30: Lights on for men! Lights out for women!.

hmmm when I was 30 that was year 2000ish. I was still working for a computer company, just bought our house and planning some painting,

Our daughter was 2, learning to walk and talk and feed herself, and falling down, and picking her self up. I think it is the learning to walk process that teaches up how to persevere. It’s the how badly do you want something drive with in us. I think some people have a f~~~ ton of it, and some people have very little.

Life will knock you down over and over and over, and yes it is hard sometimes getting back up. But we get back up, and go at it again. I refuse to lose. I will not give up moving forward. I don’t really have a choice. I move forward, or I die in place.

Anonymous wrote:

What’s your 30 year old story or aspirations?

Was away on Military duty when my Fiancee decided that a friend in college with a Jeep was more interesting.

I found out when I returned home and went to her condo to pick up my stuff. All in all 1993 was a good year in hindsight.

I love what you say about a mans life turning sweet and a womans turning rotten at age 30. So true. That is where the tables turn.

For men, as long as youve made good choices, done something with your life, and didn’t get married or impregnate anyone, life gets good. Your career starts taking off, your finances just keep getting better and better, and you make real progress towards your life goals and aspirations. Your SMV also increases, and you have the time, freedom, and resources to do better with women than you did in your 20s, IF that is what you want to do.

For women, thats when everything starts falling apart. They get used to men bending over backwards for them, catering to their every whim. They think they are all little mini-celebrities and debutantes. They get cash, gifts, resources, favors, and attention that is almost unfathomable to us men. But then it goes away.

Suddenly they are left with nothing, except the consequences of their actions. They have bastard children, huge debts from studying abroad and student loans from their useless basket weaving degrees. They have no savings, assets, or investments. Their cars and houses (if they own one) are falling apart, because men will no longer fix them and they cant pay for or fix it themselves. Their bodies are falling apart as well. Their life is truely bleak and meaningless at this point.

As a pharmacist, i can tell you that there are many more of these women than you think. They are literally invisible to you. If you saw them, you’d think they were happy and old…but you look at their profile, and they are on a ton of psych (and other types of) medications, paid for by welfare, and you are shocked when you see how young they are. They have nothing.

I just turned 30 last year and will be 31 soon. I am living well. I am slowly getting over my red pill rage, and life is basically a dream for me. I’m making a bunch of money, and when I’m not working i am enjoying every minute of my time and my hobbies. I shoot all the guns i want, play guitars and work on amps with my brother, play video games when i want, eat what i want, sleep when i want.

No women influence or control my life. I have almost no contact with them, unless i really REALLY need sex. But i need it less every day. I’ve been able to basically completely eliminate them from my life, and I’ve never been happier. I cannot say the same for them, especially the ones my age or older. Life is truly good.

If you have any young male friends, make sure you show them the way…life sucks for young men these days, but it gets so much better. Most of them have no idea.

It’s nice when you know when to avoid a totally needless confrontation. It saves having many regretful thoughts about past behavior; to not do anything bad in a bad situation is a sign of learning and maturity.

The young thundercat becomes a panther.

For me, life started in my early 30s, when I resigned from my office job, became self-employed, and gave notice to my gf to move out. It is a pivotal time, but many men take the wrong turn-off in their late 20s, when they give in to societal pressures to get married, have children, etc. etc.

30 was a fun age for me

When I turned 30…I started my first business…in spite of all of the mistakes I made along with Bad Luck: I almost made it. 3 years later I returned to school, finished my degrees, and graduated when I was 34. When I was 40 I got married for the first time. Got my first house when I was 41….got my career going when I was 43. By the time I was 47 I was divorced, then….got a couple of motorcycles…had some fun. Dated more women than I ever dated before in my entire life. Learned a lot about women over the years. Helped build a MicroBrewery that I later bought into and funny thing: it took off right as the Great Recession took off. The worse the economy got, the more people drank and the more successful it became. It took almost 1 full year of working after work and working on the weekends (7 days a week) to build that thing. We didn’t have the money to pay a contractor so we did it ourselves.

And although it took a long time, eventually I recovered financially from my divorce. I only very gradually woke up to the Red Pill. And to this day there are times where I struggle with it. But every observation I made and experience I had only validated what I read. Eventually the evidence built up to the point of being overwhelming. Now I see very common patterns and categories of patterns of behavior by women, that are universal: regardless of their country or culture of origin.

And while I cannot always predict what a woman will say: I can normally predict what she will actually do, and by predicting what she will do, I get a very good idea of what she will say which is almost always the exact opposite of what she does.

I spent a period of time where I was very angry, but then I read Esther Vilar’s book: The manipulated man, and then I started to read articles on Evolutionary Psychology and I came to realize that women just evolved this way, and that these behavioral patterns they are frequently not quite conscious of…instead they automatically carry them out without giving much thought to them: and when they do; they always try to rationalize it. (The Hamster effect).

Now in my 50’s….I have experienced health problems. which has changed my long range plans on what and where I will be going in my retirement, and bumped up my retirement date quite a bit. But that is ok. I can adjust…looking back on turning 30…there was no internet back then. There was no MGTOW.com or any Manosphere…we men were mostly in the dark about women until a pretty late age. Thank G_d for the Internet and the compilation and dissemination of knowledge!

You younger guys are far ahead of me than when I was at your age! Of course some things we actually have to experience in order to learn that what we read and thought was theoretical…is actually real. But at least the knowledge is now widely available and because of that there is some hope to avert tragedy from happening to some men’s lives.