19 yr old mgtow still dealing with pain.

hey bro , take some time for yourself ..get busy with a job , hobby just stay busy for a while …you hooked up with a crazy person ! lots of them out there ..but you must go on and in enough time you will feel better and better . you are young , go out with friends ..volunteer ..do what you gotta do and it will pass ..plenty of bitches out there to stick your dick into..bag it up and have FUN ! you got burned , welcome to the club ! it’s a rite of passage for all human beings ! take some time and you will GAIN STRENGTH and GROW from your experience ..mark my words ..

Welcome! I’m glad you made it without any more damage than you’ve sustained.

When I was about your age, several of my high school friends had gotten married, and so had a girl I had a crush on, and so had had our homecoming queen. One of my male friends was already talking divorce. He did get divorced, remarried, and divorced again before my senior year of college. Some guys never learn.

Speaking of learning, I recommend you follow @doinmyownthing40‘s advice. There is nothing like a good diet and heavy exercise to put your head straight.

Hang in brother. The pain goes away. But your new brothers won’t. You should be glad that it wasn’t a continued cycle…I kept doing the same s~~~ expecting different results. Guess what, that’s called insanity. You’re on the right path brother

Man, it’s pretty sorry of that wench to have taken your trust and turned on you like that. Sadly, damn near every single one is capable of some incredibly mind blowing treachery. The good news is that pain goes away. The bad news is that you are harming yourself which you have admitted to which is the first step to fixing the problem.

Learn from this. Take that rejection and anger and channel it into improving yourself. You are fortunate to have discovered MGTOW at 19. Many of us had to get our asses handed to us repeatedly into our 40s before going MGTOW.

MGTOW is power, Your own personal power seized by you for your benefit.. The way of the red pill will gradually turn you into a different man a better man. Even if you don’t post very often, read and read again what the Brothers have written.

@ssrviennas, do you want a cure? something that will work like nothing you’ve ever tried before? You say you gained 40 lbs., depressed all the time? Excessive sleeping? You metabolic state has become STAGNANT! Start physical exercise! I mean start pounding your heart and expanding your lungs! WOMEN ARE THE #1 CAUSE FOR MALE DEPRESSION!
Get on your bicycle if you have one, or your feet if you don’t! If you’re in a hilly area of CA, start traversing the mountains! Start out small, and always increase with each outing. Tear your manly f~~~ing heart out and eat it!
Devour the pain and let it energy flow through your veins with each pounding beat of your heart! Run till ya puke! Then get up and run again! I like climbing steep grades as these require both arms and legs. Go to a gym and break the equipment! Hammer your body like never before!
When the mind is stuck in the mud, the body will surly follow! When the body shifts into 4wd and roars to life, the mind will surly follow!
Don’t even think about curing the mental damage until you first strengthen and build the body! The head f~~~ery women are capable of is staggering! The eating disorder should go away as your bodies new metabolic rate will consume all the extra calories and turn the fat to lean muscle.

You’ll only get good advice here, many of us know what to do from our own life’s experiences! In a month or so you’ll feel like a whole new person! In only a few years you’ll be a mean lean MGTOW machine!

The ladies ruin the men, the MGTOW reinforce these men, which in turn ruins the ladies as these men care not when the ladies SLAM THE WALL®!

Consider yourself Steve Austin, a man barely alive, we can rebuild you to be faster, stronger, SMARTER! With our help you’ll become a Six Million Dollar MAN!

Let us reshape you to become a gynocentric wrecking ball! PLEASE!!!

ssrviennas wrote:

Finally, a week after she asks me to be her BF, she texts me and tells me she cant do this anymore and she needs time to her self. She said she was really busy with college and work. I knew it was bulls~~~ because if you really loved some one you would have time to make it work. After she dumped me i became really f~~~ing depressed, Literally I have been depressed since last febuary when she dumped me, Since FEB i have been numbing my self with Porn and food, i gained about 40 lbs.

I haven’t read other replies to this yet, because I like to do that after. But there is no reason for you to be 19 and already completely fed up with women. That would be like finding a hair in your pizza and deciding you will never eat pizza again. But you just not order it from THAT place is probably more sensible. Don’t be TOO discourages. The audio file below will explain it to you.

The mistake is not that you cared or wanted it to work.
The mistake is NOT doing what was alway natural to you : to not give a f~~~ about them.

As soon as you did – and did what a woman wanted – it all went south.
That’s so classic I can’t even tell you.

Don’t give a s~~~. Don’t want a girlfriend and she will suck and f~~~ you until next week. Start to like her and text her and talk to her more and she’ll be f~~~ing your best friend before next Friday.

