A perfect example of AWALT

[InfernalShadowParticipant 377]

After discovering this website I’m remembering things in a lot clearer head than what I used to. I’m remembering them in full redpill mode as well.

Back when I was a kid, I’ve always wondered why my sister essentially got “babied” more than I did. Even in times of punishment, she’d get a lesser penalty than me.

Before I go off on a rant, I just want to be clear, I don’t hate or resent my parents in anyway because I just consider it all to be water under the bridge so to speak. I’ve learned quite early on that if you hold onto a grudge all your life, you’re just going to be stressed out and you’ll never be able to better yourself.

When I was little, I could always remember my sister getting away with s~~~ I could never dream of getting away with. I was also always the smaller of the siblings even though I was the older one.

Growing up, I never really talked to my parents that much about anything once I turned 13 years old. I’d always keep things bottled up and eventually lash out at them after a month or so. I’ve also noticed that the last few months me and my sister were living under the same roof as my parents, my parents would pay more attention to her and I’d just stay in my room trying to avoid all the drama.

Back quite a few years ago, when my mom was still healthy enough to move around freely without oxygen tanks, she more or less lashed out on me constantly for even the littlest of things. Whether it be me not washing dishes, cleaning the floor, bathroom, etc.

One day when I was 14 or 15, I got so fed up with it that I had to let out my frustration some how. When I turned my back, I just mocked her with my lips and I didn’t even say anything. I didn’t realize it, but she saw me do this, threw a fit, and eventually gave me the “silent” treatment for quite a few months.

During those months I remember trying to do everything in my power to get her to talk to me. By the end of those months, she did end up finally talking to me. But, she lashed out at me again, and asked me “do you want new parents?” I was so shocked and stunned by this I just stayed silent after telling her “No I don’t.” We eventually got over this fight and everything went back to normal.

Fast forward about 5 years when my sister eventually moved out with her boyfriend. She “magically” got calm somehow and started acting nicer around me like she acted nice around my sister. In fact, she almost never nagged at me or lashed out at me.

Then, it clicked, and I knew why she started acting nice around me again. It’s because she didn’t want me moving out as well. My dad works out of state most of the time and only comes home for a couple weeks every few months.

I eventually did move out anyway because I want my own life. And even though she’s chained to an oxygen tank, she can still do pretty much anything any other older person can do. I also live in the same apartment complex, so if there’s an emergency, I can just come right over.

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She claims she doesn’t remember this because she’s hooked up to an oxygen tank. But, I think she does, because she even has memories going back all the way to when she was 5 years old.

But, this is a perfect example of why every woman is an AWALT.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

InfernalShadow wrote:

Back when I was a kid, I’ve always wondered why my sister essentially got “babied” more than I did. Even in times of punishment, she’d get a lesser penalty than me.

We should always remind ourselves that female advantages are not ACTUALLY “advantages”, and they do women and girls no favors. Conversely, what they teach you (as a boy) seems like a more brutal punishment, but it DOES do you favors in the long run.

Coddling girls is BAD for them.
Not extending boys the same leniency is GOOD for them.
( … as long as it doesn’t turn into overly-reprimanding them. )

InfernalShadow wrote:

I just want to be clear, I don’t hate or resent my parents in anyway

You don’t need to disclaimer with that. It’s not their fault – or yours.

InfernalShadow wrote:

When I was little, I could always remember my sister getting away with s~~~ I could never dream of getting away with

And nothing will change when you’re 40 either. Look around.
Women LITERALLY get away with murder and destroying lives.

InfernalShadow wrote:

she saw me do this, threw a fit, and eventually gave me the “silent” treatment for quite a few months

The “silent treatment” is the WORST way for a woman to let a man know she’s mad it him. That’s like HEAVEN to a man. Whenever a woman gave me “the silent treatment”, I tried to think about what she thinks I did *wrong*….. and did it as often as f~~~ing possible.

