A Pirate Looks at 40

[LowKeyParticipant 702]

Thank you sir !

As a young guy whos still traversing and learning about this world, this lessons would serve me greatly. We should have more threads like this

Don't let defeat, defeat you; Let defeat be your greatest teacher.

[the roadParticipant 3125]

Great post Rorschack. I identify with it.

> Just about every strong and independent woman I’ve ever met has been neither. They almost fooled me a couple of times but it always shows through. Look at actions not words. If she is so independent then why does daddy pay her insurance or phone bill. If she’s strong why is she flipping out and crying about basic everyday problems.

This one hits home with me. I’ve never dated a strong independent woman. They all depended on other people. My most current ex once said to me “I didn’t realize how much you depend on your mother”. She said this because my mother is involved in my son’s life and likes to help out with things, I don’t ask her (my mother), she just wants to be a part of our lives. I don’t depend on her for anything at all, I’ve been successful in my life. I have my own house and life and I maintain and pay for it all. My ex on the other hand lives at home with her mother and relies on that situation to help with her child and to survive. It was very hypocritical for her to say that.

All my other exes relied on others to survive as well. And if it’s not monetary independence, they also rely on others emotionally.

I feel powerful in knowing that I am the captain of my ship and that I can run it single handedly for both my son and I. I honestly don’t know one single woman who can do it alone and that makes me proud as I was essentially taught most of my life that women are better at everything. Obviously this is a f~~~ing lie.

#MANOUT

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

Excellent post.

Remember lads, it isn’t the rage of the red pill that women fear, but rather the joy of the man who discovers that life without a woman crushing his dreams and freedom are infinitely better than what she has between her legs.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Lone Wolf83Participant 825]

Such words of wisdom in this thread, thank you all so much.

If it has tits or tires, you know you're going to have problems.

[RorschachParticipant 2083]

Hitman wrote:

you f~~~ing nailed that !
more please..
no rush,
that was outstanding.
hell, i almost got a tear in my eyes…

Thank you sir. There will be more.. oh yes there will be more.

Truthseeker82 wrote:

Two marriages, thousands of dollars, destroyed physical and mental health-had I kept to myself the past 30 years I could retire today. Now at 56 I’d be lucky if I get out before I’m 70. Young men of MGTOW – an ounce of prevention is worth 100 tons of cure.

Yes absoultely I agree 500% sir. Prevention is key. You young stallions read what this man said several times. Let that s~~~ soak in.

Rolling Tin Fist wrote:

Some real gems here. It’s reeks of hard won experience. I can relate to all of them being at mid-life myself.

Thank you sir. Yes I started it all started back when i was young, dumb, and full of cum. I put that s~~~ on everything.

SimpleLife wrote:

Great post Rorschach! I need to print this out for my son…

Thank you much. Your son’s lucky to have MTGOW dad looking out for him. Just think if we would have known all this s~~~ back then. Too bad we don’t have a flux capacitor.

Tuneout wrote:

Unless they are a smokin’ high end escort that will rock your world for an hour and happily leave after,

Then it’s money well spent, lol

Bwahahaha. It’s f~~~ing offical i’m voting for tuneout 2016.

Dirtydog73 wrote:

Well written..thank you.
I too would have saved the past twenty one years of my life if I had of had a lot of this information back when I was only 22.Its been blue pill for me since then and now choking on red pill rage currently(gotta get over it my son told me -too much red pill Dad he said)
One relationship -hundreds of thousands of dollars-be lucky to walk away from my current situation with anything but debt.

I feel you brother. Thats easy for your son to say if he hasn’t been in that position. It’s always different when it’s in your name and you have to deal with the bulls~~~. I hope you overcome and find peace and your son is learning even if he doesnt understand yet.

Jim01 wrote:

I was at a wedding last week and knew only two other people who I couldn’t stick to like glue so was trying to look comfortable standing there in a group of 50 – 100 people I didn’t know all day

The Robin Williams quote on this subject is so true

I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone.

