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  • #121230
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    Deus Ex Machina
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    Yup, either we have been one, or some Female we’ve either dated, married, had a long relationship with, has had a “Side Guy”. As as Keymaster says and has always been my personal favorite “Justin Case”, She keeps Him around “Just in Case”.

    Female : He’s just a friend

    Female : “We’re good friends”

    Female : “He’s been my friend since like, high school?”

    Female : You don’t have to worry, He’s only a friend”

    Anyways here’s the link, not surprising, however very interesting.

    http://thechive.com/2015/09/25/you-should-be-more-suspicious-of-your-girlfriends-friend-7-photos/#?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=post&utm_campaign=chivetrafficfacebook?NV:.wcljbk:ECNT

    "If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

    #121234
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    DeepInThought
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    100% true.

    I am proud to admit to have never been this guy, yet, when I point this out I’m the bad guy who is unnecessarily hard on women and has issues. Ha, go figure!

    And men, stop being the “just a friend.” I have women friends who sometimes call me and immediately bitch about their bloke. What do I do? Shut her nonsense down, give her a moral kick up the ass and tell her to talk to him, not me…end call!

    #121238
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    Untamed
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    They’re proud of it and I can see why. If the husband wasn’t such a Blue-Pill deluded chump he wouldn’t have to worry about another Blue-Pill deluded chump.

    Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
    Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
    #GenderSegragationNow!

    #121251
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    AFT
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    Funny, I just went out with a land whale, (fraudulent internet dating photo), anyway I really got along with her, so I’ve decided to use her as my “just a freind”.
    Basically I’m interested in prying into her mind, and seeing what she does when I tell her the chemistry between us is different, we have a different sort of chemistry, there’s no spark, whatever, I’m curious WTF she’ll do?
    I’m already going out with a couple of steady FWBs so this’ll be cool.
    Turn the tables and watch ’em flip ?

    When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

    #121259
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    Untamed
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    Funny, I just went out with a land whale, (fraudulent internet dating photo), anyway I really got along with her, so I’ve decided to use her as my “just a freind”.Basically I’m interested in prying into her mind, and seeing what she does when I tell her the chemistry between us is different, we have a different sort of chemistry, there’s no spark, whatever, I’m curious WTF she’ll do?I’m already going out with a couple of steady FWBs so this’ll be cool.Turn the tables and watch ’em flip ?

    And ‘flip’ they do when you tell ’em you just want to be friends. I’ve done it many times and the deal is that ONLY weemins have the right to tell an interested suitor they just want to be friends, no ifs ands and buts. When a man says that he’s heartless, selfish, doesn’t know what love is, gay, misogynistic and anything else that comes to her mind.
    In our society, a woman has all the rights and a man can just “take it like a man”. You bet your ass I’ll take it like a Man, I went mgtow!

    Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
    Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
    #GenderSegragationNow!

    #121266
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    Anonymous
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    I friend zoned a woman a couple of months ago. She dropped me like a hot rock after that. Good riddance……

    Nothing is more pathetic than that backup guy professing his love. Can you say self-inflicted misery???

    #121302
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    DrAK74
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    My soon to be ex-wife has had one under my nose for years. He also masqueraded as a friend to me so his game was all the more insidious. A week after I fled my home, I was forced to return to drop off some papers and I found his beer in my fridge and his shoes on the mat where mine once were…….I felt a hot flash of rage for just a moment before a nice cool calm settled over me. He could have her! I am a successful person who has a high paying job and a ton of education that I am currently putting to use to acquire more money. He is a semi-retired injured tile layer who is manic depressive and a heavy drinker….. She likes to be a martyr and fix people…..good luck on that one sister! MGTOW saved me, thanks God I found it.

    #121304
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    BlackEagle
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    I have one right now who gets wet every time she talks to me. says s~~~ about her hubby how he dont treat her right and get mad at her for her bitchy ways.
    I swatted that fly right out of the sky,”Bitch go talk to him, he is your hubby, dont talk your problems out of your relationship, He sounds like a good man to me! Her eyes just widen and stopped talking.. swatted her many times before, like ; listen, I wouldn’t do anything with you because you got a hubby at home , its just not right and i respected him as a man, just the way i want to be respected by another.You are just a friend and that’s it, give on different circumstances I would f~~~ the living s~~~ out of you! Her eyes widen mouth stayed open and keep silent for a while! She still gets wet every time she sees me! i refuse to be the back up or IF my “partner” had a backup! SHe knows she can’t have me, cant have me even as a back up!

