50th Wedding Anniversary

Topic by Vajra Varaha

Vajra Varaha

Home Forums Marriage & Divorce 50th Wedding Anniversary

This topic contains 7 replies, has 7 voices, and was last updated by Habilis71  habilis71 2 months, 4 weeks ago.

Viewing 8 posts - 1 through 8 (of 8 total)
  • Author
    Posts
  • #914604
    +5
    Vajra Varaha
    Vajra Varaha
    Participant
    1283

    Pop and I spoke the other day.
    For the last 3 years on their anniversary my mother has not said a word to my father.
    He wished her a Happy Anniversary.

    This year he decided to shut up and see what she did.
    Nothing again.

    My poor dad sacrificed his whole life to take care of us.
    All I ever heard from her was how much of a horrible person he was.
    And sadly, for many years, I believed it.

    Turned out he was just too exhausted from all the work and chores to spend time with anyone.
    Plus I suspect he was also avoiding the s~~~ out of my bitch mother.

    Any young men reading this, if you are thinking of getting married, remember the most important thing we can teach you:

    YOU ARE AL BUNDY!!!!!!

    #914611
    +8
    Secret Agent MGTOW
    Secret Agent MGTOW
    Participant
    22503

    F~~~ man, I feel for your dad. Nothing worse than when you have no doubt marriage has become truly a prison. And the little woman is the bipolar sadistic warden.

    Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

    #914620
    +4
    Bstoff
    bstoff
    Participant
    4863

    I’m glad you were able to catch on to your mother’s indoctrination and see past it.
    I’m still alienated from my son who was turned against me.

    #914624
    +7
    Awakened
    Awakened
    Participant
    35200

    When you BEGIN a relationship with a woman; she makes you the focus of WHY everything is “right” in HER LIFE.

    As time passes and the relationship continues: gradually she makes you the focus of WHY everything is “wrong” in HER LIFE.

    AWALT

    Dad would’ve had a better life NOW if he went his own way 25 years ago….

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #914628
    +5
    Ogre
    Ogre
    Participant
    5863

    My grandparents all made their 50th. I was at my in-law’s 50th. My parents went away for their’s. The boomers will be the last generation with any appreciable number of these landmarks.

    For better or worse, the landscape of marriage has succumbed to the attack on it’s structure. Your mom knew where the door was and she was told for those 50 years that she could do anything, but she chose to live with him. Even if he was a monster, she chose to be taken care of instead of being free and responsible for herself and paying her own way.

    Women that complain about their man are serpents who speak with forked tongues. “He’s so bad, but look at my nice house.” ”How could I pay for all of the things I want on what I could make.” Women want more than they could ever provide, it’s the only reason they ever suffer living with and serving any of a man’s needs.

    I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

    #914701
    +4
    Secret Agent MGTOW
    Secret Agent MGTOW
    Participant
    22503

    When you BEGIN a relationship with a woman; she makes you the focus of WHY everything is “right” in HER LIFE.
    As time passes and the relationship continues: gradually she makes you the focus of WHY everything is “wrong” in HER LIFE.
    AWALT
    Dad would’ve had a better life NOW if he went his own way 25 years ago….

    Yup, you become the reason her life is not right. Your existence and presence allows the rationalization hamster an easy target for her failures and unhappiness and failings.

    The more I see it, women need a person around them to be angry at. They personify their anger at a human face. It also keeps them from ever having to be angry at themselves. Its externalization of their inner weaknesses and projecting it onto someone else as the source/root of their negative life issues.

    Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

    #914770
    +1
    IMickey503
    iMickey503
    Participant
    12465

    Thankfully, I can cross dancing the Funny chicken 10 years from now. 🙂

    You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

    #914824
    +2
    Habilis71
    habilis71
    Participant
    141

    From my friends and acquaintances, i always ask the same question: “Do you know of any marriage longer than 10 years where there really is love, respect, and at least some real happiness”. So far, very few examples given. Just sayin.

    your dna dictates your need to approach women.... their dna dictates what they do when you arrive

Viewing 8 posts - 1 through 8 (of 8 total)

You must be logged in to reply to this topic.