I’m using it in a slightly different context to the one he means but it still rings true to me last week. Every so often we all get lonely but being alone by myself is a million times better than being surrounded by people who make you feel lonely. It is an awful feeling.

Thank you sir I’m glad you mentioned it. It’s one of those to keep on your wall or on a sticky note. I admire that Robin Williams quote in the most respectful and sullen ways a man possibly could. It’s a shame that a man can have success, wealth, talent, humor, kindness and yet all the joy in his eyes can be snuffed out. The news can say Robin killed himself, but I say three marriages did.

Mr. Man wrote:

Damn, OP, there’s so many quotable gems in your post that I’d rather just give you a slow clap standing ovation. I’ll be looking forward to more of you posts.

I appreciate it brother!

ExpendableYouth wrote:

I looked into my bathroom mirror and told myself “Remember how bad this hurts. Remember this feeling. Do not ever feel like this again. Do you like feeling like this? Was it worth it? No, it wasn’t. Remember how you feel right now, remember this pain the next time this comes along”.

MTGOW and a Slayer fan I like you already. What youve said here is pure gold as well. I think any man going through trauma from a broad should practice this where applicable.

Faust For Science wrote:

If you have not run your body into the ground in your youth. Forty is a good time for a man. Men whom take care of their health tend to not start declining until their mid-fifties. And even then it is a very gradual decline.

In other words. You have a good 15 years left. Another 15 so-so years. And after that. Then, start looking for the exits.

I sure hope so. You never really know how much time you have but i’ll take whatever the hell I can get sir!

LowKey wrote:

As a young guy whos still traversing and learning about this world, this lessons would serve me greatly. We should have more threads like this

Ah Fantastic! Heed the wisdoms you see here in the forums. One day it could save your life.

the road wrote:

All my other exes relied on others to survive as well. And if it’s not monetary independence, they also rely on others emotionally.

I feel powerful in knowing that I am the captain of my ship and that I can run it single handedly for both my son and I. I honestly don’t know one single woman who can do it alone and that makes me proud as I was essentially taught most of my life that women are better at everything. Obviously this is a f~~~ing lie.

I applaud you brother. It’s awesome to know that he will not have to grow up hen pecked. That young man has a bright future ahead.

foghornleghorn wrote:

Excellent post.

Remember lads, it isn’t the rage of the red pill that women fear, but rather the joy of the man who discovers that life without a woman crushing his dreams and freedom are infinitely better than what she has between her legs.

Thank you sir. I couldnt agree more. Once the pussy wears off and you start coming to they go into full on s~~~ the pussy isnt working panic mode. I bet if you compared their expression to those of some wall stree traders on a particularly bad day, they would be one in the same.

The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "save us!"....... and i'll look down and whisper "No."

[RorschachParticipant 2083]

ExpendableYouth wrote:

For the record, it went from “Is this the part where I say I am so lucky to have you? I love you so much!!!” to “You are very judgemental, I feel like I am always walking on eggshells with you, I am sick of defending that I have a boyfriend to my friends (while she posts pictures on Fakebook with “another man”), and I just can’t take it anymore– i never knew a relationship could be so damn lonely”. Do you know how quickly this happened? A WEEK.

Damn she must have epic crazy to do that in a week. Usually it takes even the most skilled narcs usually 3-18 months to transition through the stages of their f~~~ed up little fiasco. I say chalk that up to a win! Only a week wasted

The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "save us!"....... and i'll look down and whisper "No."

[RorschachParticipant 2083]

shovelheadrider wrote:

All we have is today.No one knows.

These guys never lived to know about cell phones,dvd, direct tv or Coach Saban . I never take a day for granted. I wan never given pussy I paid for all of it one way or another.
Lance Corporal
F CO, 2ND BN, 9TH MARINES, 3RD MARDIV, III MAF

Excellent insight sir. We should all keep that in mind. I agree, nothing in life is free especially pussy.

