A journey to MGTOW

[Anonymous 2]

Recently joined the forum, GMOW since about a month, 30 years old(young).
First of all thank you guys for all the wisdom you shared on this forum, it really helps me a lot.

I was raised in a very traditionalist, blue-pill environment in eastern Europe.
Been taking red pills unconsciously since a kid, and never wanted to marry.

What I observed as a kid in my family:

– My grandpa when he retired, built a greenhouse with glass, piping, heating a nice cozy place for himself.
My grandma always complained that he would spend all his time there during winter and that he would watch plants grow instead of being with her. Take a guess why was this…

– My other grandpa risked his life to escape from communism and went to the US, after a while also took my grandma and part of the family.
My grandma never ever talked highly(quite the contrary) of him, she also never worked, and I never saw them together.
My granddad got cancer and he came back to Romania to live his last few years ALONE.

At the moment my dad is very weakened but still refuses to go in pension, and he stays all day long at his job.
Again…take a guess why this happens, considering only my mom is home.
The best non-blue pill (too late)advice my mom could ever give me was not to promise anyone in a relations~~~ that you are going to only have sex with the partner you are involved with. Enough said…

Journey to the red pill:

Had my first sexual encounter at 20(major blue pill period), developed into an LDR despite we both said no strings attached at first. It was her plan all along.
After 2 years and her moving into my home city she quickly monkey-branched, then went on for the c~~~-carousel.
It affected me quite badly and I became a drug addict for more than a year.
Some promiscuity during this time, and sulking while trying to medicate my romance hurt and all the bad things I saw in my family.

Then disconnected from everything and focused on my career, had a few girls coming and immediately going as I was not interested in the long game. This period was very productive and I felt very fulfilled, despite being laid very rarely.

About a year ago I caved in to the social pressure and found a girl just a bit below my social status, with the intention to have a ‘partnership'(no such thing exists in marriage).
She took on the clue and was very convincing.
After marriage she swiftly quit her job and started to behave very rude with me.
Every single stereotype was confirmed in a short while and I divorced in 2 months.
21 Sept 2016 was one of the best day of my life, I remember jumping up in the air with the divorce paper in my hand. Some months of red pill rage after divorce followed.

GMOW:

Recently, I was involved with a single mom(the least invested energy, probably the most drained after), and again all the stereotypes confirmed very quickly.
She said just fun, doesn’t want anything from me and so on, but it was obvious she wanted me to take care of her and her girl. Also lied a lot about her ex husband.
Last time she gave me a hard time with sex with a bitchy attitude(just after loosing some weight…coincidence?), I told her to leave and didn’t hear of her since.

Just before finding the MGTOW movement, I found it very hard to invest any more energy in any c~~~.

My priorities now are myself and only myself, and this will not change.
I also won’t be married or involved in a relationship ever again.

The red pill rage mostly passed, but now I’m in the phase of unc~~~ing.
I’m comfortable with the thought that I may not have sex ever again.
Despite this, I might have some periods when I need a female to unload(other than wanking off).
I think the best solution in that case would be a prostitute, at least they are honest about themselves.

Inspired by what I read here, I lately challenged myself not to look on any female passing me by on the street.
Until now it gives me a good vibe, think I’m going to hang on to the habit.

Any help, tips or advice about the GMOW subject is welcome.

I know it’s a long post but hope it’s also rewarding.

[bladeParticipant]

Sounds like a nice bloke .

Welcome to the brother hood .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Anonymous 42]

Welcome to the club, relax and enjoy your stay…

[MACHOParticipant]

Welcome, you should feel right at home here. Hang in there!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Welcome Ender. Glad you’ve read a bit first. I had a Grandpa who refused to admit he was deaf, or upgrade to anything but the crapiest hearing aides. My dad says to a young blue pill me “Do you think he wants to listen to your gramma all day?” One red pill moment.

[Anonymous 6]

Welcome brother, Unc~~~ – damn I love that word! A c~~~ free life is so refreshing!

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Welcome

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Welcome home brother.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Greetings Ender,

Thanks for your introduction and sharing details about your life.

Your stories about your Grandfather are my favorite part of your fine introduction.

Always got tall tales from other men that Eastern Europe had better ways of dealing with Woman’s Nature. They all claimed that Eastern Europe was the place to find the last of the “Unicorns,” besides Asia.

Most of the Western World has forgotten about Woman’s Nature.

Western Man has also forgotten about Women’s more advanced abilities to Manipulate, hide the truth, and flat out lie. We have also forgotten about their ability to take us to Crazy Town. Present, MGTOW, company excluded of course.

These advanced manipulation abilities combined with their “Pandora’s Box” of Woman’s Nature has always given women too much power well before they took the right to vote.

I have come to believe that there were never any NAWALTs or “Unicorns.” The Old Times had many restrictions on woman’s Nature which made Blue Pill Life barely tolerable.

