A Genuines Unicorn I know

[SuggestiusParticipant 3312]

I’m just trying to nail it! 🙂 I believe we forgot what the Unicron looks like indeed!

Happiness for all and let no one be forgotten ("Roadside picnic", Arkady and Boris Strugatsky)

[AntonioParticipant 142]

My PSYCOPATHIC gf is exactly as you describe it….if someday you have a problem with her she will use those old presents to guilttrip you. She is keeping you just in case she needs you. My mother is also like that. She has control of the complete family (and her new bf’s one). My 2cents.

[AntonioParticipant 142]

DorkShit wrote:

Zar, great post.

You confuse a broken girl with a unicorn. Your post does a wonderful job of showing that the day her father died, the girl within her died.

From that day forward she took on the spirit of her father. She actually hates her father and never came to terms.

She never became a woman. She took on the father role.

She would be a nightmare for any man that gets involved with her. No guy can compete with daddy. Only she can be him.

Far away from a unicorn. More like a broken girl.

Thanks Dark, this paragraph is gold showing me what i am dealing with. Maybe its saving me. Help comes when it wants. Boy dont they teach this in psychology school?

[AntonioParticipant 142]

Anonymous wrote:

I enjoyed the story.

But I would say the difference between a unicorn and a bitch is the opportunity.

The constant this thread is the famous (to me) maxim: rules a relationship the one that cares the less about it.

That is why you treat a girl like dirt and she will cling to you. Yet you treat her good and care for her, and she will treat you like s~~~.

This woman may look like a unicorn. Now… But at a relationship she will revert to a less rare creature. One just has to show some appreciation to ruin it.

Yes. That is human nature for you: survival of the s~~~est.

And the fact that she cheated on him proves it. The repentment is not genuine. She has an agenda.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Zarathustra wrote:

We dated for 4 years about 20 years ago and she cheated, which ended the relationship. However, she contacted me a decade later saying that she had been reflecting on the subject of loyalty

Zarathustra wrote:

She apologized for the infidelity

That’s great but it’s kind of late for that. Hindsight 20/20 as we say.

Zarathustra wrote:

She is 43

She is nowhere near NAWALT status. I understand she is pleasant and a genuinely nice woman. There are many. This is true with many women, they figure it all out too late. If you could put a 60 year old woman’s brain in a 20 year old girl’s body, BAM NAWALT unicorn. Unfortunately it doesn’t work like that.

Zarathustra wrote:

She truly is a strong and independent woman.

These are the women who always want an “open” relationship. Or in any event, they will argue your lower income status comparatively to her, as grounds for her to have relationships with other men.

[GregB0Participant]

MACHO wrote:

A Time Machine

Spot on with all points Macho. If only we did have access to a time machine …..

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[black_knightParticipant 2602]

Antonio wrote:

Darksith wrote:

Zar, great post.

You confuse a broken girl with a unicorn. Your post does a wonderful job of showing that the day her father died, the girl within her died.

From that day forward she took on the spirit of her father. She actually hates her father and never came to terms.

She never became a woman. She took on the father role.

She would be a nightmare for any man that gets involved with her. No guy can compete with daddy. Only she can be him.

Far away from a unicorn. More like a broken girl.

Thanks Dark, this paragraph is gold showing me what i am dealing with. Maybe its saving me. Help comes when it wants. Boy dont they teach this in psychology school?

When I did my psychology degree (2010-2013 in UK) we focused a fair bit on how social discourses disempower women and privilege men. So answer to your question: no, quite the opposite.

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

Interesting posts. Its hard to distill a 20 year friendship into a few sentences. I get where people are being critical about the cheating and that is a big deal. However, in 20 years that is the only bad behaviour and that was 15 years ago. I guess what is hard to describe is this woman’s sincere and honest effort to be a little better person everyday. I know that sounds fake and cheesy but you will have to take my word about it. She is a very good friend and certainly gives me more than I give her. That is just a fact.

Having said all that… I still wouldn’t date her but its close and anyone else falls very far beneath her standard.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Zarathustra wrote:

She gives me more than I give her.

You’re allowed to have friends that are women. It’s okay 🙂

Despite whatever you think she is worth, you’re more valuable than her, period. Remember that when she gets tipsy and tries one over on you.

If I was the one that got away, I’d consider staying ‘got away.’ Its your journey, f~~~ what anyone here says. But make sure to keep us posted because its informative and entertaining to see how its working out.

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

And she is STILL not worth marrying.

This is the hole women have dug themselves into.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[Gravel PitParticipant]

If you end up boning her, start a journal here, I want to know all the juicy details LOL.

[ironheartParticipant 942]

Zarathustra wrote:

Zarathustra wrote:
she can be a little crazy at times, something she is aware of and is better at recognizing

Behavior + Daddy abandonment issues = Closet BPD.

They are often the most loving and shag worthy chicks you will meet, with endless sexual drive. But after about four to six months of being with them they can no longer hide their mental instability.

Run Forrest………….Run now.

"Women have become so full of hatred that they are blind to reason and humanity. That which they practice will be the end of humanity, long before any war that men may fight.." "Women are predators by nature. Why else do you think they are so quick to gang up and go after a man they hate for showing any sign of weakness?"

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

I have boned her many many times many years ago. In addition to being an absolute nympho, you could have sex with her 10 times a day and I have, she doesn’t menstruate as she had a hysterectomy at age 22. No periods. No abstinence for a week each month. This actually became a problem after a while as there was never a break. But it was a nice problem to have.

[TwistParticipant]

ironheart wrote:

Behavior + Daddy abandonment issues = Closet BPD.

And you can’t have a personality disorder on a deserted island. You need an intimate relationship for it to flower to its ultimate potential.

she changed….

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