A lurker no more…

[ViciouscunningtreacherousParticipant 823]

Hello my brethren. I’ve been reading your posts for quite a while now and have been amazed at how similar our stori es are. Knowing what I do now, thanks to you all, I no longer feel crazy or alone. Been married 3 times, all hellish! I’m 52 now and have taken the red pill. It truly is bitter in so much as it is the raw truth. And the truth hurts. I have accepted it and am trying, sometimes in vain, to get past the anger,frustration and rage. Angry about so much. For so f~~~ing long! You all have put science and understanding to what I have been through most of my life. I am grateful and quite frankly in awe of you. I’m humbled by your experiences as some have been worse than mine. I hope to be able to contribute in helpful ways to edify and warn other men of female nature. I have so much that I want to say,but can’t fit it all in here. Again, thank you for being here and helping me to understand this scourge upon man.

For in much wisdom is much grief, and he who increases knowledge increases sorrow.

[Anonymous 13]

Welcome to this oasis of sanity.

We’re similar ages.

You’ve been married three times which means you’ve a wealth of experience and stories to tell and help others with.

One more thing, don’t do it again.

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

Welcome to your newfound family. If you drink beer there’s some in the fridge and there’s always an empty recliner. No matter what age you get to mgtow it’s all good. Welcome to the family

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[ViciouscunningtreacherousParticipant 823]

Thank you Spirit RR, and I won’t. EVER!!!!

For in much wisdom is much grief, and he who increases knowledge increases sorrow.

[joetechParticipant]

Welcome to the fold. Pull up a chair, grab a beer, and relax. You’re among friends.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Hello and welcome, VCT.

Viciouscunningtreacherous wrote:

And the truth hurts. I have accepted it and am trying,

Wait until it becomes a PREFERENCE. That’s when it starts tasting pretty good.
You learn to dislike sweet sugar-coated nonsense pretty quickly.

Viciouscunningtreacherous wrote:

Angry about so much. For so f~~~ing long!

It’s normal. Discovering there was no Santa was pretty deflating when I was 6 too. Yeah I knew it already, in a way, but the world was still trying to “sell” it to me. Don’t forget to write your wish list to Santa!!! Its enough to p~~~ off even a little kid!

Later I thought about my Dad, and how he must have felt when he busted his ass to give me the electric Matchbox racetrack I wanted so badly…. and then when I opened it and he saw the smile on his son’s face, how it must SUCK for a father when the kid looks up at the sky and says “THANKS SANTA!!!” and Dad doesn’t even get a hug for that.

No no… it should have been “Thanks DAD”.
And it should have been more often.
( He heard it plenty from me later though. )

Viciouscunningtreacherous wrote:

thank you for being here

It’s the OTHER way around. That’s our line.
THANK YOU for being here.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[ViciouscunningtreacherousParticipant 823]

Thanks again. How come we didn’t talk like this before the Internet? I have never read more truth from other guys like I have here. I always thought that I had a pretty good handle on women, yet I have had nothing but bulls~~~ from them. I used to think I was this crazy conspiracy nut because of what I thought about what was going on, and then I read you guy’s stuff and it’s a mirror image. We can’t all be crazy!?! And you’re right about the young weemins…had a little experience with them. F~~~ that s~~~!

For in much wisdom is much grief, and he who increases knowledge increases sorrow.

[Anonymous 6]

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Viciouscunningtreacherous wrote:

Thanks again. How come we didn’t talk like this before the Internet?

With 3 marriages, you have been to a few backyard BBQs and get-togethers, yes? What happens when the men huddle together and compare notes? The wives try to break it up. Especially when she hears the word “she” between them “What are you guys talking about over there???? Bill!! Can you come and help with the Salad?”

There can be none of that.

“Men are so cute and simple when they get together aren’t they? Yeah he’s a moron, but he’s MY moron.”.

Oh, it’s fine as long as you’re talking about the new George Foreman grill, or the shortest way to get to work… but when the male subject turns to women, relationships and marriage, they get uncomfortable pretty fast. Suddenly you’re not “her moron” anymore, and she realizes you’re smarter than she ever gave you credit for.

Viciouscunningtreacherous wrote:

I used to think I was this crazy conspiracy nut because of what I thought about what was going on, and then I read you guy’s stuff and it’s a mirror image.

Had the same reaction myself. The introductions forum is filled with identical testimonies.

Its quite incredible that we can be from different worlds, lives, continents, separated by years, oceans, education and upbringing and have identical experiences and stories to share. You think you’re living on an island, and then BOOM! you realize you’re not.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 13]

Viciouscunningtreacherous wrote:

I used to think I was this crazy conspiracy nut because of what I thought about what was going on, and then I read you guy’s stuff and it’s a mirror image. We can’t all be crazy!?!

No, it was never you man, it was always them. Before the Internet we were in this blue hazy fog.

At the level of soul we knew something was wrong, but without being able to voice it, share it, we thought it must be just me then.

