A message to the despairing ones

[bomwaParticipant 488]

I’ve noticed a few posts popping up from people who feel they have totally lost hope. I have a message for you.

Your pain is real. You are not a pussy. You are good, and this system seeks to crush good people. Ofcourse you will feel pain. But I will tell you why you must wear this pain as a badge of honour.

Every minute that you remain good in your heart and mind is a victory against this system. You must live because you give the rest of us hope. You make us stronger when you admit your pain because then we know that we are not alone. The system wants us to think we are dysfunctional, weak pussies. It wants us to die or wallow in a life of substance abuse and despair.

Your purpose is to live. To think. To write. To preserve the good inside the confines of your skull. The good must persevere in whatever form it can. You do have a purpose. Your purpose is to keep a tiny flame burning inside you.

Every mind that sees through their propaganda is a defeat to the system. By living, you defeat them in some minute way.

From this tiny seed of hope, may you grow stronger.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

DYD was despairing a little today and I told him the same thing a little earlier but I must confess I did not do it as eloquently as you just did. Good job!

[Anonymous 42]

We are our brother’s keeper and this place personifies that spirit!
Three cheers to the BROTHERHOOD!

[OrlandoParticipant 833]

I lost everythingin my divorce, and I ended up sleeping on the floor of a s~~~ty apartment for a while. At the time, it seemed like I was f~~~ed for life.

I know it gets better. I love my life now. I wake up and I’m so thankful.

Rome wasn’t built in a day. Take small steps, do a little something every day, and you can build a great life.

The bad times NEVERlast.

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Orlando wrote:

The bad times NEVERlast

Yep that’s exactly what I keep telling myself these days as well, because I know things will improve soonish (spring early summer 2017).
Although right now it’s still a race against time (running away as well as money)…

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[TuneoutParticipant]

Believe in your self – f~~~ everyone else and their opinions- make yourself your own best friend- instead of your worst enemy- like most people do.

Remember drugs and alcohol don’t make things better-
even though at the time they seem to – you can’t run away from you or the problems you face.

Don’t compare yourself to others and think ‘if only’-
The grass is always greener – till you walk on it.

finally if you think you can,you’re right,and if you think you can’t,you’re also right.

Think about that

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[BONEParticipant 448]

MGTOW is our outer heaven

[HitmanParticipant]

Sometimes the accomplishment of just getting through one more day is a major victory.
The act of continuing to live is defiance to the system.
Defy it daily.

[,Participant 1301]

It does get better.
Let no one, no one female, no platoon of maneaters make you continue to feel despair.

Understand that it takes effort and understand it will get better.

Make good habits. Make healthy mental physical nutritional meditative choices.
Express joy in and out. Conduit goodness. Strip out hate and expel it without notice or acknowledgement.

Remove focus on any vagina and apply focus to your well-being and betterment without it. Live within your means and constantly improve your means, reduce debts.

The first light I saw was her loco*motive in my tunnel. After it rolled and stripped me against the walls and sleepers, I could make out a warm light at the end. I’m crawling on and I’ve learned to crouch low, nuzzle the worms and dirt and clutch to the ballast as the next ex*press approaches.
I find that I’m closer than I’ve ever been.

with joy/without hate

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Yeah I agree.

Find a hobby. Just do whatever you want to do. Keep yourself busy. An idle mind is a devil’s abode.

Good sleep, healthy meals, exercises ….. and avoiding toxic people: he perfect prescription for overcoming depression.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[RorschachParticipant 2083]

bomwa wrote:

Every minute that you remain good in your heart and mind is a victory against this system. You must live because you give the rest of us hope. You make us stronger when you admit your pain because then we know that we are not alone. The system wants us to think we are dysfunctional, weak pussies. It wants us to die or wallow in a life of substance abuse and despair.

Your purpose is to live. To think. To write. To preserve the good inside the confines of your skull. The good must persevere in whatever form it can. You do have a purpose. Your purpose is to keep a tiny flame burning inside you.

Amazing post brother! No matter how red pill I get I still have my rough days. Its good to have a positive reminder that we are here, we are sane(f~~~ing barely), and that c~~~ lives matter (and splatter). They try to shame and guilt and make you feel so bad. Thank goodness we encourage each other, we sure wont get any encouragement elsewhere, well past pulling the cart that is.

The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "save us!"....... and i'll look down and whisper "No."

[experiencedParticipant]

Remove focus on any vagina and apply focus to your well-being and betterment without it. Live within your means and constantly improve your means, reduce debts.

THIS!!!

My fleshlight is better than any lay of loose roast beef raw flaps that will give me a disease or imprison me.

