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  • #876974
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    Awakened
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    TYPICAL westernized feminist Woman….is there ANY WONDER why one quarter are being medicated for mental illnesses ?????????

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #876975
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    Bub
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    Her letter makes her sound like a fish desperately in need of a bicycle… 😛
    It’s ironic, but all that gigantic shift in government policy and cultural practice that was designed to empower her and give her all these options to do all the things she’s done (without the evil patriarchy telling her she can’t) is exactly the obstacle to a man who might otherwise wife her up and rescue her from all the mountain of crap she has created for her life. The government policy of punishing husbands to reward wives is exactly the thing that keeps men from taking her on as a wife.
    I got no desire to rescue a damsel in distress when she’s got Darth-Vader-government standing just behind her ready to hand her an enormous weapon to use against me as soon as the gratitude for rescuing her wears off, and she decides she’d like to go make some more selfish, short-sighted life choices.

    As always Brain Pilot is spot on….

    The trouble is long term and stable is not exciting in the long run, so they crave the excitement of the carousel. What they really want is financial stability but the only way to get this is to marry a blue pill wallet. Doesn’t take them long to realise they can divorce rape him which will give her the financial stability and get back on the carousel which will give her the dopamine fix she constantly craves.

    I know one that blew threw all the coin from 2 divorce rapes and now at 54 she is absolutely pathetic. Like the chick in the letter the beast I know is starting to wake up to the reality of the situation. It would be sad if it wasn’t so predictable….

    Bed.Made.Lie

    Yep….

    Just rolling down the road

    #876976
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    JB Books
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    Let’s say instead it was a guy in exactly the same situation. Would THAT be a big f~~~in’ deal? NO WAY! Any man worth his salt would concentrate on building his own future and likely end up most pleased from the results of going his own way.

    We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

    #876987
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    Mr. Spock
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    I’ve seen this play out in real time a couple of times myself. Some of them are still in denial too. They still feel that their beat up vagina is as good as new because they take a shower, shave the pubes and make it smell fresh again. They demand that a man still prove himself in some way to her or else she is moving on. Go ahead, your next candidate will be here in 5 years. That bulls~~~ works when you are in demand. A 50 year old man who has been around and has his s~~~ together doesn’t have to prove s~~~ anymore to anyone and he knows it.
    I lost track how many times the author mentioned not liking a job that she had held or the current one that she has now. That’s c~~~-speak for “I don’t want to work”. I am really amazed how she didn’t blame a man for this. She should began looking at baby names now. She’ll need them for when she gets a few more cats. That’s the closest she will get to having any “babies” in her lifetime.

    Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

    #876990
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    Twist
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    is there ANY WONDER why one quarter are being medicated for mental illnesses ?????????

    This figure always makes me fear the three quarters who remain un-treated.

    #876992
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    Stealth
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    Her letter makes her sound like a fish desperately in need of a bicycle… 😛
    It’s ironic, but all that gigantic shift in government policy and cultural practice that was designed to empower her and give her all these options to do all the things she’s done (without the evil patriarchy telling her she can’t) is exactly the obstacle to a man who might otherwise wife her up and rescue her from all the mountain of crap she has created for her life. The government policy of punishing husbands to reward wives is exactly the thing that keeps men from taking her on as a wife.
    I got no desire to rescue a damsel in distress when she’s got Darth-Vader-government standing just behind her ready to hand her an enormous weapon to use against me as soon as the gratitude for rescuing her wears off, and she decides she’d like to go make some more selfish, short-sighted life choices.

    +1

    "Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

    #876994
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    Hermit
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    I feel like a ghost. …….possibly making something of this haunted house……

    She’s bitching about living the way I love to live. I love being the ghost in my little haunted house, all alone and very happy.

    Sure glad I don’t need someone in my life to be happy. It’s the exact opposite in fact.

    The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

    #877010
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    Tic
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    There is so much Goddamn wisdom here in this thread, its intoxicating.