Women are attracted to you when you don’ t give s~~~ and it comes out in your body language and everything you say and do . It’s a complete attitude. Then – stupidly – when the first girl that comes along and pays attention to us and appears to really like us, a young man thinks it;s “love”.

Lesson l;earned: don’t ever let a woman ask you “to be her boyfriend” again.
She was actually more content to make out and screw BEFORE that anyway.

FACT: She would still be f~~~ing you today if you said “not interested”.

You should even THINK about a girlfriend until you are AT LEAST 26 and already on your way to achieving your dreams. Any highly successful man will tell you that. She suckers you in and convinces you to get married (or get her pregnant) and you’re life is OVER BEFORE IT EVEN BEGAN. It’s her stupid dreams come true – while yours all vanish.

You have no idea of the potential, possibility and promise that lays ahead for you. This isn’t a dark story. Its a GREAT story with a happy ending,. You just can’t see the future yet. Believe it EVERY. WOMAN. THAT. DUMPS. YOU. IS. DOING .YOU. A. FAVOR.

Take 5 minutes out of your life and listen to this. What the hell. Take 10 and listen twice.
/video/women-over-the-hill/

I have to agree with MG-ɹǝʍo┴. Get fit, go gym, eat protein and carbs, go boxing wing chun. view youtube vids 4 red pills. Try destroy women’s lives is a good goal. It’s amazing when you get a girl crying for you and you don’t give an atomic s~~~.

undoubtedly most of us are born to crave the opposite sex’s genitalia. In sniffing it, f~~~ing it, tasting it, thinking and dreaming about it – what we are doing is assimilating it, (the act or process of assimilating, or of absorbing information, experiences, etc.: ). In doing so Men are subconsciously creating a virtual representation of our partners genitals -deep within our lizard brain – at the heart of our emotional core. Lizard brain” refers to the oldest part of the brain, the brain stem, responsible for primitive survival instincts such as aggression and fear.

I believe where men develop a vagina (we all know about manginas.)
I also believe the same happens to a woman. (she develops a inner c~~~)

What do you think will happen, if you let your inner vagina to get too big and her inner c~~~ to get too horny and hard?
That’s right, she will rape you! She will cast you aside! Women do to us exactly what they don’t want us to do to them!
Is that not pure hypocrisy?
This is how far the tables have turned – when men are legally raped, without a single law to stop it happening. The pain from female abuse can manifest itself within you -and the strongest willed of us- for several years. This is why I advocate sex robots – as a fair solution untill female emotional abuse is given the full punishment (of the law) it deserves.

This is why you should seek to be selfish as a demon. She will deserve to be the one in pain because its either her or you.
She will have no shame in getting a boyfriend the same day and letting you see them intimate together.
I have myself done this to girls and the feeling is so sweet that it becomes addictive.

SEEthemTURN

ssrviennas wrote:

Hello MGTOW brothers. I am a 19 yr old mgtow from so cal. Heres my story and how i found the red pill

. I really only started getting into girls at age 18, Before that I was mgtow and didn’t give a f~~~ about girls, just my friends and my weed. So I did a couple of online relationships, but they all ended with me getting dumped, The first girl I dated online I planned on seeing her in person and we talked on the phone but i was bluepill and always trying to be her ”comforter”, that just ended up me getting dumped. So fast forward a year, I find another girl online, and she drives and meets me. I should have known she was a slut, but I let my blue pill thinking get the best of me. She was really affectionate and we made out a lot on my first date ever with a girl. I sucked her breasts and that was an amazing experience.. So the months go by and we see each other every other week, we became really close, she would get a hotel room for us and she would cuddle with me and kiss me all night.

Then I got super attached to her and was falling in ”love”. She said she was falling for me too and asked me to be her BF. I gladly accepted. This chick was pretty mentally ill. She was molested as a child and had a eating disorder and self harming, but she was going to therapy and recovering, I told her i was a porn addict and i was willing to get into therapy and i wanted to make this relationship last a long time. So we spend the weekend together on my birthday planning our future together and falling more in ”love”.

Finally, a week after she asks me to be her BF, she texts me and tells me she cant do this anymore and she needs time to her self. She said she was really busy with college and work. I knew it was bulls~~~ because if you really loved some one you would have time to make it work. After she dumped me i became really f~~~ing depressed, Literally I have been depressed since last febuary when she dumped me, Since FEB i have been numbing my self with Porn and food, i gained about 40 lbs.