I now say NO to all s~~~..
Walk right by that pink ribbon bake sale where the land whales are
feeding on the s~~~ that causes their tit cancer.

YES!

You’ve regained your balance, you remember standing back up as the referee counted aloud, “Nine”.
And now you Must keep your guard up.
Live life, but keep your effing guard up.(I’m stating this as a reminder to myself as well)

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Anonymous 18]

Great post @bomwa.

Much of the despair seems to come from feeling helpless which may in turn be due to being duped by women-can-do-no-wrong narrative our societies inject in everyone’s veins.

The great thing about despair/failure/hurt is that the damage is DONE. It only gets better from thereon. May not feel like it day to day but over the long run things are improving.

Contrast this by men who are stuck with marriage and kids; that is the slow death no man should die from.

I am seeing life being sucked dry from men I have known for decades- men full of life and joy. As the 30’s approach men get tricked by female vices – the real poison is what starts off sweet and ever-so-subtly turns you bitter inside.

Don’t be that guy.

Despair all you want. The female partner removed from the equation the source is removed also.

Men (largely) are happy creatures by default. Mgtow helps us understand the bigger picture.

Again, despair is good. Sweet poison from any woman is bad.

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

This thread was really needed. Thanks guys.

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

[TwistParticipant]

I have known, and still know the despair. Duped. Stabbed in the back by the one person who swore to always have my back. A person who did not just want to be divorced, but who wanted to ruin me. Destroy me. Who turned my children against me.

Well – that was a gift. And I can finally see it for what it was due to the voices on this site.

If there is a dragon in the forest, and man after man goes into the forest and disappears, there is no learning. One after another they go to their death, not knowing that the one before met the same fate, and that the next one will also.

We men have done this march for generations, only now with the gynocentric tilt to society the march is that much more toxic. But we shake off the despair, we don’t suck start the 12 gauge. We give thanks that we can use our experience to save other men from the dragon. And the dragon will eventually starve and die.

[TruthspoonParticipant 1289]

Damn what a remarkably apposite post…. Feel like Jesus or Bill Hicks’ ghost is with us.

Someone who cares and understands the big cosmic picture in any case.

You are a remarkable man OP.

[TruthspoonParticipant 1289]

Mgtow is the ultimate holiday from life.

Seriously, anything you ever want to do with a woman usually revolves around sticking your dick somewhere in her, and while this can be momentarily entertaining, it really has no value or teaching merit in the long run.

And indeed can lead to a position of indentured servitude such as the role of ‘boyfriend’ or god forbid ‘husband’.

Mgtow is the ultimate freedom but the question is what do want to do?

Noone’s holding you back, it’s you against the world, do something or do nothing but just enjoy it.

That’s what a holiday is for.

[TruthspoonParticipant 1289]

Had a girl check me out at the gym today. I just happened to meet her eyes after finishing 8km on the treadmill (more fun than it sounds).

She was all smily and pouting up, her eyes were inviting me to get to know her and she was both pretty and ten years younger than me. She was ‘projecting’ out to me, you know that right?

Me, just couldn’t give a f~~~. Granted, she made an effort but so what? It’s still the same old ‘man-trap’ game.

I also doubt she knows anything about the nature of reality and the 4th spatial dimension.

Why would any man waste their time.

Men have got hidden interests and secret insights which too many of us abandon for a pretty face.

Not this soldier… Couldn’t have cared less.

Though I am a sensitive man who tries to be nice, just hope I didn’t make her feel too devalued by my obvious not giving a f~~~ness.

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Truthspoon wrote:

Had a girl check me out at the gym today. I just happened to meet her eyes after finishing 8km on the treadmill (more fun than it sounds).

She was all smily and pouting up, her eyes were inviting me to get to know her and she was both pretty and ten years younger than me. She was ‘projecting’ out to me, you know that right?

Me, just couldn’t give a f~~~. Granted, she made an effort but so what? It’s still the same old ‘man-trap’ game.

I also doubt she knows anything about the nature of reality and the 4th spatial dimension.

Why would any man waste their time.

Men have got hidden interests and secret insights which too many of us abandon for a pretty face.

Not this soldier… Couldn’t have cared less.

Though I am a sensitive man who tries to be nice, just hope I didn’t make her feel too devalued by my obvious not giving a f~~~ness.

Good going. man!

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[ShineParticipant 1696]

Tuneout wrote:

Believe in your self – f~~~ everyone else and their opinions- make yourself your own best friend.

Great MANtra to live by!

Something I learnt a long time ago from working many years outdoors on my own.

It makes cutting out other peoples bulls~~~ so much easier, you either want to hang out with them or you don’t, honest friendships built on give what you get and take what you give.

"Society is to blame" Denton

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