2nd Christmas off the plantation – Cheers!

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

Man what a year and a half this has been.

This time last year I was in my apartment- newly separated and now I’m free and back in my house. I don’t miss feeling like an animal trapped in a cage anymore and seriously don’t think I’ve had a bad day since I left.

Don’t get me wrong- watching all those digits disappear from my retirement in the snap of the fingers was tough, but being rid of a spoiled rude cold b1tch … Priceless!

Seeing my ex fall apart has been kind of amusing. She looks like s~~~, put on weight, is drinking way too much and jacking her face up with injections. Conversely, I’ve run 4 ultra trail races in the last calendar year, my first marathon (shorter than Ultras) in a respectable time and 3-4 half marathons, 30ks, etc. I feel great.

I won’t drone on – but I will share this story as it is one of my favorites: A few weeks ago I’m working in my yard that was neglected for the last year – bought a badass new Stihl chainsaw and things are looking better, plus its fun to cut s~~~ down. Well the ex needed to drop my dogs off – she was watching them for me. Sends me a text, “I’m dropping the dogs off in 30 minutes and I’m bringing wine”. I think WTF does that mean – its 11am?

She shows up – looking bloated like a toad and bleary eyed. Plants her fat ass on my patio and commences to bawl her eyes out. I was kind while she vented about how she is miserable. She hates her job (which she loved before and enjoyed the travel – leaving me here to take care of things) she is lonely and can’t find a guy “They are all assholes”.

The Selfish One went on about “how f~~~ed up” her life is and how she is falling apart.

After she was so cruel and cold to me for decades I wanted to laugh in her face, but tried to console her “you’re just going through a transition… you’ll be fine”. Yadda Yadda

Finally I had to shoo her away as I needed to get cleaned up b/c I had plans. She looked at me amazed. I was kicking her ass out.

Finally she left and then a barrage of texts came- “How could you kick me out when I was hurting? How could you…”.

Eh- f~~~ off b1tch. I didn’t reply.

Merry Christmas, Men! If you are contemplating divorcing the selfish cupcake who is sucking the life out of you, DO IT sooner rather than later. Life on the outside is friggin’ incredible.

[JVBParticipant]

CombatRoll wrote:

She shows up – looking bloated like a toad and bleary eyed. Plants her fat ass on my patio and commences to bawl her eyes out.

Winning!!!!

Peace is > piece.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

You waited too long to chase her off your property. The time to do that was when she rang the doorbell. Anyway, congrats and cheers to a peaceful season and road ahead!

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

I’m looking forward to tax time.

This will be great. Over the past few decades she had lots of little surprises – like she changed her deductions or defaulted on a loan against her 401(k) and I’d be expected to pay the gov’t for her stupidity. In years where I was able to still eek out a refund despite her dumbassedness she expected half.

This year (drawn into my final settlement) I get to claim all the mortgage deductions and I have some losses from a side company I have. I’m gonna get a nice refund this year and she will pay through her ass. I know I’ll get a frantic call asking what to do. Bwahahahahah. Not my problem anymore.

She tried to get me to put new rotors and pads on the expensive SUV “limited” that I had to give her! F~~~ that! Then she begged me to talk to the mechanic b/c “he spoke down to her”.

Sucks for her to have to be an adult at her ripe ole age….

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

Isn’t it just amazing that you are both just simply “living your lives”.

The difference of course being is just how well you’re doing and how horrible she is doing.

I think I’ve heard this story before. AWALT LOL LOL LOL

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

CombatRoll wrote:

Sucks for her to have to be an adult at her ripe ole age….

Even after a hard crash through the wall, most of them still have not learned to grow up. They lose their looks but not their immaturity.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

CombatRoll wrote:

She tried to get me to put new rotors and pads on the expensive SUV “limited” that I had to give her! F~~~ that! Then she begged me to talk to the mechanic b/c “he spoke down to her”. Sucks for her to have to be an adult at her ripe ole age….

I find that the older they get, the more helpless they choose to become.

That helps to explain why so many Old Hags are on the dating sites CRYING for their NEXT Resident Slave.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

I can’t thank those of you enough who doled out some “tough love” to me when I was here bitching about how miserable I was. You guys kicked me in the ass and I haven’t looked back.

One negative: The Selfish One is molding my daughter in her image. Spoiling her, allowing disrespectful behavior. Thank God I raised my son right and when he was home from college even he chimed in how out of control his sister is. I don’t know if I can save this one. The ex has her half the time and when I get her back its like trying to deprogram her. Sucks.

Another funny note – when my ex drops off my daughter she comes into my house when I’m not here and takes little things. A lamp. Dishtowels. She took my f~~~ing hoody and then wore it in front of me a few weeks later. Klepto! She won’t give my hoody back. She’s f~~~ed up.

[JB BooksParticipant 3182]

Change the locks and get the doorbell with a motion sensor, camera and internet. Great shares, CombatRoll!!

We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

CombatRoll wrote:

One negative: The Selfish One is molding my daughter in her image.

Don’t blame yourself, it’s tough with daughters because not only are you battling the s~~~ty role model in the home, but the social conditioning and social media pressures makes it just about impossible for their “father” to have much of a lasting influence in THEIR LIVES.

CombatRoll wrote:

Another funny note – when my ex drops off my daughter she comes into my house when I’m not here and takes little things. A lamp. Dishtowels. She took my f~~~ing hoody and then wore it in front of me a few weeks later. Klepto! She won’t give my hoody back. She’s f~~~ed up.

I consider that down right CREEPY, and I would definitely CHANGE THE LOCKS, and only invite her over in the presence of a “witness”.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[SpleeferParticipant 958]

Congratulations! For kicking her to the curb. Stone cold, awesome. Kudos for the Ultras. That isn’t easy, I’m working towards a half and I’m only to 7 miles. Lol

Guys have given you warning already about your ex. They know what’s next, 911 call from your front yard. I wouldn’t have her watch your dogs. That’s just another way she can screw you over.

Be careful with those running women and those ultra events. Those events combine fit toned bodies with Alcohol and sex. Last event I went to I had 2 married women want to share my tent with me and I was just there supporting a friend. You are an alpha dog, I’m sure you have more stories than I do, but just a reminder to be careful AWALT! I wouldn’t want to see you fall prey to a toned , fit, unicorn.

I looked at your intro, I am really impressed you broke it off and took the hit financially. That took a lot of guts. It’s great to see someone take the risk and believe in Themselves and have it actually work out for the better for YOU. Congratulations man.

Galatians 5:1 (KJV) Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage.

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

Awakened wrote:

CombatRoll wrote:

One negative: The Selfish One is molding my daughter in her image.

Don’t blame yourself, it’s tough with daughters because not only are you battling the s~~~ty role model in the home, but the social conditioning and social media pressures makes it just about impossible for their “father” to have much of a lasting influence in THEIR LIVES.

AGREED – but it is still bothersome and frankly I feel pretty helpless. I haven’t been successful battling a mother who condones spoiled entitled behavior – who lets a 12 year old get fake nails, her “brows done” and stay on her phone 24/7 taking “selfies”. It drives me bats~~~.

CombatRoll wrote:

Another funny note – when my ex drops off my daughter she comes into my house when I’m not here and takes little things. A lamp. Dishtowels. She took my f~~~ing hoody and then wore it in front of me a few weeks later. Klepto! She won’t give my hoody back. She’s f~~~ed up.

I consider that down right CREEPY, and I would definitely CHANGE THE LOCKS, and only invite her over in the presence of a “witness”.

IT is tough to restrict access while allowing my daughter access to get things when I’m not here. I have to think about how I handle this one. Thanks for the feedback!

[BubParticipant 1403]

CombatRoll wrote:

The Selfish One went on about “how f~~~ed up” her life is and how she is falling apart.

Bed. Made. Lie.
The Wall’s a bitch. It’s only going to get worse cupcake.

CombatRoll wrote:

she comes into my house when I’m not here and takes little things. A lamp. Dishtowels. She took my f~~~ing hoody and then wore it in front of me a few weeks later.

This is a s~~~ test. The only answer to a woman is NO. Tell her to stay out of your home.

Just rolling down the road

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

Spleefer wrote:

Congratulations! For kicking her to the curb. Stone cold, awesome. Kudos for the Ultras. That isn’t easy, I’m working towards a half and I’m only to 7 miles. Lol
Guys have given you warning already about your ex. They know what’s next, 911 call from your front yard. I wouldn’t have her watch your dogs. That’s just another way she can screw you over.
Be careful with those running women and those ultra events. Those events combine fit toned bodies with Alcohol and sex. Last event I went to I had 2 married women want to share my tent with me and I was just there supporting a friend. You are an alpha dog, I’m sure you have more stories than I do, but just a reminder to be careful AWALT! I wouldn’t want to see you fall prey to a toned , fit, unicorn.
I looked at your intro, I am really impressed you broke it off and took the hit financially. That took a lot of guts. It’s great to see someone take the risk and believe in Themselves and have it actually work out for the better for YOU. Congratulations man.

Thanks – but again- I was sitting on my thumb and some guys here called me out! Best thing that ever happened to me.

Regarding the hot runner girls. YEP – I’ve had some run ins and usually they are always married. I only banged separated ones and then ran like the wind. The married ones I tell sorry – not messing with another man’s piece of ass. Man they have some tight bodies for theirs ages! But hit and run is the order of the day and only the single ones.

Stick with your running! I suggest trails as much as possible with some road speed work mixed in. Best of Luck.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Ohhh boy, it warms my cold dead heart (if i had ond), to listen to happy ending christmas tales.

Double winning for you sir, charlie sheen wold be like “DAMN THAT GUY IS WINNING”

forget about your dougther, AWALT, nothing you can do.

Change the locks, no need for her to have keys to the palace, start acting like royalty, YOU ARE A ROCK STAR.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

Congrats, and good for YOU!
You took the financial hit,….. You owe her N O T H I N G ! ! !
It just gets better from here.

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[MonkParticipant 16977]

CombatRoll wrote:

Another funny note – when my ex drops off my daughter she comes into my house when I’m not here …

Are you out of your mind?

Change the locks immediately and stop all access. If you don’t you will be set up, either by her or her mother (if the daughter has access, so does the mother).

As each day passes, they will get crazier and more desperate. Firearms, drugs, extreme pornography, DV. Then the ONE PHONE CALL. It will happen.

Daughter or not – AWALT. Don’t think that she won’t do it – she will.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

CombatRoll wrote:

Sends me a text, “I’m dropping the dogs off in 30 minutes and I’m bringing wine”.

She meant “I’m bringing whine.”

Strong work, CR. And yeah, a STHIL chainsaw kicks ass.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Carnage wrote:

Change the locks, no need for her to have keys to the palace, start acting like royalty, YOU ARE A ROCK STAR.

First, welcome back! It’s been a while and I always love stories about the “selfish one”.

OK, I assume that the daughter is letting your ex in the house and there’s not a whole lot you can do about that. But you could put up a few small cameras that she doesn’t know about and catch her on tape stealing your s~~~. But the bottom line is she’s just trying to get under your skin to get a reaction. And the fact that you don’t is killing her. I know, because she’s related to my ex. She would pull the same s~~~ if she had the chance.

Order the good wine

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

TaxGuy wrote:

Carnage wrote:

Change the locks, no need for her to have keys to the palace, start acting like royalty, YOU ARE A ROCK STAR.

First, welcome back! It’s been a while and I always love stories about the “selfish one”.
OK, I assume that the daughter is letting your ex in the house and there’s not a whole lot you can do about that. But you could put up a few small cameras that she doesn’t know about and catch her on tape stealing your s~~~. But the bottom line is she’s just trying to get under your skin to get a reaction. And the fact that you don’t is killing her. I know, because she’s related to my ex. She would pull the same s~~~ if she had the chance.

I bought some cheapo cameras from Amazon and she said, “Uh..hahaha – are you trying to film me?”.

She is narcissistic – I don’t think she is doing this to get under my skin as much it is SELFISHNESS. She wants something she just takes it. I’ve seen her do it to other people. She looks after her own best interests and everyone else be damned.

Thanks and its good to be back! I owe you guys- and I’m trying to pay it forward. If I can help one dumbass dude see the light I’ll call it a victory. Marriage is a losing proposition.

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