Guys this is pure hell, I found out about MGTOW after she dumped me and i was really f~~~ing angry, I would text her and tell her what a bitch she was to me and how hurt i was. She would just say how sorry she was and how she made a mistake. So today i woke up and had a dream about her, and i looked her up on Facebook, i was shocked to find she was in a relationship. I guess she was in this relationship since February right after she dumped me.. Guys i have been numbing my self for almost a year now and i cant continue numbing my self, but on the other hand, im still not over this damn bitch and knowing she lied about the reason she broke up with me really hurts bad. I am 3 days sober from porn and the memories and pain are really hitting hard core.

The reason i am mgtow is i know the fickle and backstabbing nature of women, and i never want to go through the pain of a heart break again, i really have no desire to deal with women again because i always know its going to end up in suffering. If any of you can give me some advice or tell me how you dealt with your pain of a break up it would be much appreciated.

1) You made the mistake of getting involved in online dating. The women are the closest thing to being a “cat lady” you’re ever going to see without actually seeing a cat lady. They’re the lowest of the low, full of drama, and not worth the hassle. On top of the fact the internet allows them to be 1000x more deceptive than the ones you just meet out and about. Stay away from these chicks. Delete your profiles dude. Never sign into that s~~~ again.

2) smh.. You are not there to console women. That is not your life responsibility. You are not a f~~~ing pillow or a box of ice cream. Stay away from these people’s drama. All it’s going to do is bring you down and stress you out. You have enough of your own s~~~ to deal with without dealing with someone else’s s~~~ and being their sympathy pillow. I’m not saying this to boss you around. I’m saying this to protect your health. The stress and anxiety this s~~~ will give you will drive you to an early death. That’s why you get so emotionally attached to these chicks. Because they sell you their baggage like an infomercial and you gobble it right up. Say “no thank you” and be on your way.

3) You got super attached because you got sucked into their bait like a fish in the ocean. Hook, line, and sinker.

4) Her being mentally ill is red flag enough for you to run away. When she ADMITS she’s mentally ill, not only should you see the red flag, but you should be fking running the opposite way like she’s a serial murderer in a horror film coming at you with a machete. You should be jumping in your car and leaving nothing but smoke and tire tracks in your wake.

5) omg.. You actually said you were a “porn addict”. *sigh* and that you were willing to “seek help so the relationship would last”? You should be singing hallelujah that it didn’t. Porn is 1000X better than these chicks. No std’s, no mind games, no on again off again sex, no coming over at weird hours uninvited, no bitching and complaining, no having to kick them out after, or worry about date rape… Porn is a savior. The fact you were even willing to seek counseling to “make it last” is a futile effort at best. No woman is worth a concession unless she’s equally doing the concessions her self. AT BEST. A person has no idea how long a relations~~~ will last. For most women, they change em like they change their panties. Unless the guy has money. Then they’ll ride those panties till they rip and stretch. Just to get that cash.

6) “I’m too busy” is code for I’ve been cheating on you with my orbiter side guy.

7) This part about the facebook thing proves it. She had an orbiter. Probably the entire time. Feeding him the same contrived bulls~~~ she was feeding you. In fact, there’s a great chance that she was orbiting you too, perhaps even seeing that guy before she met you.

8) Don’t lose sleep over it. She’s probably pulling the same s~~~ on the other guy, and what happened to you hasn’t happened to him yet. Give it time. In fact, if you really want to see it play out, friend the guy. Pretend you met him somewhere and don’t bring up any mention of the girl at all if he questions you on facebook. Stay his friend. When they break up (as they inevitable will) get him to tell his story. I’m sure it’ll get announced online somehow. You’ll see someone change their status to single, or talk about the relations~~~ after it’s over. When he does play the consoling guy and ask “what happened?” He’s likely to have gone through at that point most of what you went through. That’s when you drop the bomb about what she pulled with you. Then send him here.

Love is a drug, it’s a seriously nasty piece of bioengineering
from our distant primitive past that we have so far failed to overcome and leave behind. I found that around twenty three my internals stabilized. Internal stability suffers during change obviously and growth. Around thirty we grow more and the instability returns for a short while but after that you’ll be far more internally stable for quite a while.

Understand that your instincts will always undermine your intelligence because they drive you subconsciously. You can develop an awareness of these motivational processes which will help but that is not easy for anyone and seemingly impossible for some people?

NioZen wrote:

You ever take a look around and notice how everyone gets manipulated by their emotions these days, like stupid beasts, like dumb herd animals?

Loved the rant NioZen, only quoted my favourite bit.

Keymaster wrote:

when a chick tells you she “needs space”, LAUGH, give her the goddam galaxy,

Give her the vast emptiness between the galaxies, with nothing to grasp, nothing to manipulate and she will tear herself to pieces.