InfernalShadow wrote:

During those months I remember trying to do everything in my power to get her to talk to me.

Why?

(winks)

InfernalShadow wrote:

Then, it clicked, and I knew why she started acting nice around me again. It’s because she didn’t want me moving out as well. I also live in the same apartment complex, so if there’s an emergency, I can just come right over……..

Your eyes are open my friend. Nice to you – when they want something from you.

As you pass through life, don’t forget how women treated you once upon a time. It’s a tremendous payback and nature’s way of restoring the balance. Enjoy every moment of it, and you can begin by making “NO” your new favorite word.

The unfairness of life is a GOOD thing.
Because it means you can turn it around and make it work in YOUR favor.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[InfernalShadowParticipant 377]

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I wish I got your advice when I was still living with my parents. It would’ve made things so much better. The only reason I did end up trying to talk to my mom whenever she gave me the “silent treatment” is because she was my mom. I didn’t expect other women to talk to me, but I did expect my mom to.

Back then, when I was still in my teen years, I was so envious of this so called privilege women have. But, now I know that society is only hurting them by coddling them.

If it weren’t for my upbringing I would’ve never got to have this “thick skin.” Almost every woman in my family is insecure about themselves my sister and mom included.

I remember one time my sister got this great job offer that would’ve paid for her schooling. She could also switch fields if she so chose to. And, she wouldn’t gotten a $600,000 house back out in the woods. (It was a job offer for a maid/housekeeper because she spent quite a few weekends with this old lady who’s married to one of these really rich guys)

I told her she’s stupid if she doesn’t take that offer. Guess what happened? She lashed out on me (jokingly) and said “go eat a dick.” After me and my mom got off talking to her on Skype, my mom said she lashed out on me because she thinks I have the better life having my Bachelor’s and all.

I just thought it was hilarious she couldn’t even take that as a motivator to go ahead and take the job offer. Hell, the guy who offered her the job was even willing to adopt her and put her in his will. She would’ve been set for life.

Most women in my life are insecure as hell. Now that I know I’m a MGTOW, I know it’s because they’ve essentially been coddled all of their lives and need their “safe spaces” or else, they’ll throw a bitch fit.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

InfernalShadow wrote:

She lashed out on me (jokingly) and said “go eat a dick.”

I was going to appended to my earlier post….

There was one example who I have known for more than 15 years. When I first met her, she was HOTT – and she knew it. She was also very annoying in the way that she would act towards all men like they were rapists. “Keep your hands to yourself, mister”…. s~~~ like that – just for sitting next to her in a car.

We never dated, but worked in the same field, and even when I said “hey you want to grab lunch?” she would say “OK but it’s not a date”…. even when I had a girlfriend. She thought she was the hottest s~~~ on the planet and unbelievably presumptuous.

Now, she’s mid- 30s. Unmarried. No kids. No prospects. Her eggs are drying up, and nobody is interested – including myself – and she’s approaching the end of her “career”. One day, out of the blue, and from across the ocean(!!) since she’s living in a different country, I got a “love note” from her that she misses me, thinks of me often, and said unbelievably nice s~~~ she never said in all the years I knew her.

“OK. You can blow me. But it’s not a date.”

Bed. Made. Lie.

It’s…. spectacular.

The day will come when you will have plenty of opportunity to tell them to “go eat a dick” in response to something she wants. Practice your delivery.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[InfernalShadowParticipant 377]

@keymaster

Yep. The biggest revenge ever is knowing every woman will eventually hit the wall. I don’t even need to do anything for that to happen. Once that happens, all I have to do is walk away from them.

And that woman in your story sounds like a total c~~~. I wouldn’t doubt that she’s a feminist either by the way she acts around men. She maybe hot, but no woman is that hot to act like a self entitled c~~~ like she is. Even if they are that hot, there’s plenty of other women who are just as good looking.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

InfernalShadow wrote:

And that woman in your story sounds like a total c~~~. I wouldn’t doubt that she’s a feminist either by the way she acts around men.

