A gay one here

[Anonymous 1]

Hello. I would like to introduce myself. I’m an Indonesian (so, sorry if my English is terrible) and I’m gay. It might be weird why a gay put so much attention to MGTOW, but I saw several here so I guess it’s fine.

Being gay, it’s actually easier to go MGTOW because I don’t have attraction to women and basically abandon all hopes on marriages. I came out to my family and friends and made absolute clear to them that I want nothing to do with marriages, so my family just gave up pushing it to me. Here, marriages are still big deals, still considered a path that a person should take to become a complete person. Even gays are still considering marrying women just ‘to be save’, not to be judged, or a form of ‘respect’ to their families and religion. And when they did, they took pride in it and see themselves as a changed man, a ‘complete’ man, which is bull****.

I just found this MGTOW things lately, and I found myself that I already agree to many of the points of the movement (if I can say that it’s a movement) long before that. As a gay, I used to have many girl companions and I considered myself to be ‘one of the girls’ for a great chunk of my life. But as I got older, my male brain is becoming more and more fed up with how women think: decisions based on feelings, horoscopes, their so-called ‘intuitions’, all that spiritual crap that actually has no meanings, not to mention how self centered they are, indecisiveness, and general double standardness (eg. ‘that girl cheated because she’s a wh*re, but I’m cheating because my current boyfriend is not handsome/supportive/ambitious/rich enough’).

Another thing: they often become emotional for no reason at all. Burst into tears or into rage without any provocations, and I’m just tired to be that ‘one guy who’s there’ to soak their garbage. It’s always their husband’s/their boyfriend’s/their family’s/their circumstances’ fault. Never their fault. And the only reason for them telling me those isn’t for finding solutions or bettering themselves, but just for finding further acknowledgement about their predisposed thinking, or worse even, to try to paint some picture about themselves to the world, if that makes sense.

Now I usually cut their bull**** up front. Saying things like ‘you know the solution to that problem,’ or when I felt like it, trying to give extremely detailed effective solutions to that problem so it annoys them. And they ALWAYS annoyed by that! Saying ‘I know that! don’t patronize me! I’m just telling them to vent out!’ or something along that line. Even my mom got the same treatment, because she’s a woman and women need to be constantly made aware of their craps, in my opinion.

I still have some girl ‘friends’ but I don’t listen to them anymore, and I stop treating myself as one of them and quickly cut their conversation if I sense bull****. I also have a relationship with a guy (but since we’re both males, we don’t have to deal with ‘feelings’ or ‘intuition’ or ‘silent treatments’). We’re more like bros with benefits lol. Both of us are free to chase our own career and hobbies without naggings to change what we are. And since we live in moslem country, marriage is out of the equation.

I hope that’s enough for now. Thank you for accepting me to the community

[bladeParticipant]

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A friend of the family is gay and makes pizza for a living . Were you ever a lady boy just out of curiosity

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[bladeParticipant]

Our bro (dyd) dashing young dissadent is gay and he is really cool . You will really like him .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Welcome home, brother!

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[Anonymous 42]

Gay Hey Hey! It’s FAT ALBERT!

We’re gonna have a good time…

[Anonymous 1]

blade wrote:

Were you ever a lady boy just out of curiosity

Oh no I haven’t lol. Visually, I look very masculine, as a matter of fact. I won’t be successful as a lady boy lol.

[Anonymous 1]

Nerevar wrote:

Our bro (dyd) dashing young dissadent is gay and he is really cool . You will really like him .

Thanks, I’ll make sure I find him

[Anonymous 13]

Welcome.

Today, women are … JAIL.

[Anonymous 1]

Anonymous wrote:

Today, women are … JAIL.

Couldn’t agree more. I saw my male friends one by one being domesticated, feminized, by their marriages and relationships. It annoyed me so much because they’re the same people who once taught me to be real men (despite the sexual preferences). It’s ironic that a gay man lamented the feminizing of straight males

[Anonymous 13]

Anonymous wrote:

SpiritRR wrote:

Today, women are … JAIL.

Couldn’t agree more. I saw my male friends one by one being domesticated, feminized, by their marriages and relationships. It annoyed me so much because they’re the same people who once taught me to be real men (despite the sexual preferences). It’s ironic that a gay man lamented the feminizing of straight males

I actually mean jail JAIL.

Men end up behind bars when they deal with women.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10932]

Welcome sir.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[Anonymous 1]

Anonymous wrote:

I actually mean jail JAIL.

Men end up behind bars when they deal with women.

Hahah sorry. I guess it work both ways: figurative or literal

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Anonymous wrote:

Nerevar wrote:

Our bro (dyd) dashing young dissadent is gay and he is really cool . You will really like him .

Thanks, I’ll make sure I find him

He’s a bit shy, though, you may want to send him a couple of lewd messages before he “opens up”.

*grin*

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

blade wrote:

Our bro (dyd) dashing young dissadent is gay and he is really cool . You will really like him .

Give me a huge c~~~ to suck on right now, nom nom nom nom. Hahahaha.

You f~~~er lol. I wish i was gay, then i would be the tastiest c~~~ on the block haha.

[xenonParticipant 2007]

Welcome bro. Pretty darn good English if you ask me. Rock on.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

blade wrote:

Were you ever a lady boy just out of curiosity

Blades ultimate fantasy hahahaha.

[bladeParticipant]

Nerevar wrote:

wrikudoro wrote:

Nerevar wrote:

Our bro (dyd) dashing young dissadent is gay and he is really cool . You will really like him .

Thanks, I’ll make sure I find him

He’s a bit shy, though, you may want to send him a couple of lewd messages before he “opens up”.

*grin*

dyd is having a hard nerevar you should check out his thread .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

Nerevar wrote:

He’s a bit shy, though, you may want to send him a couple of lewd messages before he “opens up”.

*grin*

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

blade wrote:

dyd is having a hard

A hard what? c~~~?

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

Welcome Wrikudoro.

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