    #121308
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    Bigboy83
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    One of best quotes I heard on this forum.

    “Your not a priority, your a option.”

    The quote is so f~~~ing true.

    Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

    #121309
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    Maillesmith
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    My ex’s back-up was named Justin.

    Go figure

    #121315
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    Ned Trent
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    Her eyes just widen and stopped talking.. swatted her many times before, like ; listen, I wouldn’t do anything with you because you got a hubby at home , its just not right and i respected him as a man, just the way i want to be respected by another.

    Now, this would be just a perfect counter example to put forward, whenever these (in their own phantasy dream driven minds) relationship spoiled rotten and (in reality) convenience driven/entitled children try to shame us for being selfish women haters, simply because they are by nature unable to draw a line between outright misogyny and our respect for our fellow men unless of course if it (depending heavily on their very current situation) serves their own comfort or again their own convenience. They are in actual fact spoiled rotten by numerous encounters which they can easily define as “relationships” also due to a long ride on the c~~~ carousel plus a long time of monkey branching back and forth, so much so that in effect they no longer can ever stay or consider themselves being alone, which in their truthful eyes also means being defenseless against any strange man they might happen to meet somewhere plus at the same time not being desirable enough (hence the backup guy-trick; it plays this very double role). So they like to dream and regard each and every encounter, be it a one night stand or c~~~ carousel candidate (falsely) as a “relationship” and occasionally even any other male attention giver for that matter (those being mostly classified as secret admirers/lovers or say imaginary lovers). Ever wondered why every woman who is in a relationship with some guy is so damn proud and regard him almost like a personal trophy (at least for a while because remember: convenience!) …? That’s exactly why. Again they are clearly kidding themselves (pun intended) at least to us, who have taken in enough red pills to see through all the fog.
    In that they are playing their game “hard to get”, mostly because of all the (in part imaginary) male competitors, whilst we are playing our “we don’t care about exactly that” game which ironically turns out to be better than PUA 2.0.
    As a result going your own way will make you a better man than any woman could possibly wish for controlling in her wildest 50-shades-of-rape-like dreams and that’s the very irony of mgtow. Fancy shaming us to Man up..? Yeah right (ROFL).
    Hey wenches (I am using your term now MegaChris%), we are manning up more then you ever could appreciate, which is beyond belief plus us getting all down to your irrational level of reverse psychology. You left us with no alternative. – Oh what a spoiler on my part that is, whooops –

    Ok, now once again in proper German:

    Ihre Augen nur verbreitern und hörte auf zu reden .. schlug ihr viele Male zuvor, wie; zu hören, und ich habe nichts mit Ihnen, weil Sie einen Ehemann zu Hause habe, es ist einfach nicht richtig, und ich respektierte ihn als einen Mann, genau so, wie ich will

    Siehst Du… … und das is genau das Gegenbeispiel, welches wir jederzeit anfügen können, wann immer diese (von ihrer Träumer-Irrationalität angefeuerten) beziehungsverwöhnten (und tatsächlich) bequemlichkeitsgesteuerten und gleicher als gleich berechtigten Kindsköpfinnen versuchen, uns als selbstsüchtige Frauenhasser zu beschämen, einfach nur deshalb, weil sie es naturgemäss nicht schaffen, eine Grenze zu ziehen zwischen eindeutigem Frauenhass und unserem Respekt vor anderen Männern, es sei denn es böte sich (aufgrund von deren weiblichen jeweiligen Situation aus Bequemlichkeit gerade an). Jedoch sind sie de facto schlicht beziehungsverwöhnt aus ihrer eigenen Interpretation heraus, durch unzählige Begegnungen nahezu egal welcher Art mit Männern, welche sie jederzeit aus Bequemlichkeitsgründen als “Beziehungen” herhalten lassen können auch dank einer langen Phase auf dem C~~~-Karussell, sowie dem wiederholten Hin-und Herhangeln zwischen verschiedenen “Partnern”, und das alles soweit, bis sie sich kaum noch vorstellen können, jemals wirklich allein zu sein. Denn das würden sie widerum auch noch interpretieren als schutzlos fremden Männern ausgeliefert zu sein und gleichzeitig noch nicht einmal begehrenswert genug zu sein (daher die Taktik des Ersatz-Mannes; jener spielt genau diese beiden Rollen vereint). Also träumen sie lieber vor sich hin und definieren jede Begegnung mit irgend einem Typen, sei er nun ein Onenight- stand oder irgend ein anderer C~~~-Karussell-Kandidat einfach mal eben (fälschlicherweise) als “Beziehung” und manchmal sogar viele Aufmerksamkeiten von verschiedenen Kerlen (jene werden jedoch meist eher als heimliche Verehrer oder imaginäre Freunde betrachtet, aber egal).

