39 years, never married, single and happy

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  • 2015-03-22 at 10:14 AM#33118
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    D-Fens
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    Hi,

    for the most part of my life i thought i was alone with my perception of the whole marriage issue and women relationships. Finding this forums i am glad i am not. I have been lurking around these forums and i recognize so much i have seen with friends, family and associates. Fortunately that cup passed from me.

    A little bit about myself: i am 39 and never had a long-term relationship. When i was younger i was an introvert – looking back i have to say that was a blessing. If i had not been, i would most likely have a nagging bitch dragging me down by now. Today i have my own nice apartment in a  nice city, i earn 6-figures in € (i pay a lot of tax, but its still way more than i actually need), i am more fit then i ever was (i run 3x10k every week), i can play video games as long as i want, do whatever i want. The only responsibilities i have are the ones i choose do have – my job, my family and some friends. I never developed this “need” for intimacy so many people i know seem to have. I am fine to be alone, because i never feel lonely, i am happy with myself. I pay some woman to do the major household chores, it really is peanuts, she does it once per week.

    Recently my family wants me to pursue a long-term relationship, so there is grand kids. Just for fun i looked at some dating sites. Oh. My. God. I am genuinely scared. The very idea to have to deal with these people that i could seriously date from an age perspective horrifies me. I would not mind some kids, i am good with kids, but not at that price. Everybody i know that is successful has been married, divorced, is somewhat miserable and in 90% cases has issues dealing with the children they can barely see. And yet, for some reason beyond me, most of these people have nothing better to do than to pursue  the next relationship that is destined to fail horribly, taking in some kids from other people, warping themselves around the whims of the woman they are together with and so on.

    Glad to have found this site.

     

    2015-03-22 at 10:30 AM#33126
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    Smacktalk73
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    Be very, very careful.  I was in the same situation as you, at 37.  Now, I’m 42 and I’ve been married, divorced and have two (great) kids.   My life is completely different than I would have ever expected at 37.  Having kids is the one thing that makes it worthwhile, but that’s just because of my personality.

    MGTOW should be a great resource for you. I  really had nothing like this at your age, and when (literally) the girl next door saw dollar signs in me, I was incredibly flattered.   A pretty 21-year-0ld walked all over me.   Now I pay her child support, she has primary custody of our kids (in name, so she can get more support — I have the kids just as much as she does in practice).

    I strongly recommend you get a vasectomy.   Personally, I would also freeze some sperm, but that’s up to you.

    2015-03-22 at 10:43 AM#33131

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    Welcome d-fens,

    You Avatar tells me that you are looking the right movies. Especially this one will save you to make the wrong decision.

    Once he built Missiles a nations defence, now he can’t even give brithday presents…
                                                                                                                                                            Falling Down – Iron Maiden

    CHEERS!!!

    2015-03-22 at 11:09 AM#33137
    RoyDal
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    My life’s plan also is to stay single and happy. Good on ya, mate.

    Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

    2015-03-22 at 11:38 AM#33144
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    Aniyishay
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    I thought I was a special case also. It doesn’t seem to matter who you meet, a woman has a way of screwing up your life. Stay single man.

    2015-03-22 at 2:20 PM#33183
    Mgtow_85
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    Welcome to the site, d-fens! I am a few months shy of approaching 30 and never married. Glad you could introduce yourself! Feel free to enjoy the forums. There are some pretty good stories and testimonials on here!

    2015-03-22 at 2:51 PM#33189
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    @d-fens:

    Welcome to our zone of sanity. Take what your family says about this with a grain of salt. They do not realize how dangerous modern feminism inoculated women are to men these days. Especially, to men in your situation. I suggest you read anything BrainPilot has written as you peruse the site.

    I’m 47 and have never been married, own a business, own a house debt free and have investments. I’ve had some serious relations~~~s that almost led to marriage over the years, but I escaped them all by the grace of God. I enjoy life and would never sign a legal contract where I could lose the bulk of things I’ve spent 30 years working towards by some gold digging hypergamous wench.

    d-fens wrote:

    Recently my family wants me to pursue a long-term relationship, so there is grand kids. Just for fun i looked at some dating sites. Oh. My. God. I am genuinely scared.

    Your family is pushing this for them and not you. As for online dating, be afraid very afraid.

    2015-03-22 at 3:20 PM#33198

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    @d-fens, you have a golden goose there, these feminist thinking women out there will kill the golden goose before feeding it! They’re inundated with deceitful tactics they share with each other on the internet, places like F~~~-Face, Face F~~~, I mean Face-book! Be extremely wary of what others want from you outside genuine friendship. To many women have become selfish and will stop at nothing to get their way. Stay happy, and Welcome!

    2015-03-22 at 8:26 PM#33333
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    Robert Hallam
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    Hey Smaktalk: Great advice for any man. Get a vasectomy and freeze some sperm. Then you have it all ways. Keep the vasectomy secret in the event you are charged with a paternity suite, and keep the sperm frozen in the event you want to procreate.

    2015-03-24 at 8:43 PM#33915
    Gref
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    Welcome d-fens and congratulations on not getting married and saving yourself from destruction. Everything you’ve said is spot on and I look forward to being in your shoes in 16 years. Continue to watch your back, women will always be trying to snag you and your resources only to f~~~ you over later.

    [url url=http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2d6337/i_was_divorce_raped_dont_be_me] I'm paying her 25% of my salary over the next eight years. I had to pay my lawyer, her lawyer, 50% of all my retirement funds and give her another few thousand dollars to make her go away. It cost me $20 to get married and will cost me over $220,000 to get divorced. [/url]

    2015-04-01 at 11:13 AM#35880
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    BIGNUTZ.
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    I stand with you as a fellow 39-yr.-old, never-married, never-procreated Survivor..40 is starting to look AWESOME!

    ..narrowly avoided Simpization..

    2015-04-01 at 11:20 AM#35883
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    Welcome BigNutz

    BIGNUTZ. wrote:

    ..40 is starting to look AWESOME!

    in deed it is. I’ am at the end of my 40s now. Time is running pal, time is running.

    Carpe Diem, Carpe Noctem.

    2015-04-01 at 12:56 PM#35908
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    BIG NUTS! Ha ha  ha, good handle! It’s great to be a survivor, it’s what men do best! Welcome to MGTOW…

    2015-04-01 at 2:48 PM#35949
    BIGNUTZ.
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    Anonymous wrote:

    BIG NUTS! Ha ha ha, good handle! It’s great to be a survivor, it’s what men do best! Welcome to MGTOW…

    Thank You, Kind Sir.

    ..narrowly avoided Simpization..

    2015-04-01 at 4:40 PM#35991
    Oasid
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    Welcome! I never married and am single and happy as well. Up until recently I was keeping myself unhappy by thinking marriage was something I wanted. Through the readings on this site I abandoned placing value on marriage and found peace.

    May the Force Be With You

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