A brief update – coming up on 4+ months free

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  • #691563
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    CombatRoll
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    I haven’t posted much lately.

    For those that may remember I moved out in August and while everyone has told me this year would be hell, I’m happy as pig in s~~~.

    No more bulls~~~ to listen to, no bitching, no “are you having another drink” and not a single f~~~ given for that bitch.

    Multiple times she has tried to get me to come back. Sent me syrupy texts and I’m totally fk’n immune to it.

    Now some may judge, but I’ve met a divorcee and I’ve been f~~~ing my brains out. I buy nice dinners and I get f~~~ed like a pornstar. No more “I’m gonna lie here like a dead starfish while you bang me with a sour look on my face”. Nope.

    Don’t get me wrong – I’m not E V E R going to settle down or live with a woman again. Nope. I am done.

    I’ve been working out, enjoying my freedom and I’ve not been this happy since before I was married, some 20+ years ago.

    I want to thank certain guys here – you know who you are. You showed me some tough love. Told me I’d been whining enough for too long and to s~~~ or get off the pot.

    Well, I did.

    Thanks!

    I hope each and every one of you motherf~~~ers has a great holiday. I appreciate all the support you’ve given me and I’m better off for it.

    For all you lurkers or men living on the plantation – Run the f~~~ away! Life is good on the outside.

    Cheers,
    CR

    #691569
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    Secret Agent MGTOW
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    Look just be really f~~~ing careful with that other woman.

    AWALT. Just different things and levels that will trigger it.

    Seriously. If you want to keep enjoying life watch the hell out for this. Its not good because you are opening yourself up to something bad you are not expecting. You think you hit gold here and you’re the top turd of the pile. Just recognize just how dangerous you are acting at this moment. You could be jeopardizing the good life you say you are now having.

    Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

    #691574
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    CombatRoll
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    Look just be really f~~~ing careful with that other woman.

    AWALT. Just different things and levels that will trigger it.

    Seriously. If you want to keep enjoying life watch the hell out for this. Its not good because you are opening yourself up to something bad you are not expecting. You think you hit gold here and you’re the top turd of the pile. Just recognize just how dangerous you are acting at this moment. You could be jeopardizing the good life you say you are now having.

    Thanks – I appreciate your concern. But hear me clearly. I will not ever settle down again. I don’t see this lasting more than a few more months. I have no plans to get trapped again.

    I will never forget that feeling of feeling like a trapped animal in a cage!

    Just to be very clear – I do not think this one is different. I think she is just like the rest of them. I don’t believe in Unicorns.

    #691583
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    Monk
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    Now some may judge, but I’ve met a divorcee and I’ve been f~~~ing my brains out.

    For the moment.

    It’s good to be free, but don’t get complacent. Stay alert and ditch her at the first sign of controlling behaviour.

    #691586
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    I have no plans to get trapped again.

    No one plans on getting trapped. Have you been snipped??

    PS: Enjoy the freedom.

    When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

    #691590
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    OldBill
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    For those that may remember I moved out in August and while everyone has told me this year would be hell, I’m happy as pig in s~~~.

    Glad to read you’re doing well, brother. Living well is the best revenge.

    As for the “time in hell” bit, when do your divorce proceedings start? That is, when do the lawyers and courts begin to stick their noses into your life?

    Separation is one thing. The legal process is something else entirely.

    Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

    #691603
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    Anonymous
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    You mean you’re not going back?

    #691605
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    Secret Agent MGTOW
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    Good but I am not even talking about marriage or LTR. I am talking about the one phone call/woman claiming something against you.

    You are still totally open to accusations and heresay charges.

    The fact you didnt get what I meant there, because I got your point from your initial post about no marriage/ltr, makes me believe you dont think its a possibility to consider.

    Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

    #691629
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    Awakened
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    Multiple times she has tried to get me to come back. Sent me syrupy texts and I’m totally fk’n immune to it.

    THEY don’t REALIZE just how much THEY LOSE OUT ON until AFTER YOU’RE GONE. Oh well, that’s HER PROBLEM.

    She can get OLDER and LONELIER while YOU continue to ENJOY YOUR LIFE.

    I’ve met a divorcee and I’ve been f~~~ing my brains out.

    That’s YOUR CHOICE.

    You’re just being REMINDED to be CAREFUL for ALL KINDS OF REASONS.

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #691651
    CombatRoll
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    Thanks, Brothers.

    I know you have my best interests in mind, as you have all along.

    Now its time to start working hard to compensate for the money my STBX is taking from me. I’m going to buckle down and work like an SOB. Play on the weekends and enjoy my freedom.

    #691655
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    Joetech
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    Way to go, bro! Move out, move on, and live. You know what you’re doing.

    "Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

    #691663
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    CombatRoll
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    Way to go, bro! Move out, move on, and live. You know what you’re doing.

    Great to hear from you Joe. We need to get a beer. I’ll be up your way soon.

    #691678
    Joetech
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    Great to hear from you Joe. We need to get a beer. I’ll be up your way soon.

    One of these days I’m going to quit being so lazy and take a drive to check out that tap room I read about up your way. I’ll touch base with you when I do.

    "Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

    #691690
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    CombatRoll
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    Great to hear from you Joe. We need to get a beer. I’ll be up your way soon.

    One of these days I’m going to quit being so lazy and take a drive to check out that tap room I read about up your way. I’ll touch base with you when I do.

    Do it! I just looked for your email add’y and can’t find it. Lets stay in touch.

    #691697

    Anonymous
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    Beer’s in the fridge, CR
    Knock yourself out.
    As for the new broad; You know what to do.

    #691698
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    Anonymous
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    Separation is one thing. The legal process is something else entirely.

    My dad is learning this the hard way. Actually he is not learning at all it seems. Blue pilled until the day he dies unfortunately.

    I had a FWB about a year ago. She was fun to hang around with until one day she made her stand. She made her long winded speech about commitment and future. I said the longest short reply.

    NO!!!!!

    NO is a powerful word. It is definite. It is final.

    #691703
    Hermit
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    Excellent, CR, I am really happy for you! After I got divorced, well, I’m still waiting for the desire to even date again. So far, nothing. Weird. But I’m having a great time anyway.

    I don't hate women. I just feel better when they're not around.

    #691707
    NerdTunneler
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    I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

    #691820
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    OldBill
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    My dad is learning this the hard way.

    Combat Roll’s situation, plus the solid, logical, and methodical actions he has taken, would be a great example for your dad just as they have been to us all.

    He had a plan and did what he could to set it in motion only have events unfold in a manner which he hadn’t foreseen. Rather than throwing his hands up, rather than panicking, Combat Roll honestly reevaluated the situation, reworked his plans, and saw those plans through to a successful completion.

    Because of his level headed behavior and his honest acceptance of the situation, Combat Roll was able to effect his separation with a minimum of fuss. She didn’t destroy his property and she didn’t make the One Phone Call. He got away unscathed.

    It’s true that the actual divorce still has to occur. That’s when his soon-to-be ex-wife will start to cause more problems. If she doesn’t think of doing that on her own, you best bet her f~~~ing lawyer will remind her to do so and then guide her towards the worst behavior they can.

    Combat Roll is aware of that. I’m certain he has plans in place. I’m equally certain that he will change or drop those plans if or when the situation warrants.

    He’s going his own way. He’s also wise enough to flexible when it comes to choosing which paths he should take to his goals.

    Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

    #691942
    PuniShredder
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    Awesome!! Congrats brother! Stay single and GYOW! Enjoy Freedom!

    Be professional be polite but always have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

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