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  • #18038
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    Anonymous
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    I have been online too long tonight to type out my whole story…. I am just surprised to see a bunch of fellow men that have experienced enough crap that they are willing to open up to be a MGTOW….

    Although I think I took the red pill long ago, it must have gotten stuck in my throat of denial, for a while, as the desire to be attached to a female and the social pressure to be betrothed is a very powerful force upon me, still….

    I am starting my life over, all alone, with a serious medical condition. But it’s been so rough, and I believe my medical condition to be the result of the stresses of trying to please others and have women “love me”, that I also feel very fortunate to be able to at least have a slight opportunity to enjoy the last decade or two of my life.  That is to say, although I have nothing, freeing myself of worrying how I am going to find and please a woman has made me happier than I have ever been in my life….

    Just need to get an income flowing so I can do some things I have always wanted to do…. Anyone want to give me a job?

    #18044
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    Spectator
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    Wes: good to see you man. i’m one of the older guys on here. been reading up and freeing my mind for a couple months here. health and income improved greatly. sorry i don’t have a job for you….happy that a smarter mgtow version of me was able to create work for myself. you can do the same.

    #18045
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    Vidar
    Vidar
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    Hey Wes,

    Sorry to hear about your health. I sadly can’t offer you a job, but i hope you find some ways of financing at least two decades of pure awesome s~~~.

    Im probably one of the young dudes you refer to in your title, but from my very short time here, it seems to be a lot more then just guys like me. And honestly, man.. Its a kinda great for young dudes like me seeing the older generation being onboard with this.

    Heres hoping you get the most out of many decades to come.

     

    #18346
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    Keymaster
    Keymaster
    Keymaster

    Hi Wes. Where are you located Geographically? Thanks for joining and welcome to you. Lots of +40 +50 guys here. It was the number of young ones that surprises the most. 18/19/20 year old guys being totally “fed up” with the social situation… when that was a period of high frolic factors. But society has f~~~ed them and being +40 these days looks like the sweet spot. Very sorry about your health situation. Please ignore the down vote, it came from a forum vandal with nothing better to do. We have temp removed the ratings for the moment, but it wasn’t any legit member here.

    Please feel free to join in any time, and make yourself at home.
    Thanks to the other guys (LUY and Vidar) for shouting out first.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #18352
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    Anonymous
    42

    @wes, Laughter is the best medicine for a weary soul, Please do enter, we’ll enjoy your company, You are welcome here any time!

    #18359
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    John Doe
    John Doe
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    +1 (if voting worked) for the frankness.

    #18572
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    Keymaster
    Keymaster
    Keymaster

    We have just restored up-voting. So @johndoe feel free to +1 him.

    @wes. Welcome to MGTOW!! Im quite surprised there are as many younger ones, actually. Guys who are 19/20/21 who are fed up already? What does that tell you. Lots of way experienced ones here and median age is mid 30s to 50s. Make yourself at home and join or start a topic anytime.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #18705
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    Harpo-My-"SON"
    harpo-my-“SON”
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    A sincere welcome aboard. I will be 52 on national MGTOW day. Currently writing a declaration in honor of the occasion.

    up voting liberally . would appreciate the screen names of the founders of national MGTOW day. writing this declaration in their honor. although I feel especially Qualified to write this because of my special disdain for the holiday formerly associated with this date, I would appreciate  help in the form of constructive critique and suggestions. I want to end up with something the majority of us would not hesitate to sign. The founding fathers of national MGTOW day should have a declaration that we can all be proud of. Will post what I have so far later today

    I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

    #18715
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    BrainPilot
    BrainPilot
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    Harpo,
    Not exactly sure what suggestion you are asking for here, but I’ve been thinking of a way to sum up what it means to be mgtow in as few words as possible for people who may never have heard of it. If that’s the kind of suggestion you are asking for, here’s mine (based on that old adage about “why buy the cow if the milk is free?”)

    For us, we are not buying the cow with, or without the free milk… and at this point, we wouldn’t take a free cow, either…

    perhaps best: “MGTOW – No longer interested, even in a free cow…”

    Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

    #18725
    Harpo-My-"SON"
    harpo-my-“SON”
    Participant
    2410

    BrainPilot  I was not concerned with word count but your correct in  assuming I would want to incorporate the ideas associated with mgtow life. that being said remember I was born on Valentines day. Will post what I have so far in MGTOW central

    I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

    #18779
    Keymaster
    Keymaster
    Keymaster

    A sincere welcome aboard. I will be 52 on national MGTOW day. Currently writing a declaration in honor of the occasion.

    @harpomason will you please submit that to us? Will be collecting “what are you gonna do for International MGTOW Day” from members into a feature on the site’s front end. And it’s it’s the first annual, so it’s really special. Please consider sending through the contact form. Would love to read it, especially since it’s your birthday!

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #18784
    Ned Trent
    Ned Trent
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    Being placed quite in the centre/middle age department myself I’m considering getting creative on my own, too maybe with a rap track (the lyrics of which are already pretty much finished btw). I shall keep ya posted about it, guys…

    I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

    #18806
    Harpo-My-"SON"
    harpo-my-“SON”
    Participant
    2410

    This may serve a dual purpose, of challenging  married men who want to call themselves mgtow as they  would have a tough time completely disregarding this social norm that happens to fall dead center of the shortest month of the year.

    We hold these truths to be self evident that (ASSPAWALT) a substantially significant percentage of women are like this: 1. have a complete disregard for analytical thinking  2. have an intentional disregard for the uniqueness innate in all men. ( why they talk among themselves about what a real man is and try to define it and change us to fit the definition) 3.have a complete disregard for romantic gestures initiated by them. Is there a day set aside for them to be romantically inclined. If there was what would they expect in return? 4. Have a complete disregard and disdain for the emotions and feelings men have, yet use there own for evil manipulative  purposes.

