A homeless Alcoholic had to be feed tonight

[pabsawakeParticipant 1761]

don’t be fooled by the title of this thread because I’m not looking for any praise from anyone. this post is about a suffering man not me. I got off of work today and needed a shave and a haircut. I went to my barber and just outside of his establishment is a banged up man in a wheelchair. He is a known Alcoholic He Has Terrible cuts and bruises all over him, He has been victimized by many, mostly men (sorry to say).

I had seen him around for months but today I asked my barber what the story was with this man. My barber began to say things like he’s just an Alcoholic, a bum, a loser. nothing about the man’s true story, just ridicule.

Now……. I don’t know this man’s true story but since I became MGTOW and took the red pill, doesn’t this man at least deserve his side of the story to be told?

I buried two close friends of mine to male suicide! (divorce rape)

I walked away from my barber in total rage!
Woman are Woman we know what they are.
Why do Men continue to act this way! to say these things towards each other!
I left my barbers chair in total disgust. bought the Alcoholic man a burger deluxe from the diner next door.
My anguish tonight is simply this.

why do men continue to do this to each other? is it to simply get laid? is it to feel Alpha? I don’t understand how someone can get pleasure or advancement over the suffering of another man.

"You can either love women or understand them, you can't do both". Truth over everything

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

We as men are each responsible for ourselves.

No one else gives a s~~~ about you.

This is what a woman’s mind can never grasp. The idea that NO one is out there to save you!

The idea that a man must use reason and be accountable for his actions. Failure means failure. If you fail no one cares about you.

A woman’s mind can never relate to our reality. A woman might be empathetic but they do not exist as a man. Never will.

In the end, as a man, you are solely responsible for where you end.

Peace brothers

[pabsawakeParticipant 1761]

Thank you for the response Darksit, the true meaning of my post was to say that men are too much against each other. That’s all. Not a popular thread. I know.

"You can either love women or understand them, you can't do both". Truth over everything

[TuneoutParticipant]

pabsawake wrote:

Why do Men continue to act this way! to say these things towards each other!

Unfortunately it’s deep within our primal biology to

care more for the female (child bearer) than fellow

males(competition).

Also the outdated notion that men can take care of

themselves,add to that our I don’t give a s~~~ society

and this is what you get.

Example-when I go grocery shopping the local SafeWay

has a Food Bank bin and Care Bags for $5/$10 you can

purchase at checkout,well most of the time when I buy

one to put in the bin,mine is the ONLY f~~~ing one in

there.

I mentioned it one day to a buddy that helps me with

my contracts and he just said “Why are you giving that

food to the immigrants?”

The f~~~ing ignorance of some people is scary.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[Anonymous 14]

Its called GYNOCENTRISM or the pre-historic policy of women first. Most ordinary men are indoctrinated into it and it doesn’t matter if their upbringing was conservative or liberal. Christina Hoff Sommers made a video on it where she terms its as the WAW or Women Are Wonderful syndrome.

[EntropyParticipant 902]

DorkShit wrote:

No one else gives a s~~~ about you.

Truth.

"Compare your lives to mine and then kill yourselves" -BBR

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

DorkShit wrote:

We as men are each responsible for ourselves.

No one else gives a s~~~ about you.

This is what a woman’s mind can never grasp. The idea that NO one is out there to save you!

The idea that a man must use reason and be accountable for his actions. Failure means failure. If you fail no one cares about you.

A woman’s mind can never relate to our reality. A woman might be empathetic but they do not exist as a man. Never will.

In the end, as a man, you are solely responsible for where you end.

This is one of the hardest lessons I had to learn after my divorce, that nobody gives a s~~~ about you. I thought my life was pretty sorted and I trusted my wife with my life and assumed she had my back. Big mistake, she didn’t give a s~~~ and f~~~ed me over for the cash and prizes so she could ride the carousel again. The company you work for doesn’t give a s~~~ about you, to them you are just a figure on a spreadsheet. They would make you redundant in the drop of a hat if they thought it would save them money.

