A Paid Off House Is Only An Asset If A Guy Is Red Pill

[Oz-BlokeParticipant 3233]

#ManOut

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Anonymous wrote:

Guess who lives in Don’s house?

Chad

Anonymous wrote:

Guess who lives in Mike’s house?

Tyrone

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[TwistParticipant]

FrostByte wrote:

If a woman says your home ‘needs a woman’s touch’ she is telling you in advance a hostile take over is on the horizon.

Rebound: “I want to redecorate the bedroom in Chocolate Brown, it will be so romantic”

Me: “F~~~ that”

Chocolate f~~~ing Brown. Would have been like sleeping in a giant turd.

Escaped that one with my life. Barely.

[Anonymous 42]

A paid off house in the Rust Belt is only a tax liability! Liberal spenders in the local government and over assessments with limited buyers dictate that in the interest of personal economics it should be set ablaze!

America has ECONOMIC CANCER!

[HermitParticipant 1121]

Even if you have no mortgage and no wife, you have to remember you only lease your land from the state. Don’t pay your property taxes and what happens? Sold out from under you at a tax sale. In many places, it can also be foreclosed to pay a judgment or other lien like a federal tax lien.

Brothers, I have lived fifty years and been through a mountain of s~~~. I have avoided some traps and walked straight into others.

There is one rule to property that I learned the hard way and will never forget.

A man only owns what he can carry with him at a dead run. Period.

So keep the few things that really matter to you in a rucksack where you can grab it and go without a pause. You never know when you might to do just that.

I don't hate women. I just feel better when they're not around.

[SolidParticipant 7520]

Hermit wrote:

A man only owns what he can carry with him at a dead run. Period.

Perfect brother ! I’ve lived some situations where it was proven truth ! I have a small bag, that I can just grab and run, I have all my important documents, a backup of my files, some money, the copy of my car keys, a flashlight and a knife ! I keep it near the door, so if needed, I just grab it and run.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Mr. Spock wrote:

Very true. While I was married I managed to pay my house off. During the divorce I had to choose between the value of MY half of the house or keeping 100% of my pension. Funny thing is that I was the one making all the mortgage payments and paying it down and I was the one going to work everyday. I chose to give up the house so that I could cut completely away from her and never have to be in contact with her for anything. Since then she has remarried so I am in the clear.
She kept HER 401K, the house, the furniture, her car, and our savings which had about 19K in it when I left. The only thing she paid for was her 401K. I paid for everything else yet I only managed to keep the pension. Had we had any kids, I would have probably lost half my pension too. Question for the lurkers; How fair is any of this? Marriage a raw deal for men.

It sure is. I’ve heard way too many stories like this. The thing is, I was also raised in a generation that had “equality” beat into our heads from an early age. If women are supposedly equal to me why would a potential divorce be financial punishment for me and a windfall for them rather than I take my s~~~, you take yours, and we move along.

I can understand some things being split in divorce…like if you were both working, contributing towards, and living in a house together, that makes sense…but splitting things like 401ks and pensions that she did nothing to earn or contribute to that you would have had with or without her is just beyond stupid, and its not like yours is an isolated case, its the norm.

For any lurkers on here…keep this in mind if you are thinking about marriage…if you are the one bringing more assets to the marriage and making more money, you will get f~~~ed over if you end up divorced.

[RealityBitesParticipant 2198]

OP – Yes
If a divorce is going to happen it is always better to have as little equity as possible. Better yet, sell the house, and move into an apartment or rent a house prior to divorce…

When SINGLE a Man will want to pay down his debt as fast and as financially safe as he can, and he will want to save and invest as much as he reasonably can but still spend a little on some fun things because we never know when we are going to check out.
It is a balancing act. But with a woman in the equation….unless you are dead sure she is the proverbial unicorn (and even then she probably isn’t) it is better to divorce sooner than later. If kids are in the equation it is best to fight like hell for full custody of the kids (but the odds of pulling that off in the West is slim to none…)
Not married and No Kids – No Problem! NEXT!!!! 😀
NOT married but kids – bad (but survivable unless you cohabited and you are now subject to common law marriage)
Marriage with no kids – bad (you’re f~~~ed)
Marriage with kids – extremely bad (e.g. you’re really f~~~ed by orders of magnitude)

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Always at her place. Never at yours.

Don’t even let her know your address if you can at all help it.

[BuckFitchesParticipant 993]

I can confirm this post is true.

My parents got divorced and my mom didn’t just get the house, SHE GOT EVERYTHING INSIDE IT TOO. Which is totally not fair.

She even got my dad’s f~~~ing clothes like what the f~~~ man.

She made me go get the clothes and pick out stuff I wanted I was like, “shouldn’t i just give this back to dad?”

"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches

[SwimcatParticipant 3598]

sidecar wrote:

Always at her place. Never at yours.

Don’t even let her know your address if you can at all help it.

Damn good advise. I moved recently. Bought a two family. No mortgage. I’ve not told any women where I live, nor has one been here. I think I’ll keep it that way.

[Sky-OParticipant 18949]

And on a side note:

I have a blue pill buddy that got married to his unicorn last year.

She already owned a house and he moved into it.

And he admitted to me that she had him sign a prenup, at an attorney’s office and made my buddy get his own attorney so that he had counsel & it was all legit.

The only problem is:

01: He pays her ‘rent’ of $950 a month. She already owned the house for 14 years. My buddy is basically pumping principal payments into the place.

02: She convinced him that ‘they’ needed a new & larger deck. With a hot tub. And he paid for it all. $16,400

03: New kitchen cabinets. Yep. He paid for those too.

04: He is a prisoner in the cell known as that house. He admitted to me that he gets in trouble for watching porn. And he had a secret laptop that he used in the basement for awhile to fire rounds off with. But she found it and smashed it with a hammer.

