A Blue Pill Buddy of Mine is Going Broke Because His Wife is on Facebook All Day

[Sky-OParticipant 18953]

It has been absolutely amazing and sobering to watch. All while he ignores my advice and attempts at leading him to MGTOW. . . .

But in the last year and as a result of his wife’s constant life on Facebook, he is spiraling into what will eventually be bankruptcy if or when he loses his job. His situation, at this point is unsustainable over the long term.

Once again, due to his wife being on Facebook:

Last year she saw her girlfriends posting pictures of their new houses. She immediately told my buddy they needed to sell their house and buy a bigger/nicer house. He has a larger mortgage now.

One of her girlfriend’s posted pics of her new BMW that her husband bought her AND a picture of her hugging him next to it and the girlfriend referred to her husband, related to her being a stay at home mom and him taking care of the kids needs as well as ‘our great provider!’ Yeah, they are getting more obvious at this point. Anyway, my buddy let his wife trade her car in and she bought a new one. The other car was paid off and now he has the new car payments to deal with.

Vacations. Yep, when all of her girlfriends throughout the year post endless pictures of their vacations to places like Hawaii, Cabo San Lucas, etc, it gets ingrained in my buddy’s wife’s brain and she is now hounding my buddy to take her and the kids on more and better vacations. They are leaving for one in October. He put the cost of it all on a credit card at about 23% interest. He just can’t afford to actually pay for it right away.

And it goes on and on. It never ends and he is starting to suffer physical effects from the constant demands and stress of maintaining it all.

The end is near in terms of the marriage along with his ability to maintain the marriage financially. He is cracking at work and not even happy when he is at home.

He had a way out a few years ago before she stopped working and before the kids, but at this point his only way out is going to cost him big time.

He was, however ‘the man’ when they first met. She is gorgeous and he was constantly telling me and our other buddy’s how great the sex was and how amazing she was. The sex at this point has almost come to an end, and when they do have sex he told me ‘she just lays there and lets me use her pussy,’ and he looked like a man broken in spirit and life when he told me that.

[BritGHOWParticipant 2566]

Put bluntly your buddy needed to find his b~~~~, one word could have put a stop to this before it started, that word? No.

Prior to the kids they did not “need” a bigger/nicer house, she did not “need” a new car, they do not “need” exotic vacations, certainly they did not “need” these things to come out of just his pocket, and they “need” these things even less now she isn’t working and has all but stopped giving him the one thing of value she has.

The word “no” when faced with her demands would have achieved one of two outcomes, either or could have saved him and been more desirable than the hell he’s currently going through.

1. She might have actually realised that money doesn’t grow on trees and she just can’t have everything she wants when she wants it, unless of course she’s willing to pay for it herself because strong independent woman.

2. More likely she’d have left him because “he’s a failure that can’t provide for her” in that case parasite gone and happy life, job done.

Unfortunately as you say it’s too late for him now, the dangers of the blue pill, sad to say his only hope now is that his example will save future MGTOW from sharing his fate.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

Ugh……keeping up with the Joneses.

Every time I hear women talking about some other woman’s fancy house, new car, exotic vacations, or shopping trips, it makes me sick.

Poor bastard probably doesn’t even get a blowjob on his birthday…

[Swen AugustParticipant 373]

a woman once told me that I will support her in the style in which she is accustom. After listening to her drivel for several minutes I just looked her in the eye and said “no I don’t”
they hate me because I will NOT allow them to control me>

[megatoad69Participant 449]

That’s the sad fact, women are f~~~ing tight, and not the way you want them tight. And when one of them rubs their pluses (not pussies) into their friends noses, they want that too. My ex mentioned vacation a couple times simply because her friend would post vacation pics of Bahamas Barbados, etc. and all those other generic fenced in tourist traps. Just being a show off rubbing everyone’s noses in her awesome s~~~.
Women are all about show and tell!
The other problem with facebook is that everyone’s life seems so much better than yours, because that’s all you see, the best of, like having an album of ______’s top hits, you think they are the greatest, then you listen to a regular album and they mostly stink.

It’s like a diamond ring, bloody useless, unless you have glass to cut, the only value they have is bragging rights, how many carats, how big, how much, as if to say the bigger the rock, the more he loves her, so now Joe blow has to go into debt to prove something and to eliminate her jealousy..

