10 words, no anger, no argument

That’s the best way. Cold, distant and diplomatic. Well done. The opposite of love ins’t hate, it’s indifference. And while she’s trying to mine info, that’s a good way to shut them down. I might have to add that to my own playbook.

I think you handled that very well. If I find myself in such a situation hopefully I will handle it as gracefully.

They ask alot of questions don’t they. And you can always count on a woman in a social situation to have NOTHING ELSE TO TALK about but f~~~ing relationships, marriage and kids while sticking her nose into your personal life & interrogating you with questions she has no business asking in a first meeting.

WAY too many questions. A woman won’t even LET you be a man of few words.

“Yeah but what do you do? how do you know everyone? So do you have family here? married? kids? You don’t like LA? So how long were you married? how long ago was that? Don’t you want to find someone again?”

None of that is any of her goddam business. NOT in a first meeting. She can ask you that after knowing you for maybe 5 years. She wants to sucker you into her frame and explain yourself. No matter where you go, it’s the same s~~~ every time. Zero concept of boundaries.

Why are you not married.
Why are you not married.
Don’t you want to find someone again?
Why are you not married.
Why are you not married.
What was your longest relationship?
Why are you not married.
Why are you not married.
Aren’t you afraid of dying alone?
Why are you not married.
Why are you not married.

Never mind dying alone. Living one day with an intrusive bitch like that is worse. But I’m not going to say that to her because I have f~~~ing MANNERS in social situations. So years ago I adopted a personal rule that served me very well:

Never give a woman a direct answer to a question – unless it is NO.

“Marriage is for gays.”

She will shut the f~~~ up and pick up a menu instead.

Masculine_Man wrote:

Naturally the the white knights stepped in and did the typical, “it’s so hard to meet women” line

Love that one.

WHITE KNIGHT: “It’s so hard to meet women”.

“What are you talking about? 51% of Americans are women. That means even if you DON”T want to meet a woman… you’re more likely to meet a woman. They are everywhere! Like trashcans and parking meters. Or did you mean it’s so hard to meet women who are worth your time and attention? That’s why they aren’t a priority. So glad you agree.”

Say that in a crowd next time.

Keymaster wrote:

They ask alot of questions don’t they. And you can always count on a woman in a social situation to have NOTHING ELSE TO TALK about but f~~~ing relationships, marriage and kids

i’m paraphrasing a famous quote here a bit but: Great minds talk about concepts and ideas, average minds talk about things and events and simple minds talk about people.

I find myself thinking about the first two most often and the latter the least. As far as talking about it, I have a few friends that are pretty deep and can explore conceptual and abstract thinking but most people aren’t interested. As far as women go, it’s the vast, vast minority that are interested in anything beyond gossip and petty stuff.

My ex was such a MSM talking points liberal that it seemed like all of her ideas and opinions were downloaded directly from a news personalities teleprompter. Anytime time she did try to engage in some type of real discourse with me, by the end of the conversation I would always get accused of “demeaning her intelligence” and or “talking down to her.” It was never my intent to do so but it’s tough to fully engage someone who has the intellectual capabilities of a prepubescent child.

of course most of this direct sizing up of the wallet and other important factors by them works on the average pussy begging simp, so why would any of them have anything actually interesting to say.

Sounds like a job interview. I find poeple,women,asking me personal questions like that repugnant. I guess that’s why I don’t socialize.You have to earn a place that close to my personal world.

Masculine_Man wrote:

Naturally the the white knights stepped in and did the typical, “it’s so hard to meet women” line.

I’d have responded with: “Are you serious? Meeting women is easy. It’s getting them to shut up and mind their own business that’s hard.”

I know you were trying to remain polite and all, but why bother? Women simply do not understand that their insistent asking of deeply personal questions of someone they’ve only just met and have never been formally introduced to is appalling bad manners. And such people do not warrant consideration in return.
Consider getting a few copies of The Pocket Book of Etiquette, bookmark and highlight the relevant sections, and hand them out the next time some woman you’ve just met inevitably asks: “What do you do?”

Try these 3 words next time.
Marriage is bulls~~~

How much do you weigh?
How much money do you make?
When you have sex, do you do all three inputs?

Well, you ask some pretty personal questions, so I thought we were friends like that. I guess you changed your mind.

Here’s one I saw an old college friend use on a girl.
“Would you have sex with me for $100 million?”
“Yes.”
“Cool. How about $5?”
“NO!”
“OK, now that we’ve established what you are, let’s haggle out a price.”

He didn’t get anything from her, but he certainly got a lot of laughs from the guys.

LOL fine job Masculine_Man.

I always enjoy the look on their face when they ask if i have a gf, i say nope i learned my lesson. Then they ask what if i want kids, and i smile and say i guess i’ll have to create test tube babies then won’t i ? They don’t know what to say and so they do their best impression of a laugh at the test tube joke.