes her as a celebrity of some kind and that she’s screwing with me, let me know ASAP. I need the clarification for my mind’s sake. I knew it was a bad idea to pursue a woman again. I keep screwing up like this, but this one (as the last one) seemed so good.
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Anonymous42Gov MC,,,, RUN! she has trickery written allover her! Can’t you see the drama? Angry X BF looking to rub her out! She’s earmarked with hypergamy! If a chick is interested in you she’ll desire to touch you, and drive 500 miles to do so! Anything less is a carousel ride!
Porn site? Killer X? WTF? Smell the turpentine! F~~~ing RUN!Wow…I gave up counting the red flags at #20…
[facepalm]
but thanks for sharingproud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome
If a chick is interested in you she’ll desire to touch you, and drive 500 miles to do so!
Porn site? Killer X? WTF? Smell the turpentine! F~~~ing RUN!
Heck, she’s talked about running away to over here because Houston is one of the medical capitals of the country and it would further her career…AND she wanted to be around me more. But she’s been wanting to be all over me for a while now, which is why she’s asked off a whole week in May on my vacation week I’m taking (I’d be taking it even if she wasn’t coming because I have some decent plans set).
I’ve ignored her now for the time being, but this kind of thing just drives me nuts.
She’s terrified of her psychotic ex but isn’t afraid to gun him down if he comes after her?
I even mentioned about how I clearly see that to her I’d be “lower status” (not as a dig to myself, but in reality I make HALF the money she does and I can barely afford to take care of myself, meanwhile she’s educated and makes decent pay doing what she does). She said men making less pay than their nurse girlfriends is a NORMAL thing…is it??! LOL I’ve never heard of it!!
even though she couldn’t trust me
LIE. It’s bulls~~~. You can’t MAKE a woman trust you, because trust is not “earned”. And she doesn’t expect anyone else to prove she can trust them either. She will blab every detail of her personal life to perfect strangers on the internet. She will talk about her vagina. Periods. Anal sex. There are no limits.
Don’t fall for that s~~~ from women.
“How do I know I can trust you?”
“You DON’T. You can choose to trust me – or you won’t. Do you ask every person you pass on the street “how do I know you won’t stab me?”??? Of course you don’t because that’s f~~~ing stupid. You blindly trust that drivers in the opposite lane won’t cross those yellow lines and kill you. So don’t expect me to jump through hoops for your trust. Get a puppy for that.”
She can choose to trust you or she can choose not to trust you.
It’s not up to YOU.lately she’s been “depressed”
More bulls~~~.
“I’m depressed”.
“No. You’re depressing. Big difference.”
she has a stalker ex-boyfriend
No she doesn’t.
“I have a stalker”.
“Are you a famous celebrity? No? Then you don’t have a stalker. Get over yourself.”
When a woman loves a man, and he buys a plane ticket to fly and visit her, he is now “the most romantic man in the world”. If she is not in love with him, POOF!! he’s a “stalker”. In both situations, the man has done nothing different – or even wrong!. He merely wants to be with her.
So the line between “complete romantic” and “total stalker” is purely imagined in her head. Explain it to her like that, and snap her the f~~~ out of it.
she’s afraid
Then she should probably go back to playing with her Barbie dolls.
Gov MC,,,, RUN! she has trickery written allover her! Can’t you see the drama?
YES. YES. AND YES.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
Anonymous42^^^^^YES YES AND YES YES!^^^^^
Listen to uncle Keymaster! He can smell s~~~ 50,000 miles away!!! Even in deep space!
Skype with me, either. I told her “we should sometime!” and she just “read” the message…completely ignored it and messaged me the next day as if I never said it.
I agree with the girl on this. NEVER NEVER NEVER chat/communicate with women online. The most you should ever say is “11PM bring da movies” and that’s it.
Women are for hair to smell and boobs to fondle. Not skype s~~~. The ONLY reason to communicate with women online is to get her into the real world AQAP. No conversations. No lengthy texts. No drama typing sessions. No lets get to know each other.
“11PM bring da movies”
Don’t answer any text after that which isn’t “OK!!”
If she doesn’t go for it, who f~~~ing cares.
( Gross over simplification here but you see the point. It’s just to prevent the over-simping. Being suckered into online chats with women is something to avoid, not generate )
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Thanks a ton guys. Needed this as usual.
The whole “Skype” thing was recommended to me by some friends of mine. They said to avoid being faked by a chick who may not be who she says she is.