    Habt Ihr Euch jemals gefragt, warum jede verpartnerte Frau ihren jeweiligen (momentanen) Typen so stolz anhimmelt und ihn gleichzeitig wie eine Trophähe ansieht (zumindest so lange es sich für sie jeweils lohnt; zur Erinnerung: Bequemlichkeit!)…? Eben genau deswegen.
    Selbstverständlich machen sie sich in dem Moment nur etwas vor, so zumindest uns gegenüber, die wir schon viele rote Kapseln geschluckt haben, um hinter diesen ganzen Dunst blicken zu können…

    Dadurch spielen sie ihr Spiel “schwer zu kriegen” immer weiter, hauptsächlich um viele (teils imaginäre) Männerkonkurrenten ins selbige Spiel zu bringen, während wir äusserst unbehelligt unser “genau darauf scheissen wir“-Spiel weiterspielen, welches uns ironischerweiser attraktiver macht als sämtliche Verführungskünstler 2.0.

    Letztlich sind alle Männer, die unbeirrbar ihren eigenen Weg gehen attraktiver für jede Frau, als sie ihn in ihren kühnsten “50-Shades-of-Rape”-Träumen je versuchen könnte, zu kontrollieren. So, Ihr wollt uns also mit der Phrase: “Stehe Deinen Mann” beschämen…? Bester Witz des Tages (selten so gelacht).

    Also ehrlich Fräuleins, wenn wir genau so “unseren Mann stehen”, wie wir es hier tun, würdet Ihr das niemals genug zu schätzen wissen, weil es jenseits Eurer Vorstellungskraft liegt und wir uns gleichzeitig immens weit ‘runter auf Eure niedrige (irrationale) pseudopsychologische Stufe begeben. Und stattdessen gibt es für uns alle derzeit keine bessere Alternative.

    – Au weia, jetzt hab ich’s verraten, hoppla –

    I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

    #121336
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    Cap285
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    With the invention of dumbphones, the friend zone has gone from few guys in her memory to a f~~~ing database.

    Fuck this planet.
    #121348
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    Keymaster
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    Yup that’s his name: “Justin Case”. She keeps him around, Justin Case.

    • Just in case she gets fat.
    • Just in case she needs a date on national holidays
    • Just in case the guy she is f~~~ing this month dumps her and she needs a shoulder to cry on.
    • Just in case she needs someone to go to the mall with her while maxing out her credit cards to soothe her aching self-esteem.
    • Just in case she’s not married by her 31st birthday.

    Leykis did a piece on this “A Man Waiting in the Wings”.

    One of best quotes I heard on this forum. “Your not a priority, your a option.”

    That was a tweet by Private Man. Exact quote is “If you’re not her priority, you’re only an option.”

    It speaks volumes.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #121377
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    Just a Man
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    I stopped f~~~ing married women for two reasons. First, it is her fault she married him so deal with it. Second, it is Russian Roulette. You just never know.

    Philosophy, the female repellent

    #121380
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    Anonymous
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    Great thread.

    I’ve been the backup guy who f~~~ed the chick who claimed to others that we were just friends.

    I’m not proud of that in any way, shape, or form today. I was much younger, and I wouldn’t cross that line again unless I was unwitting to her schemes.

