12 Ways to Spot a Misogynist

Berit Brogaard D.M.Sci., Ph.D

Female what do you know! Who would have guessed it?

The misogynists. You may have heard of them. But what you may not realize is that they can be anywhere around you. They are notoriously hard to spot. They do not come with a label attached, and they may even come across as pro-woman

Paranoia big destroya!!

Bloody Extremist Feminists! Please someone! Anyone! save us from those paranoid ‘educated’ Twits!!

I was expecting this article to be about men like me -men who do not like feminism. Instead it was about something about as mythical as a unicorn -a man who really does hate women and yet also goes out of his way to p~~~ them about in relationships.

This guy is like a film psychopath -he chooses women and “zeroes in” on them. He bothers to form relationships with them and then he spends his time trying to hurt them by basically finding out what p~~~es them off and then doing it.

It disturbs me that this is written by a professor of Philosophy, yet seems to be “everything I hate about my exes”.

Lady, they probably did this to you (if they did it at all) because they found you entitled and arrogant.

As time goes on, he begins to reveal a Jekyll & Hyde personality. He may change quickly from irresistible to rude, and from rude back to irresistible.

Gal, that’s due your ovulation cycle, not due him: he’s always the same, you find him irresistible when you’re in the mood, ovulationg or very near ovulation, and you find him rude when your body isn’t ready, due biology.

He will make promises to women and often fail to keep them. With men, on the other hand, he will almost always keep his word.

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Promises such as?

He will be late for appointments and dates with women, but be quite punctual with men.

Work appointments aren’t the same as dates. You should compare his dates with women and dates with men (but that’s impossible unless he’s bisexual and willing to share such informations with you) and his job appointments with men and job appointments with women.

His behavior toward women in general is grandiose, c~~~y, controlling, and self-centered.

Either is grandiose and self-centered or it’s controlling: being controlling and jealous is the opposite of being grandiose and self-centered, being controlling and jealous is a sign of weakness.
You stated he’s always late, he don’t care to keep promises, he doesn’t care about her, now you say “he’s controlling”: sounds like cognitive dissonance to me.

He is extremely competitive, especially with women. If a woman does better than him socially or professionally, he feels terrible. If a man does better, he may have mixed feelings about it but he is able to look at the situation objectively.

Cognitive dissonance confirmed: you stated he’s always late, he don’t care to keep promises, he doesn’t care about her, now you say “he is extremely competitive with women” – that’s another woman, not a man.
You’re probably describing a lesbian partner, not a man.

He will unknowingly treat women differently from men in workplace and social settings, allowing men various liberties for which he will criticize female colleagues or friends.

That’s wrong, treating women differently from men should be a conscious process.

He will be prepared (unconsciously) to use anything within his power to make women feel miserable. He may demand sex or withhold sex in his relationships, make jokes about women or put them down in public, “borrow” their ideas in professional contexts without giving them credit, or borrow money from them without paying them back.

Proof that women have no idea about how consent works and that women are entitled to sex.

Demand for sex = asking for sex/consent to sex.
Withholding sex = not giving consent to sex.

Stop raping men, you female beast.

On a date, he will treat a woman the opposite of how she prefers. If she is an old-style lady who prefers a “gentleman” who holds the door for her, orders for both and pays for the meal, he will treat her like one of his male buddies, order for himself, and let her pay for the whole meal if she offers (and sometimes even if she doesn’t). If she is a more independent type who prefers to order her own meal and pay for herself, he will rudely order for both and pay the check while she goes to the bathroom.

That’s a very good behavior, highly suggested if it’s done in a certain way, with savoir faire. If she’s convinced that he’s different from other men and she’s living an extra-ordinary (literal sense: out of ordinary) date, she’ll put out immediatly.

Sexually, he likes to control women and gives little or no attention to their sexual pleasure. Foreplay, if it occurs at all, is only a necessary means to an end. He likes oral sex but only as a recipient.

Heavily focused on foreplay and oral…it remembers me something…
I already cited the possibility that she could be talking about a lesbian partner rather than a man?

His favorite positions enable him to avoid looking the woman in her eyes.

Don’t lie, you can get cystitis even if she’s mounting on him: that’s a very good position not because she’s on top, “controlling” him, they can look together in the eyes, but because it also allow access to boobs, squeezing and sucking the boobs during sex.
You don’t like it because you prefer missionary…or lesbian sex…

He will cheat on women he is dating or in a relationship with. Monogamy is the last thing he feels he owes a woman.

You’re confusing “dating” and “being in a relationship”: “dating” is about having a good time together, nothing more.
Men don’t owe s~~~ to women.
Monogamy is for lesbians, as long as it lasts.

He may suddenly disappear from a relationship without ending it, but may come back three months later with an explanation designed to lure the woman back in.

Given you can’t tell the difference between “dating” and “having a relationship”…

So much water in the beer. Poorly written piece of s~~~. Written by someone with a degree/doctorate/*who really gives a f~~~*? At this point I’m wondering if it’s some sort of felony to lie about academic records cos this s~~~ stinks. This article would’ve been yesterdays news a decade ago.

Plus, calling out misogyny by bashing the opposite sex is misandry. Pot calling the kettle black. But noooo…cos vagina – strong, independent woman!

Move on c~~~s. Evolve. If you don’t, we’re gonna sweep that rug out from under your overprivileged feet and you won’t even see it coming.

13 – But if he’s loaded then ignore all of the above.

Half way through reading it I realized that if you substitute the words women for men, and vise versa, you have something. It was like they were describing modern women not men.

A misogynist is a man who doesn’t religiously worship women.

Did anyone else just get cancer?

What a f~~~en stupid c~~~.