11 Women on What It's Like to Be in a Sex Drought

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  • 2018-12-15 at 2:14 PM#879946
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    ForeverDone
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    Good lord….

    https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/11-women-apos-sex-drought-170000255.html

    There really might not be anything more emotionally cumbersome than a sex drought—nor anything more enlightening. While it might be a serious struggle, sex being out of the picture also has the potential to fuel your energies in other, creative ways.

    Having sex is wonderful, and when it’s not available it can be hard. After all, sexual wellness is a healthy part of out overall lives. Have you ever gone a while without sex?

    We asked 11 real women about their experiences in a sex drought, and how they dealt with them.

    Leah, 27
    If you don’t focus on it, then it’s a great time to discover yourself. This is my second drought, and I feel amazing.

    Jen, 29
    It’s kind of like you’re dying. But also buzzing all over your body.

    Serena, 47
    I’ve been a widow these last two years. It was absolutely unexpected and I had a loving partnership. So, at age 47 I haven’t had sex in a little over two years. I think it is really strange because I’m not sure what to think.

    For one, I think I should be OK with a drought because plenty of single folks don’t/can’t have sex on the regular. I can find other outlets to be happy, right? Secondly, I have three pre-teenage children; I don’t want them to think that sex is so very necessary in a single person’s life that it would influence them negatively. I don’t want them to think I’m messed up by not having sex regularly, and that it impacts my happiness.

    And yet. I’m not single by choice. I’m so very lonely. And I miss sex. I’ve taken care of myself these past two years, but it’s not the same. I’m incredibly lonely. I deeply miss physical affection, attraction and flirting.

    Jasmine, 25
    I wish I could say I was fine with this, but I’m really not. I hate not having sex. But, I don’t want to just have casual sex with some random person. I have a lot of issues with anxiety and going out and having random sex makes me so nervous. I wind up reading into things and wanting it to go somewhere when there is no chance of it. I don’t want to get hurt. That being said, I am so horny all the time and it is making me insane. My therapist says not to give into sexual feelings if having sex with some girl on Tinder is going to interfere with my mental health. Let’s just say my vibrator has been getting a lot of use lately.

    Jamie, 30
    I am so productive right now. My career has never been better.

    Tammy, 27
    I have never, ever been happier. I will probably never have sex again at this point. Who needs sex when you have sex toys and wine? I’m so over relationships.

    Pam, 71
    I’d kill for just a little rain.

    Melissa, 31
    After my last breakup, I didn’t have sex for over a year. I really needed the time to heal and figure out what I wanted in my life. I did a ton of writing, journaling, and working through my feelings. Then I met my new partner. Having sex for the first time was such an interesting, joyous experience. We got to learn everything about each other again. So, not having sex was certainly hard, but I’m very happy I took the break from hookups and dating. It helped me see what I wanted out of life and out of a partner. I’ve never been happier.

    Danielle, 27
    I used to hook up all the time and then it stopped having meaning for me. Now, I’m so awkward in person that when I try to score, I completely fail. It’s embarrassing. But hey, it happens. I’m working on me right now and just going to wait and see if the universe throws me a hot guy in the near future. That’s my feeling about it. If dating and meeting people is so fcking hard, just wait for the right person to come along. Don’t question my logic.*

    Suzanne, 35
    I think I’m falling in love with … myself.

    See more: 7 Habits of Highly Sexual Couples

    Stephanie, 29
    Sex used to be the thing that calmed me down and got my head on straight. It would drive my ex crazy. I had a much higher sex drive than he did and he would act like having sex with me was this exhausting chore. We both wound up resenting each other. Now that I’m single, I use working out and meditation as my ways to calm down. I still love sex and when I have an opportunity to have it, I do. But, it’s been two months now and I feel just fine about it.

    2018-12-15 at 2:25 PM#879947
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    Monk
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    Sex = validation and access to resources.

    No sex = no SMV, therefore no validation or access to resources = meltdown .

    2018-12-15 at 2:39 PM#879950
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    Carnage
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    Wtf is this s~~~?

    Who gives a crap?

    Did anyone found a mgtow land is some remote island? Or a way to get rich tomorroe?

    Cant we kill the natives at sentinel island and take it for us?

    No one has to know?

    We go there, at break, machine guns, whipe them out (all of them, kids, women, old folks)
    Build bunker like facilities and live underground at nights, covered by the forrest in the day.

    We kill anyone who comes around centuries could pass before anyone knew what hapened.

    To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

    2018-12-15 at 5:33 PM#879960
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    Secret Agent MGTOW
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    Carnage wrote:

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    I like the idea but it cant be sentinrl island, its name is too well known. plenty of unknown islands out there, they increase the success of the overall goal and plan.

    Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

    2018-12-15 at 8:03 PM#879972
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    Faust For Science
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    This reminds me of the beginning of the film Fight Club when the dying woman with cancer is begging people to come to her home to f~~~ her. The scene was so pathetic that it was almost funny. Almost.

    2018-12-16 at 2:32 AM#879986
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    JB Books
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    So… hittin’ The Wall ain’t so fun? Tough s~~~.

    We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

    2018-12-16 at 2:49 AM#879988
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    Zoidberg
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    A few years without sex? 0.x decades? That qualifies as a sex drought to these women? Damn, they must be thirsty. Go home, little girls, you are amateurs. You can start to talk about a sex drought when that zero becomes at least 1, and you still haven’t gone completely bonkers.

    2018-12-16 at 4:13 AM#879993
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    Dark Kenshi
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    Women use sex as leverage.

    They love sex, but they know when and why to apply it for personal gain.

    Nothing of this is really new.

    And I hope they starve even more. I hope ALL MEN reach enlightenment, and MGTOW.

    "Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

    2018-12-16 at 4:40 AM#879999
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    Knights Templar Rising
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    Who cares what their problem is. Had a first with a woman last night. She bought me drinks, then bought me dinner, afterward she took me back to her place and I pounded her like a cheap steak. This is what I love about being middle-aged, by now most of these women know exactly what they want and go right for it.

    Sovereignty above all else.

    2018-12-16 at 5:00 AM#880002
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    Tic
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    Women need sex. It s a biological necessity. It s been shown that semen has pheromones that have anti depressive properties. Lots of articles on this.

    Thats why women who don’t have sex are unhappy. And I believe why lesbians are some of the meanest unhappiest people I ever saw.

    Don’t believe the “I’m great without sex” from women. As with most things, they are not being truthfully.

    God bless peace and freedom.

    2018-12-16 at 5:04 AM#880003
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    Solo MAN'S Wisdom
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    ForeverDone wrote:

    Suzanne, 35
    I think I’m falling in love with … myself.

    Upon reflection, Suzanne thought she should not have been “that honest”. After all, she just ratted out womanhood in its entirety. Oh look, a kitten . . .

    When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

    2018-12-16 at 6:56 AM#880018
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    Untamed
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    That’s just the beginning. We hear, read and watch more and more weemins “looking but not finding any” husbanks while they “go through the motions” – translation: get pumped’n’dumped – to find themselves right back to being alone and depressed – sorry – to being “strong and independent”, ha haaaa!
    This isn’t a Sex Drought, it’s just a lull, bitches.
    I won’t be satisfied until 100% of weemins are manless.
    Hey, you bitches don’t need us men anyway.
    #GenderSegregationNow!

    Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
    Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
    #GenderSegragationNow!

    2018-12-30 at 4:50 AM#881777
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    Hdvrod
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    Carnage wrote:

    Wtf is this s~~~?
    Who gives a crap?
    Did anyone found a mgtow land is some remote island? Or a way to get rich tomorroe?
    Cant we kill the natives at sentinel island and take it for us?
    No one has to know?
    We go there, at break, machine guns, whipe them out (all of them, kids, women, old folks)Build bunker like facilities and live underground at nights, covered by the forrest in the day.
    We kill anyone who comes around centuries could pass before anyone knew what hapened.

    Excellent idea!!! I’m in, and I’m bringing all my hardware.

    Anyway communication, real open communication, is not wanted or even required in a relationship. Women cannot handle fully open and honest communication, plus most perceive it as a weakness on the part of a man. All that is required is catering to her whims, and even then nothing is certain. There is no way to be sure of having a successful relationshit with a woman. MGTaoist

    2018-12-30 at 5:57 PM#881856
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    Grumpy
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    Meh
    All these whiners have to do is woman up and “take the lead” and do the work that men have traditionally had to do.
    Offer it up ladies and pursue the men. Take the risk, make the advances, dont play silly games, and face the possibility of rejection.
    You are all “strong and independent” aren’t you?

    Things have changed because women demanded change. The thing is (IMHO) a lot of women are finding out that the men that they demand and feel entitled to, dont want the type of woman she is.

    There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

    2018-12-31 at 3:41 AM#881929
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    Knights Templar Rising
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    Grumpy wrote:

    MehAll these whiners have to do is woman up and “take the lead” and do the work that men have traditionally had to do.Offer it up ladies and pursue the men. Take the risk, make the advances, dont play silly games, and face the possibility of rejection.You are all “strong and independent” aren’t you?
    Things have changed because women demanded change. The thing is (IMHO) a lot of women are finding out that the men that they demand and feel entitled to, dont want the type of woman she is.

    Exactly. It’s not that men don’t want “strong independent women”, it’s that we don’t want the rest of what they become in that mindset.

    Sovereignty above all else.

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