    This is the ultimate proof on the conniving nature of women who act as if her “friend” hasn’t eaten her out, played with her vagina, tongue kissed her, or cum in her mouth/vagina.

    #121404
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    Mango Ingaway
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    I think it’s Chris Rock who said that these guys are “a dick in a glass case”. Sums it up nicely. She keeps you in a little box, then if she hits the wallor has a problem, she pulls you out, and (thanks honey) you get the privilege of paying for a good deal of her s~~~/solving her problems.

    Ain’t that a wonderful thing?

    It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

    #121614
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    MIKETOW
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    Funny, I just went out with a land whale, (fraudulent internet dating photo), anyway I really got along with her, so I’ve decided to use her as my “just a freind”.Basically I’m interested in prying into her mind, and seeing what she does when I tell her the chemistry between us is different, we have a different sort of chemistry, there’s no spark, whatever, I’m curious WTF she’ll do?I’m already going out with a couple of steady FWBs so this’ll be cool.Turn the tables and watch ’em flip ?

    I would be careful with that, she could accuse you of rape just to get back at you, man, those land whales are more bitter , very emotional and very f~~~ed up in the head.

    I used to enjoy rubbing their tummies 😉

    #121669
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    I had a neighbor once (attractive) that you used to come over to hang out and complain about her boyfriend. I eventually figured out what was going on and told her she couldn’t come around any more. When she asked why I told her she had a boyfriend and that it wasn’t right to be coming over to my place all the time…..also said in a roundabout way that he got all the perks of dating her (sex) while I got to listen to her complain about him. The look of confusion was priceless. However That one blew up on me soon…..she broke up with him in a few days and was back knocking on my door. Turned into a long roller coaster ride with that one. Should have went with my gut feeling and stayed the hell always from her.

    #121704
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    Sky-O
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    All women that are capable of and physically attractive enough to have a back-up guy, always maintain a connection with the back-up guy and preferably more than one because:

    Women know that there might come a point in time when in the primary relationship that they might have to actually reciprocate in a meaningful way and in their minds, that is just too much work when they can have a ready and willing new guy lined up already.

    They all eventually cheat and know there is a chance they will get caught cheating. Rather than face the consequences of their infidelity, they need another guy on hold to transition to at the point in time their lies, manipulation and infidelity catch up with them.

    Their ability to bond with one source of emotional and sexual attention is extremely limited and while being conscious of that fact, they know they have to have ready and available alternate options set up to make leaving the primary relationship easier when the time comes since they are unable to ever be alone.

    They are addicted to attention and it is practically impossible for a woman to extract the amount of attention from just one guy and like an addict seeking out as many hits as possible, additional guys on hold and/or back-up guys provide the much needed attention at any point in time that a woman is not getting what she feels is enough from the guy she is in her primary relationship with.

    #121709
    AFT
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    As a result going your own way will make you a better man than any woman could possibly wish for controlling in her wildest 50-shades-of-rape-like dreams and that’s the very irony of mgtow.

    Yep taking names and kicking ass, apart from the land whale that I’m worried about, she may sit on me after I break it to her that we’re just freinds, I got 2 regular FWB, and a waiting list, that I’m getting through, making up for my 15 years of oneitis with 2 LTR.

    Now they are my options and I’m my priority 🙂

    I used to enjoy rubbing their tummies

    You’re just a bad influence…Hahaha…why’d you have to put that thought in my head 🙂

    I friend zoned a woman a couple of months ago. She dropped me like a hot rock after that. Good riddance……

    And ‘flip’ they do when you tell ’em you just want to be friends.

    Yeah I’m 1/2 scared of what she’ll do, but f~~~ it’s irresistible, I got to experience her reaction, where can I get a secret spy camera, to protect myself. Problem is I’ve always had high standards and WANTED to f~~~ the girls I’ve been out with, but this one pulled an OLD photo on dating website trick, so it’s the first time I’ve been out with a Land whale, I got NO SEXUAL INTEREST in. May as well get some experience out of it, wonder how long she’ll take to push for sex, when I don’t initiate, I’m p~~~ing myself thinking about it. F~~~ should I get her to pay for the dinner, and do a complete 100% role reversal, this can get quite interesting 🙂

    When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

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