Now we find it’s our friends, family, colleagues, distant brothers across the globe.

All saying the exact same s~~~.

Now the blue fog is replaced with laser red pill vision and it’s like whoa!

We were scammed man.

The jig is up.

[Anonymous 7]

You needed this!

You will become something more than you thought you were.

Welcome, and start enjoying what you want.

Life gets much better when you are in control of your own direction.

This post was your mayday/sos.

The rage is only your frustrations in trying to gain control of the flat spin your plane the ex she devils put you in. Once in control… you can fly anywhere you would like.

When you get control, make sure to buzz the tower, and stop by for the premium high octane fuel when needed.

[ViciouscunningtreacherousParticipant 823]

Again thank you. It’s taken me the better part of 10 years to recoup my businesses, and I’m never going to fall for it again. I don’t trust ANY of them. My last mistake monkey branched to a chad. And yes! I am living for myself now and that’s even harder to do. I actually feel guilty about thinking of myself first now.

For in much wisdom is much grief, and he who increases knowledge increases sorrow.

[HitmanParticipant]

Welcome brother.
You are the reason why we’re here!
Enjoy! !!

[ViciouscunningtreacherousParticipant 823]

I have a buddy who has pretty much just given up. Hes married to a wonderc~~~ that uses him up. I’ve got to turn him on to this site. As an aside, my handle, viciouscunningtreacherous is how I feel inside now. Never used to be that way before all my s~~~ happened. Recently I was told that I’m “unapproachable”. F~~~ing good!

For in much wisdom is much grief, and he who increases knowledge increases sorrow.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Viciouscunningtreacherous wrote:

As an aside, my handle, viciouscunningtreacherous is how I feel inside now.

You can change it later when you’re feeling “StrappingAwesomeIncredible”

Viciouscunningtreacherous wrote:

Recently I was told that I’m “unapproachable”. F~~~ing good!

It is!!

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Viciouscunningtreacherous wrote:

I actually feel guilty about thinking of myself first now.

Think of it as making your own survival the number one priority. You shouldn’t feel guilty because you have a desire to survive.

Welcome…

[MACHOParticipant]

Welcome Viciouscunningtreacherous, one can truly feel your pain here! Indeed it’s so pathetic what our females are. Pull yourself a chair and enjoy.

Note: Time is the greatest healer.

Viciouscunningtreacherous wrote:

And the truth hurts. I have accepted it and am trying, sometimes in vain, to get past the anger,frustration and rage. Angry about so much. For so f~~~ing long! You all have put science and understanding to what I have been through most of my life. I am grateful and quite frankly in awe of you. I’m humbled by your experiences as some have been worse than mine

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Anonymous 6]

Viciouscunningtreacherous wrote:

Hello my brethren. I’ve been reading your posts for quite a while now and have been amazed at how similar our stori es are. Knowing what I do now, thanks to you all, I no longer feel crazy or alone. Been married 3 times, all hellish! I’m 52 now and have taken the red pill. It truly is bitter in so much as it is the raw truth. And the truth hurts. I have accepted it and am trying, sometimes in vain, to get past the anger,frustration and rage. Angry about so much. For so f~~~ing long! You all have put science and understanding to what I have been through most of my life. I am grateful and quite frankly in awe of you. I’m humbled by your experiences as some have been worse than mine. I hope to be able to contribute in helpful ways to edify and warn other men of female nature. I have so much that I want to say,but can’t fit it all in here. Again, thank you for being here and helping me to understand this scourge upon man.

You are in the right place friend! You’re not crazy at all. You’re a trooper for surviving three marriages. I’d like to draw your attention to the following line that you wrote:

I hope to be able to contribute in helpful ways to edify and warn other men of female nature.

By simply relaying your experiences here in an honest way will do exactly that, guaranteed. Think about it like this, you once were a “lurker” and read all of what other men have posted here. Those posts resonated with you and ultimately tilted your opinion or favor into signing up for this website. You can now post the stuff that current and/or future “lurkers” will read. Maybe, just maybe, your comments will be the ones that help them into taking the plunge and signing up just like you did.

You’ve got a story and others need to hear it, so fire up your keyboard!

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Welcome VCT brother…Keep taking the red pill because the lure of slavery and blue pill is still strong until you have found yourself again…Hope you can share your stories too for others to learn and also to release pent up emotions…Welcome brother…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[Anonymous 13]

Viciouscunningtreacherous wrote:

I actually feel guilty about thinking of myself first now.

Do you see how deep that programming gets to us, after many, many years in marriages or LTR’s you DO actually feel guilty about spending money on just yourself.

It always had to be spent on HER or the family or some other s~~~.

You’re the only thing that matters now, the only person to look after you is YOU.
Your hard earned money is yours now.

Feel guilty spending it on you?

What, as opposed to some ungrateful bitch who is never happy and wants more, more, MORE!

Spend your money on you.

Give them NOTHING.

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