A woman can spend her 20s in party carousel mode, rent a room, have a s~~~ paid admin job, run up student loans and credit card debt safe in the knowledge that at any time one of the 10 beta orbiters she has would marry her and sort everything out.

When I split with my wife I was lucky that I had my family to support me and could move in with them. I can imagine that many men are not so lucky and end up renting a crappy studio apartment and struggle to make ends meet. Imagine loosing your job on top of that and it isn’t so hard to understand how a lot of men end up on the streets.

I always thought that homeless people were lazy and it was there own fault but I now see how a few unfortunate circumstances mean anyone could end up on the streets.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[VarunParticipant 2981]

To answer your question, like Mr. Tuneout says, men have a dominance hierarchy; in simple words, we are always competing with each other for women and resources.

Notice how men do not like it when his fellow peer/colleague bags an achievement/promotion/raise? That’s the dominance hierarchy in action. You won’t believe it, we even have a dominance hierarchy right here at this forum; but instead of using fists, we use brains to try to sound ‘better’ and ‘more intellectual’ than others.

You did a good thing by buying that man a meal. You played against your nature; which is really a very hard thing to do, and is praiseworthy. No good deed will go unrewarded.

Isn’t it odd? Only those who have been in situations of desperation can really recognize the desperation of others. The ‘crazy drunk’ suddenly becomes the ‘poor man who lost everything to his addiction’. Pleasure to know a man like you.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[Anonymous 54]

Fear. They cant handle the thought that it could happen to them. So they pass judgment thay lets them feel this could never happen to them.A form of cowardice in my eyes. When ever a homeless dude ask me for money,I ask him his name,and where hes from. He is then a human being.

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

pabsawake wrote:

Thank you for the response Darksit, the true meaning of my post was to say that men are too much against each other. That’s all. Not a popular thread. I know.

It might not be popular but this is the core of MGTOW.

I understand what you are asking. My answer is that we men are each responsible for ourselves. This is the core of being MGTOW.

The man you see before you is where he is. Your feelings have nothing to do with it. No matter what you do for that man today it will not impact who he is tomorrow. That is his responsibility.

A man is a producer, provider, protector.

What is a woman? She is not a producer, provider, protector. She is produced for, provided for, protected.

Men act the way they are.
Women act the way they are.

You can choose to help that man today and tomorrow but what about the next day?

What about you? Who will help you?

One answer is “no one”
But, there is another answer, it is “you”

Good luck

Peace brothers

[Anonymous 3]

pabsawake wrote:

My anguish tonight is simply this.

why do men continue to do this to each other? is it to simply get laid? is it to feel Alpha? I don’t understand how someone can get pleasure or advancement over the suffering of another man.

A kid is running and falls.

The mother will show anguish and will try comfort the kid. As a result the kid associates failure with attention.

A father will check if he is OK, and the pat his back and tell him to have another go. Positive reinforcement comes from success.

Strangers will act compassionate if the have nothing to gain or lose. They will act with cruelty otherwise.

And the last sentence is complicated. Someone might interpret failure like a contagious disease, and they will not even want to be associated by proximity.

This is humans in a nutshell.

Someone capable of self-validation can overcome some of it, like you did, helping the poor guy.

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

This question is close to the core of our societies irrational thought process.

Your question leads down a path that presumes entitlement, victimization, shame and finally justifiable force.

If a man chooses to help another man, it is his choice. He is not morally superior to others who choose differently. He is merely helpful and may feel something like a tingle somewhere.

If a group of men (and now women) choose to pass a law that all men will help less fortunate men and women it becomes force. They accomplish this by using morality and twisting it with righteous justification.

The question you ask is of the same framework that feminist moral equality hangs on.

But the fact remains that all men (and/or women) are not created equal. Equality does not exist but force does.

Peace brothers

[Chaff/FlareParticipant 3235]

Pab, I have descoverd the greatest gift of helping the street people. It’s really frustrating sometimes, but there is maybe a once a year home run. If you do this often, you know what I’m talking about. There are guys on this forum who are a blond c~~~ hair away from being “that guy”. I was close. Good on you bro

When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

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