A calculator of the real cost of getting married for men?

[Anonymous 1]

Hi All,

As I was taking my shower this morning, I had an idea of creating an online calculator of the REAL cost of marriage that a man must pay when (not if, when) the woman decides to divorce him and take all of his s~~~, with or without kids etc.

It would have to take into account different regions or maybe countries, and maybe require a lot of research into the laws and worst case / best case scenarios.

It could also include the financial and life impact of false reports of abuse, rape, etc.

Use could be to show men who aren’t yet MGTOW what happens when they get involved with women.

What do you guys think?

Cheers,
H

[RoyDalParticipant]

Go for it!

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[Anonymous 1]

That’s the only issue, I’m not a programmer nor a lawyer who knows the legal implications, I just had the idea.

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

Approximately 50% chance of divorce with net average cost for man of 200k over 10 years for child support, alimony, lawyer fees, property selling fees, etc, … implies man opening a trust fund day 1 of marriage where he is depositing 833 USD per month in deferred expenses would make total sense.

Now explain this concept to woman.

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[~BSParticipant 3266]

I would say go for it, but realize that the amount and % lost may vary greatly from person to person depending on their income level and net worth. Would be a difficult calculation. You would have to create different scenarios.

"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt

[WallyParticipant]

I think Terrence Popp did a video on a rough cost, not a calculator but place to start, perhaps using the parameters he mentions in a calculator.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[AwakenedParticipant 35204]

Loss of freedom and misery can’t be calculated with money.

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[EekParticipant 1162]

I put a MGTOW savings calculator in the app I put up a few weeks ago for testing…

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[KeymasterKeymaster]

Brilliant. I’ll make a note because I had recently done an online calculator for college tuitions. (yes really) and this could be an extension of that. I have made a note of it and will mull it over.

Love the suggestions. Thank you.

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[TaxGuyParticipant]

Awakened wrote:

Loss of freedom and misery can’t be calculated with money.

What he said. I’m not discouraging the financial calculator, hell I’m an accountant. I probably took an oath at some point not to. But the point to drive home is once the financial calculation is made is that you are not even half way there yet to the “cost”. Because the emotional damage is worse than the financial damage. By the time you are done, you are willing to pay ANY price to get out of the hell that a divorcing woman will put you through, even if it’s her idea.

And the price of your time wasted trying to please someone who hates you.

I would say that once you have all the numbers input and push the “calculate” button you have to read through 10 or so testimonials of the non-financial impact before you get to read the number. Make sure they understand that the number at the end is now the least of the cost.

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[MeisterParticipant 2093]

Fantastic suggestion!

Monk

[AttonParticipant]

It is a pretty good idea but you will need to get a lot of numbers.

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[HitmanParticipant]

Awakened wrote:

Loss of freedom and misery can’t be calculated with money.

and that is the part where it becomes incalculable.
the pain and stress are like a fire,
slowly roasting you from the inside out..
add in having a child and it gets much worse.
throw in a crazy ex who will try to make you suffer,
needlessly.
.
the money costs are high for sure.
the emotional pain is something not to wish on anyone.
it takes years to adjust to,
better avoided at ANY and ALL costs !!!!!

[theman007Participant 32]

I wouldn’t worry about it. There is a free calculator on the web already for Canada. Below is the link.

https://www.mcgurk.ca/spousal-support-calculator/#step5body

[SolidParticipant 7520]

If you can consider making the entire calculation of a relationship (dates, dinners, time, bills, etc…), and then be able to compare it with the pussy time (how many hours you have sex in that period), and show something like “you will pay in average 500$ per minute of sex”, is another feature, but as other members stated, divorce rape calculator, is one of the best features !

I’ve a friend, that is pure mgtow knowledge, he only f~~~ whores, he was rejected since always, since his first try, he was able to have a gf for one week, and just after she leaves him, she gone to another mutual friend and said “hey, I’m single now”. That guy is now a mathematician, he spend an absurd amount of time studying and focusing in a better job, he gets around 15 times the minimum wage nowadays, and he f~~~ the very best of whores, as he state, and I can validate, they are cleaner than a random c~~~.