It’s infantile.
And this s~~~ is what I fear about women, the constant need to keep them happy.
I just realised that social media plays a big part in contaminating women’s brains, before that it was TV,
Most women lack the ability to think independently, definately a hive mind set.

You can't reason with unreasonable, there; women, figured out, there is nothing to reason.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8286]

The American economy is probably sustained by these unsatisfied women. Think of how much money is spent to please them…and then they want more!

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[megatoad69Participant 449]

The advertising industry knows this.
It’s like McD’s advertising to kids back in the day, the real aim is the parents, who take little Jimmy to McD’s to shut him the f~~~ up!

You can't reason with unreasonable, there; women, figured out, there is nothing to reason.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Your buddy needs to hit bottom before he can start up again. Even then, he has to want to. No amount of good advice will do any good. It is falling on deaf ears, and the real life examples of those who went before him are not seen because his eyes are blind. He is deaf and blind by choice, his choice.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[megatoad69Participant 449]

because vagina

You can't reason with unreasonable, there; women, figured out, there is nothing to reason.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Sky-O wrote:

He was, however ‘the man’ when they first met.

Perhaps after the aftermath of this , he will wake up to when he was a real man & this will instill in him to never allow this s~~~ to happen again.

If he was, before she put the pants & ball buster boots on, maybe you could ask him when/how he thinks he stopped?
And does he see that it is ongoing to this day on why he did?

[ChilledToZeroParticipant 178]

There is still hope, maybe his wife will come across an Nigerian Prince who can make the family rich if given 9.95 in monthly payments

Seriously though, i feel sorry for that guy, i wouldn’t wish this blood suckery on anyone

Almost as much draining as listening to the dracula Audiobook by Bram Stoker
good read btw

[WallyParticipant]

Your friend is in an unsustainable position. Sadly, like Funin tthe Sun alluded to, the economy is being propped up by women like this, eventually comes the crash in the marriage and the economy. The best thing I have done in the last couple of months besides joining MGTOW was get off Facebook. Amazing how much stress it can cause.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3301]

And I just bet that she will soon start having an affair with a guy she met through Facebook. He is giving her everything she wants now in a desperate attempt to keep her happy and she will not respect him. She will get bored of being able to use him as a doormat and will soon start looking for a real man to treat her like s~~~.

She will be living in the big house with her new boyfriend, driving her new car and he will have to pay for it all while he lives with his parents or in a rented bedsit.

Facebook offers a completely distorted view of reality that women seem to believe and absolutely lap it up. A lot of women are obviously photo shopping their selfies now, but rather than pull them up on it other women and mangina’s just post “you look gorgeous hun!” type comments which just causes other women to start photo shopping their photos too.

It’s just a bragging tool which allows people to believe their lives have meaning when in fact they are totally without worth.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[megatoad69Participant 449]

Won'tGetFooledAgain wrote:

It’s just a bragging tool which allows people to believe their lives have meaning when in fact they are totally without worth.

I don’t do facebook, but my ex did, and to look at other people profiles can make a person feel like a loser, because it seems like everyone else is winning.
It’s a popularity contest, where all the losers try to look like winners, because all the other losers are doing it too.

Never did join facebook, I see it for what it is, a p~~~ing contest that mines data.

You can't reason with unreasonable, there; women, figured out, there is nothing to reason.

[The Ok MGTOW PersonParticipant 6]

[ThermonuclearAutomaticWeaponParticipant 80]

Swen August wrote:

a woman once told me that I will support her in the style in which she is accustom. After listening to her drivel for several minutes I just looked her in the eye and said “no I don’t”they hate me because I will NOT allow them to control me>

It all comes down to who will be there for you when the going gets tough. Though some women will. Bust as for the degenerate termagant (and there are a disproportionate number of them out there), if you aren’t keeping up with the Joneses and the Kartrashians, they just leave you when you need them the most.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

This is a tragedy of Greek sized proportions. Seriously I cant stand facebook. Never used it. Well once I made a fake account to find a highschool friend I lost contact with and that is it.

I looked at the females on there and every single one would post some selfie and all the girl friends would line up on que and comment “gorgeous” or some crap compliment. It was so obvious they only did it so in turn they would get compliments. Its nothing more than a virtual circle jerk for the ego.

Resident cynic.

[Dcue95Participant 78]

The Ok MGTOW Person wrote:

Math checks out, your proof is valid

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