26 and no kids

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  • 2016-04-30 at 9:48 AM#232519
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    FearlessMGHOW wrote:
    Tiga K wrote:

    At my age, I get asked the “why don’t you have a girlfriend yet” by my relatives.

    I get that as well. Plus, I’m 25 and have NEVER dated in my life at all. This makes some people in my family think I’m gay as well.

    Same here. I’ve never even asked a girl out. All I’ve ever done is decline a few offers over the years. One of those offers was very tempting since I already had a crush on her, but I still knew it was best to decline, even though I hadn’t discovered the manosphere yet.

    When I told my mother that I am not interested in dating or marriage, she said I’ll grow into it. She actually thinks I haven’t sexually matured which is very very funny. Apparently I have always been very skilled at hiding the “evidence” of me indulging in a certain activity that would prove that to be wrong.

    My father respects my choice as far as I can tell. When I told him my views on these things, he just said that I made a good argument, and although he doesn’t regret his choice, he is glad as long as I choose what is best for me.

    My extended family might think I am gay, but I think they are just confused by it. Once I complete my education and don’t have to rely on family so much, then perhaps I will be more open with them and risk insulting them by speaking negatively of marriage. They make too many comments about “when I get a gf/wife” for me not to. If they want my company in the future, they will have to quit looking down on me for being single.

    2016-04-30 at 1:02 PM#232572
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    OK, MGTOW members, I have been reading enough posts to know you are clever enough to provide “26” with some comeback lines when questioned about his lack of a wife.

    I’ll throw out two.

    “I can’t seem to find a young, beautiful, and rich woman who will agree to support me in the style to which I want to become accustomed.”

    “I have decided that I would like to pursue a demanding career that will take up most of my time, that of a Master Debater.”

    OK, boys, let her rip!!!

    2016-04-30 at 1:40 PM#232595
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    Moonlight wrote:

    Just like you, I’ve never dated. I made that decision at 18 and I’m in my early 30’s now.

    My mom tells me that I just haven’t met the right one yet and I reply, “you can’t win the lottery without buying a ticket and most who do buy one, don’t ever win”.

    Haha, I actually use that excuse sometimes. “I haven’t met the right woman yet.” Just to shut them up.

    Tiga K wrote:

    My father respects my choice as far as I can tell. When I told him my views on these things, he just said that I made a good argument, and although he doesn’t regret his choice, he is glad as long as I choose what is best for me.

    My dad is the opposite. He wants me to get married and a butt load of children for religious reasons. My mom pushes the marriage and kids card down my throat with passive aggressive hints all the time. Such as:

    : You don’t know if you wanna have kids or not yet. You’re still young and aren’t mature enough to understand the joy of being married/having a girlfriend.

    Those kinds of comments p~~~ me off on some days. Most of the time, i just give tell them “I just want to focus on my career right now.”

    That usually shuts them up at least for a couple of weeks.

    Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius

    2016-05-01 at 6:37 AM#232863
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    FearlessMGHOW wrote:

    : You don’t know if you wanna have kids or not yet. You’re still young and aren’t mature enough to understand the joy of being married/having a girlfriend.

    Those kinds of comments p~~~ me off on some days. Most of the time, i just give tell them “I just want to focus on my career right now.”

    That usually shuts them up at least for a couple of weeks.

    I’ve heard that before too. It’s just projection from the speaker and ignores the fact that we don’t all share the same values. I am a strength enthusiast, but I don’t blame others’ not being enthusiast as a sign of immaturity and tell them one day they will come to truely respect their health/bodies. I recognize that health isn’t valued by others as much as me and/or they prefer to approach improving their wellbeing differently. Maybe they just don’t enjoy it like I do. Marriage is the same. You can’t expect everyone to hold it at the same value. A contract between two people and the government that can be used as a weapon against the person they “love” is not natural, and its not what it used to be anyways, so they can’t pretend marriage is some part of the circle of life or put it in the “essential as breathing” category.

    My brother says the same you do to avoid conflict. Just replace work with school. My grandmother tells him, “he’ll get over that”.

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