In his calculations, he proved me that don’t matter how much you get, the amount that will gf/wife will suck from you, will be proportional to how much did you have. If you have 40k year, or 120k, you will almost all the time, do the same things, but in a more expensive way if you get more money. As he stated with a lot of proofs from psychologists, women after some time use sex as a positive stimulus to make men their slaves, so, after some time in a relationship, you will have less sex, because this is the way that she will use to control you. So, mathematically speaking, how much more money you make, less worthy will be a relationship in terms of sex.

Analysing it with the emotional storm that you have to endure, the c~~~ bitching all the time, in the case of a marriage, the divorce rape, the variables need to be evaluated as following:

– How much free time you have, times how much this free time worth to you (in money).
– How much free time she sucks from you, plus how much free time you spend being p~~~ed off at her (stress level factor)
– How much time you spend doing things that you don’t want to do.

How much your free time worth, is a number that you give, based on your life, how much did you would pay, to have 1 hour free, for example. If you work from 9 to 17, how much did you will be willing to pay to work 1 hour less to go out and enjoy your day ? In my case, if I got 15$ hour, I would be willing to give 10$ for it, so my free time hour cost is 10$.

There’s also the “I won’t buy” factor, that is things that you would never buy for yourself, if you don’t have a relationship, for example, an big house, an fancy and expensive car that isn’t what you want, a 10.000$ painting for a squirrel putting nuts inside his own ass.

Then just make the calculations, I don’t make a lot of money, but this calculations showed me the truth, I’m making more money now, than when I’ve a job in a company and receive 12x what I got now, just because of a c~~~. If a men is always in debt with a 120k year salary, remove the c~~~ and he will be f~~~ing rich in 10 years receiving just 60k.

We can talk more if you want to add it to your app and elaborate some formulas, those facts was one of the best red pills that I ever take, because don’t matter how much money did you make, you will be aways poor and miserable if you have a c~~~.

[narwhalParticipant]

Awakened wrote:

Loss of freedom and misery can’t be calculated with money.

Which in turn has a effect on your ability to earn and invest. For me personally, I put aside a very good business opportunity when I decided to get engaged. I may not have taken the opportunity anyway, but getting married was definitely a factor.

But that’s only part of it. My home life effected my performance at work, and what goals I wanted to set for myself.

Sure you can look at the costs of married life and divorce, but you can’t really calculate the opportunity costs.

Ok. Then do it.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Solid wrote:

We can talk more if you want to add it to your app and elaborate some formulas, those facts was one of the best red pills that I ever take, because don’t matter how much money did you make, you will be aways poor and miserable if you have a c~~~.

LOL.

That bears repeating: “You will always be poor and miserable if you have a c~~~”.

Seen that so many times. I got my company because the c~~~ of my former boss made him poor and miserable… So I was actually on profiting side of this system…

But we need an online calculator to open the eyes of men that do not realize yet what they will be up against.
I think that it would make many men think twice about marriage if they had entered these numbers into a calculator “just for fun” and see these shocking results in writing.

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[AwakenedParticipant 35204]

narwhal wrote:

But that’s only part of it. My home life effected my performance at work, and what goals I wanted to set for myself.
Sure you can look at the costs of married life and divorce, but you can’t really calculate the opportunity costs.

I too put the brakes on my career when I realized that by me investing more of my time and energy towards my career it would only make the resident old lady LAZIER, and less likely to EVER seek employment. Where is the pay off for me to take on a more stressful job with more hours and concerns ? Yes, I would get paid more, and she would do even less. In the end, it would just be that much more alimony I would have to pay while trying to manage a more stressful work life.

Let’s see, work harder, eat more stress, to die sooner, but make more money to provide for the resident leach’s future. For some reason, this arrangement didn’t seem like a good idea.

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[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Anonymous wrote:

As I was taking my shower this morning, I had an idea of creating an online calculator of the REAL cost of marriage that a man must pay

How do you put a dollar value on his freedom, his dignity, his sovereignty, and his very soul?

It seems to me those are the biggest costs for men in marriage.

[TriviumParticipant 1029]

In the end you’re just asking a guy to list everything he’s ever loved and owned, then ask him to assign a dollar value on it. Add that all up then tell him to pick the least favorite thing from the list. Subtract that dollar value from the total amount and there you have your total cost because he will likely lose it all. I am not sure how popular an app like that would be…

For an honest account of what my monthly cost was to ‘keep her’ you can read the thread below. She couldn’t take half of what I owned when she left because she already took everything I made each month.

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