48 text message today fom the ex wife

I’d just report her to the police for harassment.

Bright guy wrote:

That’s usually followed by more calls and eventual the emails threatening  court actions because she says fears for her children’s safety due to my lack of concern and deceitfulness

Interesting. Is she admitting an inability to parent? What’s she doing with custody?

Threaten court actions to take the kids away from her if she’s unfit to parent.

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I swear, stories like this (including the once from YAZ ^^^ ) sure looks a lot like they are waiting to be PAID more money TO F~~~ OFF. Thats’ why Exes won’t leave you alone. They want to be be PAID to GET LOST. Every woman’s wet dream.

 She curses and I always hang up ( its the best thing to do to not get baited into  a stupid argument )  That’s usually followed by more calls and eventual the emails threatening  court actions

I have always preferred to do the same thing.  Back in my younger, reckless, bluepillish days I learned that women simply NEED you to fight them to feel like you care.

Before I learned this I had many a girl stop seeing me simply because I preferred to avoid conflict with them.  Of course it was stated in terms such as: “you just don’t seem to care”, or “your emotionally unavailable”.  Once I learned to pretend to argue and enjoy the ensuing makeup sex I never had the problem again.

I am, of course, not advocating that you argue and sleep with your ex.  That would be counterproductive.  Just offering a parallel example of the same neurotic behavior that exists in the overwhelming majority of women.  Just tell her “really honey…. it’s not me, it’s you”.  lol I kid.  Good luck with the sale of the home and the rest.  I have never been married but I DO have some small experience with the PITA that is the sale and division of assets so I feel for you brother.  It’s gotta be 100 times more difficult with the little ones involved.

There’s a phrase I think you should learn: “Please bring that to the attention of my attorney.”

It can be a little expensive to keep one on retainer for this stuff, but it’ll save you money and hassle in the long run.

Russky wrote:

I am so glad that my ex found a super mangina (it took her less than a week after I kicked her out), she’s remarried and doesn’t bother me anymore. I really hope it lasts for another 11 years (which I seriously doubt given the 7-3-3-1 statistic on marriages). But she’s pretty, so I have my hopes up she will eventually become a trophy for some rich mangina The moral of the story is – divorce them while they still have SMV and can secure the next host with no problems

Sorry forgive my ignorance, what’s the 7-3-3-1 statistic on marriage?  (tried google + MGTOW search function, didn’t find anything but it sounds interesting)  I’m a stats guy, what can I say.  I’m all about economic incentives.

Canadian SportsFan wrote:

Sorry forgive my ignorance, what’s the 7-3-3-1 statistic on marriage?  (tried google + MGTOW search function, didn’t find anything but it sounds interesting)  I’m a stats guy, what can I say.  I’m all about economic incentives.

I tried searching myself but couldn’t find the exact place of reference.
This was Terrence Popp (yt) referring to statistics on female marriages. That average first marriage lasts 7 years, two consecutive marriages after that last 3 years each, and the forth one is usually 1 year or less

Russky wrote:

The moral of the story is – divorce them while they still have SMV and can secure the next host with no problems

Lol, that’s awesome!!! Gave me a tremendous laugh.

I’m not a fan of Paul Elam or AVFM, but there is a book by Dr Tara Palmatier which he contributed to. Some things I had already learned to do from trial and error. I hate to admit it, but I think the book contains some useful tips for a guy dealing with an ex that he still has to be involved with due to kids. It’s called ‘say goodbye to crazy’.

I don’t allow the ex to text me. All communication has to be in writing and to a separate email address I set up. If she is making allegations against you it sounds like it’s time to insist that handovers of the children be at a public place where there is cctv. Record everything, keep a diary (hardbound book).

Shut her down and make sure there’s an audit trial of everything.

Good luck, it’s not easy but it’s worth the effort to get your life back. My ex eventually got a bollocking by the police and that calmed her right down, stuff got much better after that.

BD wrote:

Keep her on topic, down to business, no extra bulls~~~ personal, Strictly business baby, strictly businesss”

BulletDodger is right on the money with this advice. My ex sometimes tries to provoke me via my son’s communication book trying to blame me about crap like not taking him to the doctor if he feels unwell when all he has is a runny nose.

So I basically write a business letter back to her using facts and ignore all the BS, to make her look like a fool. It works every time, because she doesn’t respond after that.

Marc Rudov is a prime example of a man who knows this and acts, rather than reacts.