A Beautiful Woman Failed At Trying To Pick Me Up.

[Aroused By Her AnguishParticipant 343]

My sister’s boyfriend owns a restaurant about 5 minutes away from my house.  I patronize that restaurant due to its convenient location and wonderful food.

I was at the restaurant two nights ago, and I was sitting at the bar counter alone.  I don’t drink alcohol, but I love sitting at this bar because I can get my order in a lot faster.  I was surfing the internet on my phone while I was waiting for my food to arrive, and I saw a beautiful woman walk in a set next to some guys a few seats down from me.  A couple of minutes later she turned to me, pointed at the chair directly to my left, and asked, “Is there anyone sitting there?”  I told her no.  She then moved from where she was sitting and sat right next to me.  She kept trying to start a conversation with me, but I kept my eyes glued to my phone and I didn’t say a word to her.  After five minutes of her trying, I finally gave in and responded.  She turned out to be a very intelligent person and our conversation was definitely interesting and entertaining.  I red pill started wearing off and I started to think that I had finally come across a true American NAWALT!

Everything was going smoothly until she spoke a sentence which included a phrase which always causes my internal alarms to ring like a Catholic church bell at noon.  She quoted the phrase “MY SON”!  Like most of the MGTOW here, I always make it one of my top priorities to avoid single mothers.  I’m 32 years old, and I was thinking that this woman was in her early twenties.  Again, I was wrong.  She mentioned that her son was muscular.  I thought to myself, “how in the world could a kid be muscular?”  I asked her how old her son is and she told me that he’s 20 YEARS OLD!  :O  She then showed me a picture of him on her phone.  Her son is bigger than I am and looks older than I do.  I look like a kid compared to her son.  She asked me for my age, and I told her that I’m 32.  I asked her for her age, and she told me that she’s 42!!!  She’s a black woman, and that happens a lot with these black women.  They tend to look a lot younger than what they are.  My mother is 69 years old, but strangers think she’s 45 years old.  I made sure to tell her that I have no children and that I have my own place and everything.  Ionly did that to indirectly let her know that I’m more valuable than most of the guys she’s been dealing with.

It got worse.  The woman then told me that she has an ex-husband.  That’s another strike against her in my eyes.  I always avoid women who have ex-husbands.  Then she started complaining to me about one of her recent ex-boyfriends because he had apparently borrowed thousands of dollars from her and never paid it back.  She then complained about another boyfriend she had for 4 years, only to find out that he was already married to another woman for the entire 4 years.  Throughout the conversation, she mentioned her son about 50 times, I guess to try to get a reaction out of me.

Later in the conversation, she started comllaining about how lonely she was and that she wanted to have a companion because she doesn’t like going places alone.  I quickly responded with, “I enjoy going everywhere alone because it gives me the complete freedom to do whatever I want whenever I want it.”  She then told me that I’m selfish.  She also said, “I’m independent and I make a lot of money.  I can afford to go to 5-star restaurants and high class places.  If a man wants to be with me, then he should be able to pay for both of us to go to these places.  Since I can afford it, then I refuse to take anything less.”  I couldn’t believe what I was hearing!  I wish I could have recorded what she said so that I could play it for yall.  And she was the one calling ME selfish!

After about 2 hours of talking with her, I think she was expecting me to take her home with me.  I just got up, gave her a “Christian side-hug”, then walked out.  The look of disappointment on her face was priceless.  It’s as if she had invested all of her money into a single lottery ticket and lost.  She looked like she was about to cry.  She had tried so hard to make me want her.  It was like she had got rejected without even being rejected.  I was probably the first guy who didn’t ask to take her home.  I’m not sure, but I loved every second of it.  If she would have been childless and without an ex-husband, I still wouldn’t have invited her to my house, but I would have exchanged contact information so that would could have gotten to know each other better.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Once mgtow it’s quite amazing how many red flags one can spot.

Women just can’t control the moaning t~~~ gland in their brains.

Oh well …. never mind. Maybe you made her go home and have a think.

They just can’t have a normal talk in a bar ….. another guy would never bitch like that.