I’ve been told “if she’s THAT hot and she’s willing to DRIVE to see you, she’s probably NOT the girl in those pictures because she’d HAVE to have a line of men formed outside her door already in town.”
That’s why I asked her to send me a picture or a Skype call. See what I mean? If she can’t PROVE to me she’s who she says she is, why would I want to waste my time anyway?
… why would I want to waste my time anyway?
Only you know the answer.
Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?
If she can’t PROVE to me she’s who she says she is, why would I want to waste my time anyway?
She already did prove it. You don’t need to see a picture. I don’t even need to see one!
Her s~~~ is so transparent it’s not even funny.
Women are not worth all this trouble.The ones who WANT to meet and bang are down to go – RIGHT NOW. There is none of that “I’m afraid”, “I love you but I can’t trust you”, “I have a stalker”, “I’m depressed” horses~~~.
CALL. THEM. OUT. AND LEAVE.
why would I want to waste my time anyway?
You already have just relaying everything to us.
5 minutes of our time can save you 5 hours of yours.…. or 5 years of grief.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Run NOW and never look back EVER.
I swear by my life and my love of it that I will never live for the sake of a woman, nor ask a woman to live for mine.
Jesus tity f~~~ing christ, there’s so many red flags with this girl, just hit the eject button and run away men.
Cut here out completely. Full wall of silence mode.
A blog about sex and bondage and a crazy ex boyfriend?
Are you insane?
RUN FORREST RUN!!!!
5 minutes of our time can save you 5 hours of yours.
…. or 5 years of grief.
Possibly more than 5 years at that. This is why I came to y’all. You guys are great at bringing me right back to reality. That’s what I need.
In all reality, I don’t want to deal with that kind of mess.
I honestly can’t wait until I’m old enough not to care about sex and the desire for physical pleasure. Granted I can get those from paying women, but I hate to waste my money on women in the first place. It’s quite a conundrum for me.
Most chicks online are awful looking, even the ones in my age and YOUNGER (from what I’ve mentioned before). 20-25 year olds with wrinkles and dark circles around their eyes from all the sleeping around (though they claim that sleeping around is supposed to “rejuvenate” their youthfulness…I believe that only to be true in men). So it was admittedly refreshing to see one that was actually ATTRACTIVE for once. Physically attractive, but mentally speaking she’s no different from the land whales and premature corpses online.
It’s quite a conundrum for me.
Women are not the kind thing where “trying harder” or “caring more” makes any difference. Like fishing. Have you ever gone fishing? Sometimes you catch 4 in 30 minutes. Sometimes you get nothing. “Fishing harder” doesn’t make a bit of difference.
refreshing to see one that was actually ATTRACTIVE for once
She’s not attractive. She’s not doing anything “attractive” – or to attract you. She’s a deterrent and “I can’t trust you” is not attractive. Neither is “I’m depressed” and “I have a stalker”.
“Stalker” is a woman trying to convince herself that she is SO DESIRABLE and UNATTAINABLE that a man would engage in “creepy behavior” just to get near her.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.So I’m guessing you are younger guy than my old ass.
Going on 28 in less than 2 months.
The girl mentioned above is supposed to come see me in that time and I was going to get the first bit of action I’ve seen in nearly 2 years. She’s the very “do what you want to me” type to me (though now I wonder how many more people she’s like that with). I just simply can’t believe she’s THAT devoted to me when she doesn’t even consider us DATING or even “talking” NOW out of nowhere. There’s a missing link there somewhere.
My instincts? They tell me she’s found another dude to monkey branch to and is trying to cut me off. Joke’s on her, I broke myself off before she could cut me now. She says she’s “polite.” Yeah, if by “polite” you mean “overly open to any guy.”
“I turned down 2 really good guys for you”, she told me earlier this week. I just can’t believe that for a second.
“I turned down 2 really good guys for you”
“I turned down 2 really good guys for you”
( *rolls eyes* like she’s doing you a FAVOR? )
“For that, I’m bumping you up to 6th in my harem.”
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Wow.key.master and bunker.mode nailed damn.you guys got to much wisdom,
MGTOW school in session. .wish I had this when I was 28..
You rock gov.megachris..you deserve way better than that creature. .
Anonymous25I’m with the others who said:
RUN!
And change your phone number too. Enough warning signs in what you wrote. Her saying she is ‘depressed’ is enough in itself.
Never ever be around a woman who has mental health problems. Her mental health problems = your criminal record. I’ve seen enough of the criminal injustice system from the lawyer side, trust me on this.
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