2ravens intro….

[2ravensParticipant 83]

Short but sweet intro. Married for 20 years. The wife decides she wants to “explore” and “find out who” she is. Now, two years later she apparently is someone who just “wants to have fun” and “travel”…lol. It couldn’t get any more classic I guess. Divorced now for two years. I have two teenage daughters who I love dearly but it’s painful to watch them grow up influenced by society. One is 6 ft and has modeled so she literally is told constantly that all she needs to do is show up in a relationship. I do my best to counter those influences. My youngest understands the Red Pill but it makes her sad and I can see why. It’s hard to compete for real relationships when every other teenage girl is down for sex.

I’ve dated online and off but I’m really tired of the drama and attitudes now at 45. It’s easy to not get pulled into spending money on them but it’s frustrating to see women take their lives and go completely off the rails all the while loudly proclaiming they don’t need a man. Meanwhile, every girl I’ve dated is texting in between boyfriends since they can’t go one day without some attention/validation.

My divorce was not as bad as some financially. The state I live in pretty much splits things down the middle and the ex-wife was a high earner so that wasn’t bad. Of course, somehow I’m the asshole still even though she initiated lol. I’ve slowly went from dating hard to MGTOW over the last year. I have a few hobbies and I know a woman can be gotten for short term if I really want to….but the peace of living alone and doing exactly what I want is becoming more and more appealing to me. Working in my garden, jiu-jitsu, hunting, fishing and kayaking/paddleboarding/surfing when I can are all interesting and don’t require females to “make better”.

Glad to be here and good job on the site. It’s nice to have a place like this where you can vent or build guys back up depending on where they are in their “cycle”.

 

2ravens

 

 

 

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

Welcome and amazing intro good sir. I tip my hat to ya for trying to raise two daughters in our current society…has to be scary. Hope to god they see how their mother acted and deter from that sort of mindset when they get older.

Keep up with those hobbies and look forward to seeing ya on the forums…something tells me you have some great stories to tell.

[heads-upParticipant 320]

take a breath 2ravens,time is on your side brother,thats a lot to say and take in in a single intro,blessing to you and yours.Welcome

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Welcome sir! You are a trooper. Raising daughters in this crazy world of sexual fulfillment and moral irresponsibility. You sound like a great father and I wish you luck as you teach your girls how to be women of character. Its certainly possible, but very rare. Great to have you here, your voice and story are welcomed. Glad you have hobbies that keep you sane. More men need this.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[RuprectParticipant 56]

Welcome.  I’m the same as you … mid-40’s, married for over 20 years, two kids and divorced for no other reason than my ex’s self-centered idiocy.  You’re among friends who understand.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

All the above and welcome ☺

[Anonymous 11]

2ravens wrote:

he wants to “explore” and “find out who” she is

Welcome 2ravens, we are all refugees here. Stick around, lurk, post but most importantly read the stories of the Brothers. They are all eerily similar. Over time your ex’s new fool as well as your ex(maybe) is going to learn she’s still the same egotistical brat as she always was as she blows her money travelling and having fun to find herself.

I’m 48, and I’ve had more fun than the law allows over the years and only improve myself over time. Mgtow.com has improved the hell out of me. It’ll do the same for you too. Also, it’s not you. Online dating features the dregs of womanity. I avoid it myself. The offline ones are crazy enough.

I also am into sea kayaking and paddleboarding so I can vouch for them as tools of self-discovery and fitness. My chickens and self sustaining organic urban farm are another important part of my life. Bitches be crazy!

[UntamedParticipant]

Welcome 2Ravens and enjoy the site.

Sorry for your s~~~ty deal, buddy. We’re the same age and I also have two daughters and I’m dealing with the same things you are as far as the kids growing up in this f~~~ed up society. Thankfully I had a strong influence in their world-view and they make me proud daily.

Cheers! 🙂

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Welcome 2ravens.

2ravens wrote:

The wife decides she wants to “explore” and “find out who” she is.

I am almost certain that I will end up in the same situation as you. My kids are still young but the signs are all there. This “finding myself” s~~~ already begun with my wife too, although to a lesser degree, but enough to make me realize what’s coming in a few years. I am lucky because I saw it for what it is and I can now prepare and keep taking my red pills. I don’t want to repeat my intro here, but I did try very hard to “fix” things and be a “better husband”. Sadly I have come to realize that it’s impossible to satisfy women, so I need to focus on myself and my kids and prepare for the inevitable.

This is why your intro is very helpful for me and others. This is how we save lives and fortunes, by helping others realize what the likely outcomes will be, thus keeping them from wasting their life trying to accomplish the impossible.

So, thank you sir, and I wish you well in all your future endeavors.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[2ravensParticipant 83]

I was angry at first at my ex even knowing what I know now. But in the end I’m not really now. Society pushes it and she was told constantly by (divorced) friends how she should be happier. Conversely, all my male friends were trying to get me to work on it longer. Who is the loyal sex now again? Plus even though she makes well into six figures she hasn’t had to pay one thing for probably 10 vacations in two years. The guys always pay 100% and won’t let her. So you know….if I could “travel” for free like that, hell yes I’d probably love it too.

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

Hello and welcome, brother!

Hope that you find bliss here, among us, my friend.

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Dark Kenshi wrote:

Hello and welcome, brother!

Hope that you find bliss here, among us, my friend.

Welcome!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 42]

2ravens wrote:

but the peace of living alone and doing exactly what I want is becoming more and more appealing to me. Working in my garden, jiu-jitsu, hunting, fishing and kayaking/paddleboarding/surfing when I can are all interesting and don’t require females to “make better”.

I’ve been living the life you describe for decades, always did my own thing with or without a woman, they were always secondary, and for the past 18 years “obsolete”. I’m free and productive to my own ends, on my own time, and in my own space, I could never give that up by placing a woman over me.

A woman only knows one thing; dominate and manipulate a man to serve her own ends, rather than pursue her own ends under her own power and devote any leftovers to a man.

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

2ravens wrote:

Conversely, all my male friends were trying to get me to work on it longer. Who is the loyal sex now again?

Same thing with me bro…three of my good male friends kept telling me “just work on it, marriage is hard” blah blah blah. While she’s having all of her female only co-workers (the last male on her team is being let go in a month) saying there isn’t a reason to work it out. I just look forward to getting some peace and quite time on my own, like you and other men here. A little fishing, maybe some hunting, re-build an old mustang or something.

2ravens wrote:

he guys always pay 100% and won’t let her. So you know….if I could “travel” for free like that, hell yes I’d probably love it too.

You know, I think that doesn’t sound like a bad idea at all. But then again, having a female around the whole time while traveling, would be so excruciatingly difficult.

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