[Anon AnoningtonParticipant 62]

She sounds disgusting, but at least she was honest. It’s really nice when women do nothing to cover up their unacceptable past and personality.

[Aroused By Her AnguishParticipant 343]

Oh wow!  I just realized that I have a bunch of grammatical errors in that original post.  I’m sorry about that.  I really don’t know how to fix it 🙁

But yeah…  The woman is actually very attractive, wealthy, well-educated, and intelligent.  She must have thought that those qualities would supersede the fact that she has a kid and an ex-husband.  Her son is already out of the house and going to college out of town, but that still doesn’t matter to me.  If her son has a kid, guess who’d be babysitting that kid.  The woman!  I’m not going to be competing against that kid for the woman’s time and attention.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Aroused By Her Anguish wrote:

After about 2 hours of talking with her, I think she was expecting me to take her home with me. I just got up, gave her a “Christian side-hug”, then walked out. The look of disappointment on her face was priceless. It’s as if she had invested all of her money into a single lottery ticket and lost. She looked like she was about to cry. She had tried so hard to make me want her. It was like she had got rejected without even being rejected. I was probably the first guy who didn’t ask to take her home. I’m not sure, but I loved every second of it.

It sure is satisfying watching women hit The Wall.

But it’s even better when you get to BE The Wall, isn’t it?

Be The Wall, gentlemen. Be The Wall.

[BDParticipant 1146]

Aroused By Her Anguish wrote:

After about 2 hours of talking with her

I would have left after she mentioned she was a single mom.

It’s like you need to detox to cleanse yourself after being around that.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[Aroused By Her AnguishParticipant 343]

HAHA!  “Be The Wall”?  WOW!  That is one of the most amazing philosophies I’ve ever heard.  I’m going to have to start living by that rule!  Thanks, Sidecar 😀

You’re right.  I was very satisfied to see that woman like that.  I actually called my sister earlier today just to let her know what happened and how satisfied I was.  My sister was like, “Now I feel bad for that woman.  I can’t believe you treated her like that”.  I told my sister that I did that woman a favor by not wasting her time in a relationship that I never wanted to occur in the first place.

[Aroused By Her AnguishParticipant 343]

BulletDodger, the only reason I stayed there is because the food was good.  If there would have been no good food, then I would have cut that conversation short.  Believe me.  I would have rather been watching porn at home.  Some of the woman’s stories were entertaining though, especially the parts where she talked about how poorly other guys had been treating her.  I also enjoyed all of the unwarranted attention that she was giving me.  It felt so good to be on the “other side of the table” for a change.  I put absolutely no effort into trying to get her attention, but she was allover me.

She even offer to buy ME a drink!  I meant to mention that in my original post.  That’s why in the original post I said I don’t drink alcohol.  I actually rejected that woman’s offer to buy me a drink 😀

[Anonymous 12]

Isn’t it fun watching how confused they look when they realize their “Pussy Power” has failed?!

[YAZParticipant 140]

I would have banged her at her place or a semi-decent hotel room.  Some black girls are absolutely sexy and wild.  Fun s~~~.

 

Whore Magnet

[Aroused By Her AnguishParticipant 343]

Man, I seriously thought about it.  She kept indirectly inviting me to her house throughout the entire conversation.  I had to stay strong though.  She was probably trying to trap me or something.  She was sexy though.  I give her a 9 out of 10.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

I don’t know, I think you made the right call.  F~~~ing some random desperate milf isn’t a great accomplishment, but this story…priceless.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

“Be the Wall”… priceless!

Sidecar, you are a Shaman!

Sovereignty above all else.

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

Love this, can we triple like something on here…lol. I was rolling here in the office, thankfully the boss doesn’t care what I do. Anyway, good job bro, keep it up. They need to learn that the pussy has no power over some of us. I’m glad you kept with it…the force is strong in this one!