She’s the much more dangerous kind. “Religious”, thinks she’s a “good girl”, but deep down so feministed and totally unaware of it herself.

That’s WORSE than a feminist, who wears her toxicity on her sleeve.
The “nice girls” are the ones you really need to look out for.

A blue-pill guy fell for her once, and married her several years ago.
He wanted out after 3 months. No bulls~~~. Annulled.

In her message to me, she said “yup I’m still single” (and looking for another sucker)
I said “Don’t you mean DIVORCED?”.

There was no response. And there never will be again.

CALLED. HER. OUT.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Keymaster wrote:

There was one example who I have known for more than 15 years. When I first met her, she was HOTT – and she knew it.

Hey man, talking of which (this quote of yours above). There’s actually quite a cool mgtow-like song by “the streets” called “Fit but you know it” so check it out if you like and maybe even feel free to archive it.

Well, there you go:

PS.: … lyrics are in the description on yt.

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[experiencedParticipant]

InfernalShadow wrote:

After me and my mom got off talking to her on Skype, my mom said she lashed out on me because she thinks I have the better life having my Bachelor’s and all.

It’s possible that after your subsequent one on one conversations with mom, your mom then debriefs your sister on things that you say in reasonable confidence as well.
Unfortunately mothers inexcusably fall prey to this temptation in that individually with each child they lose no closeness by thus playing them off against each other.
“Why shouldn’t I destroy the inter-relationships of my offspring, I’ve nothing to lose” she says.
After she dies, you and your sister will be closer.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[InfernalShadowParticipant 377]

@experienced

I’m pretty close to my dad, mom, and sister as it is. They also know I’m more of a “hermit” type so if I don’t visit them for months on end, they know it’s because of that.

And I’m sure what she told me was the truth about my sister is because I noticed my sister’s insecurities from a very young age. All of my close immediate family is insecure about something. To the point to where it just gets crazy.

They act like they have self esteem on the outside, but on the inside, they have zero self esteem. They also have no backbone, “thick skin,” or confidence in themselves.

I, on the other hand tend to have too much confidence/arrogance. Which can be good or bad.

[experiencedParticipant]

O K

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

Keymaster wrote:

OK. You can blow me. But it’s not a date.”

Bed. Made. Lie.

It’s…. spectacular.

Must be. I have fantasies of the same variety of s~~~ ALL THE TIME.

I don’t think it’s healthy.

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[ConstantineParticipant 4420]

There was one example who I have known for more than 15 years. When I first met her, she was HOTT – and she knew it. She was also very annoying in the way that she would act towards all men like they were rapists. “Keep your hands to yourself, mister”…. s~~~ like that – just for sitting next to her in a car.

Beautiful women are the WORST.

If they don’t know that they’re beautiful, then that’s one thing. But it’s very rare for them to not know. Most of the beautiful women who I’ve come across have always been all too aware of it. And it makes them intolerable to be around, because they constantly assume that everybody fancies them.

Granted, they probably meet a lot of pathetic suckers who do. But it doesn’t hurt to practise a little modesty. I can’t stand it when you come across hot bitches who are so hot, that if you so much as say, “Excuse me” they immediately reply, “Please don’t hit on me”, even if you were going to ask her to move out of the way because she was blocking your exit.

And of course if you don’t express any interest in her, her assumption will then graduate to, “What are you, queer?” Because apparently, that’s the only possible explanation. It couldn’t possibly have anything to do with, I dunno, her being a complete s~~~bag.

This feminist online once said, “Many beautiful women get no love because of their presumed arrogance.” Correction, bitch. Many beautiful women get no love because they are arrogant.

To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

A simple formula here:

Beauty + fully aware of it = high maintenance

No thanks.

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[experiencedParticipant]

Am I the only one here that thinks Ned Trent looks like James Woods in real life?

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

@ experienced : Well, sorry to disappoint you on this one but cheers, mate

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

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