An honest investigation of the “Good Old Days” will reveal a Fool’s Paradise and the birthplace of the belief in “Unicorns” or NAWALTs.

The best we can hope for now is a “White Tiger” which ultimately ends up in a mauling like the Siegfried and Roy situation.
AWALT.

Anonymous wrote:

…..I know it’s a long post but hope it’s also rewarding.

No, not long enough.

Kindly add more information about YOUR life in the reply box below.

What are your hobbies and interests?

What kind of fun stuff do you do?

What kind of work do you do?

Cheers,

And many thanks for your stories.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[Anonymous 2]

Thank you bros for your welcome!
Feeling like home here.

BlacqueJacqueShellacque wrote:

Welcome Ender. Glad you’ve read a bit first. I had a Grandpa who refused to admit he was deaf, or upgrade to anything but the crapiest hearing aides. My dad says to a young blue pill me “Do you think he wants to listen to your gramma all day?” One red pill moment.

Thanks for sharing, it’s refreshing to hear what creative ways our elders came up with to escape the mouth of their wives.

The Manipulated Man wrote:

I have come to believe that there were never any NAWALTs or “Unicorns.” The Old Times had many restrictions on woman’s Nature which made Blue Pill Life barely tolerable.

Couldn’t describe it more precisely.

The Manipulated Man wrote:

Kindly add more information about YOUR life in the reply box below.

What are your hobbies and interests?

What kind of fun stuff do you do?

What kind of work do you do?

Cheers,

And many thanks for your stories.

Thanks for your interest.
Currently working as sales consultant.

My interests/hobbies:

Traveling – been to some countries, still find it more than livable around here…

Painting – I’m really amateur, but enjoy looking at paintings and documentaries about famous painters; also own a few nice ones.

Reading – should be doing more of this, but for now reading this forum more than makes up for not reading books

Swimming – once in a while

I really dig cars, specially Alfa Romeos.
Owned this one(and a few others), 155 2.0TS 16V; it stirred my emotions up better than all the females I’ve run into put together.
Stupidly I sold it to finance my honeymoon, witch I never went to.
Since then I bought a 146 but it’s hood slammed in my windshield and for now I don’t want to spend more on cars.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Glad you have joined us—welcome home.

[HitmanParticipant]

your in the right place pal.
glad you found us !

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Ender
Beer’s in the fridge

[Anonymous 1]

Anonymous wrote:

Stupidly I sold it to finance my honeymoon, witch I never went to.

This breaks my heart

[Anonymous 1]

Oh. Be a little careful and try to cover the license plate, man

[Anonymous 2]

Thanks again for all the welcomes.

Anonymous wrote:

Oh. Be a little careful and try to cover the license plate, man

Good tip, removed the picture. Thx.

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

Thanks for sharing!

Don’t gonto prostitutes.

Just jerk off if you have to.

Stay away from wimyn!!

Monk

[Anonymous 2]

Meister wrote:

Don’t gonto prostitutes.

Just jerk off if you have to.

Stay away from wimyn!!

It’s part of unc~~~ing…I’ll get there and forget about prostitutes too.

[Anonymous 1]

Anonymous wrote:

Recently, I was involved with a single mom(the least invested energy, probably the most drained after), and again all the stereotypes confirmed very quickly.
She said just fun, doesn’t want anything from me and so on, but it was obvious she wanted me to take care of her and her girl. Also lied a lot about her ex husband.
Last time she gave me a hard time with sex with a bitchy attitude(just after loosing some weight…coincidence?), I told her to leave and didn’t hear of her since.

Welcome! I find it very hard to believe that after the redpill rage you got involved with a single mom?
Either you explored too little of the redpill, or your pussy craving was having the best of you.

I suggest you listening to a lot of Tom Leykis material, and never EVER EVER be with a single mom again, or a married woman for what it can mean to you.

[Anonymous 2]

Anonymous wrote:

Welcome! I find it very hard to believe that after the redpill rage you got involved with a single mom?
Either you explored too little of the redpill, or your pussy craving was having the best of you.

Heard about the red pill notion recently(pill was already making it’s effect) from Richard Cooper.
Lots of good stuff on his channel, also a petrol-head: https://www.youtube.com/user/EntrepreneursInCars
He suggested the book ‘The Rational Male’ by Rollo Tomassi, there’s where I heard about MGTOW.
He strongly advised against dating single moms, but I wanted to keep my social(matrix) cred up so I got what I could for the least invested energy and money.

Anonymous wrote:

I suggest you listening to a lot of Tom Leykis material, and never EVER EVER be with a single mom again, or a married woman for what it can mean to you.

Last week listened to Tom Leykis on heavy-rotation.
He’s a genius! The dad I never had…
You bet I won’t be involved with single moms again!
Thanks anyway.

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