I had a little victory myself this weekend. I’m at a bar with a bro of mine, and he get’s up to go to the restroom. A girl comes over within 20 seconds and asks if the chair beside me was taken. I said “yea, my friend just went to the restroom, he’ll be back” She sat down anyway, do they ever listen? So she starts talking about herself right off the bat. “I don’t normally come to bars like this, I like clubs but I figured I’d slum it up.” She keeps talking for the next two minutes, I’m zoning out on some late night sportscenter on the tube, drinking my beer. I look over to see my friend giving me the thumbs up. I said “well there’s my friend” She’s like “it looks like he doesn’t care” I said “But I do, so get up and talk your non-sense some place else” My friend was p~~~ed at me, but I just told him, I’m not looking to talk to any dumb bitches right now, but be my guest.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Gunslinger wrote:

I said “well there’s my friend” She’s like “it looks like he doesn’t care” I said “But I do, so get up and talk your non-sense some place else”

That’s the way to do it.

No quarter given. Nor f~~~s given either.

[Aroused By Her AnguishParticipant 343]

I just realized something.  About 2 years ago, I was at a club with one of my best friends who happens to be a mangina.  He’s the type of guy who flirts with every woman he sees.  While at the club, he saw two women walk in alone and sit at the bar counter.  He walked right up there and started flirting with both of them.  The women complained to the bouncers and the bouncers literally threw my friend out of the club.  Now in the situation I experienced a few days ago, if I would have complained to a bouncer, I’m sure the bouncer would have just laughed at me and called me gay.  I wouldn’t have complained anyway because I know how to handle women, but it’s the thought that counts 😀

[Aroused By Her AnguishParticipant 343]

SO…

I was at my sister’s boyfriend’s restaurant again 3 days ago, and guess who was in there. The woman who failed at trying to pick me up! She immediately recognized me and grew the biggest smile on her face. She had a carryout order and it as handed to her one minute after I arrived. Once she paid for her food, so refused to leave just because I was there. She was like, “My son is in town and I bought this food for him, but he’ll just have to wait now.”

She stayed in there for over an hour just to speak to me, and she ignored everyone else. She also remembered everything about me, even though it had been a month since the initial event took place. I had ordered my food, eaten my food, and paid for my food while her son was waiting for her to bring his food home. He had even called her and asked where she was 😀

She kept insinuating that she wanted to meet up with me throughout our entire conversation, so I did end up exchanging numbers with her. She is very beautiful, intelligent, interesting, and wealthy. I STILL don’t want a relationship with her though because of her son and ex-husband (who also called her while she was conversing with me). The only reason I gave her my number this time is because she was still interested even though I had ignored her one month ago. Also, I only plan on fooling around with her, and I’ll make that clear to her in the very beginning. I have not contacted her at all, and I don’t plan on contacting her. If she wants to make anything she’ll have to contact me. She has my number.

She says that her son was supposedly moving back to college this current weekend, so at least I won’t have to worry about dealing with him. If she does contact me and we end up fooling around, I’ll make sure to wear protection.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Aroused By Her Anguish wrote:

She also remembered everything about me, even though it had been a month since the initial event took place.

Because you rejected her.

The only reason I gave her my number this time is because she was still interested even though I had ignored her one month ago. Also, I only plan on fooling around with her, and I’ll make that clear to her in the very beginning. I have not contacted her at all, and I don’t plan on contacting her. If she wants to make anything she’ll have to contact me. She has my number.

This will not end well.

Trust me, you will have a lot more fun and a lot less strife in your life just continuing to ignore her while watching her flail about in your direction.

[Aroused By Her AnguishParticipant 343]

Sidecar, why do you think it will not end well? I’ll listen to what you and everyone else has to say.

The only contact information she has about me is my phone number. If she does decide to contact me and wants to meet up, then I’ll insist on meeting at her place. I don’t think it would be a good idea for me to bring her to my apartment. I don’t want her to start randomly showing up. If she doesn’t like my “no relationship, just fool around” idea, then I’ll tell her to go somewhere else. I also plan on telling her that I won’t spend a dime on her.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Aroused By Her Anguish wrote:

Sidecar, why do you think it will not end well?

In what possible way do you think it could end well?

At this point she’s clearly not interested in you even if she was once. She’s only interested in proving to herself that she’s not post-wall after all and you really didn’t reject her before.

One chance per woman per lifetime. She had her chance. Why are you giving her a second?

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