The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "save us!"....... and i'll look down and whisper "No."

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Thank you for sharing your experiences. What makes it so valuable is that the older men in my life (our lives) are so programmed into blue-pill s~~~ that they cannot give us these words of wisdom.

Thank you again. Glad tha people like you are here.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

@expendableyouth I love the way you worded this:

Remember this feeling. Do not ever feel like this again. Do you like feeling like this? Was it worth it? No, it wasn’t. Remember how you feel right now, remember this pain the next time this comes along.

I’ve done that very thing twice in my life, and I’ll never be in that position again. There are so many things in life that we have absolutely no control over. But one thing we do have control over is avoiding the circumstances that bring us to a place of such grief and sadness.

[EtrangereParticipant 706]

This pirate is looking at 50 in 6 months , and that was a great list you nailed down. You’re still a youngster… when I was 40 I was still playing ball and kicking ass 3 or 4 days a week(now it’s down to 2). With age comes wisdom , and the bit everyone is kicking around about loneliness(Robin Williams quote) is very , very true. It looks like pretty soon the idiot populace will elect the first female president as if a woman could ever lead the way a man does. The future looks bleak my brothers.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

ExpendableYouth wrote:

Those are gold and should be framed for future MGTOW’s for the rest of time.

Agreed. This should have its own page. I would hate to see it lost in forum archives.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

Awesome words brother!!!

Thankyou !

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[RorschachParticipant 2083]

Etrangere wrote:

This pirate is looking at 50 in 6 months , and that was a great list you nailed down. You’re still a youngster… when I was 40 I was still playing ball and kicking ass 3 or 4 days a week(now it’s down to 2). With age comes wisdom , and the bit everyone is kicking around about loneliness(Robin Williams quote) is very , very true. It looks like pretty soon the idiot populace will elect the first female president as if a woman could ever lead the way a man does. The future looks bleak my brothers.

Thank you brother and early happy birthday. Thats exactly why i’m voting tuneout 2016. He promotes high end escorts, thats a MAN we can trust… plus no pant suits *cringe*.

Varun wrote:

Thank you for sharing your experiences. What makes it so valuable is that the older men in my life (our lives) are so programmed into blue-pill s~~~ that they cannot give us these words of wisdom.

Thank you again. Glad tha people like you are here.

I appreciate the kind words sir. I’m glad your here too and that all of us are. It’s horrifingly true the length a blue piller will go to please the princess or just get one more stab at the ole meat hole. I know alot of the info here in my list can be found countless times on the site or just by living long enough because well the truth is just what it is. This is essentially the truths I would have liked to have heard when i was 16-18 and pretty much f~~~ing retarded about the world.

Mr. Man wrote:

@expendableyouth I love the way you worded this:

Remember this feeling. Do not ever feel like this again. Do you like feeling like this? Was it worth it? No, it wasn’t. Remember how you feel right now, remember this pain the next time this comes along.

I’ve done that very thing twice in my life, and I’ll never be in that position again. There are so many things in life that we have absolutely no control over. But one thing we do have control over is avoiding the circumstances that bring us to a place of such grief and sadness.

So true brother. The power is right here in our hands and has been there all along. Grip it ever so tightly.

FrostByte wrote:

ExpendableYouth wrote:

Those are gold and should be framed for future MGTOW’s for the rest of time.

Agreed. This should have its own page. I would hate to see it lost in forum archives.

MgtowWave wrote:

Awesome words brother!!!

Thankyou !

I appreciate it much brothers. Open sincere non hateful dialog is exactly what young men need. We certainly cannot count on society to look out for their best interests. They have every bit as much of a right to thrive and be happy in life as miss sparkly princess cupcake does.

The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "save us!"....... and i'll look down and whisper "No."

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

I’ve always been kind of a loner. And divorce and recovery has certainly not been easy. But I’ve told people many times the loneliest I’ve EVER felt was when I was married.

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