    We the free private, UN-enfranchised men of the manosphere in order to form a more perfect union of truthful thoughts, ideas and beliefs, expressed and shared unselfishly between the Xy chromosome recipients who are dedicated and determined to define themselves without influence or intervention of neither women nor society do ordain and establish this declaration of intentional disregard for the customs and traditions based on the myth commonly associated with feb 14 called romance. We shall say NO to heart shaped boxes of confection.yes to selfish indulgences

    ok guys you get the idea? yes to ? NO to flowers     give some more selfish indulgences   and more things we say NO to

    and I need a strong ending   just a tongue in cheek declaration saying “NO” to the old valentines day and “YES” to declaring Feb 14  as the new holiday “NATIONAL MEN GOING THEIR OWN WAY DAY” We could leave two blanks to be filled in by the individual man reading it. acknowledging the uniqueness of our expression. what I disregard and say “NO” to is different than yours and what selfish indulgence I partake to celebrate my birthday and mgtow day is different than other men.
    KeyMaster your post are a pleasure to read and well written so I welcome any help in making this “DECLARATION of INTENTIONAL DISREGARD” (DOID)  feel free to edit and change within good reason and logic. I did want it to sound like the founding fathers of the new holiday collaborated and agreed.  open to all suggestions and if the document looks totally different in the end, so be it. I insist the title and idea is enough  acknowledgment for me. I disregard any suggestion to change the documents name. To disregard  may not be the same as saying “no” but women get more angry at being ignored and  disregarded than just saying no to them. I welcome the manosphere having input in the composition hereby referred to  by fiat declaration as the (DOID).

    I tried the contact form. I filled all this in then  the send button did nothing  so I copied and pasted here.

     

    I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

    #18829
    Keymaster
    Keymaster
    Keymaster

    I tried the contact form. I filled all this in then  the send button did nothing  so I copied and pasted here.

    Thanks very much. We did receive it, and I tested both the contact form and newsletter sign up, and they are sending.

    (Its odd you didn’t get confirmation though. Just tested it again)

    Thanks for letting us know. It shows what browser you are using and that checks out too. So perhaps a fluke?

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #19275

    Anonymous
    0

    (I am in the Denver, Colorado area.)

    I must say, you guys all seem pretty intelligent, and I find that more attractive then vagina these days. ha ha….

    I must admit one more thing…. I still want to have sex with 19 year old nymphs, and not because I feel inferior to women my age, but because I find them physically attractive. I wonder if it is considered okay for old MGTOW men to lie to the young philly’s.

    #19284
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    BrainPilot
    BrainPilot
    Participant
    7640

    Wes,
    As long as the terms are clear, and fair to you, I’d say proceed. At some point in the distant past, marriage may have been fair to both parties. But it hasn’t been fair to men for a long time. Alternative interactions with women that are fair to the men who initiate them (friends w benefits, prostitutes, whatever…) are, I think, (?) not necessarily a disqualifier for mgtow, but are rare, and always temporary. Since men appreciate over time, and women depreciate over time, it seems at least to me, that an interaction with a woman that is fair at one point, can’t likely stay fair from that point onward for very long… hence no commitments.

    Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

    #19287
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    Spectator
    1165

    Wes: very good pussy in Colorado. Yummy. I look at like this man: when i was 19 i loved 19’s and my preference has never changed. Old women want that to be illegal. Well, F~~~ THAT.

    I see BrianPilot is on your thread. Listen closely to that guy man, he’s a f~~~ing genius.

    #19641
    Loose Nuts
    Loose Nuts
    Participant
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    Wes,

    Your story sounds so familiar. I’ve been waiting to see where you are located since you posted on the 28th and KM asked where on the 29th. Oddly enough, I was expecting to hear Denver and I’m glad checked back to find out my hunch was right. I’m in Broomfield and I’m 43.

    If you’d like to talk to someone local, email me at loosenuts@outlook.com. It sounds like we’d have a lot to talk about.

    #19651
    Joe_b_wan
    Joe_b_wan
    Participant
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    Hi Wes,

    A big welcome to the Manosphere. (Our planet somewhere in a galaxy far, far away and you just happened to tele-transport here by the miracle/science of MGTOW.)

    I, like the others, have no job for you, BUT you gave me an idea for an upcoming post specifically for guys like yourself. (Damn! My ‘To Do’ list is getting longer by the day.) I went from middle class (if I actually ever reached middle class) down to ? (I don’t know where in hell I’m at).

    I plan to post an article this month about our health in the “Health and Fitness” forum. It may get you back on the road to enjoying life on down the road.

    Take Care, Beware & Be Good! I love you,

    Joe

    P.S. I think you meant ‘fillies’ (young female horses) rather than the baseball team or the cheese steak sandwiches 🙂

    Also: “I believe my medical condition to be the result of the stresses of trying to please others and have women “love me”, that I also feel very fortunate to be able to at least have a slight opportunity to enjoy the last decade or two of my life.” If that is true, there is hope for you. I’m 59 shooting for 80. How about you BELEIVE and shoot for 80 too!

    Yes Womenoids, you’re only issued tourist visas to observe our planet. No permanent residency allowed.

    #19789
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    Joe_b_wan
    Joe_b_wan
    Participant
    15

    Hi Wes,

    I wrote a post in the ‘Money and Finance’ forum titled “What To Do If You’re Desperate”. It might help.

    Joe

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