05: No more XBox One anymore either. Because it takes his attention away from her.

06: He even admitted to me that she will withhold sex for a couple of weeks, then she uses her vibrator while making him beat off while she watches. He claims ‘it’s kind of hot’ But I suspect that it is Phase I of cuckold training.

– –

And I’m not allowed over anymore because last time I was there and he was allowed to have a mini guys night. Him and our buddy’s were in the backyard and I was taking a leak in the bushes while slamming a beer. And he told us to quiet down because the dictator (his wife) and her girlfriend would be coming back soon and I said ‘Fuuuuuuck that!!’ and commented that her girlfriend should be doing blow bangs for Brazzers porn site.

And when I looked over, his wife & her girlfriend were standing on the deck spying on us.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Sky-O, holy s~~~! It doesn’t sound like she’s a unicorn. More like a rhino

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Sky-O wrote:

And when I looked over, his wife & her girlfriend were standing on the deck spying on us.

Smashing any of my s~~~ with a hammer would get her smashed next. That is for sure. No matter how many years it would bring me behind bars, but I would show her my limits.

I would make sure she has a head-on collision with a truck. And not do one single day in the joint over such a worthless c~~~.

He could use just 5 percent of my self-respect.

Not one c~~~ in the world is worth what he goes through.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Sky-O wrote:

06: He even admitted to me that she will withhold sex for a couple of weeks, then she uses her vibrator while making him beat off while she watches. He claims ‘it’s kind of hot’ But I suspect that it is Phase I of cuckold training.

To “Man Up_V.2017” means: Man up, take control over your sex drive and throw the c~~~ out of your life.

And I mean “throw” as they ain’t worth s~~~.

Throw… Like an old TV into the dumpster.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[DirtBikeManParticipant 535]

Anything that endangers my financial stability or my ability to retire early is not tolerated.

+ Paid off the house last year. I will never sell it.
+ Got a vasectomy 2 years ago. No way to ever be trapped by a lying snatch.
+ No credit cards. Period.
+ Fully funded IRA.
+ Never married, never will
+ Bought vehicles that suit my lifestyle, take care of them, and drive them a good long time
+ Live well, but within my means
+ Dirt bike often.
+ Going my own way, NFG

The most important thing you can do is ask yourself, what do I really want out of life. Really think about it, and always be true to yourself. Then Do it.

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

RealityBites wrote:

If a divorce is going to happen it is always better to have as little equity as possible. Better yet, sell the house, and move into an apartment or rent a house prior to divorce…

Bad advice as the courts will see you selling the house as a move to avoid you paying your c~~~ wife what legally is hers (it is akin to taking an insurance policy out on the house or the church before you burn it down).

The courts will double f~~~ you as they see right through that so if you somehow are married then just make as little cash as possible and do not quit your job months before the divorce (under 20k a year is best for you so it is best to be broke as s~~~ for the duration of the marriage as that is the lifestyle she had while married).

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[Sky-OParticipant 18949]

annonymoussyn,

That strategy won’t work in most states.

Pumpkin will check out and file sooner if beta starts making less money and/or he drops his income down to $20k for a year prior to the divorce and she racks up massive debt that he gets pounded with during the divorce. And the go back period for a family court judge to determine a guys income is three years. (tax returns, W-2 forms, etc)

The only way to not get scammed by the system is to never get married.

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

Sky-O wrote:

Pumpkin will check out and file sooner if beta starts making less money and/or he drops his income down to $20k for a year prior to the divorce and she racks up massive debt that he gets pounded with during the divorce. And the go back period for a family court judge to determine a guys income is three years. (tax returns, W-2 forms, etc)

I am not supporting marriage or are talking about how to survive it or get into it but the only way to be safe literally is to never make anymore then 20k throughout the period of the relationship none the less the marriage.

Never having money literally is the only safe net around however marriage usually works with a woman’s hypergamy in mind (the woman stopped having fun and began looking to settle down) so it is unlikely either way.

The only real situation i can see it as possible is if you were one of her first asshole boyfriends who never had any money to begin with and who married in a short term fling as you literally have no assets worth a s~~~ to give to her. But this is rare.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[SwimcatParticipant 3598]

Sky-O wrote:

And on a side note:

I have a blue pill buddy that got married to his unicorn last year.

She already owned a house and he moved into it.

And he admitted to me that she had him sign a prenup, at an attorney’s office and made my buddy get his own attorney so that he had counsel & it was all legit.

The only problem is:

01: He pays her ‘rent’ of $950 a month. She already owned the house for 14 years. My buddy is basically pumping principal payments into the place.

02: She convinced him that ‘they’ needed a new & larger deck. With a hot tub. And he paid for it all. $16,400

03: New kitchen cabinets. Yep. He paid for those too.

04: He is a prisoner in the cell known as that house. He admitted to me that he gets in trouble for watching porn. And he had a secret laptop that he used in the basement for awhile to fire rounds off with. But she found it and smashed it with a hammer.

05: No more XBox One anymore either. Because it takes his attention away from her.

06: He even admitted to me that she will withhold sex for a couple of weeks, then she uses her vibrator while making him beat off while she watches. He claims ‘it’s kind of hot’ But I suspect that it is Phase I of cuckold training.

– –

And I’m not allowed over anymore because last time I was there and he was allowed to have a mini guys night. Him and our buddy’s were in the backyard and I was taking a leak in the bushes while slamming a beer. And he told us to quiet down because the dictator (his wife) and her girlfriend would be coming back soon and I said ‘Fuuuuuuck that!!’ and commented that her girlfriend should be doing blow bangs for Brazzers porn site.

And when I looked over, his wife & her girlfriend were standing on the deck spying on us.

Time to cut his losses and take a walk.

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