2017 Break up with GF have 2 options

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  • 2017-01-02 at 6:51 PM#383527
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    Giddyu
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    Hi,

    A buddy of myn who would like to remain anonymous just broke up with his gf. He would love to have opinions from everyone about his options. Please read below:

    So 2017 has ****ed me over from day one. Me and my gf just broke up. The only reason we broke up was because I have dreams to become a digital nomad build multiple incomes and we both are going different directions in life. I really do believe she is the right person for me and don’t know if I want to give up. I feel like I am not sure If I have made the right decision. I feel like I should take a different option in life but feel that I might end up regretting the decision, Here are my two options:

    1. Don’t go back focus 100% on my goals of becoming a digital nomad and forget about everything else.
    2. find a job that will allow me to be location independent or work from home (there are companies that allow you to do that) build a side business in the mean time but have a work life balance where I spend more time with my gf and friends and in my spare time of that work on my business.

    I would love to have advice from other people who have been in a similar situation? I don’t want to end up resenting her or regretting my decision but I really do just love her so much and still technically can start a business it will just be a slower process and I can’t be a digital nomad.

    Cliff notes-
    – Broke up with gf,not sure if right decision
    – Not sure if right decision
    – Have 2 options: work on my goals and dreams or get back with gf and work on goals slowly

    2017-01-02 at 7:02 PM#383529
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    007 (Reborn)
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    Show him this video.

    Pursuing Happiness and Freedom.

    2017-01-02 at 7:33 PM#383537
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    Stargazer
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    Here’s the deal… there’s only one thing that matters.

    She broke up with him. That means it’s over. You don’t launch the nukes over an ideological difference… you sit down over the course of weeks and months and hash it out. Offer ideas, discuss possibilitites, look for compromises.

    But she went nuclear. Obviously I don’t have the full story and there may have been some discussion prior, but if they’ve gotten to the point where she’s all “f~~~ it, I’m out” then f~~~ it, she’s out.

    Tell your boy to run with his dreams and if there’s a woman at the finish line for him, he’ll find her there.

    2017-01-02 at 8:24 PM#383555
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    Anonymous
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    Follow the dream.

    I gave up the dream, went for the gf, knocked her up, wifed her up and got all f~~~ed up in the divorce.

    Go for the dream, p~~~ on the gf for not supporting the dream.

    my 2 cents.

    If the dream works out, then maybe there is room for gf.

    Im thinking she will move on without yer buddy, and f~~~ who ever is next. Someone who followed a dream, and can now afford a gf.

    lol

    2017-01-02 at 9:28 PM#383582
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    Old Rottweiler
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    If she left you because you wanted to follow your dream, she is not the one for you.

    You want your mate to support you,as you would support her, period.

    2017-01-03 at 2:02 AM#383653
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    Meister
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    His girlfriend broke up with him?
    Good news!

    He can focus on his job and purpose in life.

    Awesome times ahead.
    Freedom awaits!

    What’s the question exactly?

    Monk

    2017-01-03 at 4:01 AM#383673
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    Old Rottweiler wrote:

    If she left you because you wanted to follow your dream, she is not the one for you.

    You want your mate to support you,as you would support her, period.

    http://biblehub.com/genesis/2-18.htm

    "It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

    2017-01-03 at 4:19 AM#383675

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    If she broke up with him, then I will garauntee she has already been f~~~ing some other guy(s) before she monkey-branched away to be with him, even while dating your current friend.

    Follow the advice given here, concentrate on school/work/you. Emotions are strong, but they pass.

    2017-01-03 at 4:29 AM#383682
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    I’ve worked out a simple criteria for allowing any woman even the slightest presence in your life:

    1) her relationship to stress (stress flags include but are not limited to; huge credit card debts, doing lots of life changing things all at same time (see Rathe scale), falls out and argues with other people, loses her temper easily to name a few;
    2) her mental health (this goes hand in hand with stress, because stress causes mental health issues); mental health flags include but are not limited to; is she on anti-depressants, going to counselling, always claims to be the victim, any kind of past trauma
    3) interpersonal conflict; how does she deal with difference of opinion, can she find a win/win solution and remain calm and discuss it like an adult, or is it all about her rights, wants and needs. A person who it is all about their needs has a winning approach and will go for win/lose outcomes (with you losing) and will get angry when they don’t get their own way

    Simplest strategy I have found to red flag dangerous women. So whether you should break up with a woman is determined by the answers to the above points.

    And I can tell you now, all feminists fail that test. So, it’s a model that works and that’s all that matters at the end of the day. Keeps you safe.

    I use that even with women I work with, red flag women are kept at arms length and I only be around them with another person I trust.