    Bravo

    God bless peace and freedom.

    #877017
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    Gravel Pit
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    All the while still trying to be the sexpot 25-year-old

    At no point does it occur to her that she should warn young women about falling into this trap. Her focus remains on herself. This is the truly sad part. Older women do NOTHING to turn society around. Its always a narrative about their suffering… their “victimhood”.. their hardships… There is never an organized attempt to spread awareness that ALL women need to find a man early and stick to him loyally no matter what! They never warn girls that their candle will burn out and they will be in the dark permanently for 40 years!

    Lady, you victimized hundreds of boys. You used them as a sex object and rekt their emotions. You HURT people. And now, you don’t give two s~~~s if it happens to scores of other young men and women. Go to hell, I feel ZERO sympathy for you.

    #877020
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    Boar
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    At no point does it occur to her that she should warn young women about falling into this trap. Her focus remains on herself. This is the truly sad part. Older women do NOTHING to turn society around. Its always a narrative about their suffering… their “victimhood”.. their hardships… There is never an organized attempt to spread awareness that ALL women need to find a man early and stick to him loyally no matter what! They never warn girls that their candle will burn out and they will be in the dark permanently for 40 years!

    Of course not! They are her competition. They are the reason she is not getting any attention or resources. Why help them? They have the lifestyle she is mourning over. She doesn’t want something substantial, she wants to continue her exciting life. The only reason she is reflecting at all is that she only has the ashes of her former life. ITS ALL ABOUT HER AND IT ALWAYS WAS.

    Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

    #877023
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    Gravel Pit
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    I got no desire to rescue a damsel in distress when she’s got Darth-Vader-government standing just behind her ready to hand her an enormous weapon to use against me as soon as the gratitude for rescuing her wears off

    amen to that BrainPilot

    I thoroughly believe this letter is real, written by an actual young woman hitting the wall. There are many clues.

    By her admission, she never had any relationship that was meaningful before she was 29 years old. Did y’all do that math too? That means she did exactly what we all talk about here… she scored on a new penis once a month or more, for a whole decade (sometimes they do it as much as every weekend, a new one night stand Chad). Don’t tell me women aren’t doing this. I’m 32 myself. I talked sincerely with women and gotten many of them to tell me the truth.

    Women are the deciders of when sex occurs. They have access to sex whenever they want. They use the option often! Their numbers of sexual partners sky rocket because of a failure of older women and society to tell them the truth.

    It very sad indeed to watch this crap. Women are not smart enough or virtuous enough to have this kind of power.

    #877027
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    Daryll55
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    I’ve seen this play out in real time a couple of times myself. Some of them are still in denial too. They still feel that their beat up vagina is as good as new because they take a shower, shave the pubes and make it smell fresh again. They demand that a man still prove himself in some way to her or else she is moving on. Go ahead, your next candidate will be here in 5 years. That bulls~~~ works when you are in demand. A 50 year old man who has been around and has his s~~~ together doesn’t have to prove s~~~ anymore to anyone and he knows it.

    Stopped for ga$ today at a convenience store. In the store at the coffee rack was an older woman (like 60’s)with a rocker style leather acket on, yoga pants, and those “horse-show” riding boots that all the womens are wearing now-a-days. She’s stirring her coffee for like 5 minutes hoping to get the attention of anyone in the store. I walked in to pay my ga$, and noticed her from behind. I thought ,”What 20’s chic runs arond today wearing that, and has wildly teased hair???” then she turned and I noticed her aged, sunken face. I almost smirked in front of her and seriously wanted to get her pic on my phone to post here.
    Couldn’t believe it; 60 years old and still thinks she’s hot S**T !

    Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

    #877034
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    TaxGuy
    TaxGuy
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    I lost track how many times the author mentioned not liking a job that she had held or the current one that she has now. That’s c~~~-speak for “I don’t want to work”.

    I caught that one too. This girl is p~~~ed because her prince charming hasn’t showed up yet.

    Feminists wanted equality. THIS is what it looks like. Actions have consequences. You are accountable for your life. You get to make grown up adult decisions, but they have grown up adult consequences.

    It’s totally fine to move around every couple of years, but there is a social cost to not putting down roots. Like a typical woman, she only looked at the benefits and never calculated the costs. She’s just p~~~ing and moaning because the benefits have dried up but the costs remain. Sucks to put your whole life on a credit card and then get the bill.

    Step one for this girl is to stop wasting her money on botox. Doesn’t sound like it’s working. There, I already made her life better. Don’t ever let it be said that I don’t care about people.

    Order the good wine

    #877037
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    Awakened
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    35203

    The lil cupcake that wrote this letter probably “feels” this way every once in a while.

    Then she’ll go out and find herself ANOTHER c~~~, buy herself a new pair of shoes, and finish it off with a Starbucks Double Tall Latte Double Shot, whatever that is, and all will be right with HER WORLD again.

    In about 5 years, she will continue the same pattern, but she will be adding a lil xaxnax to top it off.

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #877039
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    Hermit
    Hermit
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    I’ve seen this play out in real time a couple of times myself. Some of them are still in denial too. They still feel that their beat up vagina is as good as new because they take a shower, shave the pubes and make it smell fresh again. They demand that a man still prove himself in some way to her or else she is moving on. Go ahead, your next candidate will be here in 5 years. That bulls~~~ works when you are in demand. A 50 year old man who has been around and has his s~~~ together doesn’t have to prove s~~~ anymore to anyone and he knows it.

    Stopped for ga$ today at a convenience store. In the store at the coffee rack was an older woman (like 60’s)with a rocker style leather acket on, yoga pants, and those “horse-show” riding boots that all the womens are wearing now-a-days. She’s stirring her coffee for like 5 minutes hoping to get the attention of anyone in the store. I walked in to pay my ga$, and noticed her from behind. I thought ,”What 20’s chic runs arond today wearing that, and has wildly teased hair???” then she turned and I noticed her aged, sunken face. I almost smirked in front of her and seriously wanted to get her pic on my phone to post here. Couldn’t believe it; 60 years old and still thinks she’s hot S**T !

    It’s sad to see something like that. If she’d dress normal, she’d probably look better, or at least not as stupid.

    The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

    #877043
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    Branched off
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    As you sow, so shall you reap.

    (They don’t teach that in strong independent woman school)

    A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

    #877047
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    G.O.A.T
    G.O.A.T
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    This is beautiful, glorious!

    The wall has no mercy, it doesn’t forgive. Spent your early 20’s jumping from c~~~ to c~~~, didn’t give a f~~~ about the nice guys who actually cared about your well being, but give your ass to Chad and Tyrone.

    That’s why I vow to NEVER help a woman, ever!

    Money is God.

    #877062
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    Anonymous
    38

    I credit her for her honesty and well, such a good read. Haunting, indeed.

    I’d bet that most single women are feeling like this deep down, but aren’t honest/aware enough to admit it.

    The feminist I f~~~ed off a few nights ago will no doubt end up like this. Ha

    #877076
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    RealityBites
    RealityBites
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    I think I will weigh in on this one.
    The story has all of the elements of a very common pattern that women go through over time.
    They delude themselves about their real SMV. And for SMV there are really 3 Main Types:
    (a.) One Night Stand SMV
    (b.) Girlfriend Material SMV
    (c.) Wife Material SMV

    When a woman is very young she is at her peak fertility and physical appearance. All 3 SMV’s are at their Maximum Height. And like different Radioactive Isotopes. Each SMV Type has a different decay rate or Half Life.
    Wife Material SMV has the shortest Half Life since it is more dependent on her fertility and good looks. The PEAK for SMV is about 19. From then on all 3 SMVs start to decay at their different rates.
    I think women FORGET or just FLAT out don’t know that this is by and large how men view women as in 3 different major categories.
    So when she is 33 or 35 and is being hit on by a 22 yr old Beta Male who for the life of him, can’t get even so much as a look from women his own age, she is thinking: that this 22 yr old Beta Male will settle for an Old Over the Hill Hag of 35 as Wife Material. But the truth is: the 22 yr old Beta Male just wants a f~~~ buddy/cum dumpster until he can find a gal in his own age group that will come along that is good enough for him to Marry (yah..he is deluding himself, in this respect). The women in his own age group are too busy f~~~ing Chads before the Chads go off to Prison.
    So after a while the 30 something woman figures out that all of those younger guys hitting on her are never going to committ…and do not have the resources to provide to her in order for her to get pregnant and become a “stay at home Mom” (ie. Retire Early)…so she starts looking at men her age. But those Men are have either been divorce raped and are paying Alimony and Child Support, or they are just too busy chasing after Younger (Better Looking, Less Debt, More Fertile) Women….so then she starts to look at Older Men…(even bigger percentage of them have been divorce raped) AND those men start having Health Problems such as ED brought on by Diabetes, or Heart Disease or something…and that is not very appealing to her.

    The real target in her sights is a Beta Male (Wallet) who has never had Children or been married, and has a good career going, and retirement investments….but those tend to be far below her previous standards….and below that of her friends husbands who are still married…

    And so it goes…Her Minimum Standards for a Man are always unrealistic and about 15 years behind her actual SMV value…and the older Men start to wise up to the games that Women have been playing (Flipping Marriages like Day Traders flipping Stocks: all for Short Term Gain). And after a while the guy realizes he cannot afford another divorce and still hope to be able to financially recover in time before he hits retirement age…

    So the older guys: tend to just want to stay Single (MGTOW)…some of them move to retirement communities like the Village in Florida where they just pump and dump

    Ultimately Women (even though through Feminism they have all kinds of advantages in getting into Universities and getting Jobs with lower qualifications than Men) still want a Man to be her slave so she can “retire early” and not work. And if she is older and is closer to retirement age: things are incredibly grim….she is looking at a future of only getting a little bit of Social Security to live off of; has massive amounts of debt; and doesn’t even own her own home…so she is looking at eating Cat Food along with her Pet Cat.
    And that is what is going on in the mind (or will very soon): of the author who originally wrote her tale of woe that OP posted.
    A tale of bad life choices: resulting into severe lifelong negative consequences.

    The Legal System is completely rigged in the favor of Women.
    Once a man is married to a woman he is at her mercy..
    In going from being Single to being Married he is transferring all of his power and giving it to the Woman.
    In essence he becomes a slave.

    Just stay away from all women and all relationships.
    Want Sex? Get a Hooker….go to Thailand or Vegas….
    Never Marry
    Never Cohabitate
    Get a Vasectomy with periodic checkups and resulting documentation showing that you are shooting Blanks so she can’t commit Paternity Fraud or Entrap you into Marriage

    #877144
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    Beer
    Beer
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    11832

    By her admission, she never had any relationship that was meaningful before she was 29 years old. Did y’all do that math too? That means she did exactly what we all talk about here… she scored on a new penis once a month or more, for a whole decade (sometimes they do it as much as every weekend, a new one night stand Chad). Don’t tell me women aren’t doing this. I’m 32 myself. I talked sincerely with women and gotten many of them to tell me the truth.

    I’m a couple years older, and agree 100%. I’ve known so many women that slutted around quite a bit that I just assume they’re all sluts. If they slutted pretty much from 16-30 then decide its time to settle down…I just don’t see why you should take them at face value. If someone displays a behavior their entire adult life than one day just says “You know what, I’m not going to do that anymore,” you’d have to be a f~~~ing idiot to believe them. If they were a slut from 16-30, THEY ARE A SLUT, its never going to change.

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