    2017-01-03 at 5:48 AM#383708
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    Awakened
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    giddyu wrote:

    I really do just love her so much

    “Love” is temporary. If you “love” her now, in time you will more then likely grow to hate her. I’m not being negative, but realistic. Look around the world, your “love” is no different.

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    2017-01-03 at 6:09 AM#383718
    Point Of No Return
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    Option 2 is fine, just one amendment: remove “where I spend more time with my gf”.

    Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

    2017-01-03 at 6:09 AM#383719
    JVB
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    She left him so in doing so did him the favor to allow him follow his dreams. Pussy will always be around. Make that money bro!! Good luck.

    Peace is > piece.

    2017-01-03 at 7:13 AM#383755
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    If GF eventually chooses to support your decision, that is her choice. You might be surprised how she reacts to you gyow. Best of luck.

    2017-01-03 at 10:48 AM#383862
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    Capslok Spelczech
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    Only two options? What kind of binary bulls~~~ is this? Sounds like a guy who is under the same delusions that most women cultivate and maintain: that you can “have it all,” that there is “a special, one-and-only soulmate” for him. You CAN’T have it all. Life doesn’t work that way. Excellence requires singular focus, practice, and self-discipline.

    1. Pick ONE target. Just one, and focus on hitting it. Multitasking is an illusion created by corporate gerbils. If you wanna be a “digital nomad (whatever the f~~~ that is),” then focus on achieving THAT. Eliminate all the distractions….or just keep following your gerbil friends, or worse, some gerbillian, Twittering female. They’ll happily tell you what to do if you don’t want to listen to me.

    2. Become self-sustaining. If you have no means of sustaining your basic needs, then all the leisure time and freedom in the world is pointless. You’ll be sooo very free…and starving. Read Jon Krakauer’s “Into The Wild” to see what happens when you’re in love with being an iconoclastic, trend-bucking tramp, but you lack the patience to develop ironclad, well-principled self-reliance.

    3. Wait until you have A. a vasectomy and B. plenty of what I call “F~~~ You” money before you hassle with the pussy.

    4. Develop a lifelong practice of having your OWN plans. Just don’t TELL EVERYBODY ABOUT YOUR PLANS, like a GODDAMN WOMAN.

    Telling everyone in your burst radius of your plans usually means you’re insecure, and you need consensus or approval…because that’s what smart, evolved “modern” men do, right? WRONG. People will s~~~ on your ideas with sunrise-like regularity, because they HATE IT when you don’t follow the script that THEY have to read every day. Don’t give them the chance. Just make your plans, and silently set about realizing them.

    In a world that can’t stop Tweeting, posting, protesting, bitching, waffling, whining…just be a goddamn MAN AND SHUT UP. QUIETLY BULID YOUR CABIN AND DEFEND IT.

    Cultivate in your heart the unshakable belief that you can and WILL achieve whatever you make your goaL…and have the goddamn manly common sense to FIRST build the resources, sinew, and muscle you will need in case you’re wrong.

    "Higgins: Magnum, feed the lads, would you? There are steaks in the freezer. [Magnum makes an excited face] Very well, you can have one too."

    2017-01-03 at 2:50 PM#384019
    Bigboy83
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    In a relationship, rule goes like this….

    Last person in the relationship, will be the first one out.

    Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

    2017-01-03 at 4:29 PM#384067
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    anonymous is everyone, why try to qualify reality with BULLS~~~

    why only 2 Options? BULLS~~~

    from day one lmao, 2017 didn’t do jack, she did or he Didn’t bow and curtsy correctly. BULLAS~~~

    He should be compelled to Do everything she wants him to do forever or he’ll regret every day of his god given freedom forever.
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    bulls~~~

    with joy/without hate

    2017-01-03 at 6:08 PM#384123
    Atton
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    Digital nomad a career lasts your life and serve you.

    A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

    2017-01-04 at 9:55 AM#384492
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    Does not matter what you do in life – you need to concentrate on the basics

    – Be good in a trade or profession
    – Be career independent and self-reliant and expand to work your own business
    – Never stop learning and become financially secure in the shortest time.
    – Keep away all females = this is not an option

    Good luck

    2017-01-04 at 10:21 AM#384507
    Aleph Male
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    If she’s leaving you because of your dreams, it’s pretty safe to assume she has zero respect for you. And the fact that you’re still giving this thought also goes on to prove you have very low self-esteem. You need to learn to respect yourself, because no one else is going to do it for you.

    Behind every miserable man there is a very happy woman.

    2017-01-04 at 2:08 PM#384627
    Chaff/Flare
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    Good move. Suck it up for 2 weeks and you will feel better.

    Don’t f~~~ her ever again, because she will get pregnant